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You know that waiters can be off too right? Especially if they have numbers badges.

This alone makes me regret that I didnt checkout this bar on my last trip. Will be checking this out next trip for sure.

And yet we have gays thats strictly top.

If my memory serves me right, I know who you are talking about. He is a hunk for sure. I have to admit, there is a porn where the bottom were answering a phone call from his "gf" while being fucked by the masseur. Talking to the phone whimpering from the pleasure of being fucked. Lol of course your situation is the other way around.

Lol. I recalled what happen in tawan when you say this and got shown str8 porn instead lol Last visit, there is one or two drag number, but yes prior to that visit, it was all boys shows.

And in corporate world, u have legal counsel, advocate, associates, advisor, officer etc.

And i recall, even when you were with Cam, u were juggling a few regulars as well before you zeroed in and taking a step further with Cam, staying at out of the scene place further from silom.

You could always take someone from the bar and not negotiated anything if thats your game though.

Lucky you for finding someone your type! Keep us posted. I wouldnt say you commit a sin per say as its still falls right into boy hunting. Well, boyfriend hunting, whatever lol

Goodboy is the one bar that closes later than others, so u can always do both if dreamboy was not a success hehe.

I think she got offed easy, i wish my hair can solved my debt lol

If you think of it as a one off thing, of course massage beats offing from bar. But if you look deeper and divide it up, you can still see value going into bar. I for one, always prefer bar over massage, simply because its much easier for me to choose guy i like face to face, and in the bar, i can take my time choosing or not choose one at all. Your own drink = entrance fee for the show you get. Boy drink = for the boy's time with you in the bar, where you can enjoy having a warm body and everything attached to that body (often just in a skimpy underwear) while watching the show. The boy do get a cut from the drinks. Off fee = outcall fee, as you did take the boy out during business hour, where theoretically, he could make just as much for the bar through drinks at the bar. Yet the best value for me is the bar tipping system for the boys. In massage place, you pay by the hour, and they are quite strict on that. For bar, short time can be as long as 2 hours, and long time can be up to 6-7 hours. I still enjoy going to massage but paying by hour, usually opted for at least 90min or 2 hour, but that will cost more as well.

I had never allow a lady to violate my body lol

Yes, especially if the guy is totally str8 lol. Even with oil massage, towards the end, the masseur will do some thai massage maneuvers, and if your str8 masseur has been keeping his distance before, he wont be able to during this part lol.

I prefer the more relaxing thai aroma oil massage. In the more upscale place, I always choose coconut oil instead. Thai massage is done dressed, oil on the other hand, naked. Definitely make it easier to transition to the fun part if it happens hehe.

Thank you @jimmie50 for regularly updating us about your love story. Your thread is pretty much my only reason that I keep checking cambodia forum lol. I wouldnt worry too much about the future that you forget to enjoy the present. While its good to know and be prepared, worrying too much will not be healthy for your relationship and trust is something that can make or break a relationship. Anyway, who am i to give you any relationship advise when im none the wiser. The closest im in one was with my regular guy who is now marrying a girl lol. And yes, he did showed me to his mom before too but as a friend.

Welcome to the club. I would always get a legitimate massage once in a while, more so when in thailand. And you will never know, you might be lucky and hit