Back in Bangkok after only one month!

[jason1975]

4th trip this year. Yes, I can hear the groans and silent cursing of many forum members.

6 days 5 nights. Thursday to Tuesday. Extended weekend. I decided to take a trip because favourite forum members happened to be in Bangkok at same time.

Purposely kept trip a surprise from my regular guy at Freshboys. I concocted an elaborate plan go surprise him because I wanted to see his reaction.

The plan was other forum members go into Freshboys first. I will wait downstairs. They will get him to sit with them. They will then blindfold him. After getting signal from them, I will go inside, sit close to him, hold his hands, say his name and see his surprised face when he takes off the blindfold. Then we will hug and kiss. And everyone around us will be happy for us.

Well, that was the plan.

Who knew that at relatively early time in the night (10pm), my guy would be seated and drinking with a guy with bottle of whisky!!!!!!

 

[ichigo]

Love reading about your adventures!

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, jason1975 said:

4th trip this year. Yes, I can hear the groans and silent cursing of many forum members.

..... 

Who knew that at relatively early time in the night (10pm), my guy would be seated and drinking with a guy with bottle of whisky!!!!!!

 

We, are not cursing, we are just jealous and happy for you at the same time.

.........

Looks that low season is not that low afet all

[jason1975]

In fact it was two European customers who ordered the bottle of whisky and they invited my guy and another popular guy in the bar to drink with them.

Instead of standing below Freshboys and waiting for the all clear signal, I went to Midnight bar and said hello to the waiters. I bought drinks for two of them and we chatted.

At 10.45pm, my spies informed me that my guy was "released" by customer and was standing on stage. I said goodbye to waiters at Midnight bar and went up to Freshboys.

My guy was seated with favourite forum members. They had the good sense to quickly call him to sit with them before another customer takes him.

He was happy to see me and we hugged. By then, he had figured out that I was in town.

"How many days you in Bangkok?"

I told him five nights but I only pay bar off first for tonight and tomorrow night (tentatively karaoke). I also told him I was there with my friends. We would stay until Freshboys closing at 1am. It was FB night for us.

OK, he got changed and sat with me the rest of the night. There was a good crowd at Freshboys. Not packed until you can't squeeze a guy to sit next to you but almost all seats were taken by customers.

I said hello to many of the guys. I gave cigarettes to the smokers whom I know personally. I also gave mamasan a bottle of perfume. She was in a happy mood the rest of the night. I tipped some of the big cock show guys. I also tipped a guy who sat with me awhile and I enjoyed his company but pf course he knew I would not off him. Everyone in the bar knows who was my regular guy.

25 guys worked at Freshboys tonight Thursday night. About 15 guys got offed. Left 10 guys remaining at 1 am. Business was good!

My entourage went to Foodland for supper. Each of us had a guy. At about 1.45am, we said goodbye to each other.

[srvhakko]

51 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

 

At 10.45pm, my spies informed me that my guy was "released" by customer and was standing on stage. I said goodbye to waiters at Midnight bar and went up to Freshboys.

My guy was seated with favourite forum members. They had the good sense to quickly call him to sit with them before another customer takes him.

Oh you are lucky.

Also belated happy birtday to you.I wish you to have many beautiful and happy memories in your new age, just like the ones you had in Bangkok.

[Olddaddy]

Is Fresh boys near the Gay Soi?

I can't remember seeing it on my last trip 🤔

[srvhakko]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

Is Fresh boys near the Gay Soi?

I can't remember seeing it on my last trip 🤔

Yes, on Soi Patpong. 

If you enter from Surawong Street, it is the first bar on the left, up the stairs.

[srvhakko]

Last month I had a surprise fiasco in Bangkok.
Before going to Bangkok, I talked to my Lao friend.I had the intention of going and surprising him a few days before the date I told him. He told me that his visa was about to expire and that he had to go to the Cambodian border and renew his visa.I didn't pay much attention to this situation because I knew that they usually go at night and return to Bangkok the next day.

I arrived at the Moonlight Bar at 9 o'clock. My mamasan friend was surprised to see me, we sat and chatted for a while. However, there was a strange situation and Lao Boy was nowhere to be seen.

After the mamasans talked among themselves, it turned out that the Lao boy has  3 days off.

When we met the next day, he told me the story: he went to Poipet for a visa but could not get a visa at the Cambodian border, he had to go to his own country by bus and take got his visa there and from there he returned to Bangkok.
He also scolded me for not giving him notice beforehand. 😄. 

In short, I have decided not to make any surprises again, I will tell everything in advance.

P.S. It seemed like the low season had started. There were only 6 customers in the bar. I noticed 2 new Cambodian boys on stage #19 and #24. Number 19 is a real hottie🔥 but I had to be content with just looking. Because my Lao friend forbade me to sit with anyone else at his bar (our relationship was a bit damaged by a Jupiter boy in the past and I promised Lao guy to get our relationship back on track and I kept my word 😄)

[khaolakguy]

55 minutes ago, srvhakko said:

..... up the stairs.

