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But a laptop is for laps; why not sit on the bed, back resting on upright pillows, and laptop where it belongs... ?

Apologies for misunderstanding

It's a pity BKK, that you decided to skip the festival route. I walked the whole length before entering the event's stadium, and I didn't feel any problems of security or safety. If you do move there, I VERY much recommend participation next year.

Thx Maybe I should learn from u

NoGag, glad you are enjoying. Please explain: why does his mask protect you? And what's "wellness"?

Will be there January 27-29, and would like to meet up with any of you looking for company. Please message me (-:

.....for those who like the type. Sinulog festival, Cebu.

I keep being disconnected, despite checking "remember me" again and again. Sent a message to TotallyOz; no response. Whom should I bother?

Thank you. You are also VERY sharing. I'm sure you look much better than I do, and of course it helps..... (-:

Gottago, with your permission, how old are you? I am 67; are your sexcapades age-dependant?

Spent three nights in Intramuros (old city); all apps open; scores of messages, none mentioning money. Was reminded of what Christian recently wrote about my India report, or what Jerry Seinfeld said about NY: "95% are undatable". They were all on the full-belly-chubby-fat continuum. I was blocking non stop. Maybe my experience would have been different, had I stayed in Makati. I responded to only 4, 3 of which disappeared. However, as is often quoted on this board- "it only takes one". L is a 30 y/o well employed professional, very good English, just my type (except the Asian dick), totally geared toward satisfying the older. Per the Philippino stigma, immediatelly pushing for long distance relationship. Am now in Cebu; apps closed, since I am tight with friend's family.

Ematt, I humbly suggest the following rule: when we reasonably suspect someone of doing something wrong, instead of assuming it is indeed the case - we ask him whether it is so. Of course I asked and was given permission, not extending to the more pornographic scenes (even though everyone was masked). That's why there are no big dicks photos.

I think Iguazu Falls is the most beautiful nature scene in the world. Visited 3 times. Certainly beats Niagra and Victoria falls, if only because all the water is framed by green.

NoGag, All the useful info & advice u got, which isnt discrete - please share here...

Which means you are much more attractive than I am...

I'm writing this already from Manila, having left BKK on Monday. My short stop there was of course less active due to my unexplained food poisoning. I might return for Chinese NY. 1 - What's with the weather? All my visits to Thailand were nov-feb; Sunday evening was the 1st time ever I used a jacket! David1710 sent me a link saying that temprature is at a 40 years low. 2 - Why doesn't discussion and activity include saunas? Is BKK an outlier, without any appealing gay saunas? 3 - I was disappointed by the apps. Opened grindr + 5 others; didn't see anyone of interest, and received only few messages. I was hoping to find the African guys mentioned here at times.... 4 - Thread research and Raposa's tutoring taught me about the distinctions of various bars. Are there any character-less bars? Any bar about which can be said "if you've visited bar X, no reason to visit bar Y; same boys/atmosphere/something"? It would be nice to have a list of all the bars with their specialties.... Thank you for the supportive sharing here; makes BKK more pleasant and interesting. (-:

Apparently they chage the performance menu very quickly. On sunday there were no sweets and no towels.

Yes, at Alas all the porn cock guys had masks on.

No, he didnt cum. It was more like a simulation, but very artful erotic convincing. He started off with his right hand in his shorts, the left holding a magazine supposedly making him horny. He moved on the stage, his legs ass and hand attuned to the drum pace. At some point the shorts came off; condomed big dick. There were two humorous intervals, when he stopped and leaned toward the spectators close to the stage - offering a shake with the wanking hand. All refused, 2 even sprang back in horror. Don't know why; I would've shaked it gladly, and added a tip. The whole performance , like most of the rest of them, was very good.

I thought u were friends with all mangements there....

I didnt find the answer in my question. Is having gay scenes problematic for them, to be avoided because clients will continue coming? Are they sure they won't pick up new clients?

But since they know their clientle, why dont they inject something gay into the menu?

It probably retains its popularity because of the three points I mentioned: sex aside, it's a high class act; masculine sexy handsome men dancing erotically; some of them can be offed.

On Sunday I met David1710 for cafe and a long talk, which interestingly didn't focus on the pleasures BKK offers but rather on more...intellectual stuff. Evening I spent 2 and a half hours with Raposa, him educating me about our surroundings, me - paying for drinks at G's Foodland and Hotmale. Thanks again Raposa for your generous tutoring! After Raposa departed for his flight, I went to see the Jupiter show. Of course I join in (not only) his observation that this is undoubtedly the best bar production. All the dancers are either professional or seem to be, and performances' themes are highly creative. The male dancers are all masculine hot and sexy, and their erotic sensual moves are a pleasure to behold. One major - and for me totally surprising - drawback: there wasn't even a hint that the show is gay or meant for gays! All the sexual interactions were male-female; there wasn't even one instance of a man touching a man, let alone doing something more than touching. Even in the solo masturbation performance, the guy was wanking away while holding a women magazine. I don't remember having read any 'warning' about this, in posts about Jupiter. The show started at 22:50 and ended 5 minutes past midnight, including three 5 minutes bits (beginning, middle, end) in which 14 boys paraded themselves on and off stage. Only during the final bit numbers were attached to them, and only to 7 (persumingly meaning that others are not for off). Almost all of them had masculine bodies which I like, but not faces. Even were I not still restraining myself due to my medical condition, I wouldn't have offed anyone. A bit ironically, the only guy who attracted me was the singer in street clothes, who warmed up the audience before (and after) the show. Before leaving I tipped him, and then realized there were no tips at all during the show, despite its quality. Is that bar policy? Maybe it's part of their sleek reputation, waiters all in perfect suits, etc. Maybe it's also connected to the mamasan(?) 10 minutes into the show coming to tell me "no writing in phone during show".....

30 More details in my "Bancock 2nd report - massage".