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Wow these three can be hired?
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Chemistry with boys is always a tricky thing. It involves 2 human beings and we know how complex human feeling can be. We each have a wide range of things that turns us on and off and sometimes those things are inter-related. Even the most simplistic things like muscular body vs skinny vs stocky/chubby, many people have different tolerance towards body type. And that tolerance can shift if it is compensated by say their face, or penis, or their height etc, which also have their own range and tolerance as well. For me, like hank, the interaction in the bars can be a great indicator if i like the boys or not. But that is only true when im not super horny and think with my penis lol. And all of this is true for the boy too. A lot of factors comes into play when we talk about chemistry. Sometimes the way they smiles, way they talk to others, things they like and dislike also can come into picture. What one posters experience can also differ with what you experience. The boy might also have external factors affecting their mood like having a bad day, trouble at homeland etc that might not be ideal. Ive had boys who are very cold and giving poor service my first time but when i take him again, made a total turnover and now becomes my regular. And ive had one that were great during my first visit but on subsequent visit, i find that im losing interest. And some that seems to improve slowly after multiple encounter. Telling them exactly what u want helps termendously. It saves times for both of you. Its awkward the first few times for me to say it out loud. Ive had taken one guy many times before and try to kiss him and he seems not interested or didnt face me, so i thought he doesnt kiss. One day i summon the courage to ask if we can kiss and to my surprise he kisses me into heaven lol
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I didnt even know those who gets visa exempt can also apply for visa. That will cost around usd30 right? Thats another money in the drain, refundable ticket might be better in that respect i guess, only if payment doesnt involve exchange rates and bank fees.
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Lol cant imagine anyone's cock looks like this
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What i say isnt relevant, they want documents meaning i need to buy tickets plane or train, thus need to have firm plans before travel.
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I have contacted one airline that i usuallg used and they responded that it is a requirement to have the inbound and outbound document at the time of check in. I am also curious if there are better ways other than listed above. If buying open or fully refunded ticket is the best option, any suggestion of company/airline that has no hassle cancelation/refund policy?
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Mind sharing what airlines and where are you guys departing from? I know for a fact that airasia check-in have from time to time do check return ticket but it wasnt consistent, sometimes they do sometimes they dont. I will be flying from kuala lumpur if that matters
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I think its common knowledge now that many airlines has a policy that you need to book a return ticket or out of country next destination ticket before they allow you to board the plane. Main reason is if you are denied entry to the destination country, airline have to fly you back home. I have done some research that some of the strategy if you dont have a set date of return or dont want to buy return ticket too early as they might be too expensive at the time of purchase, u can do few of the following. 1. Buy a fully refundable return ticket and cancel the ticket once you are in thailand. Some caveat is that your money will be held by airlines for a while before you get back the refund. 2. Buy the cheapest flight ticket out of the thailand, date/time isnt important as you wont be using this ticket anyway. Obvious caveat is you lose the money u spent. 3. Buy a land transportation ticket out of thailand, might be cheaper than cheapest flight ticket. However some airlines might not accept this, since if u were denied entry at airport, land transportation is out of question anyway. 4. Use one of the services online where they provide you with a valid ticket for a fee that is only valid for 1-2 days. However i dont know how legit is this? Anyone have any other strategy or have use any strategy above successfully? (Especially #3 and #4) My reason to buy one way ticket is because i am not sure if i want to spend my time in bkk or head out to phuket/chiang mai etc and if i do head out, flying back home from those places is way better/cheaper.
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Make sense, boys get direct tip isnt going to benefit the bars directly. I guess thats why some bars do ping pong tipping, where they can track direct boy tipping and gets some cuts fr those too?
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Maybe because he isnt hot and rarely being called down thus he switch strategy
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He is very handsome indeed. If he is manly, id totally off him. Cant tell from the photo
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As most said here, its important to state what you expect the boy to do with each of you. And i do think double tip is expected if the only different from going with you and going with two different customers are you three will be in the same room, aka full service is expected for both.