That rules it out for OD!

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, srvhakko said:

After the mamasans talked among themselves, it turned out that the Lao boy has  3 days off.

A friend I used to travel to Thailand a lot with, thought he was the only "BF" that one MB had in Pattaya. He'd tell me that when he went back to the states that his guy went back to work on the farm 😝

His hands were softer than mine, he's not see one day of farm work in a LONG time....I couldn't believe how gullible my friend was for so long.

I'd be drinking on the terrace of Ambiance with Hugh, the manager of the hotel and when I mentioned to him about my friends BF, he almost spit out his drink....he said he has about 6 foreign BF's and if I wanted to see something real funny, watch when 2 are in town at the same time or one shows up unexpectedly as a surprise....the BF trying to accommodate 2 BF's at once he said is like a comedy show, going from bar to bar and making excuses why he can't go to dinner at 7pm (because he promised the other one already) and then after that dinner, saying he doesn't feel well has to go back to his room barely eating anything so he he can a 9pm dinner with other bf.... and so on.

 

[omega]

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

A friend I used to travel to Thailand a lot with, thought he was the only "BF" that one MB had in Pattaya. He'd tell me that when he went back to the states that his guy went back to work on the farm 😝

His hands were softer than mine, he's not see one day of farm work in a LONG time....I couldn't believe how gullible my friend was for so long.

I'd be drinking on the terrace of Ambiance with Hugh, the manager of the hotel and when I mentioned to him about my friends BF, he almost spit out his drink....he said he has about 6 foreign BF's and if I wanted to see something real funny, watch when 2 are in town at the same time or one shows up unexpectedly as a surprise....the BF trying to accommodate 2 BF's at once he said is like a comedy show, going from bar to bar and making excuses why he can't go to dinner at 7pm (because he promised the other one already) and then after that dinner, saying he doesn't feel well has to go back to his room barely eating anything so he he can a 9pm dinner with other bf.... and so on.

 

I think I might have been born cynical. If you're paying for it, they love your money, not you. 

That isn't to say there is anything wrong with indulging in the roleplay of it, and getting your moneys worth from the companionship, but it has to be willful delusion to assume they haven't got a string of regulars.

It's the same when you see the insagram/tiktok "content creators" who claim to be into older guys - but never seem to have "content" with older guys ...

Still hopefully your friend was't too devestated when he learned he was just one of many boyfriends

[vinapu]

On subject of surprise visits, while they may bring a lot of joy to both parties interested one needs to be prepared for one of two disapointments:

1 /  person  to be surprised by our visit may be absent

or even worse 

2/ we may find him/her in company of somebody we don't know or, horror of horrors, somebody we don't like

Just last week my friend drove 400 km to pay surprise visit on his brother 65th birthday only to find house closed  and to be informed by the neighbour he and his wife went for surprise holidays. 

[jason1975]

I agree about the risk of guy being unavailable if we don't inform about our arrival.

I was "lucky" that customer didn't choose to off my guy after he called him to drink with him. If customer had decided to off him, it would be so awkward for me to be in same bar. I really don't know what I would have said to him.

The customer was quite decent. He gave my guy 200 baht for drinking with him for about half hour. The customer called other guys down to drink with him and to get to know them. I think he called at least 3 different guys down. He eventually offed a popular guy after being with him for an hour.

I have heard of some customers who order bottle of whisky and call guys to drink with them for quite some time. After drinking, the customers didn't give a single tip to the guys.

[Olddaddy]

15 hours ago, khaolakguy said:

That rules it out for OD!

If you can't get up the stairs ,maybe you should go to the gym 🏋️‍♂️

[floridarob]

2 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

If you can't get up the stairs ,maybe you should go to the gym 🏋️‍♂️

Or go from the Tarntawan to Soi 4 🧐

[Slut1215]

On 6/13/2025 at 2:35 PM, jason1975 said:

4th trip this year. Yes, I can hear the groans and silent cursing of many forum members.

6 days 5 nights. Thursday to Tuesday. Extended weekend. I decided to take a trip because favourite forum members happened to be in Bangkok at same time.

Purposely kept trip a surprise from my regular guy at Freshboys. I concocted an elaborate plan go surprise him because I wanted to see his reaction.

The plan was other forum members go into Freshboys first. I will wait downstairs. They will get him to sit with them. They will then blindfold him. After getting signal from them, I will go inside, sit close to him, hold his hands, say his name and see his surprised face when he takes off the blindfold. Then we will hug and kiss. And everyone around us will be happy for us.

Well, that was the plan.

Who knew that at relatively early time in the night (10pm), my guy would be seated and drinking with a guy with bottle of whisky!!!!!!

 

No not cursing but I was about to say "Welcome Home" to you hehe

[Slut1215]

13 hours ago, omega said:

I think I might have been born cynical. If you're paying for it, they love your money, not you. 

That isn't to say there is anything wrong with indulging in the roleplay of it, and getting your moneys worth from the companionship, but it has to be willful delusion to assume they haven't got a string of regulars.

