Gay Bangkok

Went tonight for my first time, was good....not wow 🤷‍♂️

Can you please provide some information that I could not find in the forum? I know there will be some different views but I could use some advice. 1. How much should I budget per night for going out in Bangkok (not including any large fee for a guy, which I understand to be 2,500 - 3000 baht)? 2. How much should I tip the performers in the bars and do I need to tip everyone of them (example: big cock show) 3. If I am not going to off a guy, would they still want me to invite them for a drink with a tip at the end? Is 100 baht a reasonable tip for one drink? 4. Do I need to tip the mamasan and/or buy them a drink if they do not provide any service oth…

Back from Songkran and, honestly, still slightly dazed. If you’ve done Bangkok before, you think you know what’s coming. You don’t. This year felt… bigger. Denser. As if the city inhaled and then forgot to exhale. Silom, in particular, tipped over into something close to myth. One day had to be shut down entirely because the crowds simply became unmanageable. Not “busy”, not “packed”, properly overrun. Water, bodies, music, whistles, foam, heat. It stopped being a street and became a current you were carried along in. And the boys. OMG. Silom was thick with gleaming circuit party types, bronzed, oiled, and very aware of it. The sort of crowd that makes you stand…

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/27/travel/bangkok-thailand-new-hotels-restaurants-bars.html

Hey guys. I’m sorry if this post is not appropriate for this forum but I know you guys have a wealth of knowledge and expertise about Southeast Asia. I’ve been planning a trip for months now to Bangkok, Hanoi, Da Nang, and Hochiminh City. I keep hearing about potential jet fuel shortages in Southeast Asia and am trying to make the wisest decisions so I don’t end up stranded in Thailand or Vietnam. I’m arriving in Bangkok on March 31st. I already refunded my flights and hotels for Hanoi and Da Nang. I think I’ll be staying in Bangkok for 7 nights and then fly to Hochiminh city for five nights before flying to South Korea then back home to Florida from there. My biggest …

All massages in the area of Ladprao Soi 101 yellow line station have moved or are gone. White House building abandoned (don't know if/where they moved). There were two false alarms of a new massage in Soi 128/1. One of them even on google maps BOYSTAR SPA. 101 K SPA building abandoned (don't know if/where they moved). TK massage (google maps บ้านคนสวย) is locked and has no massage staff, but still management inside and for repeat customers like me, the call boy from elsewhere. They moved to Chokchai 4, google maps ADAY MASSAGE, and have new Line as well.

I will be in Bangkok for one night on Saturday. Which sauna or cruising spot is best to find old slim Thai daddies aged 50+. Not interested in young looking guys.

I see that the Midnight Hour (Bangkok Eyes) website has started updating its maps of nightlife areas. http://www.bangkokeyes.com/ For March 2026, it has updated the maps for Patpong 1, Patpong 2, and Silom 4 ( which it calls Soi Katoey). They show all the adult entertainment venues, both gay and straight. So not that much of interest for us on Patpong 1 - just Big Boy Bar and Chaichana massage. A few more places of course in Patpong 2, and then all the venues shown for Silom 4 are gay, I think. Might be an interesting peruse if you are planning a trip to Bangkok and have not been there in a while.

In the posts I receive daily via LINE from the various massage shops in Bangkok, I have noticed a substantial increase at Phetboys/Boy Boy spa for minimum tips. Some of the advertised young men are requesting as much as 2500 Baht now. So far, I have only noticed this increase at this particular spa. I am curious if this is something that happens normally at most spas during high season? Or, is this perhaps from a change in management or ownership? They seem to be having a name change (English version at least) from Phetboys to Boy Boy. Has anyone else noticed this?

I’m not a particularly skilled negotiator, but I still find it difficult to reconcile the prices mentioned here with what I usually pay. To be fair, I’m not especially interested in muscular guys; I hire through Grindr & Hornet, which means I avoid bar fees, and I reach out to them at odd hours. I usually negotiate the price down to 700–1000 baht for an hour, though I usually pay 1000. This is considerably lower than the inflated rates I see mentioned here!

That's what my google maps call it. My very 1st massage ever and I went to Senso for it. Because it was the closest one to my hotel. The guy with the iPad said 3100 baht for 1 hour and it was 5000 something baht for 1 and a half hours. I chose the one hour and they were all lined up in front of me. I picked a guy out of the line but he wasn't the one that went to the room with me. Turns out, it didn't really matter because the guy that went with me was really good. The fun was good and then he washed me down at the end. No complaints from me. I think the guy I picked may have had a customer already so they share it aroun…

So i met someone via a dating app and spent a few days with him. He ist very sweet and seems to be into me. I found out that he is working as a moneyboy, but he never asked for money... is this common? I paid for food and grabs but that was all.

