My husband and I were watching Saturday Night Live yesterday, and I wondered openly if Ben Marshall might be attractive if he had dark hair. Other than marked obesity, red hair is probably the biggest turn-off in a man for me. I played around with Photoshop to try to darken the hair to see what he'd look like with darker hair. It seemed to be a a marked improvement. What are your big turn-offs?

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Incidentally, I looked him up online, and apparently he has not identified with any specific sexual orientation.

7 hours ago, unicorn said:

Incidentally, I looked him up online, and apparently he has not identified with any specific sexual orientation.

Photoshop finally tackles one of humanity’s most pressing problems: red hair. A newsflash worthy of submission to Weekend Update. But will the makeover Everlast?

I’ll have to find the episode on return from SoAm.

The particular trait that irritates me depends more on the PERSON themself than the trait....

A particular trait can irritate me in one person, but the same trait NOT in another.....

It depends on the person, how the trait is housed, manifested and delivered.

I am never a "one size fits all" kinda girl.

I think I kinda made that clear in the thread discussing FEM guys ?

I don't mind red hair but would be turned off by artificially coloured hair on men ( girls can do whatever they wish ).

Painted nails , dressing too flashy or too girly and excessive jewelry would be definitely no-no's

6 minutes ago, vinapu said:

I don't mind red hair but would be turned of by artificially coloured hair on men ( girls can do whatever they wish ).

Painted nails , dressing too flashy or too girly and excessive jewelry would be definitely no-no's

I like red hair, often goes with freckles, which I also like. Pubic hair, if any, tends to be ginger, also good!

48 minutes ago, Keithambrose said:

I like red hair, often goes with freckles, which I also like. Pubic hair, if any, tends to be ginger, also good!

From my research and experience, reds and gingers often have HUGE cocks. 🍆

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

I don't mind red hair but would be turned off by artificially coloured hair on men ( girls can do whatever they wish ).

Painted nails , dressing too flashy or too girly and excessive jewelry would be definitely no-no's

I have discovered and realized over my 75 years of life that being "rigid" in my opinions and likes didnt serve me well...... I've had a much more satisfying life by being "open" and willing to compromise..... NOTHING is that serious !

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

I don't mind red hair but would be turned off by artificially coloured hair on men ( girls can do whatever they wish ).

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I'm definitely with you on that. I once hired an escort (who, as it turned out, also worked as a hair stylist) whose Rentmen ad showed mostly photos of him with black hair, but some with green hair. I asked him which hair color he had at the present, since that would determine my decision on whether or not to hire him. He said it was currently green, but he'd turn it back to black. He ended up being a good lay.

27 minutes ago, Suckrates said:

I have discovered and realized over my 75 years of life that being "rigid" in my opinions and likes didnt serve me well...... I've had a much more satisfying life by being "open" and willing to compromise..... NOTHING is that serious !

Well, I find it difficult to believe that nothing matters to you when it comes to looks, and that it's all about personality.

I can't say that I'm 100% turned off by redheads, but I can only think of one redhead who's a real turn-on for me: Alex Espenshade. He and my husband used to be acquaintances, but they haven't met since we've been together. Other than his hair, the rest of him is so hot that I can overlook his hair color.

I've never bumped into him walking my dog, but this photo is taken from where I walk my dog almost every day (unless it's raining or over 26C).

1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:

I like red hair, often goes with freckles, which I also like. Pubic hair, if any, tends to be ginger, also good!

I'm a redhead, and fan of redheads generally. Several times in my life I've been approached by guys who asked if they could blow me because they had a fetish for or never had sex with a redhead. They love staring into the red public hair! I've even started a discussion featuring photos of redheads elsewhere in the forums:

Here come the Redheads! - Photos - Members ONLY forum - Gay Guides Forum

I like to think I'm pretty flexible, but some genetic/physical traits do turn me off:

➡ Effeminate voices / behaviors / mannerisms (with an exception having sex with someone with these traits but a body I'd like to enjoy short-term 🙂)

➡ Facial hair, and bushy/overly hairy bodies (Bring on the lawnmower!).

➡ Obesity (a category in which I place most Bears I've met).

2 hours ago, unicorn said:

Other than his hair, the rest of him is so hot that I can overlook his hair … never bumped into him walking my dog, but this photo is taken from where I walk my dog almost every day (unless it's raining or over 26C).

You have something against a hair above 10&1/4 inches parenthesis at function not working. The amount is 10 3/16 inches.

10 minutes ago, NormandyCoast said:

You have something against a hair above 10&1/4 the typing is frozen in the forum interface. I am only able to enter this text using the microphone. Have a nice day guys. Enjoy the glitches.

apparently this new interface response better to verbal commands. I’m not saying that it would be impossible for me to get used to that winky winky. edit spell correct response RESPONDS don’t have too many cocktails, fellas as your addiction needs to be impeccable while you’re shouting orders and commands at this wonky dialogue box ha ha ha ha ha that is your addiction diction that’s better diction addiction may represent having a few too many cocktails. This is just too fun ha ha ha ha ha. I would add emojis but you cannot command these in the dialogue box currently, we will have to work on our bossiness.

