[Opinions on Salvador ? + Travelling to Brazil discreetly]

16 hours ago, floridarob said:

I love guys from that area....my first time in Salvador, gawking at all the beautiful airport workers, I figured I had hit the mother load. But when looking in the saunas, only 1 or 2 stood out as ok and the rest nothing special....it seems all the "special ones" I was looking for, go to Rio and SP looking for work.

If you've never been there, definitely go for the sightseeing/touristy things.....maybe you'll find someone for fun too....you never know.

 

be prepared with pics, unless they know you're a whore already, lol

That's a shame, I've heard mixed reviews on Salvador in terms of the guys, so hopefully I get lucky! 

There's something exciting about the roll of a dice 😉

[Opinions on Salvador ? + Travelling to Brazil discreetly]

16 hours ago, macaroni21 said:

You can try saying you're in a long-distance relationship with someone in Brazil.  Boyfriend or girlfriend, take your pick.

That is is the obvious choice, but then I have to provide receipts to family and friends hahaha

[Opinions on Salvador ? + Travelling to Brazil discreetly]

Hello wonderful people,

I'm heading back to Brazil in September for a couple of weeks and was thinking of adding Salvador to the itinery for a few days. I'll be there with a friend.

 

In terms of saunas and online selection is it a decent alternative to the greek gods and gorgeous twinks available in SP and Rio? Or will I leave feeling underwhelmed?

 

I'm aware the demographic is predominantly afro-brazilian which I have no issue with. Beautiful men aside I am genuinely interested in the culture and history of the city.

 

Second question, this will be my 4th trip to Brazil in 2 years as noted by my boss yesterday- yeah awkward I know - . He was genuinely curious in a nice way.

4 times in 2 years may be infrequent to many based on this forum haha, but in the real world people do start asking questions. 'Why is he constantly in Brazil ?' they ask lmao

Obviously 99% of the people I know are completely oblivious to my escapades and the mind blowing selection of mouth watering hunks at cheap prices. 

How does one travel to Brasil semi-frequently without attracting unwanted questions? 

[Almost time for my first trip! Gym question.]

I'm also heading to SP in a couple of weeks. Did you need a CPF to join a gym or is there a pay as you go option for gringos?

[GP turned good friend? Or am I naive?]

49 minutes ago, bcdaron said:

If you don't mind wasting your time and money with a person that puts you in the friend zone then go ahead as you were. I would make it abundantly clear I want more than to be friends. If he is not okay with that then you dodged a bullet. Too many of us play the nice guy that hangs out with the hot person that knows we want to fuck them but are put into the friend zone where we give that person undue attention and they lap it up knowing full well that they have no intention of taking it further. You, oftentimes the hopeless romantic waste time dodding over them while they find ways to get freebies (meals, stays) and attention out of you to boost their ego. The straights call this simping when a guy does it for a girl. DON'T BE A GAY SIMP. 

Besides, if you let this guy stay with you how are you going to be able to give your full attention to guys you can have sex with? Additionally, how can you trust this guy to not rob you? You just met him online and he flaked on you the first time. Too many red flags in my opinion! Don't do it!

Agree 100% , tough words but I needed to hear them , thank u 🥲

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34 minutes ago, Latbear4blk said:

You should apply this to everything about this gentleman.

To answer your question, I agree with the friends before me. Your concern for being in the "friend zone" should pale to how concerned you should be about getting out of the "speculation zone." Talk directly about sharing your bed, your time, what you want to do, and what is expected in return. The worst that can happen is you laugh together at the misunderstanding if your impression of him is correct. 

Noted !!! thank you 🥺

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45 minutes ago, bcdaron said:

If you don't mind wasting your time and money with a person that puts you in the friend zone then go ahead as you were. I would make it abundantly clear I want more than to be friends. If he is not okay with that then you dodged a bullet. Too many of us play the nice guy that hangs out with the hot person that knows we want to fuck them but are put into the friend zone where we give that person undue attention and they lap it up knowing full well that they have no intention of taking it further. You, oftentimes the hopeless romantic waste time dodding over them while they find ways to get freebies (meals, stays) and attention out of you to boost their ego. The straights call this simping when a guy does it for a girl. DON'T BE A GAY SIMP. 

