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Day 4. (My notes start getting more sparse around this time.)
Today I had an appointment with Bima at XXL This guy flat out is my favorite. I find him extremely attractive. He’s also very very nice. He had a little mustache and a little bit of chin hair. It looked good on him. He joked that he was doing the Bruno Mars look. The body was unchanged, compact and muscular. His English was marginally better than the last time.
His massage was slow and rhythmic with the music. He remembered me from before. I had a great time. I am being careful on this trip and trying not to repeat with any particular provider. Bima in Bali and Ball in Bangkok are the guys that I need to be most careful about having a bit too much of a crush on. If I do decide to repeat with Bima, it will be on my last day.
@vinapu has talked about going through temporary lesbian phases. In my case, nothing anywhere near so drastic. However, I have definitely been on a “side“ phase from about the last day or so in Bangkok through my time with Bima. That isn’t so unusual for me, but it occurred to me after my massage with Bima.

In Luxor, we went for a walk along the Corniche, looking for a bar that sold beer or wine. We found a really cool pub and had quite a few drinks there. As we were leaving, a taxi driver approached us, offering his services. We negotiated a price and went to find his vehicle—only it wasn’t a car, but a horse-drawn carriage. He and his driver convinced us to go with them. He was very kind and polite; he even asked my friend to swap seats so he could sit next to me in the back, and we started chatting. Suddenly, he took my hand and placed it on his cock—it was rock-hard, large, and thick. We were passing through a somewhat dark street at the time. I kept touching him while we talked; the hotel was only 2km away, but the ride took 40 minutes. He said he wanted to sleep with us and asked for 30 euros for the two of us. I agreed, and we took him up to our room—the hotel had a rooftop bar, and you could reach the rooms by taking the stairs. It was a wonderful, full-service experience with the carriage-driving taxi driver. I got his WhatsApp number, and we still talk; he’s such a sweetheart.

I arrived in Cairo last night after a long but pleasant flight (Qatar Air business from SFO - 10 stars). I knew I could not host, but thought there might be a chance that I’d meet a few nice guys who might show me around, so I changed my Grindr profile to mostly non-sexual saying I was looking to meet locals for conversation and to see some interesting places in Cairo. I know it’s a long shot because most closeted guys are very wary about being seen in public with older foreigners, but I also wanted to avoid what actually happened. No lie, I must have received over 200 messages between last night and tonight and most of them were expiring dick pics, some accompanied by faces and bodies. I tried changing my profile to be more explicit (no expiring photos) but that didn’t stop them. Finally, I changed my user name. Could be that everyone who was going to contact me has, or that fixed it. At least it’s not the constant barrage of expiring pics.
It is frustrating because a lot of the guys are guys I would love to meet. The body types and dicks are exactly my type, but since I can’t host and they can’t, my options are limited. There is a guy who lives nearby in Giza who can host who I might take a chance with, but honestly, I am feeling overwhelemed by all of it - the flood of messages, and also Cairo itself. I decided I’m going to take it slow and see who is still around and interested after a few more days.
I rented an Airbnb for a month and they were very clear that no visitors are allowed. There’s a security guard in the lobby. Because I am in Zemalek but want to explore downtown Cairo a bit, I used miles to book a nice hotel for a few nights there. I doubt I’ll be able to have visitors, but am hoping maybe another hotel guest will be interested.
I will also see if I can find a hammam where I might get a little extra service. I had a massage at the Marriott today but it was strictly professional (and very good). I was able to request a male therapist, which was nice.
I came with low expectations in terms of sexual activity, so I will be fine leaving without hooking up with anyone, but I was not prepared for the flood on Grindr. I’ve also been contacted on Romeo and Blowers.
I’ll report back if anything happens. If anyone has any tips they’d like to share, please do - DM me if you don’t want to share publicly.

My recommendation is to never use grindr in Arab countries and never go to cafe like la Sirene in Sousse corniche. These places attract the most disgusting part of the scene as these guys are definitely looking for something else rather than sexual pleasure. Carefully check id card and face pic as they might present u either a fake one or taken from his older friend. This trick is common (sex with underage) and might cost u few weeks in prison + 15k eur of bribe at least. U even don't need to proceed to sexual encounter as a fake doctor is about to conduct an anal examination and discover non virgin hole of a teen.

