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There are younger guys who like older guys. I have a friend who is 56 and his bf is 28. The younger one makes more money and is totally in love with the older fellow. In Berlin nightclub I have seen really senior gentelman sucking muscled young arab or kurdish guy, and that lasted long. Both were naked. In fact in India, MiddleEast, older guys are often desired (smart, experienced) and young guys are often seen as not interesting (dumb).

Scandinavian approach to prostitution is thats all bad and explotation. Thats naive. When young guy or girl has a choice to work in a warehouse or a bar 46 hours a week and get ca 100 eur salary, and the alternative is to sleep overnight with a guy (and most likely to get a restaurant dinner and maybe even some gifts) and receive the same compensation - is prostitution so bad choice from their perspective? Lets put the conventional moral aside. Modern feminist theory supports gay prostitution in certain cases. If you are in Africa or some other super conservative place and the society tells you that you are discusting and dont deserve a life, and then american daddy says you are so beautiful that I want to pay you in order to be with you and have sex with you, then this can at least create some hope and improve self esteam (and maybe even a reason to stay alive). Very few people can do 24 h a day things that brings them only joy. Most jobs in West are not particularly fun but also not killingly awful. All in all, I see ample of benefits when wealthy guys visit the less wealthy guys.

I have been in a nude gay resort in southern fance: classy, very friendly, interesting international gossip, nice bar, nice excursions around, very good food nearby, no sex (was a place for 15-20 people and no match). I was invited by one younger couple to join their city tour, they had a rental car. Rather expensive place. I have not returned, although it was a nice experience. Southern france is totally gay friendly. Many gay beaches, one near Canne (overpriced city) was rather difficult to approach, I remember climbing some walls and running over rail tracks (I hoped it was not TGV)😀. Similarly to germans, french guys respect various kinks and I find this charming.

The educated and urban are mostly liberal/would not care. The less educated or more traditional would not create a scene with a foreigner - this goes against the culture. Inside the traditional family homophobia can be significant, but not always. I spoke with guys who lost the contact with their fathers. Latin mother and son connection is though unbreakable :-). Colombia is way too developed country to have public attitudes lets say like Uganda. People generally respect their privacy and rights, which include right to chose the sex life. Btw, Spain (mother of Latam culture) is pretty traditional and catholic, but very liberal to gays.

I have seen in Colombia older Americans and their 20 something dates - at the hotel breakfast. I have travelled with 26 and 28 years old around Colombia, no issues. One was very affectionate actually. I think Latam has strong „live and let live“ mentality, so nobody cares and if they have an opinion, you will not hear it.

I dont care how I am called, especially if its coming from people with no experience. My regular sex date guy is from Kuwait and he is concerned with radicals as well and overall image of moslems. He must be closeted because his compatriots here are not very happy if he would come out. Majority of immigrants want to have peaceful life, but we cannot ignore the radicals. I hope law enforcement would be more effective, I support police in their job - keep the western democracy and freedom alive.

I live in Germany and I have heard homophobic comments targeted to me from immigrants and non-immigrants. But I realize that the only ideological threat to my life comes mostly from the radicalized islam. In Germany, I am not aware of radicalized catholics, lutherans, budhist or similar who are hunting gays. Might be different in US. Deutsche Welle: A 21-year-old Syrian man was found guilty of murder on Friday, seven months after a fatal knife attack on a gay couple. A court in the eastern German city of Dresden sentenced him to life in prison. The man, identified as Abdullah A. in accordance with German privacy regulations, was classified as an Islamist threat by investigators. He attacked two German men in October 2020, killing one 55-year-old and seriously injuring his 53-year-old partner. Prosecutors said he was motivated by religious-inspired homophobia. Prosecutors had asked for the maximum sentence with a determination of the special gravity of guilt. The defense team had argued that he should treated under the more lenient juvenile criminal law. How did the crime unfold? The men, both from the western German state of North Rhine-Westphalia, were on an e-bike holiday in Dresden. They had been together for more than eight years and hoped to move in together after their trip. The offender had just been released from juvenile detention for a 2018 conviction on promoting the Islamic State (IS) terrorist network and plotting attacks. Upon his release, he acquired two brand-new kitchen knives from a supermarket. Carrying them in his backpack, he was allegedly on a mission to "kill infidels." Half an hour later he allegedly found his targets. "Suddenly there was a blow, a complete surprise, in the back," the surviving victim told investigators. The aftermath was a blur. "I can't remember anything and, to be honest, I'm glad I don't." The offender said he was motivated by the victim's sexuality. He said the couple were committing a "grave sin" and wanted to punish them for it with death.

