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you must be seriously kidding, no ?

why?

that is Arena you are looking for . Silom PLaza, first building on the left after you walk Silom toward the river and cross Narathiwas , BTS turns left above on the same intersection so from Patpong you have 5-8 minutes walk

Hey, what made you thinking I was talking about you ? My SINCERE apologies if my post came across that way. But I stand by my comment as I see in my environment quite a few well maintained seniors whose main occupation is to complain about everybody and everything hence my comment about healthy people with unhealthy outlook on life. I don't see this as aging graciously.

I don't have anybody on ignore , just not responding to annoying posts is good substitute. As for banning members I'm not fan of that and think better thing would be just removing offending posts but l understand that it was too time consuming for moderators. Temporary suspension should be enough to cool hotheads. By the way where's firecat? Can't imagine he was banned, did I missed something? Perhaps he put all of us of his own big ignore? Hope he is doing well wherever he is.

if you and your friend hired MB who would have sex with both of you ( assuming that is your thing) would you pay regular or enhanced tip ? No personal experience but once in Tawan I overheard conversation about identical matter , no money was mentioned but boy clearly said ' two , two tips' and they nod in agreement.

just be aware there are some here with long memory for such promises, LOL and good luck in the paradise

Perhaps twink lovers would be a bit intimidated as all of them are pretty manly. But they keep their side of bargain with gusto and in my opinion bar is good introduction for newly arrived shy types. In that semi darkness is easier to hide blushy face , shaking hands and that uncontrollable thing hardening between legs all of the sudden. After priming there , every bar is just a home.

Whatever it is , bottom line is Kanchanaburi is interesting and affordable side trip for those vacationing in Bangkok and everybody should be encouraged to treat himself with it. Sobering thoughts putting our comfortable lives in a perspective but also nice scenery and a lot of greenery provides nice reprieve from concrete jungle of Bangkok. I'd not take boy with me for such day trip though as chances he will be interested in cemetery and museum are none.

I can's say i disagree although it sounds a lot like typical propaganda by fitness/ diet / lifestyle change freaks. What aging graciously means? World is full of sprightly 70 and 80 somethings without health problems whatsoever but poisoning lives of those around them. Health is only one part of equation and being healthy has only a bit to do with not being toxic or boring or both

when culture clashes with my limited vacation time I rather take side of reducing my losses. No need for scenes and anger, just simple ' you weren't there at time agreed so I went home / picked another boy' etc should suffice

They are both lucky. Numazu landed with great boy and MonBoy got his tip. If it would be me, boy would be told in advance l wait till 12 and if you don't show up I assume you are not coming so don't bother. No chance to call , e-mail etc. since it only opens window for excuses. But I would search him later to find out what happend and point out that he missed his money. Looks that this approach it's working, at least for me. No fake anger , just money speaks or falls silent.

that's correct and it's why it is important to communicate to boy clearly what is expected of him. I can imagine quite a few boys will not be interested in going with 2 patrons at once Also if two of you will off boy he will expect his tip to be doubled or at least substantially increased as he will be making happy two of you.

When i was younger I used to believe in what you are saying as a receipt for longer youth so to speak. But then my contemporaries practicing those things and keeping always positive mood started dying in the same pace like those not paying any attention to the lifestyle and complaining right and left about everything. So now I believe that way we age is more predetermined by genetics and lifestyle can only help that much. German may be right , things may start to deteriorate all of the sudden and fast. As for sex part, even if one can have it in the standard form anymore, pleasure of intimacy may be still there. Those who frequent Tawan may recall that sometimes somebody is rolling in wheelchair with very ancient patron who still has visible pleasure caressing bodies of resident hunks there so perhaps this is what keeps his heart still pumping

as always

Honestly I'm impressed will all that communication covering, if I read carefully just 2 hours. I know it probably generational but I'd consider my vacation day ruined if required to pay an attention to my phone/computer/ whatever to such an extend. Sometimes I observe patrons in Bangkok or Pattaya bars who spent more time on their phones than admiring bodies on a scene in front of them. I guess living in a cave has it's advantages at least as my vacation time goes. I'm glad you made up with MonBoy as from your narrative and description he is worth all that inconvenience although not disciplined enough with that missing appointment. I'd be tempted to believe him that he is confused by that whole am / pm thing though. I had this in the past and always use morning / evening or breakfast / dinner instead

I hope you don't mind Van's salary of 300 / day is an eye opener and reminds us that Thailand is still essentially poor country despite all that Bangkok glitter here and there. I heard that in some bars penalty is even higher , up to 5000 if somebody left and wants to return. Harsh but I guess they must keep their boys in line , otherwise staff may fluctuate just too much

very astute observation ! We are talking small stuff and I'm sure in meantime ggobkk is cooking next installment of his report.

not only they are sniffing us but also watching what we are wearing. One of Tawan boys once noticed that I'm wearing the same shirt I had on me when I offed him on my last night of previous trip 6 month earlier. He was right and what was even more remarkable was fact that it was nothing special about that shirt other thank small ink spot on one of the pockets.

I don't think so. Since all we know about you comes from your reports, inevitably readers are invited to compare, based on what you tell them, their experiences with yours and at times feel need to underline differences whether it comes to relationship, offs or simply way of spending vacation time. Suggestion that this or that could be handled differently is not even criticism , it's just showing the other window.

I have rule of ' three ' : one is on me, second one is drying and third one ready to go thank you for clarification. no doubt many were wondering and now we know before somebody even asked

Most likely he thought it will work

that's outright sin !

I don't know about others but since I like to travel lightly doing daily laundry is price I gladly pay for pleasure of having light luggage. I like your way if identifying boys perhaps because I do the same , provide name they gave me. If I was happy with him this may land an interest of others to boost his business although it's not fool proof since I recall few cases I recommended somebody wholeheartedly and he did not turn as expected. It works other way around too, I was happy with boys I was warned against and at least one of our readers was happy with off I advised him against. Naming boys A, B, C etc. makes for hard reading , at least for me. If somebody intends to be more graphic in his report , I like approach by numazu and a447 when boy is given nickname by the author so kind of screen is maintained. This prevents situation when boy may be expected to execute some task he did gladly for one of us but may not be willing for one reason or another to do it for another. As for threeways from my limited experience everything can be arranged for but boys should know expectancy before off so they can present any limits they may have. Definitely and by far I had most fun when an idea of threesome come from boys in question themselves , perhaps logical as nothing beats pleasure of fucking one's friend and get paid for that.

which you don't like but read three times anyways, right?