vinapu

you are a gentleman and a scholar !!!

excatly the right move, you are there for boys not mamasan so don't let an experience with him derail you now you got me curious, one of my favorite boys from there was James but in Dec I was told he left for good so I I wonder if that's the same boy or somebody is using the same nick - your James was twinky or hunky? I guess nothing easier for me to find out than jumping on the plane but I guess asking is a bit easier and cheaper

it looks that for some reason he labelled you easy target and good to know you stood your ground. Unfortunately from time to time we hear similar stories , guy great for one turns nightmare for another one . Fortunately also sometimes it's other way around. It's better to chalk it off to experience and move on than nursing bitterness. You are right , it was not worth to spoil vacation time by creating a scene , sweet revenge would be re-visit and completely ignore the dickhead.

if guy buys himself drink on my tab without asking me, even if I refuse to pay I'm already pissed off. How one can prevent it? by pretending nothing happened? or just shrugging it off ? I wonder

to Siem Reap you go for ruins, as for boys , even Cambodian, I think Pattaya wins hands down

I for one actually do that job by myself and motion boy to come without asking mamasan to do that. Very rarely I tip mamasans and only if they either helped me with something or I like them. On my last visit to Nice Boys when told mamasan that I like bigger boys he actually told me how to get to Boyztown where I should have my types - this I liked and I think he earned his tip honestly , not that I needed this info from him but still... Being direct work the best , usually when they ask for tips I tell them "I tip boys only" and when they ask for drink I employ short ' no' but when bar hopping sometimes I'm saturated with drinks then I found mamasans handy. I tell them " I don't want drink but I will buy one for you". That way bar has drink sold, I'm left alone and mamasan is my friend. This is what I do and not only in bars and not only in Thailand. Learned my lesson in long gone my youth and ever since I'm firm believer in pay as you go system. And I try to have exact change to deprive them chance of shortchanging me.

if you don't try you will never know if you like it or no so just go. After all it's just 2 hrs from Bangkok. Don't count on many Tawan types though.

let me think for a minute...

but you can force yourself to if only you wish to write it

I agree , that's big winning point of today's technology. One of my friends took several pictures of extremely cute guy on MRT who being glued to his smartphone obviously did not even realize he is an object of such intensive admiration, well justified I haste to add.

There's danger this thread will convert to one about Steve instead being about murderer , his motives and his victim as originally intended.

Glad you had fun there and even more that you did not forget about us and reported back. I'm curious if Christian PFC made there as there were some musings he may be in Pattaya on 23 rd.( post # 24)

Check Boy66 in former Jupiter location , new Jupiter in soi 4 and don't forget about Screwboys. Report here of your findings would be nice to read.

I second what Jasper said, great and very readable report. Your assessment of Nantra Silom is very fair although I'm surprised you had issues with room cleanliness , perhaps they start slacking which is not good, I never had such issue there specially that modern ambiance makes it very easy to clean all corners. But location is close to perfection and value for money is great so after demise on Om Yim, Nantra is my first choice now. They have only 3 types of room , no closet in either one but I find it to be of no issue as like OP I travel lightly. Since you did not employ rule of taking only boy who smiles at you it's always a risk that it will be shortage of chemistry and I'm glad encounter with Mekhin went pretty well. I'm glad you like #25 at Jupiter, I know him from Tawan and am glad he is doing well at his new bar.

I think Narcissus is gone but Blue House is still in business, hopefully somebody on the ground now will confirm

I told you so

I'm very sure that by 'outlook not good ' numazu meant satisfaction of our appetite for his travel reports and BurBoy has nothing to do with it.

Considering distance and difference in age, affluence and most likely education and language barrier this should not come as surprise. Let's face what we can offer them other than money and material goods? Chances that they will fall for us due to our internal beauty while not unknown are rather remote. I tried twice so called Quasi Boyfriend Experience , both cases reported here and it went quite well. Both had their own agenda, first one money extraction and second one long time hook-up to secure himself future stream of income but at least none of them was blatantly pushy and as far as companionship goes both kept their side of bargain. It was fun and entertaining but at no time neither side forget what assets is bringing into time together be it money or body. This way we avoided any antics, I was paying or telling this is too expensive, they made sure if I needed a hug they were at hand. And definitely sex factor, while present all the time did not define out time together in either case to answer an original question. So my advice would be , try it but never lose view of end of it from your sight and make sure boy knows it. Neither one of us nor boy wants broken heart and in our case broken wallet as well.

There's lack of will probably and perhaps some oversized ego plays as well as with technology it should be easy dividing spoils between various operators. Istanbul is good example with their value loaded Istanbul Card which can be used on all kinds of transport including not only municipally operated but also on railways , ferries and private buses.

"Small size bias " doesn't mean that opinion is of lesser value which boils down to weight we place in what that person says. If one knows somebody tends to place higher value on that's person opinion than that of somebody experienced but not known even if only from placing reports or just contributing on forums for example. Few years ago i was contemplating using Raya but was put off by two or three feedbacks on booking sites that is noisy , overpriced and whatever. Than xiluzer from our forum stay there and e-mailed me that he was impressed with everything < i followed his take and was so happy I did. Average level of service at establishment is of not much help either as all boils down to a boy not the rest. For me personally Dreamboys BKK is prime example as one of my best and my worst off ever are coming from the same bar. At one visit I considered almost all of perhaps 70 boys on display offable , one or two visits later I couldn't see anybody to give my customary 100 baht tip for best looking boy as it was none. So we should be free to say whatever our honest impression is and it's up to whoever is reading it to make mind of how he will be utilizing that information. Have fun in Bangkok and do whatever you can for us.

any well know gay massage place / Arena, Senso, Prince , Hero , Bonny etc / will have somebody who will do it for you. from my experience it doesn't depend of massage place but particular boy and his learned routine, some will not do it , some only if asked and others still will include it in the course matter-of-factly so best is to ask either mamasan or even better boy himself. as for second question those are two different experiences and if entirely up to YOU to decide which is better after you tried both which I encourage you to do. When going for 4 hands make sure you chose first boy and let him to chose another one as not all of them will be willing to work with their friends.

Your story may be accurate as I'm familiar with similar case where I live but I still strongly believe that when I see somebody in need it's better to err in side of generosity. It doesn't cost much, I feel better and perhaps also that other person as well.

your reasoning is correct but if you don't give him money he goes to sleep hungry and the next day he is at the same points

you wouldn't lie to your Mum , would you ?

that's slanderous, Honduras and El Salvador have sky high murder rate but Thailand is only in the middle, between Moldova and Palau with only 1/12 of El Salvador 'achievement" https://www.indexmundi.com/facts/indicators/VC.IHR.PSRC.P5/rankings