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April 2025 Bangkok Trip Report

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Posted
9 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

I'll have to look out for him end June! Is he vers?

 

8 hours ago, roughjock said:

Top, straight, Vietnamese, has girlfriend.

that is not problem , problem is that he seems to be very popular  so may be less inclined to negotiations and financial inducements.

As I said here 354 times already I have serious doubts about how straight guys parading half naked in front of other guys are. 

Comment is general and is not related to said #17, which by the way I know as different number which he changed since   

Posted
1 hour ago, CallMeLee said:

Later that night, I headed to Freshboys. I had some unfinished business and hoped the stars might align. The bar was moderately active but not overcrowded. There was room to breathe. Customers were inviting guys over freely, and even the mamasan seemed to be subtly nudging people to pair off.

I made eye contact with number 17 and gestured for him to join me. He came over, I got him a drink, and we exchanged the usual light talk. Things seemed fine until, around a couple of minutes in, he asked if I planned to off him. I tried to keep the conversation going, to get a better feel for him, but he interrupted to say he’d head back to the stage if I wasn’t planning to. It was blunt, not aggressive, but abrupt enough to leave me blinking. I said okay, and he left with his drink barely touched.

It was strange. Maybe he was having a rough night. Maybe he was just bluffing but it got lost in translation. Either way, it left the air feeling flat. I figured it just wasn’t going to be my night and decided to call it early. Two nights in a row without an off. Not ideal, but not tragic either.

(Note: this won’t be my last interaction with him, so maybe hold your judgment for now.)

I headed out, walked toward the Starbucks to grab a taxi, and just as I was about to cross the street, I felt a light hand on my shoulder.

I froze, turned around and there was Min. Smiling like we’d just randomly bumped into each other at a coffee shop. He said he’d stepped out to grab food and was heading back to Goodboys. Asked why I wasn’t coming in, and I told him I was tired. That’s when I noticed his hand gently on my arm, caressing and giving it a small squeeze, and asked half teasing, half sincere if I wanted him to come home with me instead.

Didn’t take much thinking. I gave him 500 baht to settle his off fee, and we headed back to my hotel.

Not all heroes wear capes. Some just show up in white shorts and a red number tag.

I have always believed in Fate and I feel that Fate decided no offs from Freshboy for you that night which ended up with you being with your Good Boy guy. Sounds like he has become one of your favourites!

Posted
1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

I have always believed in Fate and I feel that Fate decided no offs from Freshboy for you that night which ended up with you being with your Good Boy guy. Sounds like he has become one of your favourites!

Min really surprised me this trip. Never even considered offing him prior since he’s T’s brother, but he totally stole the spotlight. Might just make him my headliner next time.

Posted
11 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

and he left with his drink barely touched.

makes me insane.... my father was the type that we had to eat everything on our plate, not to waste anything.....so I hate when someone orders anything and doesn't finish or barely touches it....especially when I'm paying.

Posted

I have similar feelings, which I am sure also stem from my parenting as a child to not waste food or money.

It really irritates me when:

- I take someone on a date, where I am paying, to a restaurant and they order tons of food, which they do not finish (at least 50% please) and say to me - oh I am just so full = อิ่มแล้ว  👿

- you call down a guy to sit with you and he orders a drink which he does not finish and gets antsy if you are not going to off him.  Well at least finish the drink that I am paying for...

It makes me feel used and not appreciated - as if I am wasting my time.

- the person you are with is on social media almost the entire time.  Why are we even spending snytime together?  Fuck off and do your social media on your own time and don't waste my time = thank you!!

Posted
5 hours ago, floridarob said:

makes me insane.... my father was the type that we had to eat everything on our plate, not to waste anything.....so I hate when someone orders anything and doesn't finish or barely touches it....especially when I'm paying.

give boy a break, this is not a meal but only drink in the bar. less of those he has , better for him. The same goes for us.

Buying drink is part of bar liturgy , not a mean to quench somebody's thirst, we have 7/11 for that

Posted
5 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

I have similar feelings, which I am sure also stem from my parenting as a child to not waste food or money.

It really irritates me when:

- I take someone on a date, where I am paying, to a restaurant and they order tons of food, which they do not finish (at least 50% please) and say to me - oh I am just so full = อิ่มแล้ว  👿

- you call down a guy to sit with you and he orders a drink which he does not finish and gets antsy if you are not going to off him.  Well at least finish the drink that I am paying for...

It makes me feel used and not appreciated - as if I am wasting my time.

- the person you are with is on social media almost the entire time.  Why are we even spending snytime together?  Fuck off and do your social media on your own time and don't waste my time = thank you!!

those are three different problems in my book 

 

and for meals I agree , it's wasteful and rude  order more than necessary and don't eat it . I know, it partially comes from habit of communal eating boys are accustomed to  but still waste is waste. It happens and while I'm not making a fuss I usually grimace to show my displeasure , which seems to be working next time if there's one

as for dinks in bars I already voiced my thought above - it's really just mean of providing boy and bar with extra income  in that setting, not something to celebrate and fuss over. I usually finish my drink but if boy doesn't I don't care . As Tomtravel noticed above , their liver need a rest  .

What is rude is when drink was left unfinished  because boy decided to leave us  and returned to the stage or went to accept another clients invitation  - in that case  he is taking risk of removal  from my roster of future offs or at least to be given 1- 2 trips quarantine from engagements. So while I'm withholding voicing my judgement on  Call Me Lee story as he asked, doesn't mean I did not make it. 

Social media or general time on the phone spent by offed guys  is my pinching point and I usually tell them  very early in our time together ''leave that phone ' in no uncertain times making sure I don't sound too pleased. Exceptions apply of course , depending on what part of stamp collection we are, it may not be they annoying. To boys credit, they usually oblige without fuss and tend to remember it , next time they may ask if the can use a phone . 

But some are insane and  you may recall my report when boy offended by my request to quit that screen took off after 1st night of out 4 nights engagement, forfeiting earning of at least 12000.

Fortunately for him and me , he came to his senses later and is good boy ever since

 

Posted
2 hours ago, Tomtravel said:

demand we drink juice. Holiday for his liver.

Actually the whole bar concept is based on the beers clients buy for the LBs and the boy. And they drink them, 6 evenings every week.

I noticed they boys are aware of that problem and often they order non alcoholic drinks. 

One  bar guy I was surprised  to find in massage shop actually told me that too much drinking  was a reason he switched to massages

Posted
2 hours ago, vinapu said:

give boy a break, this is not a meal but only drink in the bar. less of those he has , better for him. The same goes for us.

Buying drink is part of bar liturgy , not a mean to quench somebody's thirst, we have 7/11 for that

Like Tom said...order something else.... a 400-500 drink and then barely touch it 😡

This isn't just for MB's.... for friends or boyfriends too. 
In Mexico, I know a couple older/younger and the young one orders whatever and maybe takes 1 bite of it, or an expensive dessert to take pics for social media and then doesn't eat it because he's full....

That's just ignorant and abusive.

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