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Let that man spend all his time in the saunas chasing dick
I realized after reading the responses that they were wasted...
He is there on a mission....
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On 8/29/2019 at 7:48 AM, SolaceSoul said:
Not only that, but if you keep yourself up and maintain (or even improve upon) your looks, physique, and health (both physical and fiscal) as you mature, then there should be few valid reasons why one should not be open to being romantically or sexually involved with partners closer to one’s own age who have done the same thing.
I’m not suggesting that it must happen. I am just saying the it is important to be open to it, if partners like that are actually available to you.
You know that went over these bitches heads...
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3 hours ago, rtu123 said:
the problem is that sometimes I need sex in the first half of a day so badly that my brain is melting
Then you are setting yourself up to be an easy target, don't be surprised when somebody takes advantage of that melting brain...
Report back when it happens....
With all the free and paid sex in Rio, why make yourself an easy target in a third world country where your watch or cell phone are worth more than your life to some....Geez
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9 hours ago, Tomcal said:
For the most part that is true! Guys are usually there with friends. I think all of us who are “veterans” of Brazil have picked up a guy or Three off the beach but definitely not for people who are new or not well acquainted with the Rio scene! i would highly recommend you stick to the sauna selections until you get to know some of the garotos well and they can advise you. i gave this same advise to two guys from LA a few years ago, they were both in their 40’s, well built and gdlkg, and had travelled a lot, they of course didn’t listen to my advise and were staying at the Copacabana Palace. they went to the beach, picked up a couple of guys they spent the afternoon with at the beach and then invited them back to their hotel! they awoke the the next morning with a headache from the “Boa Noite Cinderella” they had ingested and with everything of value stolen including clothes, shoes, etc. this in a hotel that has more stringent security then most! It makes no difference if you are gdlkg, well built, younger, they are not interested in you but only in what you have! i have a apartment full of guys staying with me when i am in Rio or SP, BUT...I have 1)either known them for a long time or 2) they are referred by someone i trust 3)they are vouched for by one of my regulars! is this fool proof? nope nothing is but it certainly reduces your risk significantly! i have been doing this since i started using Airbnb’s around 2009 and have never had a problem(and that is a fairly large number of guys!)
have fun!
Keep letting these idiots think with their little heads...It's amazing how dumb somebody horny can be...(myself included, at one point in time)
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19 hours ago, sydneyboy1 said:
Rtu123 raises an excellent point about the differences in hotel accommodation between Rio and Thai cities such as Bangkok and Pattaya. I defy anyone to name a city of comparable standing as Rio which has a more appalling choice of accommodations. Things have improved very marginally in recent years with the Fasano and the Emiliano and the renovation of the Copacabana Palace but the pickings are very lean. Compare that with Bangkok where there is a bewildering range of 5 star hotels and they continue to sprout like mushrooms. We part company on smoking policy. One of the great joys of travelling these days for those of us who detest smoking is staying in non smoking hotels.
Rio is still a developing third world country that...Developing is the key world
While Bangkok is very cheap and affordable, they also understand tourism and want to attract ANY and everybody....
They also have the wealthiest royal family in the world...
So while there are trashy, dirty places all over Bangkok, I have been to and seen some of the most upscale, elegant places as well..
Rio has them to, just not so much in the city center and definitely not in Gloria(interesting area to chose to stay)
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On 9/16/2019 at 7:01 PM, rtu123 said:
Let me try to make it clear what I mean when I say that there is nothing to do in Rio with a guy. Sure, there is a lot of things to do, but...
In Thailand I always stayed in nice hotels with swimming pool, etc. I didn't find a hotel to stay in Rio. First, I think they are overpriced comparing to Thailand and look not too good. Second, I smoke and couldn't find a hotel where I may smoke (I sent many messages via booking.com and got no reply). Third, I don't like the idea that in some hotels I can't have a joiner in my room.
If you stay in a hotel, you can just relax near swimming pool. I especially liked sitting there alone while my friend is working out in gym. In Brazil I stayed in appartment, so it was not the case.
