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These boys remember being with you once 3 years ago. Don't know how they do it, but they see you coming a mile away

While making your choice, talk to the Mamasan . Let them know exactly what your looking for . Then when you pick a boy, just confirm with him what you would like. You won't have any problem finding a bottom boy. There's usually plenty of everything to go around. It's important to discuss your specifics before you get started in the room though.

The massages at the Turkish Baths, may be a bit on the sensual side, but if your looking for erotic, probably not going to happen. They'll give you a towel to wear, and hands everywhere with strong massage, but they stop short of erotic. The Bath houses are usually very ornate, and in most places the massage will be a bit more public than your used to. But you get lost in the whole experience and you probably won't miss the erotic part.

Going alone I think depends on what your intentions are. If you want to bring boys back to your room, it's better to go alone. Then no worries about arranging schedules. If your happy with just massage palors then sharing you room with a friend wouldn't be a problem. If you were to go with a friend, it would be best to have the same thoughts about why your there. That way you don't need to sneak time away. Once you make your first connection with a boy, there will be no stoping you. You will see how easy it is and you won't be alone for long.

I use a apartment that I found on Airbnb.com. I rent a month at a time. There are a lot of great places all over Bangkok advertised here.

Fascinating city. I remember taking the ferry across to the Asian side of the river, just so I could say I have been on the Asian continent. Hope you get to try out a Turkish Bath.

Tell bf, life together is a comprise. So unless you want to sleep on a park bench, you can't refuse everyplace. It's one of the busiest hotel weeks of the year in Bangkok.

I use an apartment, but it has a 24 hour security desk. I've never had any safety issues.

No, I don't use aps. I have a couple of boys that I am very close to. When they have something to keep them busy, I use that time to stray. I really like massages. For me, I usually get more out of a massage boy than offing a boy at a club. I don't drink either, but still hang out at the beer bars a lot. Lots to drink besides alcohol . And I really enjoy the eye candy.

I have a habit of checking the slip everytime they put one in the bin. I have never had the wrong amount or wrong change given. But on my trip last month, I had a boy buy himself a drink. He tried to slip his slip into my bin. I caught him and he got into a lot of trouble from management. I sit at Hot Male and order food from Maxis often. It seems I never get charged the same from night to night. Usually within 10-20 baht, so I don't say anything .

I don't have any info on the building, but it is in an area where there is a lot of new construction. It appears to be a newer building. I looked at a couple of ads for rentals and they say, sparcly furnished. Make sure you find out for sure how it is furnished if you check it out. Good location. It's within walking distance of my apt.

Vinapu your exactly right. I have had high status with American Airlines for 13 years. This has kept me up front. I can handle economy for 10 hours, but then it all goes bad. As long as I can keep status, AA gives me 8 business class upgrades every year. But everyday I wait for my upgrade to confirm, I think is this the time I'm going to do 16 hours in coach. I just keep thinking of the rewards when the plane touches down. Doing 30 day trips really helps. Gives you time to recover between flights. When I lived in San Francisco it was no problem, but now living on the East Coast, that extra 5 hours takes the fun out of it.

