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I got back to Tokyo from Kyoto on Wednesday and I’ve had sex every day. Often multiple times. I lived here in the 90s (in my prime) and while I had a lot of sex, Grindr sure has changed things. At 65, I’m actually turning guys down! On Wednesday, I had a reunion with some former co-workers. After I was done with them, I went to a hotel to meet a big-dicked Chinese boy who had reached out to me while I was in Kyoto. He was something like 300 miles away, skiing. While we were chatting, I realized we’d be in Tokyo on the 5th before he went back to China, so we agreed to meet. I thought once he got here, he’d find someone else, but he waited for me to finish with my dinner, I went to his hotel and we had a great time before he returned to China and back into the closet (I presumed). On Thursday, I went to 24-Kaikan (the sauna) in Shinjuku. I arrived at 3 and it was pretty quiet, but I still played around with a small group in the sauna. Then I was relaxing on the lounge chair in the bath area and a really cute guy came in and smiled. Was he smiling at me? He sure was. He stood up while he was washing and kept looking at me and smiling and raising his eyebrows. I still didn’t think he was interested, but when he walked back towards the showers, I followed him and sure enough, he walked into a shower stall and waited for me to join him. He was really cute and hot with a nice big dick. We played for a while and finally, exhausted, I left and let him go off and explore. That evening, I had several guys messaging me and wanting to come to my hotel - one American from California, a hot Brazilian, and another white guy with a big dick who wanted to be sucked off. I was exhausted and tried to get them to agree to meet on Friday, but finally the American from California persuaded me and he came over for a blow job (he wanted more, but I hadn’t prepped). The other two guys continue to message me and try to set something up. Yesterday, I met with a guy I’d met when I was in Tokyo before going to Kyoto. He had come to my hotel in Ginza (I’m now in Nishi-Shinjuku). He’s a tall salaryman type with a big dick who likes to be sucked. We were going to meet on Monday because it’s his day off, but he messaged me on Grindr and asked if he could come on Friday after work instead. He is totally my Japanese fantasy type. 41 years old, tall, thin, swimmer’s build, salaryman type with a big delicious cock and hot ass. He was moaning like crazy as I licked his nipples and sucked his cock. After he left, another guy on Grindr wanted to come over, but it was late and I was tired. He messaged me first thing this morning but then flaked out. It’s okay though because today I had arranged one of the muscle guys to come and fuck. Thanks to whoever posted this link https://gym-k.com/sp/ I tried making a booking on their website, but there was a problem with the form (I’ve encountered lots of issues with these websites) - like I did in Kyoto, I just emailed them. They said the reservation site was under construction, but they helped me by email. I asked for Yutaka (Toyo) - for some reason they have two names. I chose him based on availability, body type, dick size and his bio. He sounded really hot. They don’t show faces, but what I saw of his body looked hot, and his bio also sounded really hot. If you want anal, minimum time is 90 minutes. I’m not sure what you can do in 60 minutes, I guess only oral. I went for 90 minutes and told them I wanted him to top me. I went outside to meet him today at 2:30. He was waiting outside my hotel. He was a little on the short side (compared to other guys I’d hired). His face looked old, slightly weathered, but handsome. He had short hair. He spoke a little English (and I speak a little Japanese). I felt a little uneasy at first because he didn’t seem that friendly. He came in and stripped and asked if I’d showered. I had. So he took a shower alone. That was fine with me. I wanted to be surprised when he came out. His body was incredible, but I hadn’t seen his cock yet. He came out of the shower and took a towel and put it under me. One of the advantages of hiring an older guy is that they have experience and know to do things like this. Even though I had thoroughly prepared, you never know, and no one likes messy sheets. He started by sucking my nipples and then sucking my cock. This guy really knew what he was doing. I haven’t had such a good blow job in years! It seemed like he was just going to start fucking but then he moved up to my face and put his cock in my mouth and face fucked me for a while. His cock was big and thick and very hard. He seemed to be enjoying himself. I was inspired by his blow job skills and tried to match him, but not sure how well I did. I moved him over to my side and took the top position and licked his nipples, sucked his cock and licked his asshole a bit. He was very encouraging and seemed like he was enjoying himself He really was just oozing sexuality. It was clear when I fingered his asshole that that was his limit, and I didn’t push, he was a total top. But he liked being rimmed and also kissed. I was extremely satisfied with what he was willing to do. Finally, we switched positions again and he fucked me. I don’t know that I’ve ever had a top who I felt was so focused on my pleasure instead of his. While he was fucking me, he was playing with my cock. He paced himself based on my pleasure. I just kept thinking “this guy is a professional”. I was feeling so much pleasure. It really was the best anal sex I’ve had in years. Unable to hold back any longer, I shot a huge cumshot, we cleaned up, relaxed a bit and then he showered and left. Compared to the younger guys I’d hired - Shinjuku Kids, and Dojo Group in Kyoto - being with an older guy was so much hotter because he knew what he was doing. It was also nice to be with someone with a big bulky body. He was very muscular, unlike the Shinjuku kid who felt like a skeleton covered in skin (and wouldn’t kiss or cum). I feel so satisfied and am not sure I have it in me to keep going after this, but…Grindr… I’m going to be sad to return to California where I feel like I live in a sex desert. But here, the guys are so hot and enough of them seem to be into older guys that I am having a great time. I’m looking at one other agency that offers erotic massage, and may go back to 24-Kaikan one more time before I leave. Beyond that, I seem to have many options on Grindr to keep me busy for the next few days. I’m staying at Tokyu Stay Nishishinjuku and I like it a lot. The room is small, but there is more room than at the APA - and there is a washer/dryer in the room. The front desk is not always staffed, but when it is, it’s been easy enough to bring guys up to my room without them noticing. I just meet them outside and we walk in together as if there’s nothing unusual going on. The front desk doesn’t know if they are with me or they are guests (or maybe they do and don’t care). Unlike at the APA, there are no signs saying visitors are not permitted in guest rooms. Another thing I like is its limited housekeeping. They’ll clean my room once while I’m here because I’m staying 7 nights. Otherwise, I can request clean towels and for my wastebasket to be emptied. It’s nice to not have to leave my room for housekeeping or have them knocking when I’m taking a nap (happened several times in Kyoto). It’s a great time to be in Japan. The dollar to yen conversion is great. I’ll definitely be back again soon.

