3 hours ago, mauRICE said:

My trainer, who's straight and a popular fitness model

A straight trainer 😳

 

 

3 hours ago, mauRICE said:

has been all over South India to visit his relatives and Bengaluru for business numerous times.

Is why I'm here now....

 

 

3 hours ago, mauRICE said:

To say that my circumspect analysis and reasoning

Someone has had a lot of free time to spend on this, usually it's @PeterRS that does the inspector Clouseau type of digging 😉

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

Someone has had a lot of free time to spend on this, usually it's @PeterRS that does the inspector Clouseau type of digging 😉

 

Who do you think wrote it for me? 😉

Seriously, figuring out the signs and signification was easy based on my own general knowledge and having access to Thai friends and relatives from a wide variety of backgrounds. The writing took up a bit of time which I had while waiting for my father complete his annual physical. Seventy-eight and he passed it with flying colours. All we've been hearing since we left the hospital is how his doctor had said he had the blood pressure of a teenager: 118/78. 🙄

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

Is why I'm here now....

Field research? 😏

5 hours ago, Enchanted_Elixir said:

It is not how he treats his peers, but those in vulnerable positions.  

How do I treat those in vulnerable positions?

On 4/17/2026 at 3:25 PM, mauRICE said:

Quite a few guys in Pattaya (Thai, Khmer and farang) know you and of you and your habits.

What habits?

  

On 4/16/2026 at 11:40 PM, mauRICE said:

Perhaps your alleged reputation for being a finicky customer

Can you elaborate?

I know I have asked these two questions before, without getting an answer.

I just want to drive my point in (mauRICE casts general aspersions, bases on what his friends who have seen me told him, but remains silent when I ask for specifics).

 

 

12 hours ago, hank75 said:

Maybe he didn’t enjoy the massage 

Whether he enjoyed the massage or not, I hope @ChristianPFC used a fresh condom. He has publically bragged that he washes his used condoms, puts them out to dry and re-uses them. 🤢🤮You read that right. This has been corroborated by the boys. It is a filthy and dangerous practice that puts an already high risk group even at higher risk but the boys can't say no because they need the money or they'll go hungry otherwise. His parsimony is one thing but the fact that he is proud and willing to put those already in a vulnerable position in harm's way shows the kind of person he truly is and is very, very disturbing.

 

6 hours ago, Enchanted_Elixir said:

I believe you. In fact I would expect you to find him lovely and charming. That has never been Maurice’s or my point. It is not how he treats his peers, but those in vulnerable position.

Agreed. In fact sociopaths like Ted Bundy and John Wayne Gacy were seen as kind, charming and normal individuals by their communities.

 

6 hours ago, Enchanted_Elixir said:

He likes presenting himself as the man who sees the system clearly and refuses euphemism. But that “clarity” often just means he speaks about vulnerable young men in the idiom of selection, yield, and market sorting.

...as if those vulnerable young men are cattle being slated for slaughter...no empathy whatsoever. And he takes his "method" further, by picking out the most vulnerable and the most desperate young men, the ones who would find it difficult to say no to his demeaning offers and dangerous practices.

4 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:

How do I treat those in vulnerable positions?

May I suggest very gently and with lots of lubricant. Remember to use a fresh condom each time and save that cattle prod only for special occasions. 😏😉

For many clients, the boys are indeed a commodity calling for a clear business component to the transaction.  The higher the volume of encounters the more commercial they tend to lean.  

But whether it's your first time or thousandth, let's never forget the humanity behind this trade wall.  These young men certainly deserve courtesy, kindness and respect.   

6 hours ago, mauRICE said:

Whether he enjoyed the massage or not, I hope @ChristianPFC used a fresh condom. He has publically bragged that he washes his used condoms, puts them out to dry and re-uses them. 🤢🤮You read that right. This has been corroborated by the boys. It is a filthy and dangerous practice that puts an already high risk group even at higher risk but the boys can't say no because they need the money or they'll go hungry otherwise. His parsimony is one thing but the fact that he is proud and willing to put those already in a vulnerable position in harm's way shows the kind of person he truly is and is very, very disturbing.

 

Agreed. In fact sociopaths like Ted Bundy and John Wayne Gacy were seen as kind, charming and normal individuals by their communities.

 

...as if those vulnerable young men are cattle being slated for slaughter...no empathy whatsoever. And he takes his "method" further, by picking out the most vulnerable and the most desperate young men, the ones who would find it difficult to say no to his demeaning offers and dangerous practices.

wow, so much dirt water thrown at somebody one never even met.

