Kissing

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, Lucky said:

Kissing goes well with fucking.

and other way around is not bad either

[spoon]

Best answer to the question "Do you kiss?" is planting a kiss on my lips. 

[a-447]

20 hours ago, Lucky said:

Kissing goes well with fucking.

I couldn't agree more.

These days I'm actually not into kissing as I also consider it to be a very intimate gesture reserved for those with whom I share a mutual affection. Neither of my regulars kiss, but that doesn't bother me as they are both straight and such affection doesn't exist between us. 

The only time I feel the desire to kiss is when I'm being topped in the missionary position. I get that satisfaction from the guys who take care of me here. At a certain time in the fucking process when things are starting to to really heat up it sort of just happens naturally - all by itself. 

In my younger days kissing was usually part of the fun, as the guys I was having sex with were considered as possible lovers; the sex was always intimate. Having to pay for sex with someone much younger means such intimate relationshios are no longer available to me.

 

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, spoon said:

Best answer to the question "Do you kiss?" is planting a kiss on my lips. 

quite a few boys like answering that way

[Pinnacleore]

On 10/23/2024 at 3:06 PM, Keithambrose said:

And clean!

This makes me wonder, do you ever have to ask a boy to be clean “down there” or is it a given they know to be clean? Do they usually shower before you off them? It sounds like Thais are very into hygiene so I’m assuming this does not need to be said.

[kokopelli3]

On 10/22/2024 at 8:40 PM, Londoner said:

Then there's the issue of the "sniff-kiss",  originally a mother  sniffing her baby to check that all is well and, apparently,  used sometimes as an intimate act between adult lovers.  Has anyone experienced this? 

 

Many years ago I first experienced a sniff kiss but forget the circumstances. However recently with a young Laos guy, (who claims to be straight,) I have received sniff kisses from him, but no oral kisses other than a peck on the mouth.  

[floridarob]

8 hours ago, kokopelli3 said:

I have received sniff kisses from him, but no oral kisses other than a peck on the mouth.  

I prefer sniff kisses, they are so cute....  kissing  and french kissing is gross, lol

[vinapu]

On 7/9/2025 at 12:01 AM, Pinnacleore said:

This makes me wonder, do you ever have to ask a boy to be clean “down there” or is it a given they know to be clean? Do they usually shower before you off them? It sounds like Thais are very into hygiene so I’m assuming this does not need to be said.

it's exactly as you described, often they will arrive showered and still will shower with you. But it needs to be said that occasionally I had issue with sweaty guy who claimed  he already showered and  few overnighters , who went to the toilet to dump their load, returned to the bed after hosing  themselves only , no shower and no hand washing either but that was rare and only done by guys who felt kind of domesticated i.e . if was not our first or even third meeting 

[floridarob]

On 7/8/2025 at 10:01 PM, Pinnacleore said:

This makes me wonder, do you ever have to ask a boy to be clean “down there”

A long time ago, when I used to be a top... yes, a long time ago, I hated when we got to the room and the first thing they did was go to the bathroom to poop....noises and all....talk about killing the moment ☠️

[Keithambrose]

On 7/9/2025 at 6:57 PM, floridarob said:

I prefer sniff kisses, they are so cute....  kissing  and french kissing is gross, lol

Another example of how people differ in their tastes, pun intended!

[Rent Boy]

Kissing is essential for me.   There are plenty of boys who do kiss.   

I make sure I brush my teeth & rinse my mouth with good quality mouthwash for about a minute.   Also I drink some cold water.   I will typically avoid spicy food beforehand as well. 

[Vessey]

I too love to be kissed, particularly during the final moments before I cum, indeed that is often the act that finally gets me over the line these days. One of my favourite boys is well aware of that, and in threesomes (that he loves), he will do the kissing (and nipple) bit while the other lad works away on my cock 😅

But like many older, overweight, guys I am well aware that I need to take active steps to avoid any bad breath on my part, and not just rely on a quick mouthful of Listerine before we start a session.

The only thing that puts me off kissing is when the lad is a smoker; the smell and taste of it is a real passion killer for me. 

 

[mauRICE]

On 10/22/2024 at 9:40 PM, Londoner said:

Have other visitors encountered  the view, as expressed by some gay Thais I know, that kissing (the intimate kind, French and just with the lips) is "un-Thai"?

I haven't both in my interactions with Thais and from what I've seen in popular culture, at least not in 2025. Plenty of French kissing scenes either explicit or intimated in gay and straight Thai films, TV series, porn, literature and comics. Safer sex campaigns address the issue of French kissing which means it is something that people do. Some sex workers, on the other hand, may be reluctant to French kiss for various reasons, for example,  it's a deeply intimate act reserved for partners, hygiene, perceived fear of contracting certain diseases, etc. Bear in mind that sex workers see multiple customers of unknown backgrounds in a month and while the risk of contracting an STI through kissing may be low, it is much higher for them and they don't want to pass it on to their wives, boyfriends or other customers.