Add one more to the list - Ni-chome Kids - https://kidsgp.jp/2k/ This is where I thought I was going when I went to Tokyo kids. Ni-chome kids is near the BYGS building (had so much fun there in the 90s) - Tokyo Kids is near Shinjuku Gyoenmae station. Some of the guys look the same (I recognize Aiki who I hired at Tokyo kids - too skinny for me and not fun) but it looks like they have more guys, so maybe some of the boys work for both. I used Ni-chome kids in 2015 and brought a boy back to my Airbnb (when you could still find Airbnbs in Tokyo) - he was VERY hot. I’ve decided I like slightly mature guys, so I’m trying a different agency today, but if you’re looking for twinks, here’s another option.

Contacted Kazuma (twice) to ask about rates. The second time he responded. Am I an idiot or is this confusing? He wrote: *plaice 60m 10000 (under 29 only) 90 min it’s 13000 120m 16000 If you want anal sex (option) you top +2000 you bottom +3000 (under 29 age 200) I asked “so over 29 no service?” And he responded with the same prices. I asked “so under 29 discount” and he responded “read” (could that be a translation from Japanese meaning “correct”? He seems like he has a nice “gick” and body and maybe gives a good massage, but I’m not sure if I want to risk it since I am way over 29.

I stayed at the APA Hotel Ginza and there was a sign at the elevator saying only guests are permitted in guest rooms. But the way it is set up, the front desk was to the side of the elevators, so they didn’t see who went up. Also, they didn’t know if the person who was getting on the elevator with me was a guest or not. I met them outside, because you need a key card to board the elevator. I stayed at APA Gyoenmae in 2018 and from what I remember it was a similar set up - the elevators are away from the front desk. I’d just say try not to be too obvious. I’m at the Tokyu Stay in Nishishinjuku now and have had several guys come up to my room. Usually there is no one at the front desk, but when someone is there, they don’t seem to notice or care. Again, as long as you’re being discreet, I don’t think it’s a problem at these types of hotels. Some of the more expensive hotels might have issues because of “respectability” but I think you’re okay at the APA. If it is an issue, check out a Love Hotel - they’re everywhere in Shinjuku and cheap - about 3,000 yen for a few hours.