Great report @Thefiloboy

I am currently in Egypt, and have just finished three lovely days in Cairo, so I hope it’s ok that I add my observations here instead of starting a new thread. My other destination in Egypt is the Siwa Oasis and with a population of just 25K, I don’t expect much to happen here in terms of gaying around.
Due to a delay, I arrived in Cairo well after midnight. Getting an Uber from the airport is easy and cheap so save yourself the hassle of haggling with any of the drivers that will approach you as you wait at the luggage belt and exit the terminal.
Based on previous posts here about Cairo, I had chosen to book the Marriott in Zamalek as it seems members have found it easy to have guests. I also received a helpful message from a forum member suggesting it could be quite cruisy at the hotel. I had no problems having guests and I actually did score a cruising related hook-up.
Grindr lit up as a Christmas tree as soon as I opened the app. I think as a foreigner I had several things working in my favor. Facepic and distance and to a lesser extent age visible on your settings set you out from most of the other profiles. But in particular, it is the probability that you may host that makes you popular with the local talent.
I received a lot of expiring pics of mostly cocks, bodies and sometimes faces, and it was a bit of a challenge keeping track of so many messages. My solution was to not engage with more than two or three at a time and delete messages or block profiles that I was not interested in pursuing and to only open the app when I had time to engage.
My efforts resulted in 4 hook ups. First was a late twenties semi-chubby young professional. We met for a bite to eat before getting an Uber back to the Marriott. He instructed me what to say in case his presence was questioned by security, but no-one batted an eye lid. Nice sex and pleasant pillow talk.
Second was a late thirties or early forties slim guy who, as it turned out, had actually come all the way from somewhere half way between Alexandria and Cairo just to see me. Before he came and before I knew how far he had come, I had declined his proposal of him spending the whole night, but I still felt a little bad sending him on his way in the middle of the night. The sex was not very interesting to me, neither was the conversation. I met him outside the main gate and he walked in with me.
Third was an early thirties guy who had a business somewhere in the neighborhood and was familiar enough with the Marriott to suggest we meet inside the hotel in the Garden Promenade Cafe. I think that is the least conspicuous way of meeting someone at the Marriott but guys unfamiliar with the place or 5 star hotels in general will probably prefer to walk in with you. Sex and conversation were both good.
Fourth was an early twenties slim guy. I was a little worried that someone so young would seem out of place to security, but again no issues. I met him outside the main gate. He didn’t speak much English, but the sex was very passionate. He was definitely the most memorable experience of the four.
The Marriott has two gates, so if you feel embarrassed walking in with a guy more than once a day, you can switch between gates, but really no one seems to mind. It seems the hotel exists outside the norms that govern Egyptian society. Besides my own escapades, I helped a couple of working ladies in the elevator accessing their desired floor with my key card and I also noticed a similar lady in the Lobby trying to make eye contact with me as I was killing time after check out.
Speaking of killing time after check out. That is when the successful cruising hook up took place. After spending time at the pool I used the spa facilities to freshen up. There is a jacuzzi, a sauna and a steam room besides the showers and the gym. I met a muscular guy a few years older than me. He looked at me and chatted with me, so I was pretty sure something would transpire if I followed him into the steam room. So that's what I did and we had some side fun. 
None of the hook ups were transactional. I did ask the youngest if he needed money for a taxi, but he declined. They were all tops as were probably 9 out of ten of guys I communicated with on Grindr. 
I may have a little extra to report from Cairo when I return there after Siwa.
Btw, hook ups or no hook ups, the Pyramids and the Grand Egyptian Museum are well worth a visit and I have also enjoyed the city in general.

I was staying in Cairo at a hotel. I was getting a massage at the hotel and they only have male massage therapists for men. I was coming from the swimming pool so I did not have underwear and was draped.
My therapist was chatty and would get really close to my groin. So I let out sighs when he would get close. He then said he’d give me a special massage if I tipped and I said yes. He played with my hole - no happy ending but it was hot
DM me more for details - happy to share and exchange experiences

As a new poster with prior experience why not share your experience in the first instance(see previous comments in the Africa section on reluctance to sharing information with people with no history on the forum).

I had a similar experience in Balapitiya; they don't just work with women. Handsome, muscular guys strut up and down the beach, trying to talk to white women. Just show them you're interested. The usual price for sex in the jungle is 5,000 rupees. But you have to be very careful, because there are a lot of bad guys among them. Don't tell them anything unnecessary (not even the name of the hotel) and don't give them your number.

Bodybuilder Mohhamed is looking for producers to start his XXX career. He is sending tons of his home videos
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Another catch up with rapper Adem 

the main hurdle is the accommodation
It is not easy to find one such that can easily host someone.

An issue made in the OP is one everyone should consider. If an appointment is made to suit an individual client, it is as much the responsibility of that client to be on time as it is the service provider. Regular messaging updates about bad traffic is hardly an excuse, the more so when the appointment time is at rush hour. And this is as true in Seoul where the traffic is horrendous, as it is in many other major Asian cities. Surely the OP could have got himself to a coffee shop, hotel or at least somewhere hear the massage spa in advance so as to be on time for the appointment he himself had made? Trusting what is assumed to be an agreement by a phone operator in Seoul about bad traffic is, as the client discovered, of little use.
To offer to pay only two thirds when it was the client who was late was demeaning, especially in a very Confucian society. And then just to walk out even more so. 

