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I rather spend my money on boys than ATM fees , actually 220 I believe, cash is the king as far as I can see. 220 makes two bar boys tipped 100 each happy, and I still have 20 for waiter's tip

you are right and I was wrong

that's good or bad ?

welcome to the forum , big bang entry with your report !

this is exactly what I wanted to ask but you were first. LOL !

unless they know something we don't know opening bar just to lit lights and play music seems to be not well thought concept to put it mildly.

now you are well financed to travel to Thailand and have fun , call it your tip fund financed by like you say ' greedy casinos"

of all people , many readers of this forum don't need any convincing that Bangkok is great destination because we know already and not surprised with that score

you are right , although generally speaking it's common mistake to assume that proper education makes people wise. First , his brother , equally poorly educated but living to live his life smarter way. Lots of educated people are saying and doing stupid things and I'm sure each one of us can provide many examples. Just probability is lower but still education seems to be defense against idiocy only to a degree.

thank you for keeping us updated on Pattaya bars recent goings, good job and round of applause !!!

did you have a peek inside ? Hopefully somebody will soon if only to see if crew is matching bar's name or it's only haze and smoke.

I'd tell him that it was perhaps a case in days when he was go-go boy but world moved on. That should be keeping him at bay as it's none of his business. Your mistake is wrong tipping technique, I always tuck tip in their underwear and if they wear none , in their sock so amount it's surprise even for them. Only case when you may see how much I tipped is fuck show boys who usually keep tips in their mouth for all to see. I don't think boys will expect the same from everybody, they may HOPE that next time when that particular client will show up, tip will be the same but if it won't, they still have good sense of what windfall is opposite to regular rates.

a447a, you have a good heart !!!

and that's the right attitude. You feel you get your money worth -that's all that counts

good news and thank you for letting us know

we wish you good luck and are waiting impatiently for your impressions from Tawan and rest of BKK gay scene

not only Japan , rest assured. I remember that case.

That's not nice

Very good point about Sunee, dare I say those Sunee-nostalgic types arose question marks not only in do-gooder circles. Great idea with "boyz" ! I guess worth a try

Terry4, my comment was in response to Vessey's frivolous suggestion, has nothing to do with what you suggesting. Actually I happen to agree with you that word' boy' is perhaps overused and may be taken by some out of context. On another hand I don't see it being issue worth splitting hair in four , discussion was nice , everybody had his say and I guess very few will mind their ways because of what they read here. As long as bar boys / guys / men will use it , so will us I guess.

at least in Bangkok we have Hot Male already

I don't see any problem. Topics were initiated and quite a vivid discussion followed , free of mud throwing which is what what I like. It means that even if we are provoked , we still managed to stay civil and impressively on the subject .

watching older men trying to climb the greased pole ?

no but it's suggestion of ' do not scratch yourself if you don't have any itching "

ah, memories, Boy from Tawan or Bank from BBB ! On the merit of OP, surprisingly perhaps, I kind of support Terry here. Yes , it's true that this is how invariably bar and massage workers refer to themselves and their friends but uninitiated lurkers and readers of those forums at times may cringe indeed when they read something like " I wanted to off smiling small boy but other farang was faster and grabbed him before my move ". I just did , reading hanan post above, even if I, like all us us I fully understand and even agree with what he is saying but I'm kind of ' in the know ' person visited that bar few times and invariably running out screaming , horrified by lack of body mass of their guys ( see I'm learning ) so yes, I agree that overusing ' boy ' world may spell trouble and gradually we should learn to use 'guy" or 'man ' instead, not out of political correctness which may lead to idiocies well illustrated by Jasper above but out of desire to peace in the world and our forums being undisturbed. I know it's easy for me to say as boys I like are usually well past boyhood stage and other than us are called "boy' perhaps by their grandmothers only and even I smile when one Tawan boy refers to other , equally massive ' that boy ". and a bit of personal experience - upon return home from my Dec 2014 trip I was randomly chosen for closer inspection. Not that it was much to inspect as I travel lightly but small notebook with picture of fully dressed baby on the cover made officer immediately energized. To his disappointment it was almost unused with few irrelevant notes scribbled inside but I knew that if was used / thank you Guardian Angel for making me lazy / I'd be in trouble. I was even asked explicitly about why I chose such cover when I travel to Thailand. I'm not making it up and kidding you not. Fortunately my explanation that it was only kind available in my local dollar store was accepted and I was let go. We can or can't agree with Terry4 but it needs to be admitted that recently he initiated two very interesting discussions on this forum.