Besides, if you let this guy stay with you how are you going to be able to give your full attention to guys you can have sex with? Additionally, how can you trust this guy to not rob you? You just met him online and he flaked on you the first time. Too many red flags in my opinion! Don't do it!

some harsh truths that I think I needed to hear 😔

[GP turned good friend? Or am I naive?]

hey guys! hope you're well? Sorry for the longish post.

Now I have a bit of a conundrum and didn't really have anyone else to ask so thought i'd post here. All thoughts appreciated!

 

After losing my Brazil viriginity in Feb 2023, I'm heading back at the beginning of November. The land where ths sun is hot and the boys are even hotter!

 

In the run up to my February trip, I struck up coversation with a really sweet GP (online) and the plan was to meet in São Paulo and do the deed.

 

Now this guy is from Brasilia and only comes to SP a couple of times a year for brief stints of work.

 

He is 100% hetero, mid to late 20s, a couple years younger than myself.  Like many Brazilians he is right on the poverty line. He is trying to fund a potential career in bodybuilding/personal training and is in and out of minimum wage jobs at home and lives with his parents.

 

Exactly my type, sweet, friendly, down to earth and built like Hercules, phenomemal chest and nips, nice tattoos and no evidence of significant steroid use.

 

He's built but not ridicuously massive either, right on the sweet spot. We chat on whatsapp/insta every two weeks or so on average.

 

For anyone wondering about potential safety concerns, we have been friends on whatsapp and Instagram since Feb. He has a healthy following, posts alot and seems like a friendly down to earth family boy.

 

He is also quite shy. Im 95% sure he is fine but of course the risk is never zero in Brazil. I do have his pix/cpf too as I have helped him out a fair few times. He has also helped me alot with Portuguese.

 

Now unfortunately we didn't get to meet in Feb as he fell sick but he wants to come back to SP while i'm there and hang out for a few days with me in my apartment before heading home.

 

At one point I had fully accepted I'd been 'friend zoned' and was expecting that he would be staying with someone else in SP but he asked if he could stay with me.

 

I've agreed and will be happy to host him for a few days. As I said before, he is hetero and even though I do lightly flirt with him on occassion, he always defaults to us being Bros or amigos  haha.

 

Like he'll send me a selfie knowing it will get me going, i send a love-struck emoji and he'll send a TMJ emoji (emoji for friends in Brazil) haha but I wonder if this is just because he wants something from me i.e dinheiro haha! Maybe, maybe not. Plus Im wondering if he has been trying to friend zone me since Feb.

 

Have the benefits of a paying client without actually having to do the work HAHA

 

Now I think in his case the Garoto programa thing may have been a one off job as he was desperate for money at the time. He also seems shy and I don't think he has the guts to be a GP but I could well be wrong. And I think If I were to ask him about it Im sure he would say it was just a one off and he no longer does that work.

 

But my question is am I naive/wrong to expect or intiate sex when he stays over. I don't know if that ship has sailed or if I should make a move when he comes. I mean even the thought of seeing him topless in my apartment drives me crazy!! But also I'd rather not be rejected and embarrassed and just keep it friendly if i have to.  

 

I'd rather decide sooner rather than later. If its a No I can emotionally prepare myself in advance and focus on all the other hunks Brazil has to offer. Even if nothing happens I would be happy to keep him as a friend.

All opinions welcome!

[Vou ao Brazil April 2023]

God damn I would kill for a session with Lipe. Maybe one day 😪

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

5 hours ago, numazu said:

Fixed your post title for you:

The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism

Thailand, Colombia, Brazil, Spain, Switzerland etc... The Money Beg™ is a thing. You kind of have to get used to it.

You can avoid all of this with a simple "no".  If they insist, be firmer with the "no". Unless you have soft spot for the guy, I don't think this is an unreasonable response. If they really insist, I archive their chats on WhatsApp to mute them. Out of sight, out of mind.

Early in my Brazil Tourism life I did ask certain GPs why certain guys do this. They say don't take it personally. They've probably have asked money from countless other former johns at the same time as they asked you. Rent is due after all.  Sending these money begs are free for them, and even if only one john replied with a "yes" and sends them the money, then their money beg was worth it.

