Did you do much in 2025?

[Keithambrose]

4 minutes ago, Keithambrose said:

And I never knew!

I wondered why i dream in Polish.....

[Olddaddy]

3 weeks left guys

Get your last "bottoming or topping " in before 2026 🎊🎉

3 more weeks to have fun ☺️ 👯‍♂️🕺🏿

 

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

3 weeks left guys

Get your last "bottoming or topping " in before 2026 🎊🎉

3 more weeks to have fun ☺️ 👯‍♂️🕺🏿

 

thank you for cheering us up

[Suckrates]

10 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

3 weeks left guys

Get your last "bottoming or topping " in before 2026 🎊🎉

3 more weeks to have fun ☺️ 👯‍♂️🕺🏿

 

Can we just skip ahead to 2028 when Hopefully, the Trump nightmare will be over ?    3 more years of listening to him say and do crazy, hateful shit and watching him "fall asleep" everywhere is unfathomable to think about !

Rounding up decent, hardworking people, while Pardoning convicted criminals should NOT be the America our tax dollars supports. 

[donJ]

Never really got around to living that life, something always got in the way, sometimes myself. These days its a relationship, which comes with love & respect, which is better than anything else. But I'm still a curious guy & I enjoy getting a peak into the underbelly & the globetripping that you pervs offer. Thanks again guys

[donJ]

On 11/10/2025 at 1:30 AM, floridarob said:

January= Medellin Colombia

February= Boston, Houston
March= Manila, Singapore, Bali, Bangkok, Laos
April= Pattaya, London, Boston
May= Mexico City, Rio de Janeiro
June= Sao Paulo, Boston
July= Monterrey Mexico 
August= Had to renew passport since Laos filled it up and I got an Emergency Passport- So was kind of stuck waiting for new one
September= Buenos Aires, Iguazu, Paraguay, Curitiba, Porto Alegre, Rio de Janeiro, Sao Paulo, Boston
October=New Delhi, Agra, Pune, Mumbai, Manila
November= Pattaya, Bangkok, Bali
December= Jakarta, Tokyo, Boston

Amazing looking back,  I did almost all flights in Business class except where I went on budget airlines with only economy....yet I have chrome faucets 🤷‍♂️

Been totally geeked on Jakarta after they officially named it the biggest city in the world, how was it?

[caeron]

I didn't die.

That's enough of a win for this year.

[Olddaddy]

3 hours ago, Suckrates said:

Can we just skip ahead to 2028 when Hopefully, the Trump nightmare will be over ?    3 more years of listening to him say and do crazy, hateful shit and watching him "fall asleep" everywhere is unfathomable to think about !

Rounding up decent, hardworking people, while Pardoning convicted criminals should NOT be the America our tax dollars supports. 

Oh for fucks sake....

I couldn't care less about some bloke in America ,never been there ,never will 

What I do care about is getting African and Asian cock into my old fat  daddy ass 👅 🍑 

[Olddaddy]

1 hour ago, caeron said:

I didn't die.

That's enough of a win for this year.

True 😄 as we get older ,all the better to live life   

[PeterRS]

3 hours ago, donJ said:

Never really got around to living that life, something always got in the way, sometimes myself. These days its a relationship, which comes with love & respect, which is better than anything else. But I'm still a curious guy & I enjoy getting a peak into the underbelly & the globetripping that you pervs offer. Thanks again guys

Isnt it true that older guys like me were conditioned much more than we might have been aware by our upbringing? I was brought up in a middle class (do we still use that term) household - parents, three children, one set of grandparents living a few doors away and one uncle and aunt a few more doors away. There was very much an unwritten expectation that the childen would follow the pattern of school, a university degree of sorts, a profession, marriage, kids, grandkids, retirement and easy end of life complemented by a nice gravestone. A life well lived!

My siblings followed that route - very happily and neither has yet reached the end of the road. I guess I was the stubborn one. It was not because I thought I might be gay quite early, which is true. I wanted to break free, make my own decisions - both right and wrong. My father never once tried to change my mind as long as I followed the path as far as getting a degree. Thereafter he'd support me in whatever I did.

The career advice churned out then was 'stay in your first job for at least four years' to establish your reliability. I gave my good job up after 16 months. I wanted something different and I have always been curious. My parents were rather shocked that I had chosen to move to Hong Kong. But at the end of my first year they came to stay and enjoyed it so much they wanted to return a year later. Sadly my father died and that did not happen. But my mother returned two more times. Working for international companies I quickly realised the world was in reaiity my oyster. I was determined to see and enjoy as much of it as possible, the more so as the companies were paying for a great deal of it!