I got home from this trip a few days ago. I really didn't have to much to talk about so got a bit lazy with posting. Now that I stay for a month, every other month, I don't go out every night to play. But I did finally hit up a couple of massage palors just before I left. First I went to Adonis. I have always done massages late afternoon. But this time I went over about 7:30. Most times there I've found upwards of 15-20 boys. This night only 8. A little older group than I usually like and only 1 boy that I found ok. So off we went. Good choice. We showered together. He gave a very good massage. Didn't miss any spots. When it was time to turn over, I wanted oral, he wanted to fuck, I got my oral and lots of handy work. I went home happy. I've been to Adonis many times, and only once left disappointed. Something that was different for me at both Adonis and Hero, the house wanted to be paid upfront. Is this new ? I've always paid leaving. Then last Friday I went to Hero. I made the mistake of taking a taxi. Friday night at rush hour crossing town, took almost an hour. Got there about 6. Hero, Friday night, WOW. Most of you know the boys sit behind a glass wall. There were at least 50 there. I sat down and told Mamasan I wanted a bit of time because there wasn't a boy there that wasn't worth taking. Hottest group of boys I have ever seen at 1 time. Mamasan whispers, gay or straight, top or bottom. Narrowed it down to gay, saw a boy I was drawn to a couple of time, so picked him. Couldn't have done any better. Stepped into the room and boy was out of his clothes before I got my shoes off. Showered together, and know after shower this was going to be a fun evening. It was. Massage was very good, but the extras were better than I have ever had in any massage place. He gave me his phone number and that paid off as I went back on Monday to see him. He didn't tell me till after, but it was his night off and he came in just to see me. Again Wow. I had a smile on my face all night. I ask him if next time when I get back if we could get a vip room and pickup another boy. He was all for it. Another plus was his English was quite good. Be interested in thoughts of some of you other guys, but I have been finding a lot more English being spoken. Seems every trip I find a few more boys that are speaking it better and better. Not just a few limited words, but quite conversational. Overall I had a good trip. The weather was great. Saw 1 quick rain shower in a month, though the heat and humidity were kicking in as I left. I don't know if you have heard about the larger taxis asking for more money than the meter. Say it costs more than regular taxi to run. I ran into this at the airport when I arrived. Got in, he started to pull out. No meter started, do I said turn on meter. He said I don't use meter, it's 600 baht to your hotel. I said stop, I will get another taxi. He asked my hotel name and I said, no hotel, I live here and have an apartment. So I know 600 is to much. He said ok, 500. I said no, grabbed my suitcase and got another taxi. Cost 375 . My apt is on a street that has an abundance of taxis. I never wait more than 1 or 2 minutes to get one. I use 2-4 a day. I only had 1 that wouldn't take me where I wanted to go and the airport incident . Not bad for a month. I head back the end of April for a month, and Hero is on the first day agenda. I wish we had affordable supersonic travel. These 30 hour trips are getting old.

I've never had any issue bringing back 1 or 2 boys to any hotel in Bangkok. I used to stay at the Tarntawan or Marriots. I now use an apartment so guests are not an issue at all.

And as much as we complain about the prices, Dreamboys has by far the highest prices and is packed just about every night. I admit I hadn't been there the last couple of years, but gave it a try earlier this week. The choice of boys is outstanding. I ended up biting the financial bullet and went twice this week. You have to pay for quality. But they do overdue it a bit.

I left my apartment at 4:30 on Friday. I knew it would be bad. But it was hot and if I had to take taxi to Skytrain, I might as well take taxi all the way if he is willing. He was. Cost with tip 150. I took tuktuk back to Nana station and then train to Sala Dang. Then taxi home. I live on a street where taxis are endless. It's a one way street that brings traffic to Surawong. I can see 5 empty taxis coming at all times. So I use them because of convince.

Tomcal, I also enjoyed your list of excuses. Most of my travel now is to Thailand. The boys here send messages with same excuses, sick relatives being #1. But the best one here is the water buffalo died. Try replacing one of those.

They don't show it in Bangkok so I have a bit of binge watching when I get home. I do get Ellen same day shows though.

Your last sentence says it all. Never fall in love. We are ATM machines. Coming up with a new problem and needing money is the easiest thing in the world for them. There are some really great guys out there and you can have a lot of fun. But it's your money, and it needs to be on your terms with no long lasting expectations. Nothing wrong with buying a gift or 2, but you can't solve all their problems.

