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what I noticed they complain when I tell them we will walk, rarely when I ask them if we should take taxi or walk, even Tam #60 (our little secret) said lets walk when i asked him and rest assured nobody will accuse you that you trying to economize by offing slimmer boys and paying by weight thank you but I'm just nobody I support your line on vacation fully - looking at every baht on every corner is not vacation, is self inflicted torture IMNSHO. If I don't have money , I wouldn't go or to be more exact when comes to me I'd borrow and wouldn't go next time until loan is paid ( I don't advertise borrowing for consumption but some people like me have very uneven distribution of income throughout the year) Paying a bit over the odds is not pouring money into drain, taking boy from bar , giving him tip right away and telling him to go home would be, although , God forbid, you may come across situation then you will regret you did not do it. Can't wait for a spolier part, what did you do? (don't answer, we will wait for our turn )

first , I'm not the best person to ask since I'm strong believer that what counts is now, future is unknown and past is gone. We can learn from the past and dream about future but we live our lives here and now . Waxing lyrical of how much more wet was water of yesterday , how greener grass and how heavier kilogram was it not my thing at all. But of course comparison to the past can be made for sake of science so to answer your question back in 2001 there were much more bars and perhaps more boys in bars. F****ck shows were norm. Can't say if it was better or worse as shows are getting familiar after a while and at end of day we need just one companion for the night, if is picked up from choice of 3 or 33 is irrelevant. 33 is better statistic sample but also my made things confusing from too much a choice. HIV scare was still high and in certain areas of Pattaya admires of boys not qualifying for driving license yet were still active. I think we did not have as many massage shops as we do now and bars were infested by twinks much more than now so for me , always into older musclies is easier now than then. There was no MRT and no Swampy, Don Muang was very crowded airport then. As for prices 1000 short time,2000 long time was what I was told in BKK, perhaps even less but whether that was cheaper or more expensive depends on exchange rate of our domestic currencies and our earnings then and now so answer will be different for everybody. As for me exchange rate was much worse these days than now but I made more then so at end of day can't see much difference in vacation spending as percentage of my income. What certainly was more expensive , relatively and in dollars were flights and in exchange hotels were much more cheaper in both terms. For me world , at least it's Thai part, is more exciting now because I made that far.

and it worked, thank you

4 hands foam massage at 1000 / hr sounds tempting even with minimum tip of 1000 / muscly boy

me too , which one is your favorite? Mine is white spinach

Very good point Paul what we know about Steve from his own posts is that he is about 70, he likes his dick to be white and that he doesn't pay for sex so really is not familiar with an issue he is so actively engaged distributing advises. We need to remember that in conflict situation we are dealing usually with much younger man on his own turf, last thing we need is a scene, perhaps even violent. Armchair diatribes may not apply to a tip discussions while horny, drunk and upset at 3 a.m.

out of my 16 trips to LOS only one , the 12th in Dec 2015 was one without bumps, it's always something

Life is beautiful and you newscene are God sent to this forum. Few months ago I posted my September trip impressions and true to form generated the same heat like yours now about my tipping practices. Nothing ever generates more heat on the board that discussing other people's money and spending habits. I say it matter of factly , not trying to be sarcastic or something. Don't feel offended or discouraged by some comments as they seem to express their bearers honest opinion although not necessarily it means they are right. Bottom lines are: 1. you can spent as much or as little as you want and at end of day it's between boy and you. We may think our tip is generous or very stingy and boy's take of it may be completely opposite. Everybody and their brother in law may scream at you for paying say, 4000 for long time as being excessive and unheard of , but boy may still give you a face because for some reason he expected to get even more. On another hand you spit at yourself in the mirror for tipping just 1000 and for bay it may be life line because this is what he needs in the morning to top up his rent , send to mama or pay to loan shark. 2. in reality it's only you who knows what you are paying for, we can only imagine based on narrative in the thread. Sex may be great , boy may be fun or so handsome that you may consider a treat just looking at him or holding his hands - each of us has something different which makes us happy. Some may start with 30 minutes kissing session before going further, for others the same 30 minutes is enough to have a shower, kiss , fuck, another shower and a conversation over Chang. So never be defensive when somebody criticizes you tip too much or too little ( but keep in mind they may, just may , be right) no need to be sarcastic or unkind to fellow forum member with this stupid comment. Please notice I said comment is stupid , not you, before you jump in. It's not simple arithmetic, rather market pricing. In general population and it seems even more in bar boy population twinks are over-represented so warrant lower price. There are more twinks between Screwboys and Freshboys than muscly hunks in all BKK bars combined . 1. With great pleasure and fanfare I announce that I agree with you 123.886 %. Boy sensed that he can get away with going earlier and rather was happy with whatever short time tip he was expecting. It happens from time to time , often they offer discount on agreed tip if I release them earlier so while not entirely fair it can be expected. That is reason I discuss tip AND TIME FRAME with boy before taking him and they still renege sometimes. 2. While your proposal has a merit it is not necessarily workable in circumstances, one may be shocked by sudden announcement of departure like in the case above, not everybody is good at bargaining under pressure and some still may not wish to spoil their good time by trying to hold back to a boy who just wants to leave. From my experience even if he will stay taking an offer , mood will be spoiled so unfortunately if he wants to go , let him go. It is not the same when we preemptively offer compensation for an extension i.e. if you return to the room for another hour after breakfast I will give you xxx baht. if I had three hands I'd sign this statement with all three. All is correct but I can't see how to agree with the first line. What is better , sticking to a 1500 standard or overpay even 100% and have fabulous time. Only we can assess and decide on value received. In September my long times were evenly split between 4000 and 2000 ones. And all those expensive one were worth it to me while I have doubts about few cheaper ones. Don't I know better ? 1. I agree again , this time 113.876 % 2. I disagree for reason explained a bit above and also below. It's up to us to decide if what we pay is worth it or no. Clearly good time was had by OP and he decided to price it way he did. Quite possible we'd do the same, we don't know because we weren't there and did not feel that heat wherever Newscene did. 3.But not all the time . Have you ever really talked to a prostitute about her / his job? Sometimes their clients just want somebody to talk to and to tell them how handsome they are and confirm how bitchy their wife is, sex if happens at all is just part of routine easily to be skipped. I'm yet to meet massage boy who is top and who admits that he fucked every client he massages. My second last off last trip left me at 1 a.m. ( agreed before hand ) to meed his regular Indonesian client his age. Every time they just drink together at DJ Station and according to the man his only sex related job is to take his shirt off for client to admire his champion musculature. I have no reason to doubt his story. 4. nothing unprofessional - he made client happy for few hours and he got very well compensated for that - how amateurish is that? By the way, Titanic was built by professionals. Hope I did not derail thread too much but I feel it's my civic duty here to defend newbies accused of overspending. It's great to be blessed with two great trip reports at the same time , Goldmember's and Newscene's, what a great and free spending forum we are !

