Save for insisting your partner wear a bodycam 24/7, I wonder how does one prove monogamy or fidelity. Sure, it is easy enough to say one is in a monogamous or faithful relationship but there is really no way of proving it, is there. I mean all it takes is twenty minutes for them to leave the house, fuck their lover around the corner and be back home for dinner. Okay, forty minutes if they share a beer and a somtam after. And sometimes they don't even have to leave the house! 😏

On 4/20/2026 at 7:57 AM, daydreamer said:

 

The survey posted above is not accurate.

Where's Japan?

All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars.

After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. 

My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night.

And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services.

Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA.

I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan.

3 hours ago, a-447 said:

The survey posted above is not accurate.

Where's Japan?

All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars.

After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. 

My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night.

And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services.

Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA.

I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan.

This just shows that these surveys are nonsense! 

1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:

This just shows that these surveys are nonsense! 

idk, these surveys rely on self reported behaviour. could also be that in japan you just do and don't tell. 

10 hours ago, a-447 said:

The survey posted above is not accurate.

Where's Japan?

All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars.

After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. 

My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night.

And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services.

Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA.

I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan.

Why are you YELLING???

Just use the regular font like the rest of us.  You're really not that important.  🙃

22 minutes ago, ToTheCore said:

Why are you YELLING???

Just use the regular font like the rest of us.  You're really not that important.  

I appreciated not having to zoom in to compensate for failing eyesight 😂😂

3 hours ago, ToTheCore said:

Why are you YELLING???

Just use the regular font like the rest of us.  You're really not that important.  🙃

I'm not yelling intentionality.

If you look at previous posts of mine, you'll see the front is normal size. I have no idea why my post here appeared in such a large font, but it does sometimes happen. 

I'm posting on an ipad, so maybe that has something to do with it. It certainly has nothing to do with me.

7 minutes ago, a-447 said:

 

I'm posting on an ipad, so maybe that has something to do with it. It certainly has nothing to do with me.

as they say " technology for you"

3 hours ago, hank75 said:

I appreciated not having to zoom in to compensate for failing eyesight 😂😂

I find it easier to read, too!

Especially if the post is long.

13 hours ago, mima_bk said:

idk, these surveys rely on self reported behaviour. could also be that in japan you just do and don't tell. 

I think that makes my point!

On 4/21/2026 at 1:10 PM, mauRICE said:

Save for insisting your partner wear a bodycam 24/7, I wonder how does one prove monogamy or fidelity. Sure, it is easy enough to say one is in a monogamous or faithful relationship but there is really no way of proving it, is there. 

Trust built up over a long period of time and communication. Many relationships are open ones at the outset or become open ones after a period of years. I realise that. But the suggestion throughout this thread that all Thai men are unfaithful pretty regularly is not always the truth. (My partner is not Thai!)

18 hours ago, PeterRS said:

But the suggestion throughout this thread that all Thai men are unfaithful pretty regularly is not always the truth. (My partner is not Thai!)

"not always" is doing the heavy lifting here. 

Depends on how he is cheating .  I remember years ago, a blogger Stickman I believe,  had a service for Straight guys where he would test there bar girl girlfriends.

Perhaps the best response to the question posed on this entry is"is the Pope a Catholic?"

1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:

Perhaps the best response to the question posed on this entry is"is the Pope a Catholic?"

Perhaps you meant to write "is the Pope a (take your pick) Jew, Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu,....."?

The answer to your question about the Pope is a definite "yes", quite different than the answers in the above posts in this thread.

On 4/27/2026 at 12:21 AM, daydreamer said:

Perhaps you meant to write "is the Pope a (take your pick) Jew, Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu,....."?

The answer to your question about the Pope is a definite "yes", quite different than the answers in the above posts in this thread.

Glad to hear that.

@kentguy2025 you must be travelling with your guy now, I hope you’re having a great time with him. If you have a few spare minutes do share an update on how things went in the end.