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Did you check if your wallet or pocket money were missing?

When I was in BKK last month, I got msg in Grindr from a very fit/lean black guy. His profile pic was very hot and after a few msg back and forth he turned out to be escort and would join me for 4,000 B. Tempted by black cock but I had to decline the offer. It could be the same guy but surely there are more than 1 black guy in Silom/Sathorn area.

I'm in HCMC now. The apps (Grindr, Blued, Jack'd - I dont use Hornet) are very busy. Several guys will solicit massage + fun to you; come to your room for 500k VND and up. But if a guy is prepared to lower the rate to 500k VND you have to be a bit careful - or dont mind if he is short, a bit chubby, small cock or with a face that certainly not look like the (blured) pic he sent to you earlier! Premium guys (stunning/lean gym guys, tall and with big cock) charge 1,000k-1,500k VND/hour - asking price is higher but rates are certainly negotiable. Don't expect much for the massage part - that is not why they come to your room. It you msg a profile in Grindr with stunning lean or muscle body/torso and no face, and if you get a reply, it will most likely be a MB and soon the issue of money will turn up when you chat with him. Some will even clearly state in the profile that they offer massage; then you just ask for some pics and negotiate the price - works very easy. Craigslist is also easy way to find MB here. Finding non-commercial gay lads for (free) sex is not that difficult when using the apps (I'm tall <45y with a decent body (but by no means slim anymore) and I get a lot of messages in the apps which lead to/could have lead to encounters if I had the time/interest, but again the guys can be short, <30y or on the chubby side or with a less attractive face; so you need to be selective. Most speaks limited English. I find it easier to hook up with guys here than in BKK. 1 USD= 22,700 VND as I write this.

There are some areas in Cape Town where I would try to avoid walking the streets at night/after dark. Daytime there is no issue. In the CBD/City Bowl there are a lot of homeless people/beggars on the street that will ask you for money or to buy them food. I didn't feel unsafe but the number of strangers approaching you is too much. Uber is very popular and rates are cheap. But in general Cape Town is a lovely city and certainly recommended. English is spoken everywhere. No issue at all. I'm not into your kind of guys, sorry, so I don't have any first hand experience and I wasn't looking for twinks. I didn't notice any on the apps.

To answer my own questions: I was told that Sea Point promenade is the place for cruising. Didn't see any obvious cruising though. I was told to look for guys walking their dogs along the promenade Apps are busy (Grindr in particular). Some/ a lot of the black guys are MB. Look for profile pic of torso only and often "discreet" will be used in profile text. A quick Q "Do you charge?" will make it clear. Asking rate: 450 to 1500 rand but after negotiation 400 to 600 rand seem to be the level (USD 25-40). Some will be able to host. Massage is often solicited in the apps. Asking rate is about 800 rand/hour - I didn't venture into any negotiations but no doubt rates are negotiable too. Enjoy!

? The risk of getting infected by HIV by oral sex is close to zero.

Sorry for resurrecting this old thread I'm heading to Cape Town for a week. What is the going rate for massage (outcall or incall)? - any massage places where HE is included? MB: rates for ST and where to find them/pick them up? Or apps only? Thanks.