Trueee....I guess I struggle to get used to how bold  and upfront they are! 

I struggle to ask my friend to buy me a drink if I forget my wallet/phone...I'm that embarrased. I was raised to never borrow money from people.

Maybe if I were in their shoes and only earning a few hundred USDs per month I'd be begging to same extent, they have nothing to lose.

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

6 hours ago, BlkSuperman said:

The guys in SDQ are The ABSOLUTE WORST at constantly texting and asking for money. We even have a few who know we are there and won't come over to make money, but are bold enough to reach out when we get back home on U.S. soil and text saying that their baby needs milk.

Last month one of our MOST RELIABLE HUNG TOPS from SDQ reached out to me while I was at work and asked for money. I VERY POLITELY APOLOGIZED and told him that I didn't have the money to send. 

This guy cursed me from A-Z because I said NO. then he had the audacity to text my husband to ask when he will be returning to SDQ. 

This guy has a HUGE DICK and knows we visit often and that we've been a consistent source of money for him.

He apologized to my husband and asked my husband WOULD YOUR FRIEND FORGIVE ME IF I CUM OVER AND HAVE SEX WITH HIM FOR FREE. 

The guy has one of the BIGGEST DICKS that ive ever seen so of course i said YES. Lol! There's no hope for me.

Pre-covid I had a sexy daddy Dominican who asked for money and I told him I didn't have the money. He sent me a text that read, "ha! Ha! Ha! You stupid American. Do you think you're the only foreigner I can get money from? You're one of 100."

Last year I saw him in the colonial zone while eating. He spoke. I gave him a nod and went into the restaurant. He sat out front until we finished and when we walked out, He asked would I buy him food. I told him after the nasty things he said to me, I wouldn't be able to. 

This happens a lot to the straight guys as well. They actually post the text threads between themselves and the chicas in SDQ asking for money with a sob story.

A friend of mine taught me a trick on whatsapp. Put your privacy settings to where no one can see when you are ON LINE or have read their message. 

That way you can read their message without them knowing and they wont be able to see the last time you were on whatsapp. This way you don't have to feel pressured to respond to their requests for money.

Omg that is crazy!! The audacity....

I guess eventually after days of not responding on whatsapp they'd figure out you're ignoring them, but still a good idea.

Interestingly im yet to have any issues with the brasilian chicas Ive banged..... touch wood.

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

I say all this to say, the fact they are GPs/prostitutes shouldn't be the sole means of defining that individual.

First and foremost they are people with interests, views, hobbies, lives etc just like us. 

But as I said, keeping it transactional is totally fine too if that's what you prefer.

 

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

1 hour ago, scott456 said:

Not sure what traveling solo has anything to do with befriending GPs, and what similar interests they can have with me.  They are GP, ie., prostitutes.  They become friends only if I make that possible.  I don't.  I guess I sound like a snob, but I don't make prostitute friends back home either.  

I think given it was my first trip to Brazil and I was alone I was more open to making friends and building relationships.

Personally, just because someone engages in prostitution it wouldn't necessarily exclude them from being friends with me, especially in Brazil. I think I'm naturally more inclined to building relationships with people if they have positive characteristics and we share similar views and interests.

No, you don't sound snobby, completely understand why some people would want to keep it strictly transactional.

 

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

13 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

Don't be offended. They are trying to survive the best way possible.

Some of them are very sincere. I have two guys I met 20 years back and still friends with and have seen in different countries and they have never asked for money. But, the fact they were able to leave Brazil, tells you they are smart and motivated.

I once had a guy give me sob story about all his money I left him not to work until I return was stolen at gunpoint. I asked him how the bank was doing with the armed robbery and I didn't read anything about it in the paper. He was confused until he remembered I took him to the bank and deposited it for him instead of giving him cash. Oh, well, good try.

 

Exactly this is where I feel bad. Most are just trying to survive, in any way they can.