Kyoto: Boy 3 - Rikiya My stay in Kyoto ended on a good note with boy number 3. I guess my mistake was hoping I’d get a good massage from number 2, even though I wasn’t totally feeling it when I booked him. Rikiya was scheduled to arrive at 4:30 and meet me in front of my hotel. I went down a few minutes early and he was standing across the street. I smiled and waved to him and he he looked very serious as he crossed the street to meet me. He didn’t seem friendly at all. There was no one at the front desk when I had gone out, so I brought him in through the main entrance, but the same guy who was there yesterday came out from the back just as we were passing. He looked down as if he knew what was up and wanted to give us privacy. Could it be? Anyway, no problem bringing him in. When we got on the elevator, I used some of the limited Japanese I have and immediately that broke the ice. I asked him if he spoke English and he said no. I said, “a little?” in Japanese and he smiled. Yes, of course she spoke some English, but like many Japanese, he was afraid to use it because of the way it’s taught. He complimented my Japanese, same as boy 1 - Ukyo - had. I appreciated it but of course, my Japanese is not good at all - I can manage some basic interactions and after that, I’m completely lost. By the time we got to my room, I think both of us were feeling more comfortable. First things first - the money. Now I knew it was 1,000 extra for an out call, so I wasn’t surprised when he showed me on his calculator 15,000 yen. With that out of the way, we sat on the bed for a minute and talked a little and then got ready for our shower. He was taller than I expected (he didn’t look that tall in his photos) around 5’10” - he had a beautiful toned body and amazing legs. I complimented his legs when he took his pants off and he rewarded me by turning around and showing me his beautiful ass. He said he played soccer and went to the gym. Like Ukyo, he seemed to appreciate the male gaze and liked showing off. We got in the shower and he immediately began playing with me. He turned me around and wrapped his arms around me and soaped the front of my body while rubbing his cock on my ass. I could feel he was getting hard. He was ready for action. We had a great time in bed. I sucked him a little. He let me eat his ass and seemed to really enjoy it and then he fucked me. I then asked him to put his dick in my mouth as I was laying down, and he complied, but somehow, my mouth made its way to his asshole again. I just couldn’t resist. When I touched it with my finger, it opened up and my fingertip slid inside. That was enough to send him over the edge and shot a huge load all over my face and in my mouth. After we cleaned up, he started to get dressed but then lay next to me to chat a little with the help of the translator app on his phone. I had a really nice time with him. He was super sweet, his body was stunning and he had a really nice cock. He was very focused on pleasing me. Only one negative was his breath. I could smell it when we got in the shower since we were standing so close to each other. But I was prepared. Since the two times I went to a shop to meet a boy we started with Listerine, yesterday before my horrible massage, I went out looking for masssage oil (I got lotion since it was all I could find) and I bought a small bottle of Listerine. We didn’t use it yesterday, but after smelling his breath, I offered him some and we did a kampai together. It helped somewhat, but I think he needs some serious dental work. Overall, I was very satisfied. He was a beautiful man and he really made me feel like he enjoyed being with me. That’s it for me here in Kyoto. I have two more days left and I’ll take my chanced with Grindr. I am planning on trying a few places in Tokyo after I get there this Wednesday. If you are coming to Kyoto and planning on trying to hire Rikiya, bad news - he is “graduating” this month, which I took to mean he’s retiring. It was one of the reasons why I decided to try him out. If you happen to be here now, you’d better hurry. And have some mouthwash ready if you do an outcall.