It's the same when you see the insagram/tiktok "content creators" who claim to be into older guys - but never seem to have "content" with older guys ...

Still hopefully your friend was't too devestated when he learned he was just one of many boyfriends

Yeah, its like when some of guys message me they miss me. I'm like oh yeah you miss my wallet don't you haha

[jason1975]

I am staying at Bandara Suites. I had searched for hotel rooms with kitchen because I wanted my guy to cook for me. Quarter Sala Daeng and Bandara Suites met criteria for me pricewise. They face each other directly opposite along Sala Daeng soi 1. Even though both hotels are a distance away from gay Silom, both have complimentary tuk tuk service to Silom Complex / Sala Deang BTS. The rooms at Bandara Suites are bigger but the clincher is the separate bedroom. As I am an early riser, I want to be able to go to living area when I wake up and let my guy continue sleeping inside room.

 

[khaolakguy]

Excellent choice! I have been staying at Bandara Suites since their original incarnation as Chin House 25 years ago. Although the building is fraying a little around the maintenance edges and the pool is small, this is reflected in the rates.

One of the staff(who was there on my original visit) told me when I was there earlier this year that Bandara is due to be completely closed at some point this year for a total refurbishment.

[jason1975]

It rained on and off on Saturday. No sun at all so definitely not going to hotel swimming pool. While my guy was at work, I was lazing in room. In the morning, I went to 7/11 to buy cooking oil, salt, sauce, sausages and eggs. My guy was going to cook dinner for me after his work ended. Unfortunately, there were no fresh vegetables at this 7/11.

At noon, I went for lunch and met forum members at Foodland and later Starbucks to chit chat. We were together a few hours because at one stage it was raining heavily were stuck indoors. At 4.30pm, I had to go to Foodland supermarket to buy fresh vegetables. I also got marinated black pepper chicken meat. On my way back, I bumped into an old friend on his way to his work as a waiter on soi 4. We said hi and were happy to bump into each other. My regular guy knows him as they both started in same bar in soi Twilight years again. I tell myself I must go to soi 4 to meet him and give him a tip.

I returned to hotel room. At 6.30pm, my guy arrived. He took a look at what I had bought and went about to prepare dinner for us. "No chilli?" he asked. Oops, I forgot! But it was alright. My guy set about making his own sauce. Half an hour later, dinner was ready.

Bon appetite!

[jason1975]

After dinner, we played chess to pass time until 9pm. We took complimentary hotel tuk tuk which dropped us outside Park Silom then we crossed Silom Road to Patpong. Tonight was pool night. I had organised a pool competition for the 4 best pool guys in Patpong bars. They can be found playing pool at open bar with pool table below Freshboys from 8pm to 9.30pm on most days. My guy is of course one of them!

In March, I had taken the guys to play pool at the small pool bar operated by ladies near Foodland. But my guy said that pool table was old and had a lot of wear and tear. So I looked around the neighbourhood for a place with pool table in good condition.

Found it! It's at Patpong market next to King's Castle lady bar. It's on the 2nd floor and there are 4 sumptuous brand new pool tables. My guy cannot use the pool table as an excuse if he loses!

[jason1975]

After playing for close to 3 hours, we ended this informal pool competition with my guy coming in 3rd out of 4 players. He didn't say anything about the pool table. All he said was that it was not his lucky day! As sponsor of competition, I gave away the prizes - 1200 baht for 1st place, 1000 baht for 2nd place, 800 baht for 3rd place and 500 baht for 4th place.

It was off to Foodland for supper and then back to hotel. 

End of Day 2.

[jason1975]

Day 3.

While my guy was working, I went shopping on my own at Big C and Centralworld. I had lunch at The Commons which is just beside Bandara Suites. It was a Saturday so no office workers and the place was quiet. My first time to The Commons. Different food from different countries at food court. Interesting concept of community, networking and shared working spaces. I had Vietnamese food for lunch and sent photos to my guy. Maybe we will go there to eat to see how authentically Vietnamese is the cooking.

[jason1975]

After lunch was afternoon nap. At 6pm, I went out for massage appointment at soi 6. I stopped by at Don Don Donki to buy some glow in dark light sticks. Tonight was karaoke night and I was getting things ready.

Massage was great. Ended just in time for me to meet my guy for dinner at Foodland. At 9pm, we made our way to Sky Bar at Soi Naradhiwas Rajanagarindra 1 (I copied and pasted the name from Google Map). Forum members and their guys joined us. 600 baht for 1 hour for karaoke room excluding drinks and food. 7 of us altogether. We sang from 9.30pm to 12.15am. Great fun. After that was supper at Foodland. 3rd night in a row the staff there have seen my group. After supper, we split up and I went back to hotel with my guy.

End of Day 3.

[Travelingguy]

I am worried that the staff at Foodland may see so much of @jason1975 that memories of @vinapu may begin to fade.  Perhaps vinapu needs to make an appearance soon to refresh their memories.