Where all that dirt is coming from ? Work on busted main collector or something ?

 

22 hours ago, mauRICE said:

Whether he enjoyed the massage or not, I hope @ChristianPFC used a fresh condom. He has publically bragged that he washes his used condoms, puts them out to dry and re-uses them. 🤢🤮You read that right. This has been corroborated by the boys.

Finally something concrete. It's all untrue! I have never re-used a condom.

"He has publically bragged" where, please?

22 hours ago, mauRICE said:

And he takes his "method" further, by picking out the most vulnerable and the most desperate young men, the ones who would find it difficult to say no to his demeaning offers and dangerous practices.

Can you please elaborate on "demeaning offers" and "dangerous practices"?

On 4/20/2026 at 4:25 PM, mauRICE said:

Besides his features which I feel are typically south Indian if one takes away the bright flash filter, there is a poster on his wall which I've attached below by Vidya Sharma, a modestly known local writer, guru and mindfulness coach from Karnataka State in South India. It follows that a budding bodybuilder from the same region would be inspired by a quote from Vidya Sharma than one remotely in Bali. 

Secondly, the staircase design and barrier is quite common in more modest south Indian homes, as confirmed by my friend at lunch today.

Thank you very much for this positive contribution. My first idea was that neither the boy nor the room look Thai to me. But I didn't follow that thought, and anyway I don't have the background knowledge you provide.

Looks like the first guy is based on Bali as previously suggested. Here his contact/social media links: https://linktr.ee/agbih You can also find him on X under @onlyagbi

The second guy (what a cutie!) seems to be based on the Philippines. You are in luck, also here a X profile with some juicy content: @xunronquillo_14 although there are no recent pics/videos of him.

I feel like it is OK to post these links/handles here, as both of the guys are monetising their good looks by selling content. Enjoy!

Curiosity led me to have a look.  I found the first guy's profile on Tevi.com.  The attached photo below from his public profile has a one word caption that says "Jilatin".  Google translate says Jilatin means "lick it" in Indonesian, so that would confirm the info @sasoon807 posted above.

I suspect once @vinapu sees the photo below, he'll be researching plane tickets to Bali. 

  

1 hour ago, daydreamer said:

I suspect once @vinapu sees the photo below, he'll be researching plane tickets to Bali. 

  

 

thank you  for thinking about me but no.

Since Christian has doubts about  his profile  as per originating post  I wouldn't risk to go that far and get disappointed or worse, misled. When I get reliable notification  that guy in question was seen in Bangkok , then we have different situation and yes , I'd consider rushing there as in Bangkok is easy to wipe one's tears after any kind of disappointment

20 hours ago, sasoon807 said:

I feel like it is OK to post these links/handles here,

Thank you very much, that's what I was hoping for when started this thread. 

South India, Indonesia or Philippines, if anyone with their picture chats in Thai, it's a faker! 

These countries are not my hunting ground*, but if they were in Thailand, Cambodia or Myanmar, I would make an effort to meet them. 

*Humorous and figuratively, lest readers misinterpret this and say I'm dehumanizing my boys and treat them like animals.

12 hours ago, vinapu said:

Since Christian has doubts about  his profile  as per originating post

In Thailand certainly fakers. But those links posted probably real. And the tattoo boy is available for gay activities, I have seen videos. 

5 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:

*Humorous and figuratively, lest readers misinterpret this and say I'm dehumanizing my boys and treat them like animals.

Surely you jest.  Nobody on this forum would ever misinterpret anything or accuse someone of dehumanizing another person.   (Note the hint of sarcasm. LOL.)

16 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:

this and say I'm dehumanizing my boys and treat them like animals.

Perish the thought!

On 4/22/2026 at 4:56 PM, ChristianPFC said:

*Humorous and figuratively, lest readers misinterpret this and say I'm dehumanizing my boys and treat them like animals.

Idk, if i should write anything at all on this. i don't know you, and i don't know @mauRICE, but i did read some of your posts here and some of your blog. my first thought is wow, i'd like to be like this guy. this is not caring about the other person, other than how he can benefit me in this moment. and no emotional connection afterwards. besides "want to meet again". this, to me, comes around as being very cold emotionally. and i realize i can't be like this, even if i wanted to. idk if there is another side to you that you don't want to show. may very well be. but yes, dehumanizing is very much the optics you are projecting.