So I meet up with my friends at Hot Male. One of the boys I brought home a couple of times, thinks I should bring him home every night. I did have a lot of fun with him, but he texts me several times a day asking what am I doing, can he come over, will I take him that night. I decided I would go to the show at Hot Male and buy him a drink and give him a few dollars and explain I probably wouldn't be taking him off again. As I am sitting there I glanced on stage and there is one of my two Vietnamese friends. He saw me at the same time. He came over and sat with us. I explain to Thai boy, he is an old friend and just arrived back in Bangkok after New Years trip to Vietnam. I could tell boy wasn't happy as he felt competition . It's been about 100 years since 2 boys have fought over me. Kinda fun. So now I meet hot boy at Hero, Vietnam friend is back, Thai boy wants me. Of course it's all falling into place, I go home in 4 days. Figure if all this happend in first week, I would be broke by now. It's Saturday night, so Viet boy will come over and we will do dinner and spend the night. Tomorrow and Monday I will go Back to Hero early evening and then take Viet boy late evenings. I'm not sure what Tuesday will bring as I have to get up very early Wednesday for flight home. So Tuesday will be a late afternoon of fun, just not sure of who. Overall I've had a great time. Lots of fun, lots of reading by the pool, a bit of shopping. A month long trip gives you time to kick back and not cram everything into a few days and wear yourself out. It will be an interesting year, as I plan on doing 4 one month trips this year. Time and money will tell.

As what happens with so many trips, the last few days turn out to be the best. This is the last weekend of my month long trip and everything came together. I'll go home with some good memories of the last few days, but the good part is I only go home for a month and then back here for another month. I have had some fun with a few boys that I have been with in the evenings and hanging with my friends in Soi Twilight. But it's been basically a quiet and relaxing trip, till now. I love the massage palors in Bangkok but haven't been to any this trip. Thursday afternoon I was in the mood and decided to go to Adonis. Not far from me and I've been many times before. Got there around 7pm. About 10 boys available. I picked a boy that had a tight little body, great chest and arms. Figured I'd get a firm massage. And I did. He was quite strong and used his whole body in rubbing my body. He was hard the minute he started. After finishing the back the boys will say turn over and then you hope the fun will begin. He started massaging legs long slow strokes, the all of a sudden he decided it was time for fun. He was all hands and mouth. He wanted to fuck so bad, but it's something I don't do anymore. So we settled for happy endings. Great massage, great fun. Now it's Friday and I figured the massage Thursday was so much fun, should do it again. But I wanted to go to Hero. The best Bangkok has to offer. I have commitment problems. I sit and overthink things so much, 1/2 the time I talk myself out of things and sit home. Hero is across town and doesn't open till 4. Getting a taxi to go that far at rush hour can be a choir. Do I go back to Adonis, it's close. Go to Arena, I can walk. Go to Senso, close but expensive. Really want to go to Hero. Figure I will try 3 taxi's then give up and go local. First taxi, no way. 2nd taxi, no problem. As the crow flys, it's about 3 miles, as taxi goes thru Bangkok it's probably 10 miles. Took 50 minutes, mostly sitting in traffic. Should have taken Skytrain, but at least I was sitting in A/c in a taxi. Next time you sit at a traffic light for 45 seconds and think it's the end of the world, keep in mind, they have a couple of intersections here that are up to 6 minutes. Ugh Arrive at Hero. As I walk to the door, a few boys sitting outside. Really hot boys and I wonder why aren't you inside waiting for me to pick you. At hero, all the boys are in a room sectioned off by a glass wall, separating you from them. There is a lot of seating for the customers as you make your decision. My initial glance brings a big WOW. Impossible to have so many hot boys in 1 room. I have been here several times and this is the first time I would rate all A's. Amazing. Mamasan sits next to me and whispers in my ear, straight boy, gay boy, top or bottom. I usually pick to quickly, so I told him I want a few minutes. To many hot boys. Seems like when you make choice, you will always then see someone else you like. About 50 boys behind the glass. Probably a 30/20, Straight/gay split. Said I would prefer gay and he started pointing them out. There was one boy my eyes kept coming back to. I took him. Waited about 5 minutes for a room. Place was very busy. Boy spoke good English, that really helps. Got to room and before I can even get my shoes off, he is naked and hard. Haven't even hit the shower and I know this is going to turn out well. And it did. Massage wasn't real strong, but it was relaxing. He was all hands and body.fingers everywhere fingers good be. After I turned over he massaged my feet and then kicked into high gear. Jumps on the table and me and starts kissing like I haven't experienced in a long time. I had to check to see if I still had my tongue. His sucking was equally high energy. Again wanted to fuck, not going to happen, he seemed a bit disappointed but made it up with happy endings. He shot over his head. I said to him, I guess no more happy endings for you tonight. He said he can to that 3 times in 1 night. I wanted to take him home and make him prove it. As good a time as I have ever had in Bangkok. As I'm getting ready to leave , he takes my phone and puts all his contact info into it. Will see him again, Sunday,Monday and Tuesday. At least I will have a smile on my face for the 24 hour trip home. So what a Friday, time to meet up with my friends for a couple of drinks before calling it a night. Can it get any better, yep.........

