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  1. hope you like it enough to report back
  2. Even if boys of type I like are rarity in Sunee with partial exception of Good Boys I agree that bars are fun and boys adventurous. I find it endearing that when I profess / truly / that i like bigger boys , it's always met with understanding and than offered an advice to try Boyztown. Never offed anybody from Sunee but , like Vessey distributed quite a few red noted among the needy there.
  3. I was luckier and looking back I must say their record with me is quite good, particularly when they missed time previously and I was gone if given second chance they are very good , so it can be done. Just show them that you mean business and are not interested in excuses.
  4. Good for you . Even 1500 for just 1/2 hr is wayyyyy too much. In massages I stick to 1000 / hr rule and never ever had any problems with that rate. Even if we are done , bells and whistles , if boy wants his 1500 for 1.5 hr . he needs to endure some quiet moment of hugging and caressing until paid time is over and I must say all of them suffer gladly in such a case. I think in your case he sensed that you are completely not in the know or enamored with him madly or both and wanted to exploit situation but this is mercilessly very rare. Glad you stand your ground. I had a few such cases including both nights in Pattaya on my last Dec trip and had no problem of telling them that 3000 LT is rate I'm paying to their friend and him only but they will get 2500 and 2000 respectively and it looks they had no problem whatsoever to accept both tip and their fate. This supports what bobsaigon said above as well.
  5. Once I got heated a bot about one of boys with true star looks and built. I went as far as mentally and financially prepare myself for as much as 200 USD / 6000 baht then / had he requested that much. But it pays to have some system - I was going to off him only if he pays any attention to my presence in the bar / smile or even just wink would do/ which is what i always practice and advise others. Unfortunately to my bleeding heart but fortunately to sanity of my finances he did not bother so neither did I. I liked that lesson I gave to myself and now if he is still in business / I have signals he is / I'd still go for him but just for regular or at most slightly improved rate like 2000 ST but at least 2 hrs. Again , it pays to develop some rules for ourselves as often we tend to get carried over a bit.
  6. I had similar experience with one of Arena boys I met before few times without a glitch in their place. Finally offed him LT , then all of the sudden in the morning he was very unhappy with 3000 and requested 5000. I stand my ground since I consider 3000 LT VERY fair tip if not more but he was very disappointed and left in huff. Since I know him a bit I don't think he faked it so somebody must tell him he got 5000 from me. Next trip we made friends again In most cases they just take money, often not even counting it but sometimes they do and ask for "small money" for taxi even if tip just received included some 100 baht bills, LOL If they expect more they accept their fate leaving unhappy, ask you for more or you may have a scene. I had it rarely but in one case of Dreamboys he even went as far as calling mamasan from my room who told me 1500 is minimum but I stand my ground / boy did not even undress using excuses/ and next morning half hotel knew I had problems with my guest and I got some looks. In another case Tawan boy firmly wanted 4000 and did not yield underscoring that he is serious by sitting down and I relented to avoid another scene. If you curious , in both cases tip was discussed beforehand as is usually / 9 of of 10 / my habit. So it looks , at times one can't avoid those things no matter what. No need to be paranoid though as those just rare occurrences and reason we return trip after trip is we are very happy with our boys
  7. I feel sorry for those people
  8. it's good idea to decide for ourselves what is maximum we are willing to fork out so we are not get caught in the heat of the moment which may happen to everybody with help of drink or two plus hand placed strategically on the boy's leg. If you know your limit , stick to it on pain of missing that off if boy is too demanding. But being firm doesn't equate with being cheap as news are travelling fast and then we have those farangs nobody in bar is smiling at.
  9. vinapu

    The arrival

    hope you stay all your time in Raya , otherwise if you start your vacation with shopping you will be carrying all that stuff with whole time
  10. vinapu