2 hours ago, mima_bk said:

Idk, if i should write anything at all on this. i don't know you, and i don't know @mauRICE, but i did read some of your posts here and some of your blog. my first thought is wow, i'd like to be like this guy. this is not caring about the other person, other than how he can benefit me in this moment. and no emotional connection afterwards. besides "want to meet again". this, to me, comes around as being very cold emotionally. and i realize i can't be like this, even if i wanted to. idk if there is another side to you that you don't want to show. may very well be. but yes, dehumanizing is very much the optics you are projecting.

+1

On 4/27/2026 at 2:01 AM, mima_bk said:

Idk, if i should write anything at all on this. i don't know you, and i don't know @mauRICE, but i did read some of your posts here and some of your blog. my first thought is wow, i'd like to be like this guy. this is not caring about the other person, other than how he can benefit me in this moment. and no emotional connection afterwards. besides "want to meet again". this, to me, comes around as being very cold emotionally. and i realize i can't be like this, even if i wanted to. idk if there is another side to you that you don't want to show. may very well be. but yes, dehumanizing is very much the optics you are projecting.

I have not dug into all these claims but what you describing sounds like doing business. I could point out the other side of the coin "my boy" "should I send him money for (enter reason here)" and the general delusional ideas about real love are in full swing in the bars and here on this forum.  

I think it's best to live and let live.

1 hour ago, iendo said:

I have not dug into all these claims but what you describing sounds like doing business. I could point out the other side of the coin "my boy" "should I send him money for (enter reason here)" and the general delusional ideas about real love are in full swing in the bars and here on this forum.  

I think it's best to live and let live.

Dont follow that comment. 

On 4/27/2026 at 2:01 AM, mima_bk said:

Idk, if i should write anything at all on this. i don't know you, and i don't know @mauRICE, but i did read some of your posts here and some of your blog. my first thought is wow, i'd like to be like this guy. this is not caring about the other person, other than how he can benefit me in this moment. and no emotional connection afterwards. besides "want to meet again". this, to me, comes around as being very cold emotionally. and i realize i can't be like this, even if i wanted to. idk if there is another side to you that you don't want to show. may very well be. but yes, dehumanizing is very much the optics you are projecting.

My underline. Can you give examples? 

I write more about things that go wrong during dates, as that's far more interesting than everything going by plan. There is some embellishment and some humor as well. And certainly, I would rather be perceived as stingy than generous with money. 

 

4 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Dont follow that comment. 

Keith, you gave a "+1" to the cold and dehumanizing comment.

My point was simple. Manny on this forum are engaged in transactions with people in economically vulnerable positions. The guy who is honest about that and the guy who sends money every month while calling it love are both paying. One of them just has a cleaner view of what is actually happening.

Calling that dehumanizing while sitting on a forum called Gay Guides, with (in your case) "Boys" listed in your interests, is a position I find hard to take seriously. Most are here for the same reason. The moral ranking system some people operate here, where your virtue is measured by how much you spend or how warm you feel afterwards, does not hold up.

Live and let live was the diplomatic version. This is the longer one.

4 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:

And certainly, I would rather be perceived as stingy than generous with money. 

 

I wish I could say the same , sigh

8 hours ago, iendo said:

Keith, you gave a "+1" to the cold and dehumanizing comment.

My point was simple. Manny on this forum are engaged in transactions with people in economically vulnerable positions. The guy who is honest about that and the guy who sends money every month while calling it love are both paying. One of them just has a cleaner view of what is actually happening.

Calling that dehumanizing while sitting on a forum called Gay Guides, with (in your case) "Boys" listed in your interests, is a position I find hard to take seriously. Most are here for the same reason. The moral ranking system some people operate here, where your virtue is measured by how much you spend or how warm you feel afterwards, does not hold up.

Live and let live was the diplomatic version. This is the longer one.

Still dont follow, sorry. Treating the boys like a cheap commodity  seems to me to be dehumanising.

3 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

 Treating the boys like a cheap commodity  seems to me to be dehumanising.

Unfortunate truth is, no matter how well  boys are being paid for their services and an access to their bodies, they are being treated as cheap commodities . Very  fact that  customer can touch   their private parts after knowing them in bar  for 5 minutes or engage in sex in massage parlor 20 minutes into session is degrading and dehumanising by every name .  Their customers would not allow the same to be done to them.

Difference is only in compensation. It may be customers impression that 5000 baht tip soothes guys better than 1000 baht one. Boys in question may have different  or at times even opposite  ideas. Boy with low self esteem  may be happy with his 1000 while other , oiled with 5000 may still consider it self imposed insult to himself.