Massage Boy

[kentguy2025]

So I got a massage boy for extras, paid 1500 for sex, tipped him 500. All good, then he messaged me after I left saying I overstayed in the room for an extra 28 minutes with and he had to pay it . So annoyed at him because he was the one wanting me to stay, if I had known I would of left bang on the hour.

[Vessey]

1 hour ago, kentguy2025 said:

So I got a massage boy for extras, paid 1500 for sex, tipped him 500. All good, then he messaged me after I left saying I overstayed in the room for an extra 28 minutes with and he had to pay it . So annoyed at him because he was the one wanting me to stay, if I had known I would of left bang on the hour.

Maybe not the boy's fault rather than a greedy mamasan who was afterwards trying to extract some of his 'winnings' from him?

In my experience a massage boy, happy with the way things went, would be keen to encourage you back again?

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, Vessey said:

Maybe not the boy's fault rather than a greedy mamasan who was afterwards trying to extract some of his 'winnings' from him?

 

I think you are spot on. If boy knew there's charge for overstaying he would mention it right away.

9 hours ago, kentguy2025 said:

 So annoyed at him because he was the one wanting me to stay, if I had known I would of left bang on the hour.

 no reason to be annoyed if Vessey is right.

If it was me , I'd pay up but cross both boy and venue from my sightseeing list

[zazzu]

So, if you hadn't exchanged numbers what would have happened? You never would have found out about this apparent extra charge. Is the extra charge valid? Maybe. But realistically, the spa manager should have realized before you left and informed you. Once you leave the shop, it's too late. 

This is a downside to exchanging numbers - they can hit you up with a sob story to try to get more money out of you. Happens all the time. 

[vinapu]

26 minutes ago, zazzu said:

So, if you hadn't exchanged numbers what would have happened? You never would have found out about this apparent extra charge. Is the extra charge valid? Maybe. But realistically, the spa manager should have realized before you left and informed you. Once you leave the shop, it's too late. 

This is a downside to exchanging numbers - they can hit you up with a sob story to try to get more money out of you. Happens all the time. 

my favorite BS story is from last June, already in my trip report.

I picked up guy from Dreamboys and he wanted to see show at Jupiter so off we went there. When we were leaving, bar wanted me to pay off fee for him, reasoning being that he used to work there at some time in the past . My first and only case like that even if I went to various bars with various boys many times before.

[floridarob]

2 hours ago, zazzu said:

they can hit you up with a sob story to try to get more money out of you. Happens all the time. 

I've barely left and I've had 3 guys messaging me for money from Pattaya & Bangkok.... it's a first for me.... I guess they don't read this board and know about me being Scroogy, although I try to make it clear that I'm poor and from Mexico when they meet me 🤷‍♂️

[Keithambrose]

2 hours ago, floridarob said:

I've barely left and I've had 3 guys messaging me for money from Pattaya & Bangkok.... it's a first for me.... I guess they don't read this board and know about me being Scroogy, although I try to make it clear that I'm poor and from Mexico when they meet me 🤷‍♂️

Poor, but with 2 kitchens!

[macaroni21]

Like @Vessey and @vinapu said, I think the most likely explanation is that the shop manager wanted to charge the boy for the extra half-hour of room use. It was fortunate that the boy had your number and could ask you to reimburse him.

But as @zazzu said, the shop should have realised it then and there and spoken to you directly rather than take it out on the boy.

It annoys me when businesses make a mistake and still expect customers to pay for their mistake. It's like "Oh the advertised price mentioned the wrong date for the special offer, so since it's not today, please pay the full price," or "We stuck the wrong price tag on the shelf, this product isn't $48, it is $75. Please pay $75." Such businesses do not deserve any respect and should be shamed.

I would encourage @kentguy2025 to name the shop.

[Shax]

6 hours ago, vinapu said:

When we were leaving, bar wanted me to pay off fee for him, reasoning being that he used to work there at some time in the past . My first and only case like that even if I went to various bars with various boys many times before.

Wow, the mental gymnastics here...😱