March 27Mar 27 Active Members I've followed this actor, on whom I have a little crush, for a while, and I got this rather cryptic e-mail from him: https://www.patreon.com/posts/help-154038202?post_id=154038202 "Writing to you all to let you know that due to the health of my father declining, my mother and stepfathers divorce causing massive issues in finances, my car breaking down on me, my immense debt due to supporting my family financially and finally, my rapidly declining health which has caused me to "pass out" randomly (guess I'm stressed?) .. I have to ask for support to afford rent this month. I have been doing all kinds of side jobs, gigs, streams, selling personal belongings etc. to make it, but I.. don't have it this time. I can see myself failing to make this happen and so I wanted to reach out and ask for help and support if you have the means. I don't have much to offer you (other than my sincerest gratitude), I'm sure I can do a livestream to thank you, send each of you homemade cookies in the mail with a written, personalized letter (if you're okay with brown sugar, cinnamon, choc. chip cookies), mail you polaroid's... but I'm at my limit of what I can do. The number is above a thousand, but I would be grateful to even raise $5. Anything to help me find a step to stand up and continue forward...". https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/skyler-seymour.html https://www.linkedin.com/in/yoskylerseymour/ If I can trust the internet, he lives quite near me (in Burbank). I'm thinking of handing him over $100 cash if he'll have coffee with me. He also works as a magician, and I suppose I could hire him for entertainment at my next pool party (June 13 or 14). To make it clear: I would shoot myself before I'd ever cheat on my husband, and am not interested in an intimate encounter--just to meet him. Sound reasonable?
March 27Mar 27 Active Members Popular Post Why condition generosity? You either want to help him or you don't.
March 27Mar 27 Author Active Members 25 minutes ago, Lucky said: Why condition generosity? You either want to help him or you don't. I'm more inclined to be generous with people i know than with strangers... 😉
March 27Mar 27 If he is having trouble with rent, he might enjoy the money for rent and the coffee (and possible snack) as well.
March 27Mar 27 Active Members 2 hours ago, unicorn said: I'm more inclined to be generous with people i know than with strangers... 😉 Yes, you've already made us painfully aware of that in your posts regarding GofundMe pages..... Shouldn't you be reading medical journals and updating your knowledge and skills instead of running after "needy" urchins always looking for handouts ?. And it always strikes me that you want to help ONLY ''pretty" people..... Is your generosity conditional on aesthetic" ? I missed that in Jesus' teachings 😏 Was it in the NEW Testament ?
March 27Mar 27 Author Active Members 20 minutes ago, Suckrates said: ...And it always strikes me that you want to help ONLY ''pretty" people..... Is your generosity conditional on aesthetic" ? I missed that in Jesus' teachings 😏 As you know, since you've read my posts, most of my charity goes to groups which help the unfortunate. Quite the contrary, if I end up helping him, he'll be the first "pretty" man I've helped. And as you also should know from my prior posts, I'm as gay and as atheist as they come. Since the Romans kept records of whom they crucified, and there is no record of him in Roman writings until well after his purported death, I find it unlikely that Jesus ever even existed, much less that he's still around. Also, I can't say I'm fully convinced he's the one supporting his parents. If he were to decline my offer for coffee, that would increase my suspicions that he's just making an easy buck off of his popularity.
March 27Mar 27 3 hours ago, unicorn said: I'm thinking of handing him over $100 cash if he'll have coffee with me. He also works as a magician, and I suppose I could hire him for entertainment at my next pool party (June 13 or 14). To make it clear: I would shoot myself before I'd ever cheat on my husband, and am not interested in an intimate encounter--just to meet him. Sound reasonable? I understand people are falling on hard times but there are millions and millions of people in the world supporting their families by every mean without even having fraction of opportunities that guy and his parents had in life living where they are. Help him if you inclined to, coffee or not but I, for one find that kind of pleading audacious.
March 28Mar 28 Author Active Members 1 hour ago, vinapu said: I understand people are falling on hard times but there are millions and millions of people in the world supporting their families by every mean without even having fraction of opportunities that guy and his parents had in life living where they are. Help him if you inclined to, coffee or not but I, for one find that kind of pleading audacious. I agree with you completely. I wouldn't consider this a charitable donation, but rather helping someone who's willing to meet a fan. Bonus points if I could get to know him better. I almost met Jason Caceres at a neighbor's party, but I was at a conference at the time. My husband told me he was there (he knows I'm a fan of the real JC 😁).
