jeremy

Grindr is great in Bangkok... I made so many plans for visiting massage spas before my first time back in Thailand after many years in June 2023. No plans were needed as either free sex or (mostly) paid sex was plentiful off Grindr. I'm 50 and a bottom. I'm not really into ladyboys, so I'm not sure about them. As for the paid hook ups it was pretty nearly always 2500 baht for two hours-ish for sucking and fucking, but I seemed to be finding an even bigger cocked guy each time, which I guess was my idea, and never lasted the two hours! I was blown away by Thailand in my two trips last year...

The Ibis Styles Silom is no problem bringing guests in. Just have to meet them at the ground floor to take back up the elevator to your room. Never had any of my visitors pulled up, questioned or glanced at all to my knowledge. But be careful - one guy I had back to my room had taken something before he arrived and started tripping in my room. I managed to get rid of him after about an hour singing and making weird noises in the shower. That's an experience I would prefer not to have again...

Hi all, Just wondering if anyone has experience with the current or recent cruising scene in Manila? There are plenty of videos around of CR (comfort room) and park cruising on various porn sites and also on twitter but they don't usually give the location and sites like cruisinggays and utopia-asia list quite a few but I know from other places that the listings are often outdated... Thanks!

I've been doing some research for my upcoming trip to manila in June and found a huge range in prices for massage guys and their "ES" which I think means extra service?!? On the explore function of Grindr I have found a few young guys who say they are straight but will get sucked and fuck for 1000 PHP plus transport and then I have contacted outcall massage spas like Greenappleboys and DreamboyzSpa that have quoted me 3500 PHP not including transport for up to 2 hours and then a few of the "masahistas" on Twitter who are quoting 5000 PHP for 6hrs of massage and fun... A couple of other places have quoted 1000 PHP for the booking, transport and massage and then negotiate in the hotel room with the guy for whatever extras are desired... That sounds a bit risky to me especially as I usually skip the massage entirely and go straight for sex (I'm bottom). I have become familiar with the Bangkok massage and money boy scene after two trips there last year, but I have never been to the Philippines. Prior to going to Bangkok for the first time last year I contacted a few of the massage spas around Silom and Saphan Kwai to book guys to come to my hotel but then found it totally unnecessary after arriving and being flooded with messages on Grindr. I am wondering if it will turn out to be the same in Manila or if I should keep busy making contacts before I arrive? I have also looked at hotels and noted suggestions from here for the Holiday Inn and Dusit Thani as being good places to bring guys back to the hotel room without complications, but are there any that anyone knows of that are bit smaller but still provide some degree of anonymity, ie not having to greet reception every time you pass? Many thanks!

I was in Bangkok again recently and in between adventures in my hotel room at Ibis Styles Silom with guys I have met on previous visits and new guys, I made a few journeys around the city and once visited an old theatre in Saphan Kwai (Google Phahon or Saphan Kwai Theatre) that I had read about. It is at the end of a Soi pretty much opposite the Big C on Phahon Yothin Road. Quite by accident I visited on the Father's Day public holiday. Entry was 100 baht. First let me say it is bloody hot in the theatre except for a few air conditioners that provided some relief from the heat when standing right underneath them, yet some guys walk around in there in jackets! When I arrived there were a few guys hanging around but I couldn't see much as I stumbled around in the dark. Best off finding the nearest seat and waiting for your eyes to adjust before stumbling around as there are stairs everywhere... While my eyes adjusted I bumped into a couple of hot looking (from what little I could see) young guys who were happy to let me suck them. I think they were together and vasnished after they cum. Once my eyes had adjusted I couldn't believe what I saw ... a huge theatre with hundreds of seats playing mainstream movies (and some softcore straight porn too) and easily over a hundred guys sitting in the chairs sucking and fucking and others walking around the edges of the theatre hooking up in pairs, threesomes and much more. I have been to the 357 Sauna in Sydney a few times and spent the whole time drooling, and although the guys in this theatre weren't naked they were pretty nearly all 20s and 30s and most very fit looking and to me at least it was like paradise... There was cock everywhere and beautiful smooth bodies and most of the guys seemed to be tops with a few bottoms taking it with many guys looking on and touching. I have never seen anything like it... There were a couple of other foreigners there, but so few of us compared to Thais (and maybe others) that we paid each other no mind. Most of the guys there seemed shy to initiate action and it usually took several passes and glances and then a touch to get something started. I ended my visit after a guy with just about the biggest cock I have had took my hand and led me over to some seats and we had a very vigorous sucking session. I am pretty much a total bottom so the activity ended up with me drenched in sweat (and some other fluid) and totally exhausted and I was done for the day. We exchanged Line ID intending for him to visit me at the hotel, but he had to go to Chiang Mai for a few days and we missed out... next time! As I said before, I have never seen anything like that place and I would love to go back there again sometime. If that kind of venue might interest you, then I definitely recommend giving it a look in! I'd love to hear about others' experiences there too if you have been there... 🙏🍆