Puff (brothel), catholic church, Raiffeisen bank are the cosmological pillars of an austrian identity. As well as obedience to the rules. Be a rebell, make an arrangement with an escort and do what you want in the sauna. Nothing really happens if you dont announce it through the loudspeaker to all sauna visitors. Prostitution is legal in City of Vienna, with some restrictions. Everybody in vienna have some type of parallel relationships (gay, straight, bdsm, fetish), but outside it must look nice. Your private life is holy.

I did not engage too much with the guys actually. The casa particular were not always very private, lots of eyes anyhow following a tourist, i was not sure whats the official policy and inofficial practices of police regarding sex and most importantly: desperation was lurking on the streets - not very sexy atmosphere. I witnessed one fun action outside Havana. I was in one seaside village, very nice beach and superstylish gin bar, expensive. Two barmen were extremly hot young guys. Two young girls from Europe were flirting with the guys, who closed the bar around 10 and they all soon splashed to the sea. There were sufficient light to see that one bar guy was fucking the girl in the sea). Young people have always fun! Havana Iberostar hotel is very nice. And Hemingway home and Pilar are must to visit! If the museum is closed, just bribe the guards (group of 4 we paid i think 30 usd). Beaches in Cuba are nice.

I was in Cuba 4-5 years ago and the mood is somehow pessimistic depressive - daily struggle to get food (“there are eggs in shop x, we must hurry there”), authorities removing satellite attennas (illegal to watch noncuban channels) - they cost a fortune in Cuba; Havana looks mostly like it was bombarded a week ago (crumbling houses, no maintenance in 50 years). Yes the center is nice with some fancy hotels and nice restaurants. Cars are wrecks but still super expensive, not available for all (gov. restrictions on cars import and ownership). TV news were like Soviet Union Vremja. Offices of Revolution Guards or something like that everywhere in the city. All in all, daily life was pretty awful - prison like. Luckily, many cubans have relatives and friends in US, who send dollars to survive. Good looking guys, I remember I was in one small bar or coffeshop and said to the barmen I look for a male company, he introduced me immediately a very handsome (pay/straight) guy)). If you are able to ignore the Cuban daily life and focus only on the guys, maybe it could be a nice trip.

What about beaches in Taiwan? Its an island but somehow the itineraries seems to ignore them…

Few words on Cartagena Gabanna Gay Disco. I think its one of the best, not fancy, but the main hall is cool, its small, maybe max 50 visitors, many nice guys and last time (saturday party), 2 sexy strippers, who mingle with guests, show their erect cock, etc. Everybody knows everybody. Bar staff is super friendly. There is a dark room, no aircon. I was partying with a friend, who was with his bestie (28,26). His bestie is a waiter and an escort, nice cute top guy. 3am the party was over, I joked about 3some, which was enthusiastically accepted. The motel was right behind Ibiz, my friend new about it. Great sex fun, later I learned the two usually dont do group sex together). My friend though likes groups, both girls and boys. It was my last night before morning flight to Bogota, I gave my remaining cash maybe 40k to boys which was handed to the bestie; i bought for us drinks in the club as well. Nonstop beer baskets from me, but still could not spend too much. I had my sleep eventually in Bogota. I miss them, Cartagena can be fun (as every city..). PS this club is fun only saturday, maybe friday, rest of the week its pretty deserted.

I made a quick jump from Bogota to Aruba (Wingo promo fares), which is basically all inclusive resorts, las vegas and dubai combined. And many many cruise ships. Beaches are nice though. I took a public bus to home and it was filled with american cruise tourists returning from the beaches to the ship. The bus was full, cruise gringos a bit drunk (i think, maybe they are “jovial” all the time) and some very nasty comments were shouted to the bus driver. There was a bit discussion in the bus terminal what happened and I was told this happens often. Some vocal ladies and guys in the bus were really the waste water of the humankind.

