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Very good point / my underline /. Boy is not a mind reader but if client makes right moves he will get what you are waiting for. One can talk directly to a boy which would be my preferred way if I had any specifics in mind, of course as long as he can speak some of the language you speak. Don't be shy as they heard it all before All boils down to what is important to you, some will go for massage with sex as side dish in whatever form, for others it will be sex part which is important with massage as a side or even distraction. Keep your mind open, when you both are undressed you may change your priorities either way and so may the boy. Or just go for a boy you like look of the most and who smiles at you and see what happens. You may be happier even if not all mechanics will work. That's may way and not only mine on this forum , after all you are looking for warm human not a sex / massage machine. And if he likes you he may be more accommodating to what you like too. Once one of Arena boys offed long time confessed to me that he only agreed to go long time, his first ever , after he talked to other boys who vouched for me. In now-defunct FanClub was a boy who would not agree to a kissing beforehand but in the room he turned out to be good kisser. He wanted to sniff the client so to speak and actually openly admitted it. That's the beauty of human interaction, witch turns to just a charmer and sometimes other way around.

Finally you learned how to answer , LOL

if cheapest prices are somebody's foremost goal. Sometimes this may clash with fun expected to be had

waiting impatiently

Now at least I know I'm consistent

1 no, it's not what I meant. If you are in non-tipping place that all is fine but if you sense that they expect tip and you don't , then I'd avoid this place for a while 2. I agree but trying to reverse it single handily will be impossible. Yes it us tourists who are corrupting locals but on another hand we help to create environment in which we have fun and they have a job. Brilliant statement about spiral of lowering wages. It also helps on cheating on taxes since servers tend to underestimate their tips for that purpose. But problem with all included is one Traveller123 noticed above - owners , not servers get unduly share of service charges. In Thailand I tip but don't consider those who don't cheap since as you noticed this is non-tipping culture.

At least by debating those usually we arrive to some conclusions which can't be said about UN Security Council debating the same peace in the Middle East since 1948 and going nowhere. Obviously there's interest in those subjects and most of us taking part in discussion know what they are talking about. But in between, there's tons of practical information of use to both new and regular visitors.

Correct , for example at this very moment I'm typing it 22 members and 150 visitors, all welcomed I haste to add

I read all three forums and Christian blog daily time permitting but have a time to contribute only here, we are least moderated and best behaved of all three.

With one of most magnificent cluster of ruins in the whole world it's just a blasphemy / my underline /. If one is templed-out , Tonle Sap lake and it's floating villages are nice respite. I recommend trip up to Kulen mountain / take swimsuit to use at waterfall/ as well as carved riverbed of Kbal Spien with 'pink' temple of Banteai Srei mnetion ed by divine Madman and landmine museum on the way. As for temples I recommend less known , as impressive as main ones but much less crowded since most package tourists are crowding at Bayon , Angkor Wat, Preah Khan and Ta Prohm leaving others for more adventuros types.

I'm glad you realized that spending money that way would be spending money on yourself rather than boy. He may have better use of money than flying or taking sleeper train. So yes, if you like him , rather give him money.

thanks for a good laugh / my underline / As for a thread subject itself I can only recall my immediate impression when I came to Pattaya for a first time. Only preconceived notion I had was that it will be hooker at every turn which did not materialize but I was surprised my number of sad faced farangs wandering the streets. It is recorded in my trip report from Nov 2013 so I'm not making it up. So I guess some of them may feel lonely , free of burden to friends and too much money and surrounded by the culture they did not fully grasp .

at least avatar is matching

It seems tipping will be always contentious issue. I live in a tipping culture but still almost always when I have a meal with friends in restaurant, discussion about how much to tip is guaranteed. But one thing seems to be certain - if you want to tip somebody , make sure you give money to that person.If you just leave on the table or put in the tip box , chances are somebody else will get it. Few days ago I bought take out meal in a bar nearby and threw a change in a tip box. Lady behind the cash told me / we speak the same language so she could be brave to say it loudly / "don't bother because our owner will take it for himself anyways"

still there are exceptions. In June one of my boys offed few times previously all of the sudden in the morning came with request of 1000 more of what he was receiving from me before, I suspect inspired by his friend from the bar who did the same. Knives are sharpened for revenge already, LOL

I'm somewhat surprised so far with poll. Over years judging by responses in various threads I thought people like me sealing deal up front are minority but it seems not so.

rest comfortably assured you are not alone with boycott on this forum. My parents used to take vacations to watch on TV games in Tokyo, Mexico , Munich and Montreal, now 40 years later my total time spent watching games so far is ZERO, reason exactly one you specified so eloquently. Fuck IOC !

money went to pay for 2000$ a night suites for IOC officials I guess. Whole Olympic business is rotten to the core IMHO and sooner or later they need to start whole idea from scratch before public will lose all interest in the games. We already had few cities voting to abandon Olympic bids / Munich , Stockholm , Krakow /.

you will not miss him so likely he was absent when you were there. Not sure he will be your type as he is not exactly skinny twink

I'm the same but for a different reason, I don't like awkward situations on parting ways and I assume , perhaps wrongly, that boys are like me and are trying harder knowing how much they will get. Often when offing boy offed previously I will give them money in the room up front, no they never so far took an advantage of situation and skipped on service or time.

so most likely like my father used to say 'died and it's still not alive'

Christian 's blog is a golden mine of tourist attractions in Thailand and he has knack of finding unknown gems. It just his favorite boys who are too skinny

interrupted by soap massage mid-day at Blue House?

most airlines on disembarking actually announce ' if you require an assistance please wait until somebody will assist you" or something like that. If we don't require usually we don't even pay an attention to this. Since I like flying at end of aricraft I'm one of those leaving last and usually I see those infirm and with small children still seating , waiting for wheelchair attendants gathered near the door outside of aircraft. Always hope I will be never in position of those waiting for such an assistance

I agree with you, In my opinion best service is invisible one but it seems North Americans like their waiters asking them those irrelevant questions as pert of decorum. It's the same with ' how are you ? ' question , nobody is really interested in other answer than ' fine'. But simply it is different culture and visitors should pretend they like it like everywhere else