TomSmithTop

I had huge fun with Grindr recently in New York.

I like to set up threesomes / parties with escorts, usually to have at least one hung top join me in tag teaming a hot twink / twunk. 

The other night I brought over to my hotel a jacked, hung Venezuelan top whose profile I saw on RM. But the twinks I invited to join us kept flaking out and ghosting me (you know how unreliable they can be, lol.) It was getting late, and a lot of the RM bottoms I was reaching were living half an hour away from midtown Manhattan, so they didn't work logistically. So my Venezuelan friend and I turned to Grindr to find some much needed relief.

Around 4am we spotted two hot twinks, one a hot Colombian lad and another a spectucular 19 year old Brazilian twink, who is studying in NYC. We invited them over, letting them know what they scene was, and they both eagerly came right away from nearby. A wicked hot foursome ensued for a couple of hours. The Colombian was a little disengaged, but his sweet smooth ass compensated for that. The Brazilian twink was just insatiable. Legitimately loved being dominated by daddy (me). Best kisser I've ever been with. And surprisingly him seemed much more interested in me than the hot Venezuelan scort, which was a big ego boost to say the least!

In the past I have always gone through escorts rather than Grindr because I imagined Grindr was a nasty judgemental world where young guys wouldn't give any thought to hooking up with a 50 something daddy. But boy did this experience prove me wrong, although I suspect the pics of my Venezuelan stud's huge dick and hot body was the magnet that brought them over to start with.

Neither of the twinks asked for or expected any payment, just a good time.

Anyway, it turned out to be legit one of the hottest nights I've ever had! Will definitely be trying this tactic in the future, i.e. pairing up with a hot score to attract younger guys on Grindr looking for a daddy experience. 

I’m thinking of renting a suite there to host a couple of group sessions. My plan is to bring in some GPs, and see if any of the regular clients want to join in. Will report back.

Actually, I have gone through all of the posts, and can’t find anything here with that information, which is why I asked.
 
I seem to recall that a long time ago a previous version of this site had a pinned message that outlined all the basics. I completely respect that this is run by volunteers, but perhaps dumb questions like mine (lol) could be minimized if there was a basic “how to” post pinned at the top of each subject. 
 
Just my two bits. 😊

I had huge fun with Grindr recently in New York.

I like to set up threesomes / parties with escorts, usually to have at least one hung top join me in tag teaming a hot twink / twunk. 

The other night I brought over to my hotel a jacked, hung Venezuelan top whose profile I saw on RM. But the twinks I invited to join us kept flaking out and ghosting me (you know how unreliable they can be, lol.) It was getting late, and a lot of the RM bottoms I was reaching were living half an hour away from midtown Manhattan, so they didn't work logistically. So my Venezuelan friend and I turned to Grindr to find some much needed relief.

Around 4am we spotted two hot twinks, one a hot Colombian lad and another a spectucular 19 year old Brazilian twink, who is studying in NYC. We invited them over, letting them know what they scene was, and they both eagerly came right away from nearby. A wicked hot foursome ensued for a couple of hours. The Colombian was a little disengaged, but his sweet smooth ass compensated for that. The Brazilian twink was just insatiable. Legitimately loved being dominated by daddy (me). Best kisser I've ever been with. And surprisingly him seemed much more interested in me than the hot Venezuelan scort, which was a big ego boost to say the least!

In the past I have always gone through escorts rather than Grindr because I imagined Grindr was a nasty judgemental world where young guys wouldn't give any thought to hooking up with a 50 something daddy. But boy did this experience prove me wrong, although I suspect the pics of my Venezuelan stud's huge dick and hot body was the magnet that brought them over to start with.

Neither of the twinks asked for or expected any payment, just a good time.

Anyway, it turned out to be legit one of the hottest nights I've ever had! Will definitely be trying this tactic in the future, i.e. pairing up with a hot score to attract younger guys on Grindr looking for a daddy experience. 

thanks for writing such detailed posts

Brazil is a magical place where mature dogs are able to have their day frequently.
In my completely unscientific estimation, if I went to Steamworks in Chicago this weekend there is about a 10% to 20% chance of me being invited to do “gay stuff” with a hot 22 year old in the dry sauna whereas if I go back to Hotel Chilli in SP I’d say the odds increase to about 80% or 90%.