Mostly loud, busy, but also sexy and after 7-8pm when office people and vendors go home - crime (not a good idea to hang around there at night). I find it interesting to explore; gentrified and gringofied Laureles and Poblado may get boring.

Medellin can get hot as well, 30 C, and if you are in busy centro, a visit to Sauna Club 55 is very pleasant, its an oasis in the pretty intense (but interesting!) area. Great facilities, could be twin partner for Boiler in Berlin (not quite the same though). The other one - Sauna Cruising - is same cost, but I did not like the place. Yes, lots of people, but no nice area just to relax and the facilities were very basic. The guys..both have everything, I think sauna cruising is more sex oriented.

Cartagena is one of the poorest areas in Colombia and while you have massive amount of grindr hits, you must do the hard work of screening and clarifying the motivation. I had a feeling that Cartagena is most strict with visitors to your accomodation (your safety). On a pluss side: Cartagena is a seaside destination for Colombian tourists, so there will be many looking for a holiday adventure. People are generally friendly and fun oriented. Get used to peggars and if you want relaxed seafood dinner on a terrace, make sure its somehow barricaded, otherwise you interact each 3 minutes with someome needy. I like seaside cities, there is a bit adventure in the air. Cartagena has lots of tourists, but i dont think too many gay tourists. Medellin has developed gay entertainment industry with its pros and cons. For american and european, its more like the scene at home, but with colombian taste. The city has many visiting and resident gringos, you are not so special cookie here! Medellin has a reputation of the best looking guys, this claim seems to be true if you visit or hang around gyms or party clubs. Colombian culture is fixated on the body and looks, so prepare and deliver well designed and tastefull compliments😀.

I am doing 5 weeks Colombia tour and while I had paid sex, I decided to visit as much saunas as possible. Short recap: Pereira Salamander. Small, I visited 3 times, 2 times had oralsex with twink. Not busy but seemed action focused. Central location. Manizales Alma Viva - few visitors, it has a jacuzzi in the basement. I was soaking there with super handsome guy (could be sent to Dolce Gabana ad campaign). It seemed he was not looking or I was shy. Had luck with one moreno guy in the steam room. Alma is in Zona Rosa, the entrace is disguised - no logo, you have to take stairs next to the casino, then you arrive in a snack shop and the owner wants to sell you snacks. But you insist „sauna“ and then the secret door is opened. Manizales Pilatos - city center located ugliest so far (combined with sex video shop). However I saw probably the hottest guy. He was like Belami futball player, fit, handsome. He was running around (or they were running with him) with one super obese daddy and another 60+ dude. I could not figure out whats going on - friends, fetish, escort? I could not approach him and soon the trio was gone. One of the learning was, less analyses, more initiative and action is required. This sauna is really sex focused, nothing else to enjoy. Second visit - no futball player (I was ready to fight😀), but one ca 35-40 y muscled or ripped dude with sexy face. He was radiating so much sex appeal and I made out with him a bit, but for some reasons stopped. Probably my loss! Cali Phiscus - cheap and central, lots of guys. New gringo faces are welcomed. I visited three times, all times had oral or anal sex, including very handsome fit hispanic twink. Two times guys offered weed, which was strong and maybe not so good idea in sauna. I was hallucinating, but never lost my mind (or locker key). Had sex with one young fucker on weed, which was great. I saw incredibly beatiful young muscle guy, he smoked also weed and then looked closest available partner for him. As one forum member said, it has a cute resident escort and handsome caretaker, both from Venezuela. CaliClub - a party sauna with DJ and excellent facilities. Guys in phiscus said „sundays it is full of young and hot guys“. Midweek it had few guests, it is more expensive and not so central. Phiscus is best on fridays and saturdays (open until 4am, but guests leave 3am) and I would try caliclub on sunday (open until 10 pm only). The sauna experience depends a) your hotness, b) supply and demand, c) your initiative and action, d) communication. A is givven by the genes, but b-d can do miracles. I found saunas are good place to enjoy and learn more about the scene, especially if you dont have time pressure. Slurp cold beers, chat and check out the guys. No complaints about the staff in the saunas, friendly and helpfull. I was also in Bogota Dark Club, which is naked cruising club. Was fun, lots of people on Friday and Sarurday. Dark Club had younger crowd then saunas and the guys were not shy. But even in saunas, I noted that there is a lack of older guys. In Germany, saunas attract fair share of older dudes who drink beer and socialize. Not so much in Colombia.