When you stay in Pattaya (my favourite), Phuket, Phi Phi, Koh Samet, Koh Chang, Ao Nang, etc - these places are resorts with that specific resort ambience which I like. Thousands of tourists from all over the world. 24 hours action 7 days a week. I didn't feel like that in Rio.
Even in Bangkok if you stay in Silom area you can visit Babylon, DJ station, dozens of a go-go bars, world trade center, massage parlours, lumpini, take a night walk along silom road trying local food or go to Kao San Rd, red lights sois in Sukhumvit Rd, etc.
It does not mean that I do not like Rio! I love it. Loved it that much that I bought a ticket the next day I came back home. I just want to point out that it is not same and it is not a resort city.
Anyway in two weeks I didn't find time to visit Christ the Redeemer or Jardin Botanico, which I wanted to. I've been only to Pao de Acugar and Maracana, Centro and Lapa (I liked walking in Lapa just looking around) and, of course, Copacabana and Ipanema. I also wanted to visit aerospace museum, but I was told that the area is very unsafe and it's better to avoid going there.
As to my stolen phone - it happenned on the second day.
I took metro to go to Ipanema and put my money to the waterproof belt wallet. I do not remeber where I put the appartment key. A friend sent me a message and right after I had read it the phone battery died. So I put it to my pocket and didn't check it for a long time - I knew it's off
Coming back from the beach I found out and that the money is ok, but no phone, and - bingo - no appartment key. No owner's phone number -it was in my phone.
I couldn't explain to the doorman that I need the appartment owner's phone - no English at all. Finally an english speaking neighbour came and we managed to find a phone and call the owner. He told me he'll bring the key in an hour or two. So I went to Club 117 to relieve my stress, came back to the appartment and my key arrived soon
That way I learned that you must not forget about safety issues in Rio and may be it was good because after that I was careful
My friend taught me how I should do
Some small money in your front shirt pocket inside pack of cigarettes. Key, phone, money - in the belt wallet
There were several situations when he pointed out what I should never do
For example, when we were in disco, I put my drink on a table and started to dance. He said that I shouldn't do like that because somebody can put something to my drink
When I was entering my appartment building with that electronic key, a man approached from the back. I didn't care about that, I though it was a neighbour. He really was, but he said never do like that, if somebody approaches to you, do not open the door, do not take your key from the pocket
When we were taking a ride in a bus I sat near an opened window with my new phone in my hand. Again - never do like that. That very morning he saw a young man who was outside the bus jumped and took a phone from hands of woman.
And so on...
Buy the way - can pro visitors to Brazil teach me how to get a man from the beach? How it works? I mean sex for for money
Guys in 117 told me that the beach is for gay men to meet, not for paid sex. Is this true?
you said that you missed two very important and well known sites in Rio but it doesnt compare to Bangkok or Thailand...
Travel to both countries regularly and they don't really compare...
In my opinion, you should have ventured out MORE while in Rio to see more than the saunas and then you would have something to actually compare...'
Aside from the well known sites, there are tons of things to do in the HUGE city and surrounding areas of Rio that are interesting and different...
While I tend to go to the saunas daily on my much shorter trips, I have done other things as well...something you might try on your next trip, there is an island not far from Rio called Ilha da Gigoia...its beautiful...very nice restaurants and close to the malls in Barra...
Venture out...
I love the shopping, food, city sights of Bangkok but don't usually fuck Thai guys..PERIOD...
If you are more into muscular Asians or that is what you are used to, there you have it...
Brazilians in general are more fit and have more muscular toned bodies than the Thais or other Asians I saw in BKK...
Great report
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As an adult, you can choose to do whatever you want to do...
Nobody will care if you are hairy or smooth in Brazil....Money is green if you are paying
Brazilians are NOT hairy by nature...
- brockmiller and SolaceSoul
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13 hours ago, Tomcal said:
the two sets of cousins and set of brothers i met at the Niteroi sauna but they all showed up at Lions on Monday night!
i will be in Rio from 10/25 - 10/31. let’s meet up!
