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The perfect Dominican guy I met the other day told me he had a fetish to smoke cigarettes while having sex. When I told him he couldn’t smoke in my hotel room, he said, “we can go to a motel” On my very first trip here in 2007, I met a “tour guide” in Parque Colon who picked me up every day and drove me around - I paid him at the end (sex was included). One night he drove me through a motel zone. He said it was called the area of ghosts or something like that because you would see people driving and talking to people but the passenger seat was empty. It was because the passenger was slumped down in the seat, hiding. Since then, I’ve wanted to visit one of these motels, which are set up for total discretion to see how it worked. He messaged me and we made arrangements. I asked him how much it was. I wanted to do two things - one confirm that this was still a free situation (from our initial meeting, I knew he had a good job, came from a well-off family and was interested in older men, but not getting paid), and two, offer to pay for the motel and see his response. He said he would pay for the cabaña and we could split drinks or I could pay for the colmado if I felt like going later. I asked what a “colmado” was - he said it was like an open air bar where we could have drinks and listen to music. I said I would prefer just to do the motel because I have bad ears and loud music hurts. So he said I could pay for the motel if I want - 1500 pesos. I explained that I had to get cash from the ATM. I wasn’t going to bring my wallet or any more than what was needed. I got 2,000 pesos from the ATM (I am trying to use up my pesos, so I did need to get more money). He picked me up in a freshly washed SUV and we drove along the malecon to a motel appropriately called “Queen”. We drove up to a gate that opened and drove in to a series of garages that went on for quite a ways on both sides of us - I’d estimate there were at least 100. If the door was open, the room was available. He drove into one of the garages and closed the door. We went up our own private set of stairs to the room. The room itself was clean and simple. A large bed, a small couch, a bathroom and separate shower. Sink in the room. A large TV, and a smaller screen for music or to order food. Prices were listed on the wall, starting at 1,200 pesos and going up to about 4,000 for overnight. The AC was on full blast. He turned on all of the lights (which I turned down). He stripped immediately and I was blown away by my luck. This man was beautiful. He told me he was 32. He had the perfect body. Light brown skin, big muscles, a huge dark brown dick which was already partly hard, a big bubble ass, adorable face, lightly hairy chest. I loved everything about this man. And he was equally cute personality-wise. He asked if I wanted to watch porn and what I wanted to watch. I told him to put on his favorite. He had a selection on his phone, which he was able to connect to the TV so it was on the big screen. The porn he chose was big daddies and smaller guys who looked like boys (but were obviously just smaller twinky guys). He said he made playlists with the clips from movies he liked. I said, “so you are like a deejay” and he said, “yes, a porn deejay”. Ok, so this really was his fetish. He liked older guys fucking younger guys and also some of the guys were smoking. I was happy to fulfill his fantasy while having this amazing cross-cultural experience. Oh, the payment. After he stripped, but before we settled the porn situation, there was a knock somewhere near the entrance. He said, “the money”. I held out the 2,000 pesos I had and he took 1,200. Again, another confirmation that he wasn’t in it for the money. He could have taken it all. He went back to the entrance where there was a little metal door, small enough to pass money through. He paid our bill and came back. The sex was wild. This guy was hot. He didn’t fuck me, but I fucked him. I am 99% bottom, but his ass was so hot, I couldn’t resist. Eventually he shot a huge cumshot that hit me in the eye and got all over both of us. I had told him I wanted him to cum on my mustache and I would go back to the hotel with his cum on me. He got a little on my mustache. We got dressed, got back into his car, he opened the garage door and we saw the attendant immediately make his way towards the room to clean it. We drove up to a gate. He said they wait to open the gate to make sure the room is okay and there were no problems. It is the perfect system set up for discretion and safety. He drove me back to my hotel and when I asked why he liked older guys, he said, “everyone asks me that”. To be honest, in my travels outside of the US, I am finding it is not that rare - I found it in Italy and have also met a lot of Asian guys who are into older men and not just for money. He had this long complicated story that I didn’t fully understand, but I was happy that he liked older men because I got to spend a very hot time with him. I wish I could include photos, but of course I can’t. I kept looking at him and thinking “how am I here in this room with this guy?” I had the best time, but I don’t think I’m going to see him again. It is not something I really want to do more than once. Oh, and the cigarettes…yes, he smoked three cigarettes while I sucked him off. I hate cigarette smoke, especially in a closed environment. We were fulfilling each other’s fantasies, so it was a price I was willing to pay. Now, I am wondering about some of the hot “Uber” drivers who have been hitting me up - could we go to a motel instead of me bringing them up to my hotel room? Anyway, if you have a car while you are here, or meet a guy with a car, definitely check it out. Motel Queen is apparently one of the cheaper options, and it is not a far drive along the malecon away from the colonial zone.