Boy 2 Report I really enjoyed myself with Ukyo, and had a hotel visit scheduled for another guy on Sunday, so on Saturday I decided to see if I could book an erotic massage through Dojo Group. They were very responsive by email. I was booking on Saturday for Saturday. First, I looked at their website to see who was available. There was a new boy with a big cock, but he only showed a little of his abs and his face was blurred, even with the password that removed the mosaic on their faces (cocks remain blurred). I wasn’t sure about him. None of the others mentioned anything about massage, but I know on one of the sites, I had read that some of them were able to give massage. I emailed the store and asked if they could make a recommendation based on what I was looking for. They said they don’t recommend boys. Okay, back to the website. I was seriously considering the new guy with the big cock, but then based on the reviews, I chose Hinato. He looked a little too skinny for my taste, but he had a lot of very good reviews. I emailed the store and asked if he could come at 3. It was a little after 1. They responded and said they needed more time, and could do 4. I said that was fine. After they checked with Hinato, they told me the earliest he could come was 7. Okay, so I’d have a massage and then sleep. Fine. They ask you to send a description of what you are wearing, so I just sent the same photo I sent the day before. I mean, how hard is it to spot a white guy standing in front of a hotel? I went down to the lobby around 6:55. Usually there is no one at the front desk, but this time there was a young guy who was paying much more attention than they usually do. He looked at me when I went down and I said hello. I went outside to wait. It was raining. The hotel has an entrance for the lobby that goes past the front desk, and another entrance that goes into the coffee shop. I went to that entrance and figured we’d sneak in that way. Hinato was about 15 minutes late. I was a little annoyed because no one messaged me to tell me he was late. When he arrived, he was cute, but really not what I was hoping for. Ukyo was much more my type. We came up to my room undetected and first thing we did was settle the bill. For 1.5 hour it was 18,000 yen (on the website). I had the money ready. He said it was 19,000 and showed me something on his phone. Okay, no problem, I guess I got it wrong. I gave him and extra 1,000 yen (about $6.00). I checked today and that is the fee for “business trips”. So, unlike what someone else posted here that you get a discount if they come to your hotel, in this case, they charge extra. I’d rather go to their shop. That way I don’t have stress about the front desk clerk stopping us (I had a horrible experience in Panama). Side note here - it seems that Japanese websites are very wordy. That is certainly the case here. There is a lot to read, and had I scrolled down all the way, I would have seen that there was an extra charge for travel, and it could be more than 1,000 yen. I wish they would confirm the price at the time of booking, but there might be a legal reason why they can’t do that. (I did ask in one email and they didn’t respond). Next we took a shower. He had a nice body. Very tight muscles. Not bulky. Small, cute ass. He was a little on the twinky side even though he was older. He didn’t get hard when I started to play with him (unlike the previous boy). On to the massage. It was torture. That was a bad idea. We fooled around a bit. I tried to fuck him, he wouldn’t let me. I asked him if he could cum and he said no. Finally I came and he left. When he got up, I noticed there was blood on the white sheets. I don’t know where it came from. I was playing with his ass a little but I had no blood on my finger. Maybe he had a cut or something? Fortunately, I had a Tide pen with me and that removed it, but it was really all over. I was worried that maid might thing I had tried to murder someone. So this experience was not the best. I have another guy coming today and then that will be it. I have two more days in Kyoto and then back to Tokyo where it seems I have many more choices, including several guys I met on Grindr. If you come to Kyoto and use Dojo Group, I give Ukyo my highest recommendation. He was friendly, spoke English, liked to show off, had an amazing ass (but was a straight top, so only for looking), and compared to Hinato, was very focused on making sure I was satisfied. This guy today is also supposedly straight. Let’s see. I will let you know. Again, thanks to all who have posted links and information. Grindr has been keeping me busy, but at least here in Kyoto, I’ve had some encounters that were not the most pleasant. At least with the escorts you can sort of choose what you’re getting, and as far as their bodies go, they really are spectacular.

Just found this guy on Grindr. I’m going to try to see him when I return to Tokyo on Wednesday. Looks hot and his massage sounds good. https://kkazuma796.wixsite.com/gaymassage

Yeah, I figured I’d try the shop the first time. I have a guy coming here on Sunday because it’s supposed to rain. Also, got the guy’s name wrong- it’s Ukyo.

