jason1975

I was in fact ready by 7:15pm but I didn't want to stay inside airbnb and I didn't want to go to G's yet so I headed out to take a look at Patpong market. I ended up at Midnight for a drink and a quick game of checkers with their hunky waiter. From where I was seated, I spotted my guy's friend from Freshboys. He was seated at stairs directly facing his bar. I went to say hi and handed him a pack of cigarettes. "You come my bar see my show?" he asked me. I said I will try.

I didn't go back to airbnb after massage. I had some street food then went to Sauna Mania for 2 hours of fun. 420 baht and I was given a coupon for free entry on weekdays (Monday to Wednesday). About 20 guys cruising in dark room. 1/4 Thai and the rest international. I especially enjoyed myself with a guy from Hong Kong for about 20 minutes inside a small room which he locked. I left Sauna Mania at aboout 6:30pm. I went back to airbnb. I had to get ready for forum members dinner gathering at G's at 8pm.

After massage, I went downstairs to get my shoes and was given hot tea. Another massage guy approached me and said hi. I remember him from Paradise Massage but he changed shop. He is Thai and doesn't have lean abs body of many of the other massage guys but our sessions were always hot because he is gay and very horny! Horny Guy asked me if I would like to see him and I said sure on Monday.

Saturday morning was spent slacking at swimming pool. I also had to do laundry as my airbnb host only provided two towels and I used them both for "Music" and me. I always want fresh towels for my guests and I was expecting guests every night. At 1:00pm, I went out to meet forum members for coffee and light lunch. After that, one forum member and I went to Green Massage for one-hour foot massage. Even in the early afternoon, the place was already half filled with customers. Both our masseurs were guys. I personally prefer female hands for foot massage but I went to Green to accompany my good friend. When foot massage ended at 3pm, I made my way to Sun Massage at Soi 6. I wanted to see who was available. A manly hunk whom I met regularly had not returned from Vietnam yet. I looked around at the 10 guys available and saw a guy whom I had always wanted to meet. I pointed at him and we were quickly on our way upstairs. This twink is also from Vietnam and besides having lean body with abs, he is also good looking. Forum member friends say that he is the most good looking Viet guy due to his nearly symmetrical face but I think another guy is more handsome and I would be offing him tonight. As for massage, proper massage was given. Firm strokes. B2B fun during last 20 minutes of the one hour session. Thoroughly enjoyed myself and gave big tip.

You can be direct and tell him you want him to stay with you for 3 days then wait for his response. Most guys have experienced offs for few days from customers so they know what to expect.

Ah! I realise my mistake. I didn't give 1000 baht. I gave 2000 baht and receive 50 baht change. Bill was for two drinks (forum member and me), boy drink and off fee. Well spotted! @vinapu

After leaving Dreamboy, we went to Dragon for a drink. Waiters inside all shirtless and there was some dancing on the bar top. Forum member wanted to experience the bar so I just followed along. I also didn't mind bringing "Music" along. Still too early to go back. Also still too full from dinner at G's 3 hours ago to eat supper at Foodland now. (I always eat supper with the guys I off. Unless they prefer not to) Because "Music" was with me, the Dragon waiters didn't approach me. Dragon is a host bar so customers who go in are typically befriended by a host for chatting in return for drink and tips. The Myanmar waiters are friendly and speak good English. The TV screen is showing Olympic Games diving competition - divers in speedos - what a conversation starter! "Music" and I step out of bar for a while to smoke and chat. We talk about how my guy is doing in Vietnam. Almost Viet guy in the Patpong bars knows about him staying in Vietnam for half a year to build his house. We stay at Dragon until 11.30pm then we went to Foodland for supper. After that, I said goodbye to forum member and "Music" and I went to airbnb condo to make music for the rest of the night!

I told "Music" to get changed. I will off him tonight. He goes off to get changed. I tell mamasan I want to pay. Total bill was 950 for my drink, boy drink and off fee. I give mamasan a 1000-baht note and he returns with 50 baht in folder. I think whether to pass mamasan the 50 baht but I am mindful that some mamasans will feel insulted if they are tipped less than 100 baht. So I just leave the 50 baht in folder and I close it and return to mamasan. I notice two guys on stage. One has a giant lion head tattoo on his back. Fabulous body and abs. Another guy has athletic body and he looks like a footballer. I also spot a Thai guy who is a favourite of a forum member. I remember him well because we ate supper at Foodland together and I found his English to be superb and he also has sexy body! At 10:30pm, the Dreamboys show start with 4 coyote dancers dancing. 2 of are fabulous dancers while the other 2 need more practice. "Music" comes back to me in his tradement black figure-hugging T-shirt and typical bar guy accessory sling bag. After the coyote dancing, it was time to leave.

"Music" and I spend time catching up. He is more tanned as he had gone back to Vietnam for Tet for one month. He points to his stomach and says he drank every day during Tet. "Karaoke?" he asks me. Not tonight but I promise him I will take him to karaoke another night. Three Chinese customers suddenly occupy the private sofa booth directly above our seats. Two mamasans brought bottle of whisky and got two Vietnamese guys to sit with them. I know one of them as he is my guy's good friend. I smiled at him and he said hi and fist bumped me.