Decided to try the Cine Lido again tonight even though I really didn’t have that much fun the last two times I went. I’m glad I went. Not because I had more fun. It started raining as soon as I set out to go there, so the place was dead, so I ended up not staying long. It was still drizzling when I left, and I ordered an Uber which took a very long time to arrive. While I was waiting in the lobby, I noticed a sign on the door with the hours and when I got closer to check it out, it said they open at 5 pm! No wonder it’s been so dead when I get there at 6:30. Back in the old days when I used to go, I’d go right when they opened. There was a huge rush. Guys went in, got off, and left. I thought they opened at 6 or 6:30, and after about an hour or so, it was just a few stragglers. No more people arrived, just the ones who were not satisfied were left. So that may explain why it’s been so dead. I am arriving an hour and a half after they open. I will try going one of these days at 5 so that I can report back. If you plan on going, the hours seem to be 5-10 pm. During the day, there is a shoe vendor outside (it’s actually an interesting neighborhood during the day - great place for cheap souvenirs and close to Chinatown). Entry is 200 pesos. The cashier will slip a ticket into the edge of her little window. Take the ticket, give it to the guy inside. They seem to use the same tickets over and over again. I could feel years of wear on the ticket I got tonight It’s a huge cavernous space. Guys stand along the back wall, but the best place for action is either on the right or left side where the theater opens up. Be careful walking around the middle part because there are a lot of broken seats you can trip over. Some guys will go all the way down to the front, but usually it means they want to be left alone. It hasn’t been too hot at this time of year, but when I came in the summer, it was like a sauna. You can pick up a bottle of water at the little Chinese place on the corner, or go there for some fried rice and fried chicken afterwards. Has anyone been recently? I’m wondering if my guess about going at 5 is correct. Is it better then?

I’m staying in a 4-star hotel. I have given the front desk chocolates on two occasions, but it’s an ever changing crew. No problem bringing guys up. They just have to register. They take a photo of their ID and I have to sign and write my room number. It’s just that I have whore instincts (though maybe not the energy) and was hoping to have a few more guys. I’m only here a few more days, so I’ll be fine.

Good tips. I just posted a story about something that happened to me on my second trip here. I was staying at a hotel that required ID for visitors (and you also had to pay) - the guy had some complicated story about his ID and we went to an hourly motel near the entrance to El Conde across from Parque Independencia. He then tried to extort a large amount of money from me and I was only saved because I got back to my hotel and he had to wait downstairs while I went up to “get money” (instead I called the front desk and they called the police). No ID is always a red flag. I like the tip of getting a photo of it. It’s not enough just to see it.