November to mid-February is the best weather. Probably August-Oct the chances for rain make it the worse choice. I got here February 19 and it was running 88 days and 75 nights. Now mid-march it's running 95-100 days and 82 overnight. My pool temperature has risen 10 degrees since I have been here. If you don't want to deal with the holidays here, look at January. It's as good and comfortable as it gets. And it's mid winter in the US. Also a good chance you will find some of your fellow posters here that can take you to a big cock show or 2. This isn't the UK. You need to be respectful to the Royal Family. It's serious business. There has been a little more Internet censorship this trip than I remember from past trips. If you call up something the government doesn't approve of, you will get a bright green screen saying not approved.

TotallyOz, I met a gentleman at Hot Male last night that you could relate to. He had 5 boys that he picked up at 5 different clubs. He was headed home for an evening of enjoyment. I've brought home 2 boys a couple of times and it has worked out great. I have seen instances this trip where guys have 4 or 5 boys with them. IT looks like a lot of fun when your sitting at a club with all the attention your getting from the boys, but I'm not sure how it would work out when you get home. I brought home the boy I met Saturday night. Second time around is usually more fun as there is a comfort level reached after first meeting. Had a lot of fun. This boy just loves kissing and affection. I've reached that age where the money shot can take awhile. Not last night. It took me less time than him, and they do it fast. It's nice to feel 21 again, if just for a couple of minutes. Social media is really making it easy for the boys to stay in touch with you at all hours of the day and anywhere in the world. They use LINE here, which is the Thai version of Whatsap in the U.S. I get good morning messages everyday, and what are you doing this afternoon. When the sun sets, it's, I'm headed to work, will you be stopping by tonight, will I see you, can we get together. Coming back to reality of not being 21, I don't like to schedule sex in advance. I know the reason I am here in Bangkok is for a lot of fun and games, but things I do during the day can dictate what and when I might do something tonight. If I'm out shopping and decide to stop and have massage on the way home, or go out and have a big dinner with friends, I may not even want a boy over. So I rarely make a date in advance. I just answer all the texts with I will see what the evening brings and will let you know later. As with using escorts in the US, I don't like to cancel at last minute, as it messes up their evening. As your all off to bed at this hour, it's only noon time here. Off to the pool for the afternoon . Only going up to 95 sunny degrees today. The weather forecast for next week is showing 100 degrees for the first time this year. It will be nice to get back to Florida next week and cool off with those 80 degree temps. In the month I have been here, have only seen a 5 minute shower one morning. It's been all sun and heat.