I want to thank everyone who has contributed to this thread and provided so much helpful information. You guys are the best! I’ve been in Kyoto for a week, and finally had success hiring a hot Japanese guy, after several disappointments. Thank you to whoever posted the link to Dojo Group. When I arrived in Tokyo a week and a half ago, I was immediately hit up by several guys on Grindr. One literally messaged me as soon as I got off the plane. Lots of guys were interested in daddy types, and since I said I was looking to suck, several just wanted oral. It was pretty hot and I met two hot guys. I went to Tokyo Kids and was disappointed. And then I rediscovered this thread, but I was already in Kyoto. I kept looking and trying to find someone who was available either as an escort or at least for an erotic massage, but kept striking out. I also continued to get hit up on Grindr, met a few guys, but they ended up mostly not really being my type. Yesterday, I went to an onsen that was filled with older Japanese men, but there were four young guys who really stood out and I could not keep my eyes off of their amazing butts. I’m mostly a bottom, but seeing their smooth skin, tight bodies and amazing asses really made me horny. Today, I finally got one for myself. I’d made arrangements a few days ago through back and forth on email. I tried using the website, but kept running into blocks, so when I emailed them, they were happy to set up my appointment. I chose Ukya, because out of the guys who were available, he was one of the ones with a big dick, and he had a nice body. I wasn’t able to see his face until they provided a password. They said the password would allow me to see photos without mosaic, but that is only for faces. Cocks are still blurred. He was listed as being straight and available to top. I opted to meet at the “shop”, which turned out to be an easy 18-minute walk from where I’m staying. They asked me to send them a description of what I was wearing, so I sent a photo. I was pretty easy to spot. The only white guy standing outside of the building. The room was in an apartment building. A basic Japanese apartment with one room, a small kitchen area and bathroom. Ukya came up to me when I was looking at my phone. He spoke English, and shook my hand. He was cuter in person than in his photos. When we got into the apartment, first we had to take care of the money. I paid him and he messaged his boss. Then we both gargled with mouthwash (this seems to be part of the ritual, and I really should make everyone do this from now on - just saying). He stripped and I admired his body. He was not shy at all, but seemed very proud of his beautiful body. He even flexed his biceps for me. He was totally smooth, shaved pubes, and the only hair was on his asshole, which I found really hot. His ass was amazing! A perfect bubble butt which really stood out because he was so thin. In the shower, I couldn’t help myself and started touching him while he was adjusting the water. He responded by backing himself into me and rubbing that perfect ass on me. His body was hard as a rock, including his ass. He told me he played basketball 6 days a week and did weight training 5 days a week. He wasn’t bulky, but very tight, and as I said, rock hard. He had a nice cock - advertised as 18 cm, might have been an exaggeration, but big enough to go down my throat, yet not too big that I choked on it. I think he wanted to just cuddle and take it slow, but I was conscious of time. I’d only booked an hour, and I wanted to make sure I got what I wanted in that hour. I started sucking his nipples which felt raw, but he responded positively, then I worked on his cock a little. He was being mostly passive, so I took his hand and put it on my head and he got the hint. He began thrusting his cock into the back of my throat and holding my head down, but he was very aware of how much I could take and was not overly forceful. It was so hot to feel his ass muscles clenching as he face fucked me. So then I asked him what he liked, and he said “fuck”. That was fine with me. It’s why I was there. He fucked me doggy style, and then I lay flat and let him fuck me from the back for a bit. I could feel that he wasn’t fully hard and I had about 15 minutes left, so I rolled over and asked him to sit on my chest so I could look at him while I jerked. He did. And he shoved his cock in my mouth a few times. I had him turn around so I could see his ass and tried to eat it, but he obviously wasn’t into that, so I had him turn around again. I asked him if he could cum and he said yes. He got up and went over to his bag on the floor in the corner and bent over, giving me a wonderful view of his perfect ass. He came back with his phone, put on some pussy porn and started jerking off over my face. I was sticking my tongue out and he was hitting it with his now very hard cock. He gave me the usual warning “uhhh…Iku…” and shot a nice wad into my mouth. I came as well, we cleaned up and I got ready to leave. As I was complimenting his body, he again, very proudly showed off for me, including getting down on the floor and doing a few pushups for me. It was more than I’d bargained for! I had a totally enjoyable time. I have another guy booked to come to my hotel on Sunday, and may hire one more before I leave. Here’s the link to the site I used. They have shops all over Japan. Very easy to work with, and quite a few guys to choose from. Ukya said he came from another province outside of Kyoto and it took him 40 minutes by train. https://www.dojo-group.com/ipn/top/#a_area5 Also, if you are coming to Kyoto and want a central place to stay where guests are not a problem, I’m staying at the Prince Smart Inn Kyoto Sanjo. Rooms are big and have wonderful showers and of course an amazing Japanese toilet. Breakfast was included, and they have laundry facilities. The front desk is not often manned, but when someone is there, they don’t seem to really pay attention to who is coming and going. I’ve brought several guys up to my room, and I don’t think they noticed.

This was posted in a previous thread. I booked a guy for today in Kyoto. Ended up emailing them and it was quite simple. https://www.dojo-group.com/ipn/top/#a_area5

Thank you for this! I’ve been in Kyoto for a week and while I’ve had some luck with Grindr, I wasn’t able to find ways to hire escorts until I found this link. Have a boy scheduled for today and another on Sunday.

I’d like to add this to the list. Don’t ask me how I found it. https://butt-massage.jimdofree.com/

Update, when I go to the site in my phone, everything is translated (unlike on my iPad). The guys look really hot, and I love reading their little blogs. I wish the photos weren’t blurred, but their cocks look perfect. Not mega-sized like in some places, but big enough to satisfy an aging size queen. Now, I wish there were something like this in Kyoto or Osaka. Can’t wait to get back to Tokyo and I will report on my experience. Thanks for the link!

This is the place I’m interested in. Unfortunately, not all pages get translated by Google, so making a reservation is confusing. I wonder if they are foreigner-friendly.

Ok never mind, I found it. He doesn’t accept guys over 50, gives discounts for muscle guys and people with gym memberships, so obviously he has a type he likes playing with.

