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For the French speakers amongst us, here's a great French putdown : - on se tutoie? - Si vous voulez.

A lot of Japanese enterprises make the decision not to deal with foreigners at all. This is often construed to be racism, but by and large, it's due to the language barrier. You see this quite often in restaurants, and particularly in 'izakaya' pubs, where the staff are unable to translate the menu or explain what the various dishes are. It's just too much trouble. Japanese is my second language, yet I am sometimes refused entry at first. Once I speak to them, I am welcomed in. When it comes to gay saunas, where language isn't really required, their refusal to deal with foreigners is, IMHO, purely racist. Foreigners are seen as the transmitters of all kinds of sexual diseases, whereas if you have sex with a fellow Japanese, you are considered safe. Friends of mine joined a sex club in Ueno when we were at university. When I turned up with them to also join the club a few weeks later, I was met with a very polite, but very firm, refusal. I eventually got in, but I had to jump through all kinds of hoops. I'll leave that story for another time. I'm off to tokyo tonight for a couple of weeks to see the cherry blossoms. Unfortunately, I'm going with some straight friends, so I won't be able to check out some of the gay establishments. However, I'm thinking of shunting them off to Kyoto for a few days to give myself a bit of space. My problem is convincing them go travel by themselves, as none of them speaks Japanese and are somewhat nervous.

He still dances, only these days it's horizontally.

Spot on, Peter! This basically goes for any Japanese enterprise. Rules in Japan are meant to be followed, not questioned.

More like the Hooker prize!

I met my Pattaya friend when he was working at Eros - the infamous sleazy bar in Sunee Plaza. At first, I would go to the bar and pay the off fee. Then I would spend a couple of hours there playing with the guys. My friend could sit with customers during this time and earn drink money and tips, but of course, he couldn't be offed. Customers often wanked the guys and obviously, that also wasn't permitted. He told me he didn't really like working in the bar, so I decided I would just off him early in the evening. He would then get changed and stay in the bar to enjoy time with his friends while I had my fun. This then changed to him coming to my hotel in the early afternoon and spending the rest of the day and evening with me. I would then go to Eros after dinner and he could come with me or go back to his room to play on his ipad for the time I was in the bar. He's never stayed over night with me -I prefer to sleep alone -so he'd go back home after sex. It's difficult to have a real Thai boyfriend, given the age difference and cultural differences. Our different lifestyles complicate things, too. So I just want to enjoy the boyfriend experience fantasy and spend time with a friendly companion while I'm in Thailand. My 2 regulars are the nicest guys you could ever meet. But love is not part of the equation. Maybe 'love' is.

He's just my type!!!! His profile says he has a thick cock. Was that true?

It's also the male cosmetics capital of the world. I remember going into a cosmetics store in Seoul to buy a female friend some face masks. I had to fight my way through all the young guys. Needless to say, I went into many cosmetic stores!

I have a guy in Pattaya and in Bangkok. I haven't been to Pattaya for a long while, and he has now returned to Chiang Mai. I can contact him if and when I return to Thailand. He would spend every day with me while I Pattaya - normally around 2 weeks. I visited around 3 times a year. We had a routine. He would arrive at my hotel at 1 pm. We would sit on the terrace of the Ambiance Hotel and chat over coffee - he loved to talk and his English was quite good. We would then go upstairs, shower and head off to bed. We would get into the 69 position, get comfortable with the pillows and cushions and just suck cock all afternoon. He would then fuck me, followed by mutual chuck-wow. For this, I'd pay him 1500 baht. We'd then go out for dinner, and he would choose the restaurant. There were no price restrictions on which restaurants he could choose, nor on what he could order. So for those 2 weeks he got to eat his favourite food. We usually ended up at Fuji Japanese restaurant, as he loved all the raw fish and steak. Then, at my suggestion, we'd go shopping. He never asked for anything - I was always the one suggesting he would look nice in those jeans, that shirt or that pair of shoes. He never once tried to take advantage of my generosity. After dropping into Starbucks for more coffee and chat, we would sometimes drop into his old bar, Eros, or other bars where his friends worked, so he could chat to his friends and I could manhandle some cock, and then it was back to the hotel for another round of suck, fuck and chuck. For this, he received another 1500 baht. So he did very well out of the 2 weeks spent with me, and I had the best time ever. With that lovely personality, drop-dead gorgeous face, swimmers body and huge Isaan appendage, I think I got the better part of the deal! Bangkok guy is different. We would see each other in the afternoon in Golden Cock for an hour while my room was being cleaned. A couple of other guys would turn up and take turns playing with my cock for an hour. They would get drinks and tips. It was then back to the hotel for a long session in bed and then out for dinner at a restaurant of his choice. We then go out separate ways, although when he was working at Golden Cock, I'd often spend the evening there with him and his mates. Sometimes I'd then go to another bar to grab someone for round 2. (I had a favourite guy in Nature Boy. As soon at I walked in, he'd pull up a stool, whip out his enormous Isaan cock and put his hand up my shorts. If I didn't have my guy from golden cock as my regular, he would have been it.) I paid Bangkok boy 2000 baht at the end of the night. When you decide to spend your holiday with one guy, I think it's important that you give them their own space, as they need to catch up with their friends. Speaking English all day with you must be exhausting for them.

No. They both have to fuck him.

I take the 'going rate' as a suggestion. Like you, I believe in getting value for money, rather then how much I pay. I also give a bonus for guys with great bodies, as I think they deserve be rewarded for the effort they put into achieving those six-packs I also give a bonus to guys who bottom, as I know the preparation required. Finally, as I pay by the inch, I also pay a big cock bonus. I believe you generally get what you pay for. And I haven't travelled all that way to waste time bargaining.

The Japanese have a wonderful way of describing this very situation. You and Jason would be called 'ana kyoudai', which means 'brothers of the hole'. So we all have lots of 'brothers' we don't even know about! 😂😂😂

Which is why I don't take much notice of restaurant/food recommendations. I often travel to Kuala Lumpur, mainly to eat. Wandering around the food markets or down Jalan Alor food street, I'm surrounded by durian. It's also in cakes m icecream, pancakes, biscuits, etc. It's always described as the stinkiest fruit in the world, yet I actually like the sweet, fruity smell. But I'm not game enough to try it....yet.

Yes. He's a half-brother to Velázquez.

I'm happy with that!