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hank75

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  1. I have taken bar boys to Fake many many times, they have always been enthusiastic and enjoyed themselves hugely especially the gay ones, Thai, Cambodian, Burmese notwithstanding. One boy picked up a date in the toilets (a social experience in itself). They accompanied customers there so often they were the ones who taught me the ropes. A Cambodian Jupiter boy is currently working there on busier nights. There is no obligation to buy any of the guys at Fake drinks. It is a club, not a host bar so there isn’t a drink system. Completely untrue. They’ll come down and drink from your open bottle for a small tip, if you don’t offer more they will move on. Again untrue I have been given a table near the stage multiple times, as long as there is one available. On nights with guest singers or special performers yes they take reservations in advance. You just have to indicate willingness to open a bottle so they know it is not going to someone buying two beers and a water. It is exactly the same system as in other big clubs. But if you do just want to have a single beer to check the place out it is entirely your choice. No compulsory spending. Somewhat exaggerated there are one or two security people but generally to break up fights on the floor. People giving the boys a grope and a tip are all part of the game. “Crazy” females are usually just drunk and pulled back to their tables by their friends. The performances aren’t particularly erotic especially by comparison to Patpong though the boys are good looking and (some) demonstrate teasing personalities on stage that makes it more stimulating.
  2. I stopped going to Fake Club a few years ago otherwise I would offer. It is great fun but definitely requires the right company, preferably someone who knows their way around and how to get a good position next to the stage. There are a couple of guys at Jupiter who occasionally work at Fake Club and would probably be happy for an off to take you there. You just need two lively guys, and be willing to pay the price of a bottle which costs the same as Silom bars. No need to stay for hours, just an hour at the right timing to catch the model parade and show. I was told they have now built karaoke rooms at the back though I haven’t been there myself.
  3. Having taken and failed French 101 it took me a while to puzzle this one out. I thought you were advising OP to stay safe and keep his “hat” on….
  4. I like a bit of fanfare and dazzle too. Gives me a good opportunity to ogle the boys and fantasize about some of them. And when they come down to sit next to me and are every bit as good as they looked on stage…that is where magic is made
  5. I flew Bangkok Airways once on this route and it was a jet, maybe I just got lucky? I hate prop planes too after a bad encounter. If you’re able to exit transit and it’s not too late, go to the very impressive Jewel for a meal. Lots of trinket shopping or sportswear and sneakers, if you’re still accumulating gifts for Cam. There’s also a micro hotel if you can’t access a lounge inside the airport.
  6. For some reason the new site doesn’t allow you to edit posts now after some time has passed. I checked more videos from Jupiter with better lighting and yes it is the same twink from Pattaya. He looks better and healthier now, and I am glad for him.
  7. May I humbly add that I am not a fan of the new site though. It used to be easy to access and browse the forum from my phone, and view multiple post subject lines in one screen. While it was a basic layout it was straightforward. Now the display, additional pictures and text previews has made it much harder to navigate.
  8. I was just speaking to a boy about this recently. Asgard is the big kahuna of host bars and many Silom boys have been trying their luck there. They can have up to 500 boys on stage, and rely on customers to buy stacks of drinks for them at a go. Even Chinese and Korean boys work there. Apparently a top earner once made 1.4 million baht in a night. It’s common to earn 10-30k daily but the sky is the limit. Their latest FB videos shows a boy being bought 4000 drinks and another being gifted a BMW???? I didn’t quite understand the second video so happy to be corrected but they are definitely announcing a BMW, handing him a box and a bouquet of flowers.
  9. I haven’t seen him in the flesh but based on the videos he appears to be a twink who was working in Pattaya years ago at BBB (when it was still a proper gogo bar). Back then he was very thin (underweight even) and the victim of a bad perm. He’s put on some weight and muscle, and his face has changed for the better, either from the weight gain or other reasons. Or I could be entirely mistaken and they are lookalikes, will only know for sure when I see him in person or remember what his FB name was (he was a friend of a boy I knew well who was ex Jupiter)
  10. I enjoyed the number tag system it reminded me of playing bingo 😂 some boys used to get very attached to their numbers too and there was a touch of superstition, they felt certain numbers brought them luck. Later on Moonlight started the model system supposedly not having a number tag indicated a more premium status. But I believe some bars like Dreamboys still have numbers.