I went in a couple months ago in October and had an amazing time.  There are no GPs and basic Portuguese is very useful.

Anyone have experience with this place?  https://www.hotelchilli.com.br

Apart from https://www.olimposbr.com are there any good sites for Brazilian GPs?
Given the number of working guys (or more broadly guys who will work,) I’m always surprised by how few advertise online in Brazil. I’m pretty sure there are more Brazilians listed on Hunqz / RM in London UK then I can find listed on sites in Brazil! What’s up with that?? 

I had huge fun with Grindr recently in New York.

I like to set up threesomes / parties with escorts, usually to have at least one hung top join me in tag teaming a hot twink / twunk. 

The other night I brought over to my hotel a jacked, hung Venezuelan top whose profile I saw on RM. But the twinks I invited to join us kept flaking out and ghosting me (you know how unreliable they can be, lol.) It was getting late, and a lot of the RM bottoms I was reaching were living half an hour away from midtown Manhattan, so they didn't work logistically. So my Venezuelan friend and I turned to Grindr to find some much needed relief.

Around 4am we spotted two hot twinks, one a hot Colombian lad and another a spectucular 19 year old Brazilian twink, who is studying in NYC. We invited them over, letting them know what they scene was, and they both eagerly came right away from nearby. A wicked hot foursome ensued for a couple of hours. The Colombian was a little disengaged, but his sweet smooth ass compensated for that. The Brazilian twink was just insatiable. Legitimately loved being dominated by daddy (me). Best kisser I've ever been with. And surprisingly him seemed much more interested in me than the hot Venezuelan scort, which was a big ego boost to say the least!

In the past I have always gone through escorts rather than Grindr because I imagined Grindr was a nasty judgemental world where young guys wouldn't give any thought to hooking up with a 50 something daddy. But boy did this experience prove me wrong, although I suspect the pics of my Venezuelan stud's huge dick and hot body was the magnet that brought them over to start with.

Neither of the twinks asked for or expected any payment, just a good time.

Anyway, it turned out to be legit one of the hottest nights I've ever had! Will definitely be trying this tactic in the future, i.e. pairing up with a hot score to attract younger guys on Grindr looking for a daddy experience. 

@TomSmithTop  Brush up on your dance moves and learn the difference between salsa caleña and other forms. They take it very seriously.
There are free salsa classes in Parque del perro nightly during the festival starting around 6pm-ish (hora colombiana) the crowd will build during the evening. Its a very social atmosphere and you will get to meet locals and tourists.
The gay spots are almost all in barrio Grenada. Things start late in Cali with most clubs filling up after midnight.  The party spills out into the street, so just walking around the barrio will give you plenty of eye candy and cruising -- which seems to be a favourite pastime in Cali.  If you are really adventurous and love the club scene, the party moves to discotecas in barrio Manga or Carrera 66 after 2am when the Granada bars close.
As mentioned above, the saunas in centro will be busy as next week is largely a holiday for most working Colombians. Sauna Phisicus, Metropolis and Club Cali will be very busy -- go early to avoid a line up.
 

I had huge fun with Grindr recently in New York.

I like to set up threesomes / parties with escorts, usually to have at least one hung top join me in tag teaming a hot twink / twunk. 

The other night I brought over to my hotel a jacked, hung Venezuelan top whose profile I saw on RM. But the twinks I invited to join us kept flaking out and ghosting me (you know how unreliable they can be, lol.) It was getting late, and a lot of the RM bottoms I was reaching were living half an hour away from midtown Manhattan, so they didn't work logistically. So my Venezuelan friend and I turned to Grindr to find some much needed relief.