I’m no longer on X. Any other way to find him?

You can now add a Suica card to your iPhone. I think it’s in the wallet under transit cards. You add money to your card and can use it in shops, restaurants, for taxis and for the train. It’s super convenient. Also, I downloaded an app called Japan Travel, which has been super helpful. You plug in where you want to go and it will plot out the route for you, telling you which trains, departure times, which platform (and the final destination of the train) and even which car to get on so that you’ll be close to the exit you want. I lived in Japan for 6 years in the 90s and I have no idea how we survived. Signs were mostly in Japanese, and there were no English announcements on trains. Now, English is everywhere and technology has made it so much easier. If you’re thinking about visiting Japan, now is the time to do it. The dollar is very strong against the yen (about 150 yen to a dollar). That all may change soon, especially if the US defaults on its debt or we’re plunged into another recession by you know who…

I’m in Japan now. I was in Tokyo for three days and I’m now in Kyoto for 12 before heading back to Tokyo. First, Grindr blew up in Tokyo. Lots of guys interested in mature. Even though my Grindr profile was more about meeting guys to show me around and practice English, because I mentioned I liked to suck, I got quite a few guys sending me dick pics. No one wanted to practice English. Everyone wanted their dick sucked. One had contacted me around New Years when I used Grindr’s free roam service to check out the scene in Tokyo. He contacted me several days before I arrived and messaged me frequently until he showed up at my hotel. He was 22, had a nice cock, and just wanted me to suck him (he said please). It was fun. Before I met with him, I had a 40 year old guy who didn’t look like much in his photos, but had a nice cock come to my hotel and spend a few hours with me. I sucked him off, we napped together, and then I sucked him again. He had a beautiful body and was a real pleasure to spend time with. But, since I wasn’t sure how I’d make out, I had made arrangements with Tokyo-Kids to meet Aiki the day before I left for Kyoto. I was excited because he looked gorgeous in his photos and seemed like he had a big cock based on the measurements (all relative). They messaged me several times asking about my preferences. By the time the day came, I really wanted to cancel, but I figured I’d go ahead with it because when I hired a boy from TK 10 years ago, I was very satisfied. Ok, long story short - the guy was like a skeleton covered in flesh. He was so skinny (from now on, I will be looking at their weight). He didn’t really do what I had asked for in my emails (I said I wanted to kiss), but he let me suck him and he sucked me a little (not something I requested). I asked him if he’d come and he said no. All in all, it was a big disappointment. And it looks like the pickings on TK have gone way down. There used to be many more boys to choose from. Now there are only a few and they all look really skinny. I’m going to look back through this thread and maybe see if I can hire one of the muscle guys when I return to Tokyo. Or maybe I’ll just stick to Grindr. Now, in Kyoto, I’m really not having any luck at all. Most people on Grindr seem to be visitors, and those who have contacted me are far away. If anyone knows of any escort service in Kyoto, I’d appreciate the tip.

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This is slightly off topic, but still on topic...I've been traveling a lot this past year since I just retired, and I've been surprised at the number of young men who are looking for "mature". I found this in Italy, Mexico and Panama, three countries I just visited. I also encountered this in Colombia a few years ago. Because of the kind of guys I'm attracted to, I tended more towards the ones who were charging, but if I wanted, I am sure I would have been able to find an affectionate younger companion. Several of them were really hot. Not sure what the attraction to older men is about but I was happy to receive it.

I was just going to post the same question but figured I'd look first. I've been looking at Airbnbs in Bogota and many of them explicitly state no visitors, and anyone who is in the unit must be registered initially. A few don't state this, but it looks like they still have security. I just came back from Panama City, where I had an issue at my hotel that really cut down on my fun. I know there are love motels in Colombia, but I would like to be able to bring some guys back to my place, especially if we see each other more than once. So I'm wondering if you figured anything out.

Thanks Rob. I will see how I make out on Grindr, but some of the guys on skokka look really hot and it would be nice to get a massage too while I'm there. I was looking around yesterday and found a cinema - Cine Central - which sounds really hot. Sounds like it's still active and similar to Cine Lido in Santo Domingo (one of my favorite places on earth). Have you ever been there? Some reviews make it sound like it's a bad neighborhood. But it also sounds like it's active in the afternoon, which is my favorite time to play.

Thanks for your comment. Sicily is on my list at some point. Let's just say, I wasn't going there for the sex, so it wasn't a big deal. I had a great trip and a few adventures. The sauna was far from where I was staying, but it might be worth checking out for those who go.