And that is the choice I made. I have had to miss out on a lifetime relationship but that again was a choice. Some suggest short-term relationships cannot make up for that. For my generation and all that gay men have been through I don't necessarily agree. But in the lottery of life, I think I've come out quite well. So I agree with @donJ. You choose your own path but just do your best to enjoy it. Never regret it.

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, Suckrates said:

Can we just skip ahead to 2028 when Hopefully, the Trump nightmare will be over ?    .....

 

Rounding up decent, hardworking people, 

problem is , a lot of those decent and hardworking people voted him in the office

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, donJ said:

 you pervs

who?

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, donJ said:

Been totally geeked on Jakarta after they officially named it the biggest city in the world, how was it?

I'm flying there this afternoon.... lot's available on the apps free/paid.  I won't be eating pork bacon for the next few days, one of the downsides, lol.

[caeron]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

problem is , a lot of those decent and hardworking people voted him in the office

 

They may be hardworking, but they aren't at all decent. 

[thaiophilus]

8 hours ago, vinapu said:

who?

Everyone 😈.

https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/412131/perv-by-jesse-bering/9780552165136

"In this eye-opening book, psychologist Jesse Bering argues that we are all sexual deviants on one level or another. He introduces us to the young woman who falls madly in love with the Eiffel Tower, a young man addicted to seductive sneezes, and a pair of deeply affectionate identical twins, among others. "

 

[Olddaddy]

18 hours ago, floridarob said:

I'm flying there this afternoon.... lot's available on the apps free/paid.  I won't be eating pork bacon for the next few days, one of the downsides, lol.

Please do a report on Jakarta, I'm looking to go somewhere March 2026

 

 

[floridarob]

On 12/6/2025 at 3:09 AM, Olddaddy said:

Please do a report on Jakarta, I'm looking to go somewhere March 2026

 

 

It’s all apps for me here — Grindr, Romeo, Hornet, Jack’d. Plenty of free guys, some for money, though not nearly as many MBs as in Thailand or Bali. Going rates are usually 300k–500k (around 600–1000 THB). Some will start higher but drop to 500k (~$30 USD) the moment you say it’s too expensive.

There’s honestly nothing I need to do in the city or anything worth doing except for malls, which is fine with me. There are bars and clubs that gays go to, but I’m not interested. My hotel has a decent gym, pool, and executive lounge — enough to keep me entertained. And the guys… I’m doing two a day here, while my normal is once a day. So many horny guys looking for a white foreigner.

Random bonus: the McDonald’s here is amazing because so many people boycott it over Palestine, seeing it as a US company. That means everything is freshly made to order. Doesn’t sound like much, but it makes a huge difference. I just had a double cheeseburger, fries, Filet-O-Fish, coke float, and an apple pie, with priority delivery and Grab fees — $6 USD. 🐷

Money stretches way further in Indonesia ....no boy drinks, no bar fines, no overpriced drinks… just simple, efficient fun.

[vinapu]

19 hours ago, floridarob said:

I just had a double cheeseburger, fries, Filet-O-Fish, coke float, and an apple pie, with priority delivery and Grab fees — $6 USD. 🐷

Money stretches way further in Indonesia ....no boy drinks, no bar fines, no overpriced drinks… just simple, efficient fun.

calling double cheeseburger fun takes some imagination

[Olddaddy]

New Years eve soon

The end of 2025:

Your bucket 🪣 list 

[Keithambrose]

6 hours ago, vinapu said:

calling double cheeseburger fun takes some imagination

Ditto Filet-O-Fish!

[Olddaddy]

6 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Ditto Filet-O-Fish!

I used to love the Quarter pounder , 

 

 

 

[floridarob]

20 hours ago, vinapu said:

calling double cheeseburger fun takes some imagination

Says the Chicken with cashew queen 😝

[Keithambrose]

7 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

I used to love the Quarter pounder , 

 

 

 

What happened? You developed  a palate?

[unicorn]

18 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

New Years eve soon

The end of 2025:

Your bucket 🪣 list 

We're booked for a trip to Borobudur in July (with additional time in Java and Bali). It's the biggest bucket list site I haven't yet experienced. One of these days I'd like to go to Madagascar. So far away!

[vinapu]

18 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

New Years eve soon

The end of 2025:

Your bucket 🪣 list 

go to bed just past midnight as i do every night at home and wake up on Jan 1st in the morning