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For my first night in Jomtien I was still tired from spending so much of the previous night kissing the Myanmar lad. But I managed beers in 3 bars. At the first one the waiter swiftly winkled a boy drink out of me and offered to fuck me without a condom. I have finished my remaining prep so this is not going to happen. I had a walk through the complex and was sad to see 4t bar shut, though I had read the owner was not continuing the lease. And I know a lad who worked there so will have to find out if he has got a new job. The complex is looking quiet and in need of customers. On to M Bar, where I caught their 10pm show, which the lads do really well for a modest bar. The Mamasan is always welcoming. Over to Sunee Bar, where I bought a shirtless bar lad a drink. Messaged a different MB from Myanmar who I hope to see while I am here. Grindr is busy but not clicked with anyone yet.

Last night was the best so far, though very understated. I took off, just to drink, a Cambodian man from Dream Boys who I know from the past. Some 18 months ago I took him to Pattaya and to Phnom Penh for 3 nights in each place. He had never been on a plane and never been to his capital city. Please do not tell the men that once I have had a few drinks, if they tell me they have never been on a plane, I am liable to say: 'let's go!' The two men I have done that with so far read every word of the safety card. It was nice to play pool with him but the night was about to get better. I popped in to Freshboys at 22.45 to see the men, who are briefly on stage around that time in an interval in the show. Then to Goodboys where I took off a Myanmar man for short time. He was so good at kissing that it was 10am before he left and he seemed pleased with his tip. It made me realise again that I can be completely happy with kissing and cuddling for ages and I should welcome this change rather than think I have to perform 'sex' every time. Both of us having an erection is reinforcing but I don't need an orgasm very often. This may seem odd to you younger ones but it's my reality now. I just arrived in Jomtien so I will be looking for men who like kissing.

It's years since I have been but just hanging out in Sousse attracted offers 20 years ago. I was never brave enough to accept them but my friend started a 20 year relationship with a teenage Tunisian lad he met while we were drinking at an outside bar. After a few years the guy suggested my friend buy a house in Sousse as a love nest for them when my friend was visiting. But he didn't mention that he had got a Tunisian girl pregnant out of marriage and the girl's brothers had threatened him and forced him to marry the girl so he needed a house to live in. That led to a falling out between the guy and my friend but they resumed after a few months. Once I was in a back street in Sousse and a lad, about 16 years old, surrounded by younger boys, said hello and suggested, in English, that 'I try gay sex' and that one of his friends would look out for the police. I thanked him for the idea and kept walking.

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I don't recognise him from Freshboys and Good Boys.

I am soft but I do say no a lot too; it has to be done in these bars.

Sunday had started well with the Laos man coming to my room. He arrived on time and all went well. In the evening I had agreed to meet a Vietnamese man for a drink and give him 2000bt as he in a very serious financial hole. I have known him for 11 years and lent him cash in the past which he still owes. He asked for more which I refused and I found the conversation dispiriting as I don't see how he gets out of this problem. Later in Freshboys, while I gave away a good number of 100bt notes, I felt nagged for a tip by others. I don't like saying no as I appreciate their lives are not easy but we all know our limits on the cash we have available. I went on to Good Boys, bought a Thai lad a beer and gave him 300, and gave away a few more red notes. If I see a lad looking a bit depressed I surprise him with 100bt. Please don't tell them this.

I would also recommend the Raya (lift in car park so avoids reception and no discussion of men's id's), Tarntawan (strict on id's if one likes that), Quarter Silom (still newish and nice pool and English speaking staff) and Ibis Styles on Silom (responsive management). My favourite used to be Pantip Suites on Sathorn Soi 1 but Covid finished it off.

I'm currently in 56 Surawong which is basic and can be noisy so higher rooms are better. The wi-fi can be iffy so I run the laptop off an AIS card. They don't check id's of men I bring back so I prefer it to hotels which are strict about holding id's. Some may prefer the security of the latter system. Once in Pattaya the hotel gave my Thai friend the wrong id card back. He didn't check it and only realised as he was about to hand it to the guard at the entrance to Sattahip naval base, which is open to the public, if they have correct id. Happily the hotel still had his id when we returned. I do recommend 56 Surawong as a cheap option which is near the bars.