  11. The urban myth of mermaids was thought to be inspired by sailors who had been at sea for months on end, staring at the endless horizon, hallucinations caused by thirst and nutritional deficiencies and of course copious amounts of rum or gin (alcohol kept away bacteria). Seeing dugongs, they instead believed them to be beautiful alluring women. Sounds very promising for semi-retired Pattaya bar girls
  12. You are 100% correct. Rush spelled it “Noom” and chose it because it meant “young man”. To him, Noom was young, which led to my surprise (mentioned above) when I first saw a picture and he was not quite so young as imagined. As their relationship grew, Noom got more comfortable with his identity being outed and consented to photos being posted on the blog but I don’t think his real name ever was.
  13. @bkkmfj2648 this is jolting my rusty old memories. Yes now I remember seeing Rush’s obituary posted on the Sawatdee forums. Noom was very much real though it wasn’t his real name (like Celine, it’s all coming back to me now). Though they are few and far between, Rush did post photographs of him. It is the same guy, across the passage of a few years. Seeing his pic for the first time (back in the days when the blog was still live), I distinctly remember thinking Noom was not my type and somewhat older than I envisioned. I just went back and did a search of the archived blog, by good luck and coincidence since the archived site is much harder to search and some posts have disappeared entirely, I’ve managed to locate a few photos of Noom. Would it be a violation of privacy to post them here or am I better off sending them by PM to @bkkmfj2648 and to @kram987 to see if it’s the same guy?
  14. Thanks for posting this, I haven’t thought about this site for a long time. Whatever happened to to the original author, Rush and his partner Num I believe it was?
  15. Misread that pic as “Tinies Penis” and it was even over the kangaroo’s crotch
  16. This would spook me!
  17. And a Thai after…and a Cambodian
  18. Yes, it does seem redundant to try and make a point to you, because you clearly only hear what you want to. Which I suspect was the reason behind the perceived resentment initially. In any case, insights into your claims can be found by reading your initial trip report where you tried to convince a jobless Burmese non-MB to give you regular daily sex for a month, for a pitiful 500 baht.
  19. Actually the whole label of middle class (you or them) has nothing to do with your absurd claim. What you said was, locals with an education and a proper job (as opposed to moneyboys) were resentful of you supposedly having more money or means. Please don’t try to justify this within a pseudo socio-economic framework; clearly the reality is different countries have different costs of living, so wage brackets differ accordingly. They are earning what is commensurate with the standard of living in Thailand. As for social envy, why would they be envious of you, a visiting farang who is a holiday millionaire and in your own words, “middle class” back home, when there are hi-so Thais within their own society if they really wanted to compare status and wealth? Maybe the economic resentment is all in your mind, and actually you have simply managed to piss off your educated sex partner in some way so it shows on his face since he is not being paid like a money boy to hide his feelings? Maybe you were obnoxious in offering the meal treat or making it seem like a bigger deal than it is? My advice to you, consider the complete situation and interaction before labelling this perceived resentment as financial jealousy. If you were as patronising to him as you are coming off here, I can understand why. By the way, Thais across all levels of society are masters of unspoken social diplomacy. There is no such thing as splitting bills unless you are a close group of friends or colleagues. Suggesting a meal is an implicit offer to pay, and if the other party agrees, they understand this and are mentally willing to gush with appreciation when the bill is picked up….usually demonstrated by a big smile and a brief wai. No one accepting a meal invitation will then glower at you as you pay unless for a different reason.
  20. You are so conscious of your own superiority that you are projecting this on others. Absolute nonsense. I go to Thailand for business as well as for pleasure, encounter a high proportion of educated Thais ranging from local middle class to privileged. They are so used to farangs in Thailand from all sorts of socio-economic backgrounds that they don’t bat an eyelid.