March 28Mar 28 Why do I think this story, with certain alterations, reminds me of masses of missives received and posted from Thai boys to the foreigners they met once, perhaps twice, and who told the boys they loved them? I do not know the situation in the USA but in the UK 90% of actors are out of work at any one time. It is a very precarious profession - uness I suppose he is a porn star. Is he? Why ask questions here when you already know what you plan to do? Otherwise you would not have made the post!
March 28Mar 28 9 minutes ago, PeterRS said: Why ask questions here....... to create discussion and keep board running
March 28Mar 28 Active Members 1 hour ago, unicorn said: I agree with you completely. I wouldn't consider this a charitable donation, but rather helping someone who's willing to meet a fan. Bonus points if I could get to know him better. I almost met Jason Caceres at a neighbor's party, but I was at a conference at the time. My husband told me he was there (he knows I'm a fan of the real JC 😁). You are so Benevolent, always eager to MEAT these lovely, interesting, sexy young men.... Let me know when you INVITE someone that looks like THIS "out for coffee"....... 😏
March 28Mar 28 Popular Post 9 minutes ago, Suckrates said: You are so Benevolent, always eager to MEAT these lovely, interesting, sexy young men.... Let me know when you INVITE someone that looks like THIS "out for coffee"....... 😏 Suckrates, you are more handsome that I suspected
March 28Mar 28 Active Members 11 minutes ago, vinapu said: Suckrates, you are more handsome that I suspected Thank you, I've always wanted to meet Unicorn......😍 And if I can make $100 too, its a win/win !
March 28Mar 28 Author Active Members Well, I sent him an e-mail. We'll find out if his story is probably true or not... 😉
March 29Mar 29 8 hours ago, unicorn said: Well, I sent him an e-mail. We'll find out if his story is probably true or not... 😉 The websites you posted state that the guy played professional tennis before he became an actor. Why cannot he make some money coaching the sons and daughters of the rich as they learn tennis? I'll bet that would pay him more than $100 a lesson.
March 29Mar 29 Active Members On 3/27/2026 at 12:40 PM, unicorn said: I'm more inclined to be generous with people i know than with strangers... 😉 Hiring him for your pool party sounds like the better idea. If it goes well, then tip him the $100 you mentioned above. 🪄 🎩 🐇
March 29Mar 29 35 minutes ago, Pete1111 said: Hiring him for your pool party sounds like the better idea. If it goes well, then tip him the $100 you mentioned above. 🪄 🎩 🐇 Perhaps he can get some additional tips while he is there!
March 29Mar 29 Author Active Members 12 hours ago, Pete1111 said: Hiring him for your pool party sounds like the better idea. If it goes well, then tip him the $100 you mentioned above. 🪄 🎩 🐇 It's been over 24 hours since I offered both (1) the $100 coffee meeting, and (2) magician/entertainer gig for June pool party. No response so far, which makes me very suspicious that his story in asking for donations is a scam... 😉
March 29Mar 29 Active Members 13 minutes ago, unicorn said: It's been over 24 hours since I offered both (1) the $100 coffee meeting, and (2) magician/entertainer gig for June pool party. No response so far, which makes me very suspicious that his story in asking for donations is a scam... 😉 Give it a bit more time..... Maybe he is tired from attending the No Kings protests yesterday ? 😜
March 30Mar 30 10 hours ago, Suckrates said: Give it a bit more time..... Maybe he is tired from attending the No Kings protests yesterday ? 😜 Or the No Queens protests?
March 30Mar 30 While I don't think your offer is creepy, without knowing you he might. Perhaps he doesn't think he's quite that desperate yet. So it may be a scam, or not. But, if he doesn't respond to your offer, he doesn't get the help so it doesn't really matter if it is or not. Pity. He's cute and has a twink vibe. Bet he's been hit on before.
March 31Mar 31 Seeking *Advice* for a lousy *$100 * donation in USA? Wow- last of the big spenders...
March 31Mar 31 Author Active Members 1 hour ago, caeron said: While I don't think your offer is creepy, without knowing you he might. Perhaps he doesn't think he's quite that desperate yet. So it may be a scam, or not. But, if he doesn't respond to your offer, he doesn't get the help so it doesn't really matter if it is or not. Pity. He's cute and has a twink vibe. Bet he's been hit on before. In my email, I specifically told him that I never have and never will cheat on my husband, and sent him two photos of my hubbie and myself, including one of our wedding pictures, and made it quite clear that I had no intention of hitting on him. I gave him my full name and address. He still hasn't responded, leading me to strongly suspect his pleas are a scam (already a bit difficult to believe without this confirming evidence). Many apparently are happy to blindly send him money, so easy pickings for him.
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