mauRICE Posted 21 hours ago Posted 21 hours ago Save for insisting your partner wear a bodycam 24/7, I wonder how does one prove monogamy or fidelity. Sure, it is easy enough to say one is in a monogamous or faithful relationship but there is really no way of proving it, is there. I mean all it takes is twenty minutes for them to leave the house, fuck their lover around the corner and be back home for dinner. Okay, forty minutes if they share a beer and a somtam after. And sometimes they don't even have to leave the house! 😏 vinapu and Travelingguy 2 Quote
a-447 Posted 14 hours ago Posted 14 hours ago On 4/20/2026 at 7:57 AM, daydreamer said: The survey posted above is not accurate. Where's Japan? All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars. After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night. And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services. Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA. I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan. Ruthrieston, vinapu, bkkmfj2648 and 1 other 4 Quote
Keithambrose Posted 11 hours ago Posted 11 hours ago 3 hours ago, a-447 said: The survey posted above is not accurate. Where's Japan? All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars. After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night. And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services. Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA. I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan. This just shows that these surveys are nonsense! Quote
mima_bk Posted 10 hours ago Posted 10 hours ago 1 hour ago, Keithambrose said: This just shows that these surveys are nonsense! idk, these surveys rely on self reported behaviour. could also be that in japan you just do and don't tell. daydreamer and vinapu 2 Quote
ToTheCore Posted 4 hours ago Posted 4 hours ago 10 hours ago, a-447 said: The survey posted above is not accurate. Where's Japan? All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars. After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night. And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services. Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA. I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan. Why are you YELLING??? Just use the regular font like the rest of us. You're really not that important. 🙃 Quote
hank75 Posted 4 hours ago Posted 4 hours ago 22 minutes ago, ToTheCore said: Why are you YELLING??? Just use the regular font like the rest of us. You're really not that important. I appreciated not having to zoom in to compensate for failing eyesight 😂😂 Travelingguy and vinapu 2 Quote
a-447 Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago 3 hours ago, ToTheCore said: Why are you YELLING??? Just use the regular font like the rest of us. You're really not that important. 🙃 I'm not yelling intentionality. If you look at previous posts of mine, you'll see the front is normal size. I have no idea why my post here appeared in such a large font, but it does sometimes happen. I'm posting on an ipad, so maybe that has something to do with it. It certainly has nothing to do with me. Quote
vinapu Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago 7 minutes ago, a-447 said: I'm posting on an ipad, so maybe that has something to do with it. It certainly has nothing to do with me. as they say " technology for you" Quote
a-447 Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago 3 hours ago, hank75 said: I appreciated not having to zoom in to compensate for failing eyesight 😂😂 I find it easier to read, too! Especially if the post is long. Quote