    One day to go

    sure , fun means getting wet anyways, right?
  11. vinapu

    One day to go

    that what rainy season is all about
  12. you better NOT be right, I too can envision that , say , noise from bars in Boyztown or Jomtien will start to annoy somebody
  13. and this is how market economy should work, boy had his choice, you made your own. as for push back from LT , you better be wrong. If this will become more general than just statistic blip I'm ready to cause collapse of Thai economy by withdrawing my contribution to it , LOL
  14. 3000 for LT I'd reserve only for most stunning guys willing to stay really long long time so I don't think quotation/request above would be bar policy, 1500 ST is very generous too. Z909 above seems to be on the spot although more popular boys may expect more than 2000 for LT. Don't blame boys for asking for more and standing their ground as described by 1moRussian, they are just on another side of equation probing us how much they can extract from us . Nothing stops us from using the same tactic in reverse and probing how low they go. As long as all is done with smile nobody is losing face. Having upper level of tip set helps as some boys may exploit that spark spotted in our eyes mercilessly. They are professional after all. I like what 1moRussian did , gently paid in kind for earlier refusal by being busy somewhere else. Generally speaking though I rather overpay and be happy with boy than save 500 and be happy with money saved. But if I notice that boy is trying to abuse my great heart I'm not shy to tell them that outright and it seem to work. Even had two saying 'sorry", both forgiven, but only one given second / and subsequent/ chance.
  15. people don't live that long
  16. quite an essay about the hickeys, LOL Night like you described above makes perfect memories of any vacations, reading about your adventures I thought to myself ' this guy doesn't like to waste holiday time". Happy 4th July !
  17. I think they sniffed you as being new in that bar and tried 3000 LT. Bar may have such policy now though, needs confirmation by others , hopefully soon as few members announced their imminent arrival in LOS. Nothing stops us from having our own policy ie, accepting such a quote or refusing / trying to bargain it down and see where it leads. It is not about boy being a star, it's about if you like him enough. Judging by some comments in our model thread star for one is just passerby for others.
  18. perhaps lust? try Good Boys for something different
  19. Going to Thailand in order to shop on Amazon and eBay seems an excessive modern way to spent exotic vacations
  20. vinapu

    One day to go

    have a nice trip and we are waiting impatiently for your reports
  21. thanks for great update zetor
  22. Thank you for great and entertaining report written in refreshing style. as for dick , yes you had a choice of not touching and not paying. When guys are parading through an audience I usually grant permission only to just one to receive my firm grip on the thing and a tip. If you touched it , you should tip him, otherwise you mat be labelled cheap charlie. Preventing cock intrusion in a gay bar - that's novelty like swearing in a church, LOL I see on forums recently conspiracy to defame BBB and I wonder if it is instigated by rightist trumpist brexiteers or perhaps by leftist tree huggers. While it may have some merit , specially when it comes to newly announced ( but it's still openly announced according to the report above) 450 boy drink price , before somebody even asks there's sector of population out there who considers it great bar and I'm proud to be member of that crowd. that's correct explorer's attitude. One statistic sample is not a base to formulate hypothesis and Boyztown provides ample opportunity to taste different bars, all in close proximity. hope you had great time there although if you wandered to Good Boys , Adhik may not like it as that's the bar about cock intrusion only /assuming you don't trek to Sunee just to quench your thirst only/ another cock intrusion preventer LOL While music level is atrocious preventing conversation XBoys have an advantage of full on show, one of very few bars still offering practical demonstration of the said intrusion.
  23. if you have boy sitting with you they will harass you to buy him a drink, if you sit alone , they will come every 2 minutes to ask you which boy you want, seems like to win situation unless as you said we have brass neck. Solutions: either boy is sitting with you and you buy him drink / as ticket to get a bit more closer to him / or make fast decision that you off him , announce and tell them you will go when you finish YOUR drink or MY PREFERABLE SOLUTION sit alone, tell harassers you are just for the show and you really like girls , not boys. If they don't know you , they will buy it. If they know, it's very clear signal they should live you alone, works as charm. This gives you plenty of time to assess which is boy of your dreams and whether he is smiling at you or avoiding your eyes. All that , including complaining about high drink prices and greedy boys no longer accepting 1000 tip short time is essential part of Thailand experience and treat is like that , carry on and smile as grumpiness will lead us nowhere in bars.
  24. post wherever you want , we will find that. Threads are in forums where original poster put them
  25. with that kind of attitude no wonder they went out of business
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