Will chat you my whatsapp number....we will be there during the same dates...
For some reason, another member felt the need to reply to me to a direct question I asked YOU...
Some of these guys need HOBBIES or at least local boyfriends to occupy their time..
- SolaceSoul and Tomcal
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On 9/5/2019 at 11:36 PM, Tomcal said:
3 days in Sao Paulo.
How is the haze in SP? Still crazy because of the forest fires??
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On 9/5/2019 at 11:36 PM, Tomcal said:
I was in Brazil August 14th to 26th, spending the first 2 days in Porto Alegre, the next 6 days in Rio and the final 3 days in Sao Paulo.
There are 4 guys in Porto Alegre that I have known for a number of years that I usually see there and Mezziniu has been one of my favorite saunas since it’s opening in 2006. I met up with the soccer coach at the hotel, when we met 12 years ago he was a 19yr old working at Mezziniu but within a year got signed by a semipro team. He is one half of the famous cousins I previously have posted about. He spent the afternoon and then dropped me off at Mezziniu. It was slow on Friday with maybe 15 guys and 10 or so customers. But I met up with a blonde buff guy and a 22 yr old Venzuelan guy who is a friend of Victor who used to be the massuse at both Pointe and 117 in Rio previously. Victor gave a good recommendation and he was right!
Saturday the soccer coach came over again and spent the afternoon. About 5:30 I went to Mezziniu and it was already very busy. Saturday nights are their big night! I met a hot 23year old and had a good time with him and then Victor came up to me and said he was getting off work at 9:00 and had a hot friend he knows I would like and could the three of us go to my apartment? I said sure, as I trust Victor's judgement, plus he really wanted to be fucked by this guy! at 9:30 they showed up and his friend was 23, lean, nice dick, great kisser, and we both fucked Victor! I went to bed about 1:00 am and had to be at the airport at 9:00 am for my flight to Rio!
Sunday when i got to Rio I didn't go to the local saunas but went to one a hour away in Niteroi that is only gay one day a week! Met up with 2 sets of cousins there and had a great time.
Monday I went to Lion's club and it was very busy. the place is huge and very nice! I met up with the 2 brothers from Niteroi and had a really lot of fun.
Tuesday I went to 117 and they were packed like they are every Tuesday but 80% of the guys there were the same muscle guys I have seen there for the last 4 + years! I didn't do anyone, but talked to a lot of old friends. I then walked back to Lions Club which is a short 5 block walk from 117. John the former bartender from Manhatten rios was there and working as escort. I had been with john before at 3:00 am at a party last spring so I knew what to expect and it was as good as I remembered!
Weds, my namorado was back in town so we lthe next 48 hours together and then on Friday I left for Sao Pauo!
Friday night was packed at Lagoa! I was talking to Rudolfo, the owner who I had just been with at Lion's club the night before when I spotted a Vgl, 24 yr old black guy with the most handsome face I had seen in a long time! He appeared to be waiting for Rudolfo and I to finish our conversation to make his move and start talking. After a drink we decided to go to a room and he was amazing although he thought i was a bottom and i thought he was and it turned out we were both tops! He had a Big beautiful dick! He said “two tops can have fun”! He was right! later I went with another guy who was ok but i would not repeat.
Then luckily i made the best decision of the whole trip! I decided i was really tired and instead of going to one of the clubs i went back to the house Alone!!
The house has a front yard and gate and at 6:00 am I woke up to what i thought was someone calling out my name from outside! I went downstairs to the front door and looked out and there at the gate was my namorado from Rio! He decided to surprise me and got on the earlist flight! So we went back to bed until noon! Then we spent the next 3 days enjoying SP!
Just 4 weeks before, we had been in Mexico for 2 weeks together, for the 3rd time in less then a year, and we were together 24/7 the whole time there and only had one argument! He may be the one, but i am going to take my time deciding!
i am back in Brazil October 24th to November 4th
Hey Tom...Glad you had a great trip
What days will you be in Rio on your October trip? If we are in Rio the same dates, would love to meet the legendary Tomcal face to face...Ill be there October 23rd to 27th, leaving out Sunday evening for the states...