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Thailand has overtaken Russia and India as the most unequal country
spoon replied to Jasper's topic in The Beer Bar
This list of 149 countries are using data from as recent as 2015 and as old as 1990. Many have changed between those periods and fair to say its not apple to apple comparison and ranking. The one shown, albeit only 40 countries, are recent data. I guess oy 40 countries willing to share those data for the study. -
Thanks for sharing the link! Babe wouldnt be my first choice as i prefer manly looking not too pretty man but he is definitely one good looking guy with hot body
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There is a video circulating in fb that shows a thai chef who created a burger that claims the best burger, and he let the customer decides how much they want to pay. Its a restaurant called homeburg. Anyone have tried it? Its not in silom though.
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There is a slim up room in a sauna? Wow.
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Some do it some dont. I never asked or imposed, but i do like giving if they have bubble muscular butt lol. Cant give statistic but i recalled 4 boys who do in my place KL, where one is from thai, 1 myanmar, 2 vietnamese. And i only rim few boys too, maybe around 4-5 as well.
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Multiple of reasons but main reason is boys there isnt to my liking, add that to pushy mamasan who keep pestering me and even the boys (the one i didnt like) keep coming to me asking to buy them drinks, and then giving changes in coins to when they can simply gives me 100 baht notes. The show was ok, but i cant have a good time watchig when the mamasan keep asking.
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If i recalled, freshboys is one place that gives me changes in 10 baht coins.... i guess hoping that ill leave those coins as tips. It was my first and last time going there.
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Taking boys on a trip outside Thailand, steely stares of disapproval
spoon replied to JimmyJoe's topic in Gay Thailand
Its really your own choice if u want or not want to visit those places. I lived in one that have the law but rarely enforced, and publicly, even the straight dont show it in public, and the public indecency law applies to all. Whatever u do in private, no one bats an eye. Having lived here though, makes me very awkward when taking boys that dont have any problem showing affection in public. Not that i dont like it but i still feel some things need to stay private lol. I have friends who prefer going to places like pakistan, north korea, iran, iraq, afganistan because there are some adrenaline rush going to places that people keep saying we shouldnt go. -
If the airline isnt full, a reasonable airline crew can and should assigned the seat for the obese where it wont inconvenient other passengers. simply denying the person to aboard the plane is not something they will do, u can imagine the PR nightmare. And if they do it, people can also ask for crying babies to be denied boarding the flight too. In fact, if i recall correctly, there is one airline tried to do that before for their first class and/or business class and received quite a backlash. There are just things people have to deal with when takig public transport. U are sharing the space and all of the passengers are also paying customers. To be honest, i would be totally annoyed too if a very obese person sits next to me, but if it happens and the flight is full, what else can i do and what else can the airline do? The article didnt mentioned whether the flight is full or not and just mentioned that the crew ignore his concerns.
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Back to the topic ignoring all the banters, i dont tip gogobar waiters. I tip boys, i tip helpful mamasan, i buy drinks (very inflated price of a drink) i buy boy drink, i pay off fee, i tips performers who i like, i tip gogoboy that i like. Waiter doesnt seems to be on the list of my tipping. I dont order second drink for myself, as i normally dont stay long. I usually go to Jupiter, tawan, dreamboy, moonlight only. And i dont have excuses why i dont tip waiters. Maybe i should, but based on previous visits, i didnt. Cant anyone here gives some facts about waiter in gogobar? Do they really dont have salary? If they dont, i feel guilty now of not tipping. To be honest, some of the bars, the mamasan brings the water, so in that case, they get tips from me, after helping me out with the boys.
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Based on your definition of value paborn, what is then things that really have intrisic value? Seems to me everything is perceived value to you. If that so, then why the need to classify one being perceived and not intrisic if everything is perceived anyway?
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If u like voyeur and public sex/orgy, i think sauna are a better venue. Some local sauna in bkk have shows by boys too. I am not a sauna goer but christianpfc can definitely chime in on this better than anyone here
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i am more of cash person too. i usually will try to not use my cc when travelling except for hotel bookings. I usually only use cc for emergency, and also carry atm for such case that i needed extra money for shopping. I am in the camp of always paying off my cc as well, and use it to get points locally but have not use cc overseas due to bank fee, and poorer exchange rate. Also, i have two wallets when travelling. I put the money i needed to use for the day plus some extra in one wallet that i carry around and the rest of my money on a different wallet that have most of my cards and my local currency money as well, which i store in the safe back at hotel.