I was in Bangkok for nine days in June 2023 and used Grindr to hook up with guys, mostly freelance massage / money boys. I used my Line QR code as my display pic on Grindr and have had many guys add me to their Line accounts and make contact through Line since then. I also use the Explore function on Grindr and send messages to guys in Bangkok (in Thai if their profile or bio is in Thai) who I might like to meet and tell them my next arrival date, area I'm staying and what I am looking for, again with my Line ID or QR code (but I don't make any references to money as that will get me banned). I follow the X / Twitter pages of massage shops and massage boy review pages and comment in Thai on some of the posts if I like the look of the guy. I put my Line ID in my X / Twitter profile too. I used Google Translate to begin with but then learned how to read and write most Thai script and now I can recognise the Thai words and phrases that I need to get me to massage / money boys on Grindr or X / Twitter fairly quickly - it definitely helps!... I started off with 16 Line contacts in June and now I have 134 contacts, around 50 keep in regular contact asking when I am coming back to Bangkok. Massage / money boys often use the words "รับงาน" (accepting work) on Grindr but usually broken up in various ways to try to get past the ban on commercial use. I also search X / Twitter (on Google) for the same words "รับงาน" together with "Twitter Bangkok" or "กรุงเทพฯ" (Bangkok) and find some that way. I joined a Line group I was invited to by a MB I met in June and scored a lot of contacts from that before it closed. A guy who hooks up with and takes some really hot video with some BKK massage boys is on Twitter / X at @Gom81840463 or @nubfan44_ or @ninezew or @Tk07659237. Quite a few of the guys in his videos I recognise from the Twitter pages of massage shops and he sometimes adds a link to the shop the guy is from in his post. A few of the guys have added me on Line and I am happy to have them come to my hotel when I am in BKK rather than go to their shop. Pretty much all of the guys I am in contact with ask for 1500 to 2500 baht for one to two hours for a hotel hook up that includes their travel costs. I'm headed back to BKK next month for two weeks, and I am drooling at the thought of those delicious Thai cocks that I am mostly starved of in Sydney!

I used Grindr when I was in BKK in June and had plenty of messages. I usually moved across to Line to continue conversations with prospective hook ups...

Hi all. I am travelling to Manila for two weeks in June 2024. Could anyone recommend a hotel in the Makati area or thereabouts that is set up to allow for (money and non-money) guys to be taken back to my room without raising too many eyebrows? And any suggestions for a 50yo white bottom to find young tops (20s) on the apps or cruising or some other method to have their way with me would be appreciated too! Thanks!

Lots of passionate comments on here about money boys. I pretty much only met money boys (all on Grindr) when I was in Thailand in May-June 2023 (mainly because I was too lazy to put in an effort) and I will probably meet money boys again during another two week stint in BKK in December 2023.... Out of the several money boys I met, only one or two were not stunning to my eyes (I walk around the streets in BKK in awe of how beautiful most Thai guys are.) Only one of the guys made it obvious that he didn't like me and only that one really FELT like it was a transaction. With each guy we agreed on a price before meeting and they seemed to base that on what we were doing more than the time spent. The guys were all very easy going and a handful stayed for hours chatting in bed afterwards and never asked for extra. I was asked by a few of the guys if i wanted to go out with them at night, but I didn't. I regret not doing that and may do in December if the opportunity presents again. I would never dream of looking down on any of the guys I met, even if two have asked for money since I left Thailand (I didn't send it.) They were perfect for me at the time, most seemed like really nice guys, a few still chat with me on Line as I am learning Thai now and I can see potential friendships into the future, which is great especially if I may one day move to Thailand...

I've read a few guys on here have booked a massage boy prior to arriving at the massage shop. When I have tried to reserve a guy the shops send me this Bangkok Bank Pay QR code but I can't use it without a Thai bank account. Is there some other way? I have asked shops on Line, but not really received an answer. Thanks.

I was in Bangkok last month and MBs I met were 2000-2500 baht for about hour though none were clock watchers and more than a few stayed for a chat in bed for quite a while after, which was nice. I found my hookups on Grindr. Heading back in December for two weeks and may try out a few bars and spas and cruising as well!

I haven't been to Pattaya... do you recommend it? I also sent you a private message to ask you about your experiences in Manila... 🙏

There was only one guy I met that i didn't particularly and that was probably more because i sensed he didn't like me but got the job done anyway. The others didn't feel like they were doing a job even though I paid and seemed like very nice guys, which was nice.

Line ID is tawanbangkok and twitter is MassageTawan, but they havent updated for a while so not sure if there may be new Line / Twitter...

I liked the Ibis Styles. It was in a good central location for getting Grab to wherever I wanted to explore around the city, there were plenty of street food vendors and malls very nearby to satisfy whatever you want to eat (typical for Asia in my experience and something I miss when I am in Australia.) It is a busy hotel and the reception is pretty much attending to guests arriving / departing from very early to very late. None of my several visitors were ever checked, but because the elevators / floors are secure I needed to meet each guy at the bottom of the lifts and then take them back up to my room. It was interesting to see one of my first MBs getting onto the lift with another customer at the same time as I was collecting an new MB. Strange experience that was. But the MB was incredibly hot and I had him back several times anyway, including to watch him fucking another guy. Just thinking about it I am suffering severe withdrawal symptoms, I enjoyed my trip so much. I'm already booked for another 10 days in December, and really looking forward to it. Seriously thinking about retiring to Bangkok!