I did last year a short language course before the travel, knowing the basic phrases and numbers helps a lot. Luckily colombians are very fine if one uses basic „experimental spanish“ and translation apps. I was years ago in southern France, well that was a bit isolating feeling.

A quick followup. The overnight was 500 th COP or 100 eur. I booked a nice hotel with breakfast for two in the center (50 eur) and it was good fun. Gay movement was also saved, I concluded he is „more gay than hetero“😀. After breakfast we went to the hotel sauna, since no other guests there - all for us. He did not like the heat though. I asked how he can do the webcam with limited English, he said main phrases he knows and he can use translation on the screen. One shift is 6 hours! Overall a good experience - good kisser and a talanted fucker.

Yes, I think thats the original idea. I noticed that taxi and uber driver were familiar with the process. It was really like MacDrive.

The motel was chosen by the Gigolo, I dont care about privacy, a regular checkin would be fine. But it was a busy place, many cars in the row. Seemed to be a standard in Pereira. I had with him beers before we went to motel and decided he is safe.

I met a Gigolo in Pereira who was marketing in Grindr. 29 y, cute and wild combined, originally from Santander area. He does Chaturbate and few other webcams, models and takes acting classes. 2-2,5 hours in a motel was 250 cop, which included tip. He was great, I suspect he works mostly with ladies or is just a talent, since he took much better care of me, than onlyfans 23 y young fit medellin guy or 28 y muscled bogota guy/insta addict. They both were so self centric and own body focused! Maybe they are just young and not experienced. I negotiate with him now the overnight. Its a bit dissapointing from the gay movement perspective that bi/hetero gigolo provides best sexual experience 😀. He had some money issues with the web platforms so he is not working currently. But damn, he is a natural sex bomb, but staying humble and smart. The motel was fun as well, drive-in without any staff contact, doors are opened remote, you are told number of the entrance (there are ca 30 rooms!), you drive near your number (taxi, uber), doors are opened and you drive into “garage”, then leave the car and enter the suite, car leaves, all doors are closed, no windows. When leaving, same routine vice versa. Money is passed through the blind box. You can leave only when bill is paid and your transport has entered to the garage. Cannot walk around - highest level of privacy I have ever seen. Clean, nice bed, shower, jacuzzy (which we used minimal because time is sex, not pool). Cheapest suite which is absolutely sufficient - 5 hours 89 COP. Minibar and food if you wish. 4 km from Pereira. Hotel Amasis, check the web.

Its perfect who likes outdoor activities in mountains with vegetation, amazing sights, mountain rivers, hiking routes and of course the wax palms. Clean, safe, many tourists, easy to commute from Pereira. I saw a small information table about puma along the route. Requires certain fitness, its always either going up or down😀.

Cartagena only if you like sticky hot weather in a city. Beaches are not too nice and you need to commute (boat, car) somewhere for a nice beach. Old city is nice. Friend of mine says Hilton Cartagena has own ok beach, no vendors getting on your nerves, he likes spending time there. If we exclude romantic affairs, I liked mostly central areas like Pereira, Salento, Cocoa valley (excellent hiking), Guatape, Santa Rosa de Cabal thermal waters. I will try next time Tayrona Park, Cali and some parks not too far from Bogota. Pereira Salamander Sauna was interesting, mostly rather empty, but always few hot guys ready for action. I saw one young and very attractive massage guy but I was ready for that day. I was never bored in Bogota and it has many cool places just to hang around, lots of students. Medellin is surprisingly touristic and only place where I saw something like a crime - kids stealing something/running away and police chasing them, it was 3am Sunday morning in a center which was filled with semidrunk tourists (me included)😀. But its true - the weather and the scenery is beautiful.

I come from a country and city which was pretty violent in the end of 80s and most people were poor when I was a teenager. Young dont care so much, life and opportunities are all ahead! In some respect, going to Colombia is a bit like time travel, back to “live now” mood, taking some risks but in a very pretty environment and with many hot guys! Language is never an issue - if both want to communicate, they find a way.