[Keithambrose]

6 minutes ago, mauRICE said:

I haven't both in my interactions with Thais and from what I've seen in popular culture, at least not in 2025. Plenty of french kissing scenes either explicit or intimated in gay and straight Thai films, TV series, porn, literature and comics. Safer sex campaigns address the issue of french kissing which means it is something that people do. Sex workers, on the other hand, may be reluctant to french kiss for various reasons, for example, it's a deeply intimate act reserved for partners, hygiene, perceived fear of contracting certain diseases, etc. Bear in mind that sex workers see multiple customers of unknown backgrounds in a month and while the risk of contracting an STI through kissing may be low, it is much higher for them and they don't want to pass it on to their wives or boyfriends.

I've never had any issue with boys French kissing,  but i do always ask first to make sure that they are happy with it. The method suggested by spoon is quite acceptable!

[mauRICE]

On 10/23/2024 at 3:11 PM, Londoner said:

The best book I've ever bought about Thailand is "Very Thai" by Phillip Cornwel-Smith, published by River Books (Thailand) in 2005. It is a survey of popular Thai culture, dealing with many issues which  are uniquely Thai, and is full of   beautiful photographs.

The chapter on the Sniff Kiss ("hom kaem") is particularly interesting. Recommended.

It's available from Amazon and I expect eleshere (I bought my copy in Dom Muang ) and has been updated. A great Christmas present for anyone who loves Thailand as we do.

I'm sure the book had its uses when it was published twenty years ago! A lot has changed in a generation, some for the better, some not. Cultures are organic beings and they change with time. I've noticed significant changes in the language, diet, education system, religious practices, reverence (or lack thereof) towards certain institutions and how I've changed too as I get older in my responses to these changes. Many of the kids don't even know how to wai properly anymore. And don't get me started on how they dress to the temple. But one good thing I've noticed is the decline of barter Buddhism which I anticipate will decline even further with the recent sex and money scandal involving monks. Another observation is the more subdued or even muted reaction of younger Thais over the Thai-Khmer dispute, as opposed to the chest-thumping and saber-rattling of the older ones.

[jimmie50]

Kissing is a must for me.  It is really the thing that puts me over the moon, so to speak.  Deep kissing with tongue.  I don't believe the Sniff Kiss would do it for me.  No kissing would be a deal breaker for me.  

I do have a question regarding kissing, though.  Would appreciate suggestions.  How do you approach the subject of kissing when you are going to one of the massage places?  I am not quite sure how to bring up exactly what I am wanting when going to one of the massage places that are more full service.  

Certainly not new to hiring.  But, on previous trips to Thailand I have been traveling with straight friends.  Only on my most recent trip last August did I venture out a couple of times solo.  Went to Phetboys but didn't know how to approach the subject and was disappointed in the experience.  Went to Prestige and had an amazing experience...so much so I went back the next day!   Therapist at Prestige spoke English and provided options, so that was much easier.   

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, jimmie50 said:

Kissing is a must for me.  It is really the thing that puts me over the moon, so to speak.

You are not alone. But I understand some boys wont do it or do it in the manner like they are forced to so that the question I ask AFTER deal is sealed. I don't want them to pretend they do something they don't like .

One of my most memorable experiences were few cases when non-kissing boys  all of the sudden kissed.

[msclwrshp]

2 hours ago, jimmie50 said:

Kissing is a must for me.  It is really the thing that puts me over the moon, so to speak.  Deep kissing with tongue.  I don't believe the Sniff Kiss would do it for me.  No kissing would be a deal breaker for me.  

I do have a question regarding kissing, though.  Would appreciate suggestions.  How do you approach the subject of kissing when you are going to one of the massage places?  I am not quite sure how to bring up exactly what I am wanting when going to one of the massage places that are more full service.  

Certainly not new to hiring.  But, on previous trips to Thailand I have been traveling with straight friends.  Only on my most recent trip last August did I venture out a couple of times solo.  Went to Phetboys but didn't know how to approach the subject and was disappointed in the experience.  Went to Prestige and had an amazing experience...so much so I went back the next day!   Therapist at Prestige spoke English and provided options, so that was much easier.   

I thought Prestige only offers clean massage. I'm now thinking of going there! 🙈

[TMax]

Those sniff kisses just don't work for me, I much prefer nice deep kisses with tongue action but hygiene still is a priority even for kissing (no bad breath yuk) 😋

[AussieTop90]

1 hour ago, TMax said:

Those sniff kisses just don't work for me, I much prefer nice deep kisses with tongue action but hygiene still is a priority even for kissing (no bad breath yuk) 😋

I had never heard of sniff kisses until today 😂 

[Travellerdave]

I’ve heard mention of sniff kisses, but have no intention of trying unlike tongue kissing which I really enjoy, especially during Anal. You never know how the boy will react until you try. 

[TMax]

1 hour ago, AussieTop90 said:

I had never heard of sniff kisses until today 😂 

I've only encountered sniff kisses in the massage shops but just wasn't my thing 

[Daniu]

I had no idea what a sniff kiss was until I experienced my first one a few weeks ago. I've been seeing this Cambodian boy and if I initiate a makeout sash he does pretty well but he also sometimes leans over and give me a little sniff kiss. I find it funny every time

[vinapu]

17 hours ago, msclwrshp said:

I thought Prestige only offers clean massage. I'm now thinking of going there! 🙈

never assume anything. When door are closed plenty may happen everywhere and even if session is , like you call it ' clean'  it may bring fruit in the  Line contact for example