Also, where the hell are you meeting all these cousins and brothers??? Sounds kind of hot and been a long time since I hooked up with brothers OR cousins....
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10 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:
Oh, I can proudly go back even farther than that! When one maintains one’s self, ages well, prepared well, and lives well, there really should be no reason to try to shave years off one’s real age.
Love the song...Never even knew that was a video for it...Maybe there shouldn't be after watching this...
Thanks...
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On 8/26/2019 at 12:16 PM, SolaceSoul said:
Or they play that age on TV. Quite a few are well over that maximum age and are still “holding back the years”.
You dated yourself with this one...
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On 8/26/2019 at 12:10 PM, msclelovr said:
You describe it well @Riobard but then I have always thought that Circuit parties are for fit, muscled guys in the 25-35 age range to meet each other. Mykonos has always attracted that crowd and being much older, I wasn’t bothered. Interestingly enough I met there some good looking younger men (21-30) who were very dismissive of the gay steroidal overbuilt crowd (their terms).
While some of the crowd may be within that age range, given the cost, I saw a ton of guys older...Most 25-30 year olds, even with great careers can't afford that...My hot chiropractor is maybe late 20s and is still in the saving up phase for international traveling...
Age should not deter you from doing or going anywhere...
I will say that the vast majority of the guys are very fit, muscular, attractive...Not all ...but if you are the typical older gent who has let himself go, you should probably go to Mykonos another time to avoid getting your feelings hurt since most of the guys there aren't looking to be hired OR they are already with their sponsors...
It's refreshing that you know younger guys who dismiss gay steroidal overbuilt guys...then they should party where they fit in...there are tons of options...
I had an amazing time and can't wait to go back....
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On 8/26/2019 at 12:12 PM, SolaceSoul said:
I have some friends (more like acquaintances) who also attended XLsior in Mykonos this year. They enjoyed Mykonos but they also really like gay circuit parties. I, on the other hand, no longer really get into them. There is a large group of muscular, body boys who save up all of their coins to hit many of the gay circuit parties all over the globe. They do not all have sugar daddies — that is a myth — although some or many of them wish they did have them. Many of these “circuit gays” save up all of their money to go to these parties, to meet other circuit gays like them. They work out in gyms, diet and take drugs to get their bodies looking their absolute best for these circuit parties. A lot of them are also recreational drug users. These are the same kinds of circuit gays that fly to São Paulo and Rio, and can’t wait to party all night and day at The Week on Saturday (they also have little interest in the working boy saunas in Brazil, for the most part).
I agree that there are very few posters here who would feel they fit in at XLsior, or any of the other gay circuit parties for that matter. These tend to be very “body conscious” and “looks conscious” events. Assuming the average boytoy poster does not meet these strict physical standards, then the posters would probably not feel welcome —- and if they are economical travelers and buyers of sex, then their money would not go very far at all (often times, even the escorts who travel to these parties are unavailable for hire during these events). It is no different from the posters here, who love the payboy saunas, not feeling very comfortable at The Week in Rio or São Paulo — because of the loud, thriving, modern music, the late nights / early mornings, the recreational drug use, and all the shirtless hunks that are completely unavailable to or open to them.
To each his own. But this is most likely the wrong crowd for OP’s post.
Interesting feedback...
I can speak for myself....And my experiences...
I never had a sugar daddy sponsor any of my trips directly (I did have one help pay for my first townhome in college)and I didn't/don't have to save money to go on any of the trips I go on...Circuit parties included....several this year alone...
(Great income and excellent credit PLUS planning in advance)
Many of the gays that I met have careers so they can do whatever they want with the money they earn from said careers...not having kids may play a part in having the income to fuck off when traveling...
I can say that I travel a lot differently now that I am older than when I was younger...
Some key things-
1. I travel to more Circuit Parties, more international ones
2. I haven't had my Marriott hookup in years so I rend to rent private apartments or homes so I can do whatever the fuck I want to do, when I want to do it...