Around 4am we spotted two hot twinks, one a hot Colombian lad and another a spectucular 19 year old Brazilian twink, who is studying in NYC. We invited them over, letting them know what they scene was, and they both eagerly came right away from nearby. A wicked hot foursome ensued for a couple of hours. The Colombian was a little disengaged, but his sweet smooth ass compensated for that. The Brazilian twink was just insatiable. Legitimately loved being dominated by daddy (me). Best kisser I've ever been with. And surprisingly him seemed much more interested in me than the hot Venezuelan scort, which was a big ego boost to say the least!

In the past I have always gone through escorts rather than Grindr because I imagined Grindr was a nasty judgemental world where young guys wouldn't give any thought to hooking up with a 50 something daddy. But boy did this experience prove me wrong, although I suspect the pics of my Venezuelan stud's huge dick and hot body was the magnet that brought them over to start with.

Neither of the twinks asked for or expected any payment, just a good time.

Anyway, it turned out to be legit one of the hottest nights I've ever had! Will definitely be trying this tactic in the future, i.e. pairing up with a hot score to attract younger guys on Grindr looking for a daddy experience. 

Thanks for the responses, gents!

I have a fair bit of experience organizing parties with 3 or 4 GPs in Europe, the US, and Colombia, at my hotel or Air BnB. Usually going about 3 hours, sometimes longer. Generally they have been super hot, sometimes just off the charts spectacular.  Occasionally a guy will be a dud and just isn't into it, or doesn't have chemistry with the other guys, in which case I diplomatically send that boy home after the first hour. In such cases I will usually have fun with the other guys deciding which new GP to invite to sub-in (so to speak.) My goal is usually to mix things up in terms of roles and body types.

The problems I have had are not related to jealousy or anything like that, but more generally if a guy shows up who has already been partying and is strung out - although that has been infrequent. And usually I find that the boys police themselves. If one of them is acting strange (e.g. is strung out) the other guys will tell him to leave, etc, and are very protective of me as their client. As far as I can recall, the guys have all gotten along. In fact I hosted a party with three scorts in Phoenix this year and found out that two of the guys who met at my party hooked up as partners, and started travelling / living together, LOL! (Never expected to be a matchmaker!) 

I think the key to my successful experience as a party host has been:

1)  to focus on guys with profiles with obvious tells like "long sessions," "threesomes and groups," "parties / gusto fiestas / fiestero" etc;
2) to avoid guys who I think are probably straight / gay for pay;
3) to be upfront with the guys on what I'm planning and looking for.
4) just to be generous / friendly / reliable as a client.

In my experience, the kind of group sessions I put together are their ideal work session. They get multiple hours in, they have other hot young guys to play with, and they probably feel safer from potential client exploitation if they have friends / peers involved.

My proposal above was to see if anyone else out there wanted to join forces in a session like this, with say me sponsoring the sort of party I normally would do solo, and another client / other clients joining in and sponsoring more lads. Let's call it a GP pot luck!  it could get complicated, but if everyone is chill and has fun  it could be amazing.

I'm not sure why this would be more difficult in Brazil than it has been for me in other countries (although I'm a little more concerned about the security aspect.) Obviously moving this many guys in and out of a hotel is a non starter, and very difficult at most Air BnBs (that can be strict about admissions.) So I was thinking of experimenting with this by renting a suite at the Hotel Chili in SP for a few hours, and welcoming the guys there (where they would have to give their ID on the way in, etc.)





 

Anyone planning on visiting Brazil over the next month (roughly Dec 26 - Jan 12) who would be interested in collaborating on private parties?

I plan on hosting a couple in both SP and Rio.  Looking to bring in a variety of quality talent (from twinks to hung tops) for long, hot sessions.  On the principle of 'the more the merrier,' I'm open to ideas to cooperate with other visitors 😜

Also, any tips on good local fixers to help with getting the right guys, translation, and ensuring security?

Anyone planning on visiting Brazil over the next month (roughly Dec 26 - Jan 12) who would be interested in collaborating on private parties?

I plan on hosting a couple in both SP and Rio.  Looking to bring in a variety of quality talent (from twinks to hung tops) for long, hot sessions.  On the principle of 'the more the merrier,' I'm open to ideas to cooperate with other visitors 😜

Also, any tips on good local fixers to help with getting the right guys, translation, and ensuring security?