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

2 hours ago, asdsrfr said:

It's always hard to know what is genuinely a need or what is the need in their mind. I love the Dominican Republic(as well as Brazil). In my mind --and I really hesitate to characterize-- the Dominicans seem to have the least trouble looking for a handout.  For sure things are not easy there. On the other hand their concept of need sometimes means being able to live like their cousins or family in Miami who have managed to get a visa. I know one guy there who pleaded with me to bring him the latest iPhone  because his phone  wasn't working. I politely declined. When I got there he had a newer, larger phone than I did and it worked just fine. He sort of laughed when I called him on it. He asks me for money constantly sending me pictures of an empty refrigerator--but I am over it. In another instance I met a guy in the beach in the DR one evening. We chatted briefly and exchanged Facebook links, I had no interest in sex. The next day I got a message saying he had lost his phone and could I buy him a new one. By contrast the lower to middle class Brazilians (non sexual) I have met have never asked for a cent and are just grateful to see me and hang out. Of course I compensate the guys in the sauna appropriately.

This is so accurate man! Not even lying I've had the picture of the empty fridge too 😂 And a request for a Iphone!  🤣

For me its the lies and sob stories..why lie? I'd have more time if they said straight up 'things are tough right now can you spare anything?'.

The stories they tell are book worthy lol 

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

17 minutes ago, scott456 said:

I don't ask for GP's phone number, and I always delete or block them if they voluntarily give it to me.  I am not looking for anything more than paid sex service.

Understandable, that would make life easier I guess.

But in some cases, for me at least, a GP can unintentionally become a friend, especially where we have similar interests and you're travelling solo.

Note, I only keep the numbers of people I genuinely like. If I've been forced into giving my number I do as you said.

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

1 hour ago, speedoo1 said:

Receive that all the time (Colombia/D R/ Brazil/Thailand). Most will accept a polite "No/sorry".

If you start wiring money you will get endless requests for help later on from the guy. Been there done that.

It's a slippery slope bro 🙈 I'm learning the hard way!

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

3 hours ago, floridarob said:

Good thing I don't throw off a rich guy vibe, actually the opposite. In all my years I've had maybe 3 or 4 requests for money, which I replied "No"....they said ok.

I'm sure they have a long list of clients to hit up and don't want to waste time with me.

They don't do programas free.....

Wow really!!? That's impressive. I don't think I throw off a 'rich guy' vibe as you put it, at least not intentionally.

 

I think the mere fact you're in Brazil as a tourist from the UK/USA/AUS etc indicates, to them at least,  that you have some level of disposable income to which they feel entitled.

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

11 hours ago, mixer17 said:

Making a connection with the a GP can both be a good a bad thing.   They can develop a stickiness that is often not very attractive (not all, some endearing).  I make it quite clear that my life in Brazil is completely separate to my life at home.  I simply will not reply when it the messaging gets too heavy.  

Guess I need to take a leaf out your book, though I always feel really guilty ignoring whatsapp messages. But maybe it's the only way to get the point across here.

[The Begging Culture of Brasilian Sex Tourism]

 

1 month on from Brazil, I often find myself reminiscing and flicking through my collection of Iphone photos. It almost feels like a dream.

 

That said, whilst I am no longer in Brazil, the hustle for my hard-earned cash appears to have continued. I decided to keep my back-up phone in the end as I've made some useful contacts (friends, garotos, associates and everything in between) and want to keep my escapades in Brazil separate.  I also fear the unlikely but possible scenario of a work colleague perousing the whatsapp thumbnail of a shirtless Brazilian hunk.

 

All that said, I've had several requests for financial 'ajuda' from several Brasilians now, often accompanied with some sob story. Initially I obliged and thought nothing of it,  but now it's really becoming quite tiresome and dare I say starting to leave a sour taste. Am I naive to hope most of it is genuine? Thankfully it's yet to put me off returning LOL!

 

Part of me sympathises, inflation is rampant in Brazil and to call the minimum wage appaling would be complimentary. Maybe I would be the same if I were in their shoes?

 

Can anyone else relate? Or should I accept that most relationships in Brazil, as far as sex tourism is concerned, are merely transactional.

[Sao Paulo - Report Feb 2023]

10 minutes ago, Lucky said:

@KJ1993 Sorry that I had to stop reading what looks like an interesting report. May I suggest that you break up those long paragraphs? White space is good, especially for geezers like me who get lost without it.

The words just run together.