3. I tend to travel solo or with one person now versus in my 20s and early 30s....
4. I tend to venture out more versus just the norms...Sydney Mardi Gras was great...going back again next year....Mykonos should have been done years ago...Heaven and Hell in Brazil looks promising...
5. I'm still budget conscious because my momma didn't raise a fool BUT I will enjoy myself...I spent what I consider a ridiculous about in Mykonos renting an ATV last minute because I couldn't rent a scooter due to the type of license I have...
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On 8/26/2019 at 9:21 AM, msclelovr said:
I’m glad you had a great time @Badboy81 I’d just add to your comment on the prices on the island that it is VERY expensive, more costly than even in prime spots in the South of France.
I agree that the island is extremely gay-friendly, but it’s no longer primarily a gay resort. It is nowadays just as popular with a straight crowd, so a lot of the male eye-candy is heterosexual. I only went once and that was with an attractive younger companion; my impression was that the buff men were interested in other buff men; and there were very few working guys - I chatted to one (a fit young Brazilian) who was there as a vacation-rental by an older man.
Depends on what you find expensive...It's relative...
I didn't find the food or getting around expensive since I didn't have a fancy dinner in Mykonos town or use private cars/taxis...I rented an ATV, stayed near Elia beach, had drinks at Paradise Beach and ate at various places around the island...
While Mykonos is much more expensive than Bangkok or Rio...it wasn't anymore expensive than Nice, Monaco or Madrid...
The whole island isn't gay of course, I can't think of anywhere that is..
I was there for a huge gay event so my changes are having another buff man interested in me was extremely high since I went to two gay parties and the gay beach...
I wasn't there looking for "working guys"....
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On 8/26/2019 at 3:33 AM, mvan1 said:
Hi, did you mean XLSIOR rather than Excelsior as you wrote?
I am familiar with the large XLSIOR gay party that is held each year (since 2009) and is currently in progress until August 28 that is called XLSIOR.
If XLSIOR is the correct name, I hope you enjoy what the events and all the island has to offer.
Just to confirm, you really like what is found in Mykonos more than you like Rio and Clube 117?
Thanks for correcting the spelling but based on everything I typed, you figured out what I was talking about, especially based on me confirming the time...
Mykonos and Rio are two different things and can't be compared to me...
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On 8/25/2019 at 6:32 PM, sydneyboy1 said:
Thank you. Mykonos is on my hit list for 2020. What hotel did you stay at? What are your favourite beaches? What is the most desirable area to stay in? How difficult is it to get around the island? I don’t drive and don’t intend to take up cycling. You said that is now number 3 of your favourite destinations, out of interest what is 1 and 2? Thanking you in anticipation.
There are tons of beaches...
The Best Mykonos Beaches- Platis Gialos. Platis Gialos is the beach I stayed at most recently, which I absolutely loved. ...
- Elia Beach. If Super Paradise is the gay party beach, then Elia is the Mykonos gay beach for relaxation. ...
- Paradise Beach. ...
- Super Paradise Beach. ...
- Ornos Beach.
Mykonos Town is easiest to stay in but the island as a whole is small...So rent a scooter or hire a driver....
1. Brazil-Rio 2. Bangkok-shopping and massages and food
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On 8/25/2019 at 5:35 PM, mvan1 said:
The best?
That is difficult to answer. What one person considers good, another person may deem awful. As an old proverb goes, "there is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so."
You stated that you want to see places you have not visited.
I can recommend Berlin, Germany. I have visited there several times although it is not my favorite city.
My visits to Berlin were usually to visit there with my German relatives and for other reasons.
I did venture out with friends on occasion into the three largest gay sections of Berlin. There is a lot of gay activity in Berlin and it is unlikely you would be disappointed if you choose that city to visit.
Ignoring Berlin's misfortune connected with that psycho Adolph Hitler (resurrected as Donald Trump) there is a lot of history in Berlin. Much of the history has been preserved. Much of Berlin has been restored and is quite beautiful and modern.
On a personal note, I do not prefer light skinned people as romantic objects. It is just a personal thing with me.