I'm still in Bangkok, but been a bit lazy with the postings. I had a fun week. Went to a few shows and brought home some souvenirs. I went to Xboys show last week.I enjoyed it. Some very good looking boys. They did a lot of numbers totally nude. Though with lights low, the closer to the stage you sat, the more you could see. A few ladyboy lip sync numbers. Jennifer Hudson is the overwhelming artist of choice in almost all the clubs. Drinks were 350. Show lasted 1-1/2 hours. Just a bit to long. No pickups here On Tuesday night I went to Boys Bangkok. I haven't been in a couple of years. They have a reputation for being very good, but very expensive. I didn't like the show at all. It was 3/4 ladyboy stuff. Singing and comedy . Lots of it in Thai so you can't follow what's going on. Most of the packed house were Chinese and Japanese. They like the slapstick stuff. Drinks are 450 weekdays and 500 weekends. That's about $15.00 U.S. I don't pay near that in The Ft.Lauderdale clubs. But the place is packed every night. The good part...The Boys. They had a great selection. Best I have ever seen in all my trips to Bangkok. This was going to be my lucky night. The Mamasan sat with me making notes of what I wanted from a boy. I had 4 that I really wanted to meet. Another 5 I would have been happy with. Well the old story of if you see what you like, grab it fast. There were 60 boys working when the show started. I wanted to see the show and would get a boy after. wrong. As soon as show started, guys starting offing boys left and right. All 4 I wanted were taken in seconds. By the end of show, 35 boys were offed. I told Mamasan I will come back tomorrow night before show and pick early. Of course I go early and the 4 boys I wanted to meet aren't working. But I see a boy that I hadn't noticed the night before. I took him home with me. I had heard off fees were 800 here, but they asked for 650. It ends up being a bit more expensive than I can afford on a nightly basis, but was very happy with treating myself. Boy was Thai. Very cute, about 5'7 , all smiles, decent English. Very affectionate, which is what I like. I'm not into fucking anymore so the question doesn't usually come up. But a fun little test is when in the shower, touch their butt and if no reaction they will usually bottom, if they jump, push your hand away, screech a little, then usual straight and butt off limits. This one jumped.. I had my Lao boy over a couple of times. Once during the day, he wanted to go swimming in my pool. It's been really hot lately. Heat index has been running about 108 last few days. Though humidity has been low. But we had fun playing in the pool, playing in bed, playing in the shower. Saturday I stoped by the show at Hot Male. There was a boy that I hadn't seen before and he was really cute. It was Saturday night so I said come on over. We talked a bit and he said all the right things. Turns out, he has only been in Bangkok 2 weeks and working 1 week. He was fairly fluent in English. And even more fluent in bed. Lots of fun. Very affectionate, loved kissing and happy endings. I noticed right away in shower with the butt test, no reaction. In bed, exploring fingers got smiles and groans. I asked him if he would bottom if we get a third. Not an issue. That will happen this week. Heading out tonight for dinner with friends. No boys tonight, but only a week to go, so will finish strong the rest of the week. The city stills seems to have some good crowds around. They are about to enter the slow season, but the bars and clubs seem to be doing ok all week long. I went to the Siam Center to shop and eat a couple of times during the week and hard to get a seat in most of the restaurants. Especially yesterday,Sunday, packed. Time There has been a bit of a change with the street vendors here. The new government has been making it hard for the vendors to set up during the day. It does free up the sidewalks which is nice If you have something to do . But the street scene is part of the charm of Bangkok, and is the livelyhood of many people. Lots of controversy, but hopefully they will figure it out soon. A few months ago, they cracked down and made the bars and clubs close at midnight, then it gradually went back to 3 or 4am. Last week the police came thru and now it's back to 2am closing. It's like the weather here, wait a minute and it will change. Time to head out for the evening. I'll try to be a little less lazy with the posting. Not sure anymore new boys, I'm pretty happy with the ones I have already met.

Thanks for the pick-me-up. I've been just a bit under the weather the last couple of days, but I'm just headed out the door to see what's going on tonight. I wasn't sure if I would bring someone back, but now, I would love to see a butt like that running around the apartment. Let's see who the lucky boy will be.