Anyone got any recommendations for gays to explore? Massages, bars, clubs etc. Anyone got any information about Nox and Glams spas?

Hello, I am actually travelling to Bangkok today (23 Feb) before I came across this forum. I was trying to Google good massage places with extra services but am not sure which would be good and recommended as I hope to have a good experience as this is my 1st time exploring this area of Bangkok. My previous visits have been just regular touristy activities. I have tried reading the threads here but I am not quite familiar with the some of the acronyms used like ST, LT, H spa etc so I might not be able to understand fully some of the posts. For context, I am more into side/sensual fun (I like kissing haha) with someone hot/cute lol and penetration isn’t a priorit…

Any bar / nightclub actually have male strip shows ???? Tawan ??? Any other ones and I'm not talking ladyboy shoes but actually strip shows

Hi everyone, I'm sorry if this is inappropriate topic but I’m planning a trip to Thailand soon and I’m looking for some guidance. This will be my first time booking a male escort, and I’m feeling a little anxious about the process. I’m specifically looking for one night stand because I’m not interested in the spa, sauna, massage, or bar scenes. I'm just looking to find a cute, professional guy to have a fun night with in a private setting. My main priorities are safety and a strictly safe-sex-only experience. Does anyone have recommendations for reliable websites or platforms used in Thailand to find independent providers? F…

I see the Tartawan hotel is around 1500 baht a night give it take on Agoda at the moment I haven't stayed there awhile but no pool 🏊‍♂️or gym 🏋️‍♂️ But what really pissed me off was check in now 3pm🕒 and check out 11am ?..really ..times are getting shorter 😮😮🕕 Oh please I'm not some bitch you can play with !!🖕

Good news, counter top dancing has been reintroduced at Rainbow Dragon Bar. Depending on appetite, 2 to 3 shows an evening. 1773049735641.mp4

What started off as a private farewell dinner with @'reader before he left for the USA, slowly turned into a gathering of the Clans. Initially up from deepest darkest Jomtien for 2 nights grew to 4. @emiel1981 was bypassing Jomtien this visit, so increased my stay to getogether for a catch up, as unknown to him before we met we had mutual interests to discuss! Then @jimmie50 said he was in town, so sent out an invite, which quickly included @jason1975. Location, the one and only GayGuides favorite meeting location, G's in Soi 4. Good food and great banter, and as the evening progressed the jungle drums then added @10tazione, @'reader and a couple more. The …

Continuing the International forum of members loitering around Silom, met up with everyone's favorite Australian, @Olddaddy. For those not familiar with the long historic sporting rivalry between England (POMs) and Australia (Aussi), it's one built on total passion and no holds bared when it comes to language. Which in today's world of PC & woke, refreshing pleasant to use the old vocabulary. So great slagging between the pair of us. The Thai gentleman on the adjacent table just kept his head in his phone. Great time reminiscing about old 80's Australia, a mutual youthful time for the pair of us, discovering a couple of mutual acquaintances, plus catching up on o…

Omg 😳 Silom is so bloody busy I cant move tonight Guess where I am 😮😂???? No prizes for second best ...oh shut up A beautiful Friday night 😘 I thought it was Saturday night ...oh mind ya own business You can play with my pussy 🐆😿😂😂

Hi guys I'm in Bangkok regularly. But I've never been to a gay dance club, like DJ Station, although I'd really like to. I'm 57 now. Would I still fit in at that age? Or would I be looked at like an alien?

Just sharing my experience using Pribta clinic. I find that the staffs are friendly and they are able to communicate in English. They have a range of tests that you might choose. I chose a package that included HIV, Syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhea testing. With 2 bottles of generic prep, a supply of doxy, lab test and consultation, the total came out to be 2.9k which I feel is quite reasonably priced. Waiting time was also fast and you can just walk in. I got my result back within hours which was very efficient.

Do you ask before recording a video of your fucking?🎥🎥 I know many guys on here say they re-cord a video of their interactions with guys 😯 How do you get them to agree? Do you film them fucking you ? I just had a old Scottish🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 guy in his🎥 60's staying in the same hotel as me in Bangkok,he is staying with his wife ,he was in the opposite room across the hallway from me He saw I brought a massage boy back and when he left he came into my room to fuck me ,he said my old ass was better than his old wife's pussy .🐅😾 I lay doggy style on the bed🍑 with my ass up , I said to him I need to film you fucking me GrandDaddy ,👴 he said no way !😠, I…

If I remember correctly, some time ago there was something written on the forum about Side bar in Bangkok. The cruising bar that also do shows. Something about buying a ticket, getting wristband so you can get in and out. And this person went to see two shows and in between went somewhere else. Trying to find this post again as I a want to read about the show times etc that I can find back in the social media of Side. Only starting and end times, but not what times the shows are. Can someone help me out?