I think I accidentally deleted my spaces when posting! Sorry!! Will remember for next time.

[Sao Paulo - Report Feb 2023]

6 hours ago, floridarob said:

Very good review, you became well versed after 1 trip , did this board help you prepare at all?

The slamming uber car doors is too funny, my friend that I travel with a lot is known to slam doors and I make it a point to say something when we get in and the driver immediately agrees with me, making my friend feel like an ass.... So my sarcasm/arrogance isn't only on this board, it's worse in real life 😝

This forum has been an invaluable resource, thank you!!! It was only right that I gave something back to hopefully help others in the same way 😊

Lol I do love a good Brazilian Uber story haha!

 

[Sao Paulo - Report Feb 2023]

4 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

You did a very good job for a first time visit to São Paulo, all things considered.

But please, for the love of God, don’t take the huge risk of visiting a stranger’s / garoto’s home / apartment ever again. I’m glad that, against all odds, it worked out for you, though. But I can fill up this page with true stories in Latin / South America / Caribbean where this ended up poorly or worse yet, deadly. 

I couldn't agree with you more and appreciate your concern. In hindsight I had some regretful lapses in judgement. 100% won't be making the same mistakes twice!

[Sao Paulo - Report Feb 2023]

11 hours ago, Riobard said:

Glad you packed a lot in (teehee) within such a short time. Nice account. Just a few minor comments, though you are hardly hard up for self-efficacy. 

I am quite sure who your ‘Hercules’ is and the rate was likely somewhat higher than could be had. Not to cast aspersions, but this may have been partly an artefact of the middleman brokering and your initial hesitancy. Also, when at Lagoa recently I noted, though been there dozens of times, that the suites were 55 (or 60?) minutes; hence, programas almost rounded up to an hour. IDK why this contrast with Rio (ie, usually 30 minutes) did not draw my attention before; perhaps because I typically book an hour at any venue because I find 25 minutes too rushed. In any case, I suppose a price differential might be built in to this time difference and defies a head to head (teehee) comparison. That said, I have volunteered up to 300 for the hour with some GdePs, particularly when underspending budget due to disappointing selection, and I don’t obsess much over cash. 

A word to the wise viz João and Lipe. While gogos at Lagoa are slippery in terms of getting even a few words exchanged, both of these fellows dance regularly at Hot House where interaction between their sets is much easier to pin down, ie, with a view to chasing a date. João, unfortunately has been beset with steroidal acne, so Thomas Harris’ Buffalo Bill’s previously keen interest has waned.

I think your aspersions are correct lol. Looking back, the addition of the wingman did likely the raise the cost somewhat! Not that I'm complaing hehehe.

 

Re Joao and Lipe, thanks for the tips. Will endeavour to check out Hot House next time! Shame about the acne but for me Joao remains the exception to my 'excessive steroids' rule. I could never turn him down 😋

[Sao Paulo - Report Feb 2023]

Hi guys,

I'm on the plane heading back to London with 11 hours to kill so thought I'd use the time to share my thoughts on my first ever trip to Brasil. I hope it proves useful to someone who may soon be going for the first time, or anyone who cares to read it. Sorry if it's a bit long-winded but feel free to stop reading if you lose interest haha! For context I spent 5 days in SP and 4 days in Rio. Consider this trip an early 30th birthday present to myself lol.

Sao Paulo

Arriving in Guarulhous was straight-forward and without issue. Despite countless Taxi offers, I couldn't resist paying 4.40 reals for a train ticket to downtown Paulista. Plus the weather was great and I got to see the surroundings. FYI, the ticket offices for the metro only take cash or Brazilian debit cards. On average Brazilians are much better looking than your average westerner (no offence) and within an hour of landing I was already drooling over some heavenly specimens. l don't know if its the genes, the food, the weather, the mix of indingenous cultures or all of the above, but they"re clearly doing something right. Alot of Brazilians also seem to have very good teeth, both natural and veneers.