I did years ago before Grindr - my first two trips here, probably around 2007 (first time). I stayed in an apartment rented by this guy named Anthony, not sure if it’s the same Anthony who is now a provider. One day, a guy was standing outside and somehow we negotiated him coming up. Super hot guy, really big dick (of course) and he liked to fuck in front of the window. I had his number and no cell phones back then, so I went across the street to an internet cafe that also had phones and called him when I wanted to meet. Met a few other guys on the street. One sort of picked me up but I didn’t realize he was a hustler (back then I could also get free sex) - afterwards, he asked me for 2,000 pesos (which was a lot back then - I think I was paying 1,000). The “sex” was mediocre and not worth it. There is a hotel on el Conde that used to have tables on the terrace overlooking el Conde. I met one guy there with a beautiful dick and nice bubble butt. He was on the younger side, maybe 18 or 19, very sweet, great fuck, and asked for 1,000, but I gave him 1,500 because it was near the end of my stay and he was so hot. I also met a guy in Parque Colon who offered his services as a tour guide. He was great. He’d pick me up every morning, fuck me, and then take me out in his SUV - he took me to Boca Chica, and to another beach down the coast (Juan Dolio?), the lighthouse, a restaurant on el Malecon, up into the hills where the rich people live, through the campus of the university - I saw it all. He didn’t mention a rate - it was one of those “up to you” deals, so I paid him when he dropped me off at the airport at the end of my stay - probably about $300. Some guys want that for one hour now. He even brought me a Dominican breakfast one day. I really wish I had his contact information. On my next trip, I originally booked a different apartment (Anthony was out of the apartment renting business). I didn’t like it so I changed to the hotel on el Conde with the terrace. One day I was out on the terrace and a guy came to talk to me. He wanted to fuck. I told him he needed ID. He gave me some complicated story about why he didn’t have an ID but told me he knew a hotel that rented rooms by the hour and told me how much it was. I went up to my room and got 500 pesos. I think the hotel was 250. We went to the hotel, I paid, he grabbed the change. Second red flag - the first was the no ID. He fucked me like crazy, hard, angry, rough (but also kind of hot) and then asked me how much I was going to give him. I told him he hadn’t mentioned money. He asked for some ridiculous amount, like 200 dollars. I told him I had to go back to my hotel. I knew once I got to the hotel, I could escape to the safety of my room. They would not let him come up without me paying first (they had a policy that you had to pay to bring guests up). He waited outside of the hotel. I immediately went up to my room and then called the front desk to tell them what was going on. I waited a few hours before I felt it was safe to go down and I saw that the police were stationed outside of the hotel. It was the closest call I have ever had. And I was very cautious for the rest of that trip - only going to Cine Lido and finally on my last night, hiring someone from Adam4Adam who was great. I also frequented Cine Lido many times (including on this trip). It is one of my favorite places, but it’s not as much fun as it used to be. Used to be lots of big-dicked tops sitting there with their dicks out waiting for service. The last time I went (this past Sunday) it seemed to be very bottom-heavy. I sucked one older guy (same guy I sucked on my first visit this trip) - another young guy seemed to be interested, but when I reached out to touch him and was rejected, I left. My best luck on this trip has been Grindr. I have been getting a lot of hits. Met a really sweet guy (for free - see my other post). In 30 minutes, I am going for an erotic massage with a guy who has a place nearby, charges $50. I am being very cautious because of that scare and I would encourage you to as well. But have fun and let us know if you have any luck.

I just messaged you, but I’ll answer publicly. I’ve been enjoying some sightseeing beyond the Zona Colonial. Today I went to the MAM (museum of Modern Art) had the whole place to myself for 100 pesos. Fantastic Dominican art and a beautiful setting with two other museums nearby. Went to a Spanish Restaurant “El Gallego” for an expensive lunch, quite a splurge, but I deserved it. Yesterday, I went to the Blue Mall to get some high end chocolates and walk around and the supermarket “La Sirena” to buy coffee (Trump tarrifs). I have been trying a new restaurant every day, using the gym at my hotel, walking along the malecon, I got a massage at my hotel spa and set up an appointment for a facial next Monday, sitting by the pool reading a book I probably won’t finish (and will leave behind because 4 pounds of coffee), and fighting with management here about a no show fee they charged me because I thought I had changed my reservation but hadn’t, so they charged me a no show fee even though I showed up and the clerk told me I didn’t have to worry about it when I arrived…that was finally resolved today. So, it’s been a mix of low key exploring, relaxing, exercising, lots of eating and just having a great new year’s reset before I return to the shithole country I unfortunately call home. Beyond the huge dicks, Santo Domingo is pretty incredible as a place to just hang out. I wish I had a local guide who could show me more, but it’s so easy to get around with Uber and a lot of places are within walking distance from my hotel. I will definitely be back.

Thanks for your concern. He told me all about his work and his family and was super sweet and definitely a legitimately nice guy. Sorry about your friend though I did have a scary experience here years ago, so I am cautious. No motel yet. I might just have him come up to my room again and sit on my face.

I met him and fully trust him. Dominicans frequently use motels. You drive in and no one sees you. If there is a problem (which I doubt) my hotel has his information.

