Moneyboy does not ask for money?

[mauRICE]

On 1/1/2026 at 10:43 AM, BangkokDreamer said:

Whats wrong with being honest with him?

Nothing. It's important to clear the air and any doubts without feeling guilty as we and our feelings in the equation are just as valid and worthy of respect. The Thai guy is no babe in the woods and I wouldn't worry about him losing face as nothing the OP could say would be something the he hasn't heard already, most likely from his fellow Thais. What I do know is that a lie from the start - even a white one - isn't a good start. Look at how much the OP has toiled over the lie and it's a blessing that he found out about it at this point. What I also know is that regardless of what happens, the Thai guy will move on and be alright. 

[Keithambrose]

On 12/29/2025 at 12:32 AM, mauRICE said:

Yup. I believe it's called throwing a sprat to catch a mackerel. A very old fishing tactic.

Not so many mackerel around now, overfishing!