After checking in to my airbnb in Avenida Paulista, I took a shower and explored the local surroundings. In the sunshine Paulista Avenue really is a sight to behold. I'd made prior arrangements with a hunk from garotolocal, potentially risky I know, but along with all the positive reviews and the security measures at the Airbnb I decided to go for it. Despite not having any issues myself, I would recommend sticking to saunas initially until you have some trustworthy connections. A few Brazilians here told me about the potential risks of using sites, even trusted ones. If you must use sites, check reviews, instagram, only fans, etc for evidence of an online presence. I booked an airbnb that was ok with visitors so I would have no awkward issues. Being super paranoid, I also removed any potentially dangerous items out of sight - sharp cooking utensils, irons, broomsticks etc I would also recommend hiding your passport and other belongings or putting them in a safe if available. I also let the garoto know beforehand that the apartement has security and is full of cameras for both our protection just in case they try anything dodgy. Security out of the way,  Mr X arrives. Beautifully proportioned muscular frame with tanned caramel skin, arms and pecs bulging through his tight army tshirt. He was perfect for me as I'm into muscle but not overblown steroid-type muscle e.g. Simeon Panda or The Rock etc. He slowly removes his shirt to expose the perfect amount of chest fuzz before moving closer to touch me, what a sight to behold. I won't go into the nitty gritty but let's just say it was a good first night haha. To make it even better, he accepts card! FYI the Pound  GBP £ goes a veryyy long way here, I think it's around 6 reais to 1. And that's with the pound being weak at the minute. I would highly recommend Chase banking as they guarantee the mastercard rate of exchange on all card payments, as well as 1% cashback on all purchases, no withdrawal fees either although some Brazilian banks will charge you a small amount. Also FYI, if you're going to be 'passivo', make sure its clean down there as I've noticed a fair few Brazilian GPs have a habit of checking the condom after sex haha. Brazilians in general tend to be very clean and hygienic, the ones I came across at least. All of them to smell great and use mouthwash etc, especially if they smoke.

The next day after doing a few touristy bits, I decided to head to Lagoa. If you're a foody and enjoy the arts, culture, restaurants, bars, museums etc then you really cannot beat SP.  I enjoy sex but it wasn't the only reason for my visit to Brasil. Beyond Paulisita, SP is not the most aesthetically pleasing city but its full of charm and has something unique to do around every corner. I wouldn't have it any other way. Check out Ibirapuera park on a satuday morning/afternoon to see lots of white topless, hunky, sweaty middle-class brasilians going for a morning run lmao.