About 30 guys at Dreamboy. Many customers. It was a busy Friday night. Forum member and I were led to a second row seat. I spotted "Music" - the guy I had offed during my 2nd weekend trip. I waved to him to come down the stage and sit with me. He was surprised that I was there. He asked me why I didn't text him in advance. I just smiled and bought him a drink. "Music" and I looked at the guys on stage and he gave me information on them. There are currently 8 Vietnam guys working at Dreamboys, with 3 who recently transferred from Freshboys. Years ago, at one stage, 1/3 of guys at Freshboys were Vietnamese. Now, there's only 4 Vietnam guys working at Freshboys. The majority are Myanmar and Laos guys.

At 9 plus, we left G's. One forum member and I decided to check out new bar Big Boy on Patpong. 4 guys available for off despite the guy downstairs saying "10 boys tonight!" Spacious set up. 3 of the guys were muscle guys. Not as big as those in Tawan. The 4th guy was a twink but had toned muscles and younger than the others. We had a drink for a while. We didn't stay for the show. We went to Dreamboy next.

I arrived at G's on the dot at 8:00pm. One forum member was already seated there at outdoor table. Soon, another forum member joined us. We ate and chatted for an hour. Guido came to talk to us. His plan for restaurant in Pattaya is going well. He managed to get a big piece of land. So big that he could even install a waterfall! I will be glad to go to Pattaya to see his restaurant when it opens. Throughout the dinner, I looked across at some of the cute waiters at Banana Bar. My guy was not in Bangkok for half a year (he is currently building his house in Vietnam) so I could meet anyone, including those from his bar Freshboys. In the past, we had an agreement. I could not off anyone from Freshboys while he was working there. I had in mind two guys at Freshboys whom I had always thought of offing.

I only had my backpack with me so I could go to airport train straightaway. However, airport train seemed slower than usual. After finally arriving at Phya Thai, I switched to BTS. I was constantly checking my watch. I had a 8:00pm dinner appointment at G's. I had thought of getting a one-hour massage at nearby Adam Massage before dinner. Alas, I only managed to reach airbnb at 7:15pm so decided to skip massage. I don't like to be late for appointments. I took my time checking out the airbnb and even had a shower and change of clothes to get ready for dinner.

My plane landed at 5:30pm. There were many people at immigration. I went to the two automated machines next to those for Thai citizens. I queued and scanned my passport in less than 5 minutes.

My 3rd weekend trip to Bangkok happened in 2nd week of March. I took 2 days leave Monday and Tuesday so I had a weekend trip from Friday to Tuesday. The reason for this particular trip was to meet forum members. I booked an airbnb at Oasis Condo on soi 3. It belongs to same owner of another airbnb unit that I had booked last December. He has several airbnb units. Cost was US$40 per night for a decent size unit with kitchen and access to condo facilities such as swimming pool, gym and laundry machines.

I know of a guy at Freshboy who disappeared after he found a sponsor who allegedly paid him 50k a month. I also know of guys who continue working in bar even when they have a sponsor. They are allowed to go out with customers to drink only. No sex. The guys will communicate their terms clearly to new customers who want to off them.

Google Translate might have translated his message too literally and created a tone that he never intendred. He might just be stating a fact - tomorrow there are many customers in bar and he has to work. Today he is free to meet (implied meaning he has no customers today). There were occasions in the past when my guy and I misintrepreted each other's intention due to Google Translate. But we subsequently clarified each other's message and all went well in the end.

Even though I book my guy for full day, we are not physically together 24/7. He works at bar from 8pm every night and only sleeps at 3am after work. He sleeps till 4pm or 5pm. So he needs to sleep in daytime. When I am with him the night before, we stay up till 1am or 2am then I will sleep. He tries to sleep but if he can't sleep, he will watch Tiktok on his phone or play games. At 6am, I wake up and we have morning sex. We then have breakfast. Then he sleeps until afternoon. Sometimes I just enjoy watching his naked body in bed but most of time, I go out for shopping or get a massage. When he wakes up in mid afternoon, then we go out together.

The reason why I give my guy 5k to be with me per day is because the short time rate at his bar (Freshboy) is 2.5k and long time rate is 4k. In my mind, it would not be right to pay less than 4k for one whole day.

At least 5k per day. Having met him in person, I believe he will be a great companion.

But he didn't off the guy! Is he syill considered a brother? Sidenote. I do know of some bar guys who were offed by several different forum members!

In my trip report ("weekends in Bangkok") i used another name to refer to him.

Glad you found them nice! Having met you just a few nights ago, they naturally smiled at you (maybe to ask for karaoke? Lol!)

No wonder he looked so familiar at EDT on Saturday! I had seen him at Dreamboys on Friday.

Thank you for writing "live" trip report @emiel1981 It really takes disclipine to write daily. Have a safe flight. Catch up with you again in future.