I’ve been in Santo Domingo since New Year’s Day and have been hesitant about bringing guys to my room because I’m staying in a nice hotel and I didn’t want it to be obvious that I was a whore. I went to Cine Lido a few times, and while I had fun with one hung daddy (the same guy two different times), it just was not like the old days. The last time I went, I was bored (after the daddy came) and just went to the Chinese restaurant on the corner for some fried rice and fried chicken - greasy food always makes a good consolation prize after failed cruising. I’ve been chatting with a few guys on Grindr and just trying to feel them out. Initially, my bio was vague and I only specified that I was looking to suck. I was inundated with messages from guys who I knew I would not feel comfortable bringing up to my room even though they had nice dicks, so I decided to take a chance and clearly stated that I don’t pay (no pago) both in my screen name and in my bio. The number of guys hitting me up dwindled down (could also be because I’d been here a few days) but did not stop. I was waiting for “the one”. I mean, why not have standards? At my age, I’m in no hurry for a quickie. This morning I woke up to see that the perfect guy had messaged me last night after I went to bed. He wrote in English. Sent a face and dick pic - had a beautiful cock and a perfect body and was very handsome and someone I would feel comfortable bringing up to my room. I hoped I hadn’t missed the opportunity and wrote him back this morning. He contacted me a little later and we messaged back and forth until finally he said he was free and on his way. I still wasn’t convinced he would come because he really was too good to be true, but he did. I met him in the lobby of my hotel. I think he didn’t want to register, but I figured for my safety, and just so it seemed I wasn’t trying to sneak someone in, we should. I told the clerk my friend was visiting. We engaged in small talk in front of her like we hadn’t seen each other for a while. He turned over his ID, they made a copy and had me sign it and write my room number. We went to the coffee bar on the first floor and had coffee and chatted a bit before coming up to my room. He just left and I’m on cloud 9. He was perfect in every way. He had a good job, comes from a good family (his father is a doctor), but most importantly, he is gorgeous, has a perfect body, a beautiful cock, amazing ass, was totally verse, and my face and neck are sore from him kissing me so much. I had the best time with him, and he is the guy I’m sticking with while I am here. He said he wanted to go to a motel and smoke a cigarette while we had sex (this is his fantasy). I was originally up for it, but then I thought it would be better to at least have his name on record here in case he was a psycho killer. Now I see that was silly. We talked about going to a motel next time, which I think will be a fun cultural experience for me. Not a fan of cigarette smoke, but, I am willing to put up with it for him. On my very first trip here, I met a few guys on Adam4Adam until I met the hustlers (who I found easier to deal with - one in particular who liked to stand in front of the window when he fucked me - made him rock hard), so I believed it was possible to meet guys who didn’t want money. It’s not being cheap for me, it’s about the feeling I get being with someone who legitimately wants to be with me vs someone doing it just for the cash. I am sharing this not to brag, but to share, and also to say it is possible to meet beautiful Dominican men who are not transactional. I still have several others who are interested, but I think I’m just going to stick with this one because he is more than enough. One more thing that is not about sex - I’m staying in Gazcue and have been trying more local restaurants than I have in the past - found some great ones that I have really enjoyed - Adrian Tropical is fun and right on the water, and I really liked El Leñazo last night for dinner - totally local scene, really pretty restaurant, nice service, good prices, and a selection of grilled meats and typical dishes (I might go back tonight for dinner because it was so good). I really love the DR and this has become a place that is about more than sex for me (sex is what brought me here, but every time I come, I fall more in love with the island and the culture). Perfect place for a new year’s recharge. Thanks to all who fill this forum with stories, photos and information.

Does anyone have contact information for Anthony?

I’m putting this here, but it could go anywhere. The reason for parking it in the Dominican Republic is because I have been so surprised by my experience. I discovered these chat roulette sites a few years ago and visit them every now and then for some fun. At my age, it’s mostly miss, with a few hits. But, here in the Dominican Republic, my experience has been so surprising. I’m 66 years old, white, bottom, not very well hung. If you’re not familiar with these sites, basically it’s random online cruising and masturbation. Most of the guys are looking for women (do women really use these?) but you can set tags like “gay” or “trans” etc. You can also pay for a better experience, otherwise, you’ll get an ad every now and then (which is basically an ad telling you you can upgrade). You can choose the country you are in,or you can open it up to all countries. With paid subscriptions, I think you can choose any country, and if you have a VPN, you can choose the country where your VPN is set. Ok, so, I have been shy about bringing guys up to my hotel room and honestly, just don’t feel like all of the hassle of sex - I’ve been to Cine Lido a few times, which is more my style (old school sleazy cruising), but still, I am horny with all of these hot Dominican men around, so I decided to try Dirty Roulette. The result has been unbelievable. Today I had two guys cum for me, and one really hot young guy with a huge dick jerked off with me until I came. Some of them have chatted (I’m not much of a talker when jerking off) and one guy volunteered to come to my hotel (not really what I was looking for). I’m putting this out there in case you feel yourself missing these beautiful Dominican men. They seem to be open to jerking off with daddies, and if you are reasonably hot, you might have even better luck than me. If you’re not in the DR, see if you can get a VPN and set it here (not sure if this is one of the choices). Eventually, I will be bringing one of these hotties up to my room, but for now, I’m happy just playing with them online.