I was really nervous heading into Lagoa as I'd never been to any kind of sauna before and had no idea what to expect. I got changed into a towel and began to explore. At first it wasn't explicity obvious to me who was a GP and who wasn't (except for the guys stroking their dicks in a corner for all to see). Without trying to brag - I promise  - I am in pretty decent shape and was approached by guys who either thought I was a GP, or they knew I was a client like them but wanted to try their luck regardless. And to be fair, there were some sexy customers too! Next tip, as you probably know, learn some portuguese before you come here, at least the basics. Ideally, invest in a language course, I definitely will get some lessons before my next trip. I can't emphasise this enough, especially for emergencies as google translate may not always be available, nor will it always be safe to pull your phone out. English really does not cut it here in around 85% of situations. I am by no means fluent but I spent about 3 weeks beforehand learning the basics. I do speak French so this was a massive help in terms of vocab and sentence structure etc, lots of words are very similar. Knowing Spanish is better than knowing English, but again invest in learning portuguese. Plus, I get the vibe Brazilians don't really like it when you expect them to speak Spanish - so yeah, learn Portuguese. It will also make your experience 10x more enjoyable. In terms of Lagoa, due to previous posts on here I had lowered my expectations. However as it was my first time I had nothing to compare it to and went with an open mind. I was pleasantly surprised, there was a mix of everything from muscular brazilian jocks, to bodybuilders on steroids to athletic swimmer body guy next door types, to slim twinks. There really was something for everyone. If you're into pure muscle then it doesn't beat 117 in Rio (will discuss Rio in a separate post hopefully) but you'll still find a few decent studs here to make it worthwhile. I am quite shy and had no intention of approaching anyone. The best I could muster was a smile and an extended gaze when walking past someone hot. I got myself a drink and made my way upstairs and awkwardly sat in a small side area where some straight porn was playing on a big-screen TV. One or two average GPs approached but I politely declined. Then after about 15 minutes, I made eye contact with a stunning muscular beauty, dark brown maroon skin, about 6 ft 2, looks around 25 - 30 years old, abs with some fur that could literally grate cheese, beefy pecs that you could squeeze and kiss for eternity, perfectly proportioned arms - amazing. For me this was the peak of muscular beauty - not too steroidy - just right. My absolute limit would be Joao Humberto, the gogo dancer who frequents Lagoa, even though he is clearly juicing I still find him insanely sexy. After making eye contact with the guy and smiling, he smiles back and comes to sit next to me. He doesn't actually say anything initially for about 2 minutes. I work out that we're both quite shy. After a couple of minutes he speaks.... 'how are you doing?'... in English. Either he knows I'm a foreigner or he's overheard me speaking broken portuguese somewhere in the sauna lmao. We chat for around 5 minutes with a mix of basic english, portuguese and google translate. Then the moment of truth, he starts bouncing his bulging pecs and asks me if I like what I see. I was sold at this point and there was no going back. This guy is very smooth. Some Brazilians guys really are naturally very charming. He is top and asks for 200 reals. I agree without hesitation and we make our way to a room. Again I'll leave the nitty gritty to your imagination but lets just say he took my number and we had another a session the following day haha Brazil really is amazing! After the session he heads home as he has a fair way to go. I go back to the bar feeling a bit more relaxed. I'm approached by an athletic mixed guy, not my type at all but he's persistent and I'm happy to entertain his chat. Btw I am being deliberately vague as to the personal details of the guys purely out of respect and their discretion. Long story short, me and the guy end up chatting for about an hour like two old friends. We're of a similar age and have similar interests. He's actually straight and only does sauna work to help support his family. I tell him that we're buddies and a programa isn't going to happen but I give him some money to help him out with some personal things. We exchange numbers and he becomes my defacto tour guide of SP over the next few days. He even drives me to a (straight) whorehouse in downtown Republica, very seedy lol. Be very careful if you go to Republica in the evening, or even getting into cars of unknown people. I took a risk here. I hate labels but if we have to use one, you could call me bisexual. We both enjoy the same girl at the brothel for only 40 reais each. A cute carioca from Rio with a big bunda (ass)! Another word of caution, especially in the context of GPs both inside and outside the sauna, they will always have a sob story and will continue to beg for your financial aid. It did become really onerous (especially in Rio) so just be careful and don't let people take advantage of you. I had to block one or two GPs from Rio because the begging just got more and more ridiculous, not to mention rude. It was clear they were only interested in money. A part of me feels sorry for them as life is tough over there. I went to a friend's place in Ipanema and his living conditions honestly broke my heart. I believe he was paying alot per month for the luxury of a shoe-box room with a shared bathroom and toilet. Tbf the view of Ipanema beach was great. I'm told by Brazilians that the average monthtly salary in Brazil is around 1000 to 1500 reals for blue collar work, and around 3000 reals for a working professional. Lots of them seem to have side hustles to supplement their income. From a money perspective we in the west sometimes don't realise just how fortunate we are.  On the other hand, there is a correct way of asking for things - to be clear I have no issue helping out GPs in genuine need if it's done with respect and good grace - don't take the piss and try to take advantage of me. Any decent GP asking for money outside of their services will do so respectfully and is often embarrased to ask. They'll often say something like 'i'd appreciate anything you can help me with for X reason etc' 
 In terms of GPs, I made some amazing new connections/friends in Brazil but only a small minority of these are not underpinned by a financial dynamic.  Yes you can get free sex online, at bars, beaches etc but obviously its way more effort and is not guaranteed. Furthermore, I am told (by Brazilians) that Grindr in Brazil is becoming increasingly dangerous so again be careful using it.

