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2 hours ago, Riobard said:
And that characterization repeated here ad nauseam infinitum yawn-um is purposeful ... how? LOL
My spidey sense be detecting an apologist stereotype.
You never have to TRY and decipher anything I type and respond to, unlike you, I said what I said...
If you feel safe in Thailand, go there...Enjoy
If you want to go to Brazil and enjoy EVERYTHING it has to offer, stop bitching and complaining about the country...
I HATE trying to decipher your ridiculous, nauseating OVERLY long responses...
Please hire somebody who speaks basic English to text for you and get your thoughts across dude...
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2 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:
When I see that you have made a post where you have vigorously pushed back on the oft-repeated physical stereotypes of black and brown men in Latin America / South America having much bigger dicks, and being more sexually virile and passionate than others, then I will listen to a word you spew about needless physical characterizations and harmful stereotypes.
And that my dear is what I call a READ....Well READ....
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3 hours ago, paborn said:
Yes you missed one of his multiple posts. He compared, unfavorably the looks of the workers in Thailand vis Rio. Go back and check
No he really didn't...I stated that he should go where he feels safest...
There is NO comparison between Asian twinks and Brazilian men...PERIOD...
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18 hours ago, sydneyboy1 said:
I have returned to Brazil 8 times since older and wiser. I have a solitary motivation in telling my story which I did in detail on another thread. To do my best to ensure my experience does not happen to anyone else. I will now let the matter rest.
Just go to Thailand and call it a day....I get it, you still feel some type of way because of what happened to you...Let it go dear...
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On 8/14/2019 at 12:09 PM, SolaceSoul said:
I’m not discounting your experience, but 2005 was 14 years ago and 5 national elections ago. I started going to Brazil in 2009 and have been dozens of times since. Can we PLEASE keep this conversation to recent, relevant experiences?
These old men LOVE talking about the good old days....at least keep it in a 10 yr time period...
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On 8/14/2019 at 11:25 AM, sydneyboy1 said:
Not being a subscriber I can’t read the full Rio on line report. Is there any way of downloading the report in its entirety? I was planning a December trip to Rio but I might opt for the relative peace and tranquillity of Thailand.
Please go to Thailand...Asian twinks don't compare to Cariocas and there will be more for ME....
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On 8/14/2019 at 7:52 AM, ihpguy said:
This isn't news to me. I was assaulted three times in February. A tall younger Brazilian friend was visiting me in the center of São Paulo on a weekday at 11am, was assaulted and robbed. I posted a warning six months ago, and most of the members on this site made light of it. I gave up. It seemed no one wanted to take the advice of a gringo who has been living in Rio de Janeiro and São Paulo permanently for the last ten years.
Thee times in ONE month...? Why would somebody take advice from you??
Please tell me where you go so I can avoid those areas...
I have been all over the world and never had any issues...knock on wood...
What advice can you offer after living somewhere for 10 years when you were a victim 3 times in one month? Serious question...
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Stop looking like such a tourist!!
In touristy cities where you hear many stories of muggings, unfortunately it's generally because they have flip flops, shorts, a silly t-shirt, an SLR camera, a “fanny pack” and other such things that draw attention to them. Even if they wear less obvious clothing they may be walking around with an expensive looking smartphone, and I even had to insist that one of my Couchsurfers in Recife Brazil leave his Rolex watch in the house whenever he went out.
Great article for some of the guys who are easy targets....Read it, then reread it....
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On 8/12/2019 at 3:06 PM, mvan1 said:
Ill increase my gym workouts for my upcoming trips to Rio, continue to pay attention to my surroundings and Thank God I think with my big head versus the one between my legs...
While there is NO particular type of person who is targeted, Im pretty sure statistics will show who is most often targeted....Glad they don't look like me...
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What a declasse question....I would venture to say that many people are LYING with exceptionally high numbers but hey whatever helps out your ego....
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10 hours ago, funnerno1 said:
Been many times to Circuit Festival Waterpark Day and Night parties and most sex occurs in toilets. Never seen sex in the open during the day and during the night it does happen but in dark corners and locker rooms unlike at the parties in Berlin where sexy guys fuck straight on the dancefloor and everywhere and anywhere. To me Barcelona and whole Spain is overrated. Guys like to show off bods in tiny speedos. Berlin, Brussels and Amsterdam is much better for some action.
Thanks for your feedback and what you had to offer based on what I was looking for...
I have been to Barcelona for Circuit at least 5 years in a row and only visited the rent sauna once...
I was interested in checking out one of the other saunas...
I did get useful feedback from somebody else...
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13 minutes ago, mvan1 said:
You said saunas, plural. I don't think people on this forum would likely visit more than one sauna in Barcelona - Sauna Thermas.