2 hours ago, unicorn said:

Well, I find it difficult to believe that nothing matters to you when it comes to looks, and that it's all about personality.

I can't say that I'm 100% turned off by redheads, but I can only think of one redhead who's a real turn-on for me: Alex Espenshade. He and my husband used to be acquaintances, but they haven't met since we've been together. Other than his hair, the rest of him is so hot that I can overlook his hair color.

I've never bumped into him walking my dog, but this photo is taken from where I walk my dog almost every day (unless it's raining or over 26C).

2 hours ago, unicorn said:

Well, I find it difficult to believe that nothing matters to you when it comes to looks, and that it's all about personality.

I can't say that I'm 100% turned off by redheads, but I can only think of one redhead who's a real turn-on for me: Alex Espenshade. He and my husband used to be acquaintances, but they haven't met since we've been together. Other than his hair, the rest of him is so hot that I can overlook his hair color.

I've never bumped into him walking my dog, but this photo is taken from where I walk my dog almost every day (unless it's raining or over 26C).

Once again Uni, you misquote and mischaracterize what I said.... I never said "nothing matters", but implied that everything is a consideration, and I do have limits like any normal person. While I usually gravitate toward fit to muscular guys, I have been with many guys that had "dad bods" who didnt disappoint.... I have been with "little people, and FTM"....... Believe it or not I have even been with guys that has "SMALL" cocks, because I found some other trait that overrode the cock size..... But that DOESNT occur often, to be honest.....

And since I tend to enjoy performing ORAL, I possibly even would engage with the "guy you depict here", IF he pulled out a long, thick cock, and big, plump balls..... (dont judge me)

I remain clueless as to WHY you always misunderstand my comments, and always twist them into something other than what is meant. Either its misunderstanding or an attempted "take down"..? Knowing you for so many years, I certainly lean towards one of those, but not saying which.

3 hours ago, Suckrates said:

I remain clueless as to WHY you always misunderstand my comments, and always twist them into something other than what is meant. Either its misunderstanding or an attempted "take down"..? Knowing you for so many years, I certainly lean towards one of those, but not saying which.

good to know you guys are still in love after all those years

I'm turned off by effeminate guys, poor hygiene, obesity (I want a swimmer's body), mooks and silicone, unfriendly or arrogant attitude and small cocks. (Sorry, but I'm a size queen!)

I'm obviously turned on by the opposite - especially if they are Asian. And I'm rarely disappointed, especially in Thailand where the big Isaan cocks hang out.

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

good to know you guys are still in love after all those years

I have consulted a reputable Divorce attorney......

1 hour ago, a-447 said:

I'm turned off by effeminate guys, poor hygiene, obesity (I want a swimmer's body), mooks and silicone, unfriendly or arrogant attitude and small cocks. (Sorry, but I'm a size queen!)

I'm obviously turned on by the opposite - especially if they are Asian. And I'm rarely disappointed, especially in Thailand where the big Isaan cocks hang out.

I think the swimmers' body description needs revisiting. Nowadays swimmers seem to be 6' 4", with shoulders the size of a barn door, etc. Perhaps Diver's body, a la Tom Daley now more apposite!

8 hours ago, Suckrates said:

From my research and experience, reds and gingers often have HUGE cocks. 🍆

Carry on the research!

8 hours ago, Suckrates said:

....And since I tend to enjoy performing ORAL, I possibly even would engage with the "guy you depict here", IF he pulled out a long, thick cock, and big, plump balls..... (dont judge me)...

Guilty!

😄

9 hours ago, NormandyCoast said:

apparently this new interface response better to verbal commands. I’m not saying that it would be impossible for me to get used to that winky winky. edit spell correct response RESPONDS don’t have too many cocktails, fellas as your addiction needs to be impeccable while you’re shouting orders and commands at this wonky dialogue box ha ha ha ha ha that is your addiction diction that’s better diction addiction may represent having a few too many cocktails. This is just too fun ha ha ha ha ha. I would add emojis but you cannot command these in the dialogue box currently, we will have to work on our bossiness.

I agree...

2 hours ago, unicorn said:

I agree...

Maybe you were at cocktail hour, but I explained that the keyboard was not functioning for the user interface and I was also blocked from text editing following attempts to use mic function for post. See forum on tech comments / suggestions. I don’t drink.

5 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

I think the swimmers' body description needs revisiting. Nowadays swimmers seem to be 6' 4", with shoulders the size of a barn door, etc. Perhaps Diver's body, a la Tom Daley now more apposite!

Rotation in pike position. Smaller swimmers build but apparently with no water as soon.

2 minutes ago, NormandyCoast said:

Rotation in pike position. Smaller swimmers build but apparently with no water as soon.

Fogged, Bertie. (PG Wodehouse)