I've been to Malaysia twice. Maybe I caught a poor night in the one gay bar I went to but countries where gay sex is illegal have a hill to climb. I haven't yet been to Philippines, though I read about it of course.

7 nights, then 7 nights in Pattaya, then 11 nights to be decided

Occasionally customs search me at UK airports but I am not a shopper so 2 cheap t shirts, maybe costing £10 here, is all they have to look at.

Talked to at BKK. 'Why you come so often? Are you working?' Last time I was coming in the priority lane as over 70 and the IO showed me my passport full of stamps as I had a burst of visits here after the Covid lockdowns. Yes, we appreciate the sanuk as we know our time may be limited so we will keep squeezing.

I'm 73 and started coming to Thailand in 2011 after my bf died of alcoholism in UK. I have been here about 55 times so far, plus side trips to nearby countries. All visa exempt. I have been 'talked to' twice at immigration so because of that, and money reasons, I don't come as much as 4 times a year any more. Qatar landed at BKK at 19.00 on Thursday. Planes jammo as usual in economy but FA's very pleasant. I had printed out the DTAC so happily walked past the queue to use tablets to do it before immigration. BTS/MRT to Silom by 21.05 and walked to cheapish Surawong hotel, chosen as I'm trying to be more economical these days. You will soon see that I am not economical. Over to Freshboys to take out 2 of my favourite Vietnamese men for a drink. Take nobody back to my room as I slept a total of 15 minutes on the flights so not up to it. Friday I took out from Freshboys a lovely man from Myanmar for a drink and was embarrassed that I knew him from the past and already had him as contact on line. Maybe his hair was different. Saturday I took out a Vietnamese man from Good Boys I knew as a massage man from Silom Soi 6 to go to bed and that went well. He was into kissing which many Viet men are not. And today I invited a Laos man who I know from Pattaya, and is currently freelancing in Bangkok, to my room. He is even better at kissing. At my age I do like enthusiasm and I like to run winners. I know a lot of men from the bars and have them as contacts on Line or wherever so get requests for offs or help every day. While I am generous with 100 bt notes I stopped lending or giving more money some years ago as my finances declined. Many years ago on Soi Twilight I had a night where I decided whatever the lads asked for I would give them. That was a 30,000 bt night and great fun but I will try to avoid it on this trip.

Perhaps the place to find young, handsome Lao men is in the bars of Bangkok and Pattaya? I was disappointed by Luang Prabang. I had read about backpackers playing in the river but found a touristy market town, with even the massage shops not looking promising for a quickie. But it’s pretty enough for a short visit.

Boys Nighclub (formerly Nice Boys). Thank you to another member for the photo - which proves the correct new spelling.

Talking of Sunee Plaza, didn't Nice Boys there change its name? I'm sure it put out a new sign but I can find no evidence of it.

As the above link suggests, you might like M Bar in Jomtien. Maybe Gus bar also. I prefer to stay in Jomtien and visit Boyztown occasionally. It is really easy and cheap to travel between Jomtien and Boyztown by Bolt taxis or songthaews (10 baht shared taxi trucks). Sunee is a shadow of its former self but I've had enjoyable visits there in the last year.

Toy Boys in Pattaya

If he injects himself with a litre of dettol I'm happy to see if it works. "And then I see the disinfectant where it knocks it out in a minute. One minute. And is there a way we can do something like that, by injection inside or almost a cleaning? "So it'd be interesting to check that."

My contact at the bar just replied that after 11pm they can wear shorts again.

'Are you a money boy'. Yes. 1000. taxi. This doesn't take 17 seconds. No need for long conversations.

Sometimes MB's who are still looking for a customer sit on Silom between Thaniya and Silom Soi 4 about 1.15am onwards. I once said to one: 'Are you a money boy' and we were in a taxi to my hotel 12 seconds later.

In 2024 I used airbnb three times for short stays in Vietnam, once in Saigon and twice in Nha Trang with no issues. I was impressed with all of them. Also once for a week in Bangkok which went fine.

And the ticket is transferable, so a lad being off'd, confident of 2000bt plus later, may give it to the mamasan to keep them onside.