The following day and another trip to Lagoa - after some more touristy stuff. This time I've got my GP buddy with me as a wingman haha. Obviously I will tip him lol. Today I take a seat in the bar and watch some football (soccer) on the big screen upstairs. Brazil's under 21s are playing. I nip downstairs quickly to check something in my locker when I see the most delicious slice of white Brazilian hunk known to man. About 6 ft 1, massive shoulders, pecs, arms, creamy white skin and big full juicy red nipples, no signs of steroid use, what more could you ask for? His face isn't the best in the world but for that body I honestly don't care. We make brief eye contact but he seems to be chatting to another client. For now, he is the only guy on my radar. It's about 9pm and a few minutes later I see him putting his clothes back on in the changing room, my heart sinks as I think he's leaving. I head back upstairs to meet my GP buddy who seems to be struggling for clients recently. I tell him about the GP downstairs and he jets off to try and help me out. A few minutes later, my buddy comes back with the white hunk who could rival Hercules himself, my heart is racing. 'Obrigao irmao' I whisper to my wingman and tip him 50Reals. Hercules pulls me to one side and begins to chat in portuguese, I do my best to understand him but google translator is definitely needed. After brief small talk, I ask him how much he wants. '300?' he replies. I was hoping for less but no way was I about to negociate with this hunk and risk losing him. I agree and we head off to a cabin. The sex is decent, not amazing but it  fulfills my fantasy of the hunky white personal trainer at the gym I've always wanted to bang. He's also a good kisser, as are all the Brazilian guys Ive been with, even the ones who are straight/Bi/top only etc. After a steamy session he tells me about his life and we discuss the gap between rich and poor in Brazil. He asks me if I'll be back tomorrow to which I reply 'yeah I should be' even though I was undecided at that point.
We bid each other farewell and he leaves Lagoa for the night. After my encounter with Hercules, My GP buddy comes back to greet me. I thank him again for helping me out and we have a chat about gogo boys. He says it is possible to get one if you know the right people and he seems to be confident he can arrange it for me if the specific gogo boy was at the sauna. Other GPs also told me that gogo dancers are available for programas if approached discreetly and in the right way, but it goes without saying you will pay more. I did try contacting one or two on instagram but they have so many followers it's tricky getting them to even see your message. Alas, my dream of bedding Joao Humberto or Lipe remains alive, hopefully next time now that I have my wingman and some new tips.

The following day, I'm all sexed out and I needed to get Ready for Rio. A GP/friend (a guy from a site i'd met a couple days ago for a quick session - yes risky I know) invited me to his place to smoke some weed in Vila Madalena. Under no circumstances would I ever suggest going back to a guy's place in Brazil unless you are 100% sure you know them well, especially in light of recent events at 117 in Rio. In hindsight this was probably a lapse of judgement but ironically this GP is now one of my few genuine friends where money doesn't dictate our relationship. He did have ID the first time I saw him and has a stable job, after sex we ended up speaking like old friends for hours. I trusted him somewhat then but now I trust him completely and we've made plans to travel to other parts of Brazil together next time. But I reiterate, under no circumstances should you go back to a guy's place unless you are 100% sure they can be trusted or you know them very well. It's just not worth taking the risk. Furthermore, make sure their building has security cameras and a concierge. I'm not really a smoker, but we had some weed at his place, some drinks and a bit of foreplay all before I headed off to the coach station to catch a bus to Rio!

Another word of caution, there are young guys on Avenida Paulista riding around on bicyles stealing phones, bags, hats etc. I saw it happen to a gringo right outside Mcdonalds so be sure to keep your valuables out of sight and secure. I used a fanny pack which works pretty well. If you really need to use your phone, e.g. to check on an uber etc - do it quickly and keep your wits about you, ideally go into a shop, restaurant, shopping area etc. If none of these are nearby then stand up against a wall so you have no blindspots. You will get into the habit of being careful with your phone in Brazil. It's such a contrast to London or other big western cities where you can safely be on your phone at every given moment in practically any given location. Most places take card but I would recommend having some cash to hand, especially because ATM/cash machines in SP are few and far between and they tend to close around 8pm (the ones inside the banks). Also most GPs only take Cash or PIX ( a Brazilian money transfer service which only Brasilians can use). Lastly, unless you want to destroy your Uber rating, don't slam the Uber doors lmao. The Ubers are also dirttt cheap out there.

To sum up, I had a blast in SP and will defo be back either this year or early next year God willing. I hope somebody finds this report useful, when I get some time I will try and do one for Rio. Currently waiting for a connecting flight to London in Lisboa, damn they have some seriously hot Portuguese immigration officers here haha.