believe me , I rather be that inexperienced like then , 16 years ago. There's noting like exploring Silom / Suriwong neighborhood for the first time.

as I said above I'm not fan of crowds but must admit view of hall packed with half naked humanity attending looks very uplifting. Thank you for all clips , indeed they give good impression of that ball

That's the usually case in Boyztown and soi Twilight - whole soi sees who is walking with whom and presumably next day everybody knows our attributes , size of tip and in case of long time , if we snore or not. That's the best medicine to cure our inherent shyness

they are already, some dicks in big cock shows are exactly that. I did not believe it until on my last trip I saw how clip-on accidentally slipped from boy's wilted manhood when he approached me in BBB when circulating for the tips. I was decent enough to pretend I did not see it but loss of face for a boy occurred unfortunately. No tip. No, I don't think it's even cheating. As long as we are happy with such an illusion their job is well done. Same like 'gay for pay"

boys are quite good on appraising our shyness and I agree that it's good sometimes that they make first bold move. It was my case on my first ever visit in BKK go-go bar, mamasan spotted my wide opened eyes and told me boldly " take this boy, he knows where short time room is, give me XXX baht for the bar and you will pay 2000 to the boy" , before I managed to say 'aaa' , boy was already sitting on my lap , all in smiles. This was my entry to paradise. Without that I'd probably run empty handed , eyes covered from shame.

I'm firmly against, over years I saw my share of boys cocks deformed by botched 'improvements' not even to mention all those mooks. What is even worse there are around boys stunningly handsome with great bodies and handsome faces who ruined themselves THERE

Steveboy comes to mind

judging by 22 responses in the thread , not necessarily correct

I agree with chorus above that your tip was extremely generous, nothing wrong with that as you seem happy with that boy. Taxi money on top of tip was not neccesary, sometimes boys say " I need small money for taxi ' hoping to extract that 100 extra but I have surprise in store - 'give me that 1000 note and I give you 10 red ones so you have small money" Looks that you are learning secrets of BKK scene very fast. If you intend to off boy long time it's always better to clear it in advance as you learned , sometimes they can't or don't want long time although often money speaks and does the trick of changing mind. My favorite excuse was ' I can't do long time because I need to take my son to school" 100 tip you gave to mamasan at Fresh Boys is price of tutorial, after all he did not do anything for you in comparison to boy you molested a bit who got 200 , crying injustice although boy's tip is in line with what is fair. Good to know you had fun day after day

very interesting read about White Party, not a world I'm familiar with as I don't like crowds so I found very refreshing to read piece written with passion not only about sex but even more about music. Now it's even more clear why you liked your trip so much even if it were only few days

as for my luggage this is post I made in my Sept trip report : . " as for travelling light, answer is yes , here's my main luggage and daypack which works as carry-on on the plane as well. Luggage weight on departure was 9.4 kg secrets of travelling light are minimum number of souvenirs and doing my laundry daily myself The Economist just for size comparing as it's well known paper of standard size"

you guys are trying to take all fun from me, LOL

AA propaganda, spending money on alcohol does not ruin liver, may ruin wallet though.

Perhaps you can bring some smart topics to the forum instead of only barking at what others say

danger of looking ridiculous on both counts ?

looks like you have sinister influence on the boys you bed

another idiocy entertained by people who can't think about better use of their money