Gay hammams do not exist in Egypt as such.
However, when having a male masseuse, asking at the reception whether you can be naked during the massage (like in Europe), telling them that you prefer a specific type to be your guy, arriving when there are not that many people around, being alone in the room with him, complimenting his body, asking about his marital status, you most definitely - exceptions aside - get what you want. (Almost) everywhere!
In my opinion, do not expect the masseuse to initiate the deal (happens of course). The risk is solely on them. Put your hands beside your body when they lean over you. Gently move your thumb or little finger. Apologise and see how he reacts. The moment will tell. 
Good luck! Have fun!
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I read that as Circumsized and thought, that's weird, how could you hide a huge foreskin, lol

Ambitious plumber, Tunis capital, quick fuck, average dick, 100 dt

Wassup Guys, I know it’s been a while but after my 5 day trip to Kingston I had to post on here. If I thought the DR was fun, Jamaica was on a whole other level. I was slutted out EVERY SINGLE DAY. I swear I could not keep the boys off of me, even to the point that I had to apologize to many because I couldn’t keep up. I even went to two orgies on Saturday night (the 11th) and came out barely walking straight. Literally it was huge dick, after huge dick, after huge dick. The room would have looked like a crime scene under a black light. Guys are different, vibes are different and dare I say, better than SD. And surprisingly I may have had only two people ask for monetary compensation. I would not recommend it to the faint of heart or unseasoned travelers. But  Gentlemen it’s the final frontier of the Caribbean and it was fucking fire 🔥. It was so fucking great that I’m going back in October. If you have any questions I’ll be more than happy to answer. 

the main hurdle is the accommodation
It is not easy to find one such that can easily host someone.

I'm asian and got lucky several times in Cairo, Luxor and Aswan. From my experience, local guys are not particularly attracted to the race but to the person. If they think you are gay and travelling alone , when they are horny you are prime target, imho  .

I paid 700,000 IDR for full service 

I was in the Philippines for 2 months last year.  I primarily stayed in Cebu and I also stayed in Boracay.
I truly loved Boracay for its natural beauty and beaches - the gay life is limited but you can check out this massage place on Boracay:
@papadharz1  <-- This is the Twitter (X) handle to get more information about these massage guys, and tours.     Below is my trip report of my 2 month stay in Cebu.   And below is a post I made here in our forum about a NEW Telegram group that allows you to hook up with gay guys in the Cebu area.  As of today, it has 4,156 members.  
Good luck and please share your trip report with all of us about your adventures in the Philippines.
 

@PeterRS, you make a good observation.
I took some time today to look at some archives of these free gay Thai magazines and what I saw was what I suspected - they contained advertisements from various gay businesses and venues from all over Thailand; Phuket, Chiang Mai, Pattaya, and Bangkok who used these paper based magazines as a vehicle to advertise their existence on the world stage - as often the recipients of these magazines where to people who could understand English and generally lived outside of Thailand.
So, that implies that there was a time in Thailand's gay economic history when they would advertise to the outside world - as evidenced in these Thai gay magazines.  I agree with you that these magazines are now dead and hence the reach of Thailand's gay economy is now not (or barely) advertised to the outside non-Thai world.
Does this mean that Thailand's gay economy has continued to exist based only on word-of-mouth since the death of these paper based gay magazines?
Does it also mean that a Thai gay business now (today) does not have an easy vehicle/mechanism to be advertised on the global gay world stage?
  


 

I just came back from Thailand. I went to the nice boyz bar on the last night of Pattaya.
As said in this thread earlier, this business is very different.
You pay to stroke or blow some guy.
I feel fun but not quite entertaining in this bar.
I placed a "500 baht" note, and 2 boys showed up to stroke, and one of them just cum in minutes to get that money.
I stroked two of them and made them cum. They took my money as well
I ended up leaving like 15 minutes with all the above activities. I probably would not go back.
Mama is not very pushy at all. 
This bar has so much potential, but the current running business is not appealing.

I just came back from Thailand. I went to the nice boyz bar on the last night of Pattaya.
As said in this thread earlier, this business is very different.
You pay to stroke or blow some guy.
I feel fun but not quite entertaining in this bar.
I placed a "500 baht" note, and 2 boys showed up to stroke, and one of them just cum in minutes to get that money.
I stroked two of them and made them cum. They took my money as well
I ended up leaving like 15 minutes with all the above activities. I probably would not go back.
Mama is not very pushy at all. 
This bar has so much potential, but the current running business is not appealing.

I just came back from Thailand. I went to the nice boyz bar on the last night of Pattaya.
As said in this thread earlier, this business is very different.
You pay to stroke or blow some guy.
I feel fun but not quite entertaining in this bar.
I placed a "500 baht" note, and 2 boys showed up to stroke, and one of them just cum in minutes to get that money.
I stroked two of them and made them cum. They took my money as well
I ended up leaving like 15 minutes with all the above activities. I probably would not go back.
Mama is not very pushy at all. 
This bar has so much potential, but the current running business is not appealing.

Reading this topic is so entertaining. I will visit tomorrow