Third floor - trip to SE Asia in Jan/Feb 2026

a-447 · 2026-02-27T02:16:27Z

Great reports, Vinapu.

Photos are always appreciated, too.

hank75 · 2026-02-27T02:51:25Z

On 2/24/2026 at 11:27 AM, vinapu said:

Next morning horror – I couldn’t find my glasses. After several minutes finally found them – inside pillow.

I usually wear contact lenses but prefer glasses in the evenings to give my eyes a rest. As I recently had a new pair made I now travel with two pairs just in case of above scenario. Have just been told I have long sightedness setting in and soon I may need reading glasses which brings me up to three pairs. Such is the rapid onset of age.

Highly recommend making a spare pair of glasses if you rely on them. Owndays has locations in Bangkok and they can produce a new pair for you in an hour. Quality is good too.

vinapu · 2026-02-27T03:18:31Z

Siem Reap – ruin seekers and boy hunters friendly city

I wanted to visit both Siem Reap and Phnom Penh on this trip in any order but since there was direct flight to Siem Reap on my planned day I went there first. I mentioned it may times that Angkor ruins is my ultimate travel destination and in my heart Siem Reap is one of world’s greatest cities , not provincial backwater which in fact it really is.

On second thought I may take it back though since city supports no less than 4 gay bars . Anyways after one hour I landed in the new airport which turned super efficient. It took exactly 23 minutes from moment I stepped out of plane to moment airport bus started rolling. Enough time to clear immigration and buy SIM card. Few day later out former poster Z909 achieved the same in 21 minutes. Sim card 5 $ for 7 days, airport bus 8$. It took about 50 minutes to get to the city and that trip was graced by beautiful sunset.

In the bus terminal I got tuk-tuk or remork to my hotel for 1$ and driver sensibly suggested we exchange WhatsApp in case I need his services in the coming days. My hotel, Chaetata was short walk to Pub street, but location was quiet. By time I settled it was evening already so I took tour of the center with intention to check at least 2 of the said 4 bars. BBall is in quiet street close to old Market, there were few boys sitting outside and one of them turned to be one I’m watching on Grindr for a while so obviously I parked myself beside even if he was drinking with some local girl.

Sensibly , he suggested we exchange WhatsApp as well just in case. I was discreet enough not to mention anything that I know him from Grindr but sensible enough to mention I’m not averse to get closer to boys I like. During my 1.5 hrs in bar there were 3 or 4 other customers stopping for a drink.

Next stop was GOD (Guys On Display ) in small alley north of Pub Street. I was hoping to see there another guy I’m watching on Grindr , lets call him XC for this narrative . From his profile I knew he frequents both of those bars, but he was not there. Few customers inside and they actually had a show , ladyboys lip synching but songs were excellently selected , for which I rewarded DJ with 10000 (2.5$). Two gin and tonic later I noticed it’s midnight so decided to call it a night but little I know. Walking to hotel I checked my messages and there was one from BBall guy asking if I have any stamp collection he can see.

Being bit under influence I confirmed, gave him name of my hotel and by time I got there I noticed remork stopping at the door and it was him already . Benefits of being in small city I guess. Session was quite pleasant but he was also bit under influence and made impression he is in rush , not sensing that’s something I don’t rally like. So when he asked about repeat tomorrow I was very vague in my response.

In the morning I messaged my remork driver if he can be at 8 a. at my hotel, response was positive and immediate. My goal today was to crown my Angkor exploration over years with last temple of size I never visited – Phnom Bok. She is atop of quite steep hill , some distance from main complex , well past Banteai Samre temple , one of my most favorite, chiefly because is never crowded.

First we went to buy a ticket. I opted for 3 day ticket , now it can be used in any three days in consecutive 7, improvement over previous 3 days in row. It cost 37 $ for 1 day , 62 for three days and 78$ for seven days within month.

It was quite long a steep climb to the temple with little shade but, aided with two cans of beer I bought in the parking lot , I made it , rewarded with having 1000 years old structure all to myself.

Only when coming down other tourists showed up , both half of my age , so when that asked how hard walk up is , I answered ’ If I could make it, so will you”

Since Banteai Samre was on our way I explored that temple as well. From there quite long drive to all there temples in Rolous group. Getting to Bakheng temple I was bit frozen as it looked very crowded but luck was on my side. There were three buses parked and their content was already coming back so I got that bit temple to myself or at least I thought so until in some nook I noticed two 20-something guys who obviously were exploring that solitude by getting quite close to each other but still within limit of decency i.e. clothed.

“Don’t worry” said I and “danke shoen” was the answer so my guess is they weren’t Greeks or Spaniards.

In the evening I wanted to check other two bars I did not visit yesterday. “Rendezvous” was first. Few twinky hosts inside , two occupied with customers, others weren’t my type and obviously neither I was their as I was largely ignored other than taking my beer order.

Next one was Barcode, quite packed with very mixed crowd . I got my gin and tonic, watched a bit of show and noticed that one of their waiters is giving me quite long looks. Stupidly I did not explore that option but decided to check GOD gain, hoping XC will be there.

He was, bit changed since I saw him just post-covid but change was for good i.e. l face become more manly. He did not remember me , not surprising given it was 4 years ago. I bought him drink, then another for old times sake but it become clear nothing materialize today or perhaps ever. He mentioned he wants to go to some club but there was no offer “ you want go too?” and I got a hint. Bar was very crowded and among patrons I noticed familiar faces. Two French guys who used to run short lived coffee shop by Tawan bar in soi 6.

I went to re-introduce myself. They did not recall me by my look but when I told them I’m vinapu they smiled broadly. And explained why – I posted something they liked so much that tat quoted me that post from memory. So XC can feel vindicated , he forgot me , I forgot my own post.

It was great time at GOD, even if I went home empty handed. Which kind of worked for me as I had good night sleep.