I mean, I could easily have guys come to my hotel room. They check in at the front desk. I’m just shy about the optics of me an old white gringo bringing a hot young stud up to my room. I guess I shouldn’t worry about it. At this point, I’m just looking for the right guy and finding myself to be extremely picky about who I want in my room. I hit the Cine Lido a few times for all out sleazy, sweaty fun.

What is the going rate for the guys you hire and Manny’s guys?

Hi guys, I’m in Santo Domingo for another week and staying at the Jaragua, where I usually stay, because I like the pool. Even though I have had guys come to my room before with no problem, I’d like to get a cheap Airbnb for a few days just for sex. Can anyone recommend a place you’ve used? Please PM me if you don’t want to post publicly. I thought I found a decent place nearby but I wrote the host and asked about security and she said there was 24-hour security.

Yeah, there was some incident where the Chinese were offended and canceled all plans to visit Japan. I wasn’t sure how long this would last, but glad to hear it. I was in Kyoto during Lunar New Year and it was ridiculous. I got up before dawn to visit the most popular spots, but the streets were often packed with throngs of Chinese and it was impossible to walk. I’m returning to Tokyo and Nagoya in the spring around the time of cherry blossoms. I might actually get to enjoy them without huge crowds.

You've probably already been and left, but I don't think the Japanese government has the resources to check every address of every person visiting Japan. I've gone and moved around the country, changed Airbnbs, etc., but none of that was reflected on my immigration form. I would just put any hotel. They won't check. I think they'd only refer to that if there were a problem and they needed to find you.

I doubt it.

I stayed at the Apa hotel in Ginza and Tokyu Stay in Nishishinjuku and didn't have any problems. There was a sign at the Apa saying unregistered guests were not permitted, but I just met my friends outside and then walked in with them and got on the elevator together - people at the desk were always too busy to notice. Same in Kyoto - no problem. Last time I had an Airbnb and again, no issues with guests (though some Airbnb listings make a point of saying no guests and making it sound pretty scary if you break the rule). I think there may be issues in some hotels and Airbnbs, but not all. I doubt any hotels will say they are "guest-friendly".

Glad you had a good time! I'm planning on returning in a few months.

It was just that one time, but as I said, I think things happen. On Sniffies, Therma Yu is listed as a cruising spot and it says guys go to the restroom. I went to an onsen in Chichibu and saw guys with boners who definitely seemed to be cruising. Seeing all of those hot naked men definitely made me horny.

Yeah, I really don’t know, but this has me thinking about if I return to Colombia. I have one friend I want to see, and I know I can trust him not to drug and rob me, but as far as any new guys, I may meet them at a motel first. I only had that one experience at a love motel and from then on just had guys come to my Airbnb because the motel experience was so difficult with all of the precautions. But now I see that those precautions were for my safety, even though I wasn’t worried because the guy I was meeting had quite a digital profile and obviously was trustworthy. I wonder if Colombia has gotten more dangerous in recent years as the economy is not the best and people seem to be getting away with a lot. I just hope everyone plays safely.

I’m 65, used to be pleasantly plump, but lately have lost weight and am back in the gym. Oh, wait, I’m 66 now. Anyway, I’m finding there are guys who are attracted to older men, one even told me I looked too young for his taste, and there are also those who like guys on the heavy side. Embrace it. And enjoy it. Sounds like a fun time.

I’m foggy on the details of the case and too lazy to go back and read, but my one experience at a love motel was very secure. I hired an escort from Mileroticos. He insisted I check in and send him a photo of the room before he would come, so there was also caution on his end. When I checked in, they told me to use the lock box in the room, but I only had enough to pay for the escort and I’d paid for the room in advance on the app. They said they would check his ID, so I made sure to let him know (he was already familiar) and then not allow him to leave until they were sure I was okay. So I am not sure if it would have helped in this situation, but my comment was based on my experience, they seem safer than going to someone’s place or having them come to yours.

Totally reasonable. How far in advance do you suggest reaching out to Manny? I'm looking for someone on the older side, more respectable looking, who I won't feel uncomfortable bringing into my hotel. I'm looking for a guy who likes to get sucked mainly, and he doesn't have to be huge, just handsome, nice body and enjoys head. Probably more than you need to know, but when should I contact Manny? Also, do you recommend also using him for airport pickup? PS - thanks for all of the information you provided and especially the pics.

I think the issue is people don't know the answers to those questions. At least I don't. I know a few restaurants, but none that fit his criteria. Don't know about WiFi speed outside of hotels, don't know weekend locations outside of Boca Chica, don't know about Tinder, and I don't know the neighborhood he chose. Other than that, there is a ton of information already provided here. Can you answer any of his questions?