You strike me as bitter fat and ugly. Its never too late, you can always change that. But that takes work and you seem to look outward for happiness. Stop hijacking threads for the worst. You are one of the reasons folks nolonger post around here. Furthermore, it wasnt a simple stare it was an entire haircut stare.
5 years ago, around 2a.m. I was standing outside Pacos Restaurant waiting on a friend in the bathroom when a White 40ish potbelly American walked up and started talking to me. I smiled, said nothing. He kept talking in English and I continued to act like I didnt understand. When all of a sudden his tone changed and he sternly said.
"You do know what it means when an American is talking to you."
By this time my American friend walked up. We laughed Hard! I mean really hard. So yeah we know ALL the boys not trade. Duh!