You might find Berlin enjoyable.
Many light skinned people find dark skinned people attractive.
In the gay scene, I found that countless Germans prefer dark skinned people. This occurs also in the non gay scene in Germany.
You can consult various gay rags and find wild places in Berlin like found in no other cities I know.
Although you already missed the pride parade of this year, one is held each year.
Here is a link to a brief narrative describing the Berlin Gay Pride Parade.
https://www.misterbandb.com/gay-events/germany/berlin/gay-pride
If you are looking for a new place to visit, you would not regret selecting Berlin.
I hope this gives you one more place to consider for the future.
Good luck
Been to Berlin...
Thanks for giving me feedback as well as your personal preference...I don't remember asking for that much detail but thanks...
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On 8/26/2019 at 12:37 PM, Watlas said:
Hi All,
New to the site. I am thinking about visiting Sao Paolo and wanted to look into some of the local GPs. I would found some that I like and I was wondering if any of you had any experience with them. Any info is appreciated (personality, cost, passivo or activo, english-speaking).
1. https://garotocomlocal.com.br/acompanhante-masculino/rafael-moura/
2. https://garotocomlocal.com.br/acompanhante-masculino/joao-miguel/
3. https://www.vivalocal.com/acompanhantes-gays/bela-vista/garoto-de-programa-s-o-paulo-/198799076
4. It seems like the link to this vivelocal profile no longer works. Anyone know him or if he is at any of the saunas?
All of these guys are models...while you will find some guys just as hot in the saunas....I doubt you will see any of them...
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12 hours ago, cktb2793 said:
My husband and I are planning to go to Rio in January for 10 days for the first time since 2008. How is the New Lion Sauna compared to 117 and 202? Which club is best each night of the week? We’ve never gone during the Brazilian summer before ...... are there tons more clients than other times of the year? Is it super busy and hard to get rooms?
Thanks in advance for any info.
Havent been to the new sauna but may go in October or December and can give you some feedback...
The Week is Saturday night.....its the main club...there are no other gay clubs...there are gay bars and occasionally gay parties during some holiday events...
January will be busy with clients since it is the peak holiday season before Carnival...there will also be more boys since they travel from all over the country to make money during January to March...
Rio has plenty of rooms and private apartments/houses....
Maybe you should use Expedia or Booking or hire a travel agent to get reserve your housing...
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Looking to branch out more in 2020 and love to travel to places I haven't been...
Aside from Madrid, Barcelona and Mykonos...what European city has a good pride?
Appreciate all the feedback....
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Leaving Mykonos darker, lighter in the wallet and in LOVE with the island...
First timer and I came for Excelsior and I should have came YEARS ago...
Love Circuit In Barcelona and Pride in Madrid but Mykonos with the raw beauty....ease of getting around the island and TONS of hot guys from all over...
Will be back again and again....
This island just knocked Barcelona out of my top 3 cities, now she's #4...
The food, natural scenery, and the crowds of HOT GAY MEN....
If you havent been to Mykonos, I highly recommend coming...
A few notes-
Mykonos is expensive by most European standards but you can find drinks and dinner specials...
The island is FULL of fit, attractive people...locals and tourists....Its the "place " to be seen and maybe its the diet but the Island as a whole has very attractive eye candy...
Its pretty easy to get around the place IF you rent a car, scooter or ATV...which I highly recommend...there are only maybe 30 taxis on the island, from what I read...
The beaches....PICK ONE...do you want hot people...gay included...do you want to lounge and relax...do you want to just enjoy beautiful water....
All of the beaches are top notch and I managed to go check them all out while I was on the island...
Clubs are mainly in Mykonos town or at the beaches unless you are on the island for an event...Again, the island isn't very large and very easy to get around
'GAY FRIENDLY!!! I know its historically been extremely but they are GAY friendly as hell...from the hotel staff to the bar staff to the shopkeepers and they should be...Gay spend money...BUT they were overall majority helpful and nice...
Would love to hear your feedback if you have been to Mykonos...
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