Gay Bangkok

I'm planning 4 weeks in november, with hops to vietnam and cambodia. Are there any weeks or dates, during which it would be better to either be or not be in bkk or pattaya? Local / touristic events? Constraints? Annoyances? Club enticements? Thx (-:

It seems that a new gay "saunatainment" spot has opened in Bangkok --> as per a recent Twitter (X) feed that I received. Based on what I read in the below review by Twitter (X) blogger = Gay Onsen in Bangkok - this new concept seems to be very impressive and unique. https://www.wellmaxbkk.com/ https://x.com/saunaonsenbkk/status/2083929506650492971?s=20 Location wise, it is perfectly located in the basement of the Wall Street Tower at 33 Surawong Road. https://www.wellmaxbkk.com/visit/ If anyone visits please report back as this seems to be a nice new addition of our scene in Bangkok.

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I’ve been planning my first visit to Bangkok (with a lot of help from this forum) for some time now, and tomorrow I finally fly out there for three days. Short visit I know, but I added it to the end of a three week vacation in Europe. Plan is to explore the scene, and return (I’m only a six hour flight away normally) for long weekends. For this first visit, I decided to book a massage per day to start with. Thanks to @GoldMember & @MichaelJay70’s detailed reports, I booked with Ruj (TCS), Singha (S’Sense) and Sunji (History of Massages), in that order. I originally was meant to be in Bangkok for four days, and had booked Copper at History (pics attached) for my …

Comments welcome from anyone who has stayed at this relatively new hotel. Service, quality of the rooms and visitors to rooms? I had lunch there in May and the place looked quite nice.

First of all I Want to say that I’m Thai gay who’s just start experiencing massage scene for a few months and then I discovered you guys here and I have to say that love reading your reviews your thoughts and/or your experiences so much. So far I’m experiencing House98, Glam spa, K man spa, S’sense, 22 degree and Relax spa by 9. If I have some time I might comeback to this and write my experience too. but I want more recommendations and/or more experience such as Aiaun sp/Motion Spa/TCS/History of massage and more other causes I love to read. Ps.From what I’ve been reading you guys all have a very good experience with Singha from S’sense and t…

For now pick only , will write more soon I.e. between now and Christmas

I've been to Kman a couple of times and read somewhere (likely here...) that Stars is a bit of an upgrade. Not as nice as Jey Spa but nicer than Kman. I'm wondering if anyone has seen the vip rooms and if they have a shower in addition to the huge jacuzzi tubs? I asked them and they said yes but no photos, so I'm wondering if it's a "lost in translation" moment.

I will be arriving first week of August and staying a month .my filipino boyfriend will also be coming Who else will be there in August? I will be in Bangkok and Pattaya I will also go to Manila Philippines🇵🇭 for a few days so if any Filipino guys there 😘 I expect you to put applications in now if you want to meet up I expect to be entertained 👯‍♂️🕺

As a late bloomer, I have always felt like I still yet to sample more of what Silom has to offer. Every single trip, i have been staying in/around Silom, remained laser focused and been very content with it. a few exceptions were visits to Jey spa and V club. Now i feel like it is time for me to venture out of silom and explore into what else the city has to offer. I have always wanted to try those “local” massage shops in Saphan Kwai (?) area and one specific shop in Pinklao area (Aiun massage). They have been on my contacts and have been getting daily updates from them. i am trying to connect with them through Line but they dont seem to understand my simpl…

Why do we read here so little about them? Do the guys prefer not to do hanky panky when a fellow Thai is present? Or do most members here not like it ?

Doing my Due Diligence about hotels was very difficult: search for hotels brings up 17,000 results; going back thru recent thread titles, brings up almost only the Raya. I've always stayed at Raya, but I'd like to upgrade. I'd be grateful for your input, experienced and expert members. I found 9 worthy hotels in the vicinity, most of them mentioned in the forum. According to rates for 1st week of Nov, thEy can be grouped as following: Raya, siam heritage, quarter, ibis, siam hotel - $65-75 per night; montien, voco - $120-140; meridien, crowne - $190. It's a bit startling: basic, double, triple; nothing inbetween. Questions: …

Maybe some of you will know ...but my Filipino bf loves watching the Violin 🎻 shows and orchestra or whatever they call them I have no idea if in Pattaya or Bangkok they have these types of concerts Point 👉 me in the right direction please !!!!

Cues and phrases? Are older GWM 65+ chubs welcome?

I'm visiting Bangkok and I need a friend to show me around during my holiday.

Daily massages, new acquaintances, all those casual encounters and sometimes quasi boyfriend experiences, bars filled with excitement, restaurants with good food —— all coming to an end. Was it all illusion?

In accordance with vinapu's advice to visit a variety of bars when in Bangkok I decided to visit Screwboy. Now, at the best of times I have a poor sense of direction, even with Google maps, but it seemed easy enough to find and should be in the vicinity of Good Boy at street level. But no luck. Screwboy has been an institution and has survived changes which destroyed other venues. Between Chatgpt and me, we have come to the conclusion that it might have closed. Any updates would be welcome. I was going to go to Good Boy, but had read poor reviews about the pricing, so I decided to return to Dream Boy. This morning I did a search on Gayguides for Good Boy, and sa…

The cause of the fire is yet unknown but it was massive and spread very quickly. People were trapped in the restrooms. There are some very disturbing videos of the fire while it was still raging on Thai social media and you can hear the sound of people screaming. I've not shared them here out of respect for the victims. While it hasn't been confirmed, initial reports from survivors suggest that there weren't any fire extinguishers on the premises. The lack of fire safety measures at many of these old-style venues is shocking. Is anyone going to take responsibility for the death of these 30 people? Remember the Santika Pub fire in Ekkamai in 2009 which engulfed 67 liv…

I read that there will be an alcohol ban on July 29 & 30 for 48 consecutive hours due to the celebration of Buddha’s first sermon and the start of Buddhist lent. Does that mean that most of the bars and entertainment venues are likely to close for two straight days as well?

Finding relationships and travel companions in big cities.

Has this been mentioned yet Just saw it advertised on Instagram Looks like a Gay sauna?🏳️‍🌈💦💧🌊 Oh please do some research before commenting !!!

Why is life so exhausting?

"Looking to gain new experiences in Bangkok."

not as bad as i was prepared. not at least last night on my arrival around 11:45 pm. only 7-10 people on each line at the priority counters. and approximately 50-75 people at the regular counters.

Many versions of what happened being posted: https://thepattayanews.com/2026/07/08/fitness-influencer-connor-murphy-dies-at-32-in-thailand-lake-drowning-prior-2024-pattaya-assault-allegations-resurface/ https://aseannow.com/topic/1398258-american-dies-after-jumping-into-bang-phli-lake/ @Suckrates or @unicorn - do either of you have any more photos of this guy in your collections? He seems to allegedly have had a sordid past here.