  21. I will see if a boy can accept some hair instead of his tip next time
  22. Wasn’t even her first time. No idea why she was allowed to even walk in but there’s a video of them shaving her head….you can hear the staff aren’t angry, just resigned and tired “who frequented multiple host bars, ordered services, and repeatedly skipped out on paying her bills (“dine and dash”). Her actions left managers and staff at various venues well aware of her face.”
  23. Another Thai TikTok account explained what happened in detail: apparently she arrived at 8 pm and tried to dash at midnight. The bar did not let her leave and explored various solutions with her, such as could she obtain money from her family or friends to settle the bill. This went on for hours. They agreed to wait until 8 am when banks opened. However at 8 am she refused to go to the bank and stated she did not actually have any money in the bank. They asked her to agree to work as a cleaner in the bar to pay off the debt. She said her family would not permit this. Finally out of frustration they told her to sell her hair and shaved her head to teach her a lesson (and so everyone could just gtfo and go home).
  24. Edit: Entire post copied over from another forum (Translated with Gemini) Source of the news in Thai For those who dont know what a "host bar" is A host bar (also called a host club) is a night entertainment venue where female patrons pay for the companionship, conversation, and attention of good-looking male staff known as "hosts.". Usually the payments are via "drinks" in exchange for companionship. Popular in Asia from Thailand to Japan. English Translation Host Bar Drama! Teenage girl skips out on nearly 60,000 baht tab; venue shaves her head to repay the debt, sparking split opinions among netizens. (Aug 28, 2026) — A heated debate has erupted online after the TikTok account “Ton-Or Pen Neung” shared a dramatic story under the hashtag #ShavedHeadAtHostBar. The post details the behavior of a teenage girl, believed to be under 20 years old, who frequented multiple host bars, ordered services, and repeatedly skipped out on paying her bills (“dine and dash”). Her actions left managers and staff at various venues well aware of her face. Caught after repeated unpaid tabs According to reports, the young woman had done this multiple times across several establishments. Most recently, she visited a host bar in the Pinklao area and attempted her usual tactic: ordering drinks and hiring male hosts to entertain her. However, when the bill arrived, she refused to pay. This time, the venue’s manager decided to take revenge and teach her a lesson. They had her sign a contract to sell her hair for 3,000 baht (~$85 USD) to offset the costs. However, the situation escalated when the staff didn't just give her a hair trim, but completely shaved her head bald "like a nun." Netizens divided in harsh critique After the story went viral, social media users split sharply into two camps: Sympathetic / Excessive force view: Arguing that while the girl committed an illegal act by dodging the bill, the venue had no legal right to commit physical battery or shave her head. They believe the establishment should have handled the situation strictly through legal channels by filing a police report. Satisfaction / "She deserved it" view: Arguing that the punishment was fitting because the girl intentionally scammed multiple businesses. Without a severe lesson, she would continue to cause trouble for other venues. Organizers step in Journalists reached out to Ms. Chalida Phalamat, President of the "Pen Neung" Group (Ton-Or). She stated that after posting the story to uncover the facts from both sides, the host bar manager reached out on the evening of August 25. The manager explained that the teenager had accrued a bill of nearly 60,000 baht (~$1,700 USD) and used a fake ID to enter the venue. The manager then forced her to sign a contract selling her hair for 3,000 baht to cover basic costs. The contract explicitly stated consent to cut and shave her hair. When Ton-Or questioned why they didn't hand her over to the police, and why a total head shave was necessary under the guise of "donating hair," the venue claimed the hair was given to an employee to donate, though they could not specify a location. Ton-Or added that while she understands the business has operating costs and hosts rely on income to support families, the venue's actions were illegal and excessive. Even if the girl consented under the circumstances, it is unknown if she was pressured. The venue has since issued a public apology through Ton-Or, acknowledging the manager acted out of anger, and stated they are contacting her family to provide compensation. Ton-Or also urged the Ministry of Social Development and Human Security (MSDHS) to inspect the girl's living conditions and mental state, noting she appears to be a minor who might suffer from mental health issues leading to her reckless behavior. She concluded with a warning: businesses should not place mob rule over the law, and bill dodgers should always be dealt with through official legal channels.

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