Sauna Thermas is the only true hustler sauna in Barcelona. It has been operating about the same since it was remodeled several years ago. Most people, including me, like the place.
You will find a variety of guys from various countries.
There are some regular gay saunas in Barcelona. I have not been to any of them. I heard the regular gay saunas are nice.
Thanks buddy...was trying to get info on the popular saunas that are in the city as well as the Rentboy one...
Ill check them out when I am there and report back...
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Hey guys...Ill be in Barcelona in a few weeks...havent been to the saunas in a few years...
Can somebody give me the rundown on the saunas and what they each offer...
I am doing my own research via Google but would love feedback from somebody who frequents them...
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On 6/2/2019 at 12:15 PM, SolaceSoul said:
I am quite fond of David Miranda, but am not a fan of Glenn Greenwald, not in the least. But I do love how Glenn Greenwald somehow always seems to get the press to gloss over the circumstances of their meeting. David Miranda was a 20-year-old Ipanema Posto 9 beach hustler high school student living in a very poor favela and Greenwald was a 38 year old rich Harvard-educated attorney American tourist trolling the gay beach, while staying in an Ipanema penthouse. You know exactly what this was about!
“His life changed, he says, one day in 2005, when he was playing volleyball on Ipanema beach and accidentally knocked over an American tourist’s drink. That tourist was attorney Glenn Greenwald, better known today for his journalism. Miranda and Greenwald got to talking, fell in love and moved in together after just five days. “We’ve been together constantly since,” Miranda says. Greenwald, now 52, helped support Miranda going back to school. In 2014 he graduated from ESPM, a publicity and marketing school in Rio de Janeiro.“
http://time.com/collection-post/5584910/david-miranda-next-generation-leaders/?xid=fbshare
Great article but not too sure of this guy is really considered black....
Also, 20 yrs old and 38 yrs old...very interesting....A rich Harvard Educated Attorney decides he wants a 20 r old poor Carioca....How cliche....
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21 hours ago, Jalwa said:
Yes I ll be visiting Saunas in Rio and SP..but I was also exploring Rio on Grindr by using fake GPS.. and can see many GPs near Copacabana. Can anyone suggest if it will be a safe thing to bring an escort to my hotel room?
This question has been asked and answered HUNDREDS of times....Play at your own risk...It also depends on who you are, how you look and how stupid you come across..Just like everywhere, professional guys can smell an easy mark/thirsty guy who is not being smart....
Think with your big head and not your little head...use your best judgement....
If you feel a vibe or a connection, go for it...if there appears to be any signs of danger, don't do it...
It has been hard for me to get some of the boys in the hotels when I used to stay in them..the whiter they were/appeared, the less issues I had...
I no longer stay in hotels so I can do whatever I want...
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Don't waste your time....NO it is a complete waste of time and energy...
Far as hell outside of the city and the guys are very very local...mostly twinks...
The place is not for foreigners...Mainly local...very unkempt and dirty...
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On 5/18/2019 at 2:22 AM, mvan1 said:
And, it probably adds more garotos to the saunas looking for cash to survive since they will be laid off from their government job.
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Plans are mainly aimed at older workers who are approaching retirement age or who are already retired under the INSS.
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Great article...I definitely use apps when traveling and you can find guys in said city who can give you recommendations, show you around and of course, introduce you to other hot guys...
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44 minutes ago, rgb23 said:
Yes. I do know better. I've used rubbers religiously for decades. He was so hot and I was halfway to the finish line when he asked me to lose the rubber. I'm an old man and not used to being desired like that these days. Scary how easily I lost control...
Not judging YOU but there is a saying..."There is no fool like an old fool..."
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On 5/10/2019 at 1:32 AM, docbr said:
On a side note, got two Garotos at the saunas this month being very insistent in having bareback sex... I always thought that the sauna garotos were more careful about HIV/STD than the average gay dude, most of being “heterossexual” and having families. Another change perhaps ?
That is very strange and would automatically make me not want to deal with said sauna worker...if they are out here risking their own lives, that means they are also willing to risk the lives of others....
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On 5/10/2019 at 10:34 AM, rgb23 said:
In the heat of the moment I gave him what he asked for, but he was taking a stupid risk for a reason I honestly don't understand.
But shouldn't you have known better being somebody that did watch your friends die from AIDS related complications?
If they are so eager to have you do that with them, assume you arent the only one....
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How about a nice walk in Rio
in Latin America Men and Destinations
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There is a forum for you to go to....Please....Go...
https://www.boytoy.com/forums/forum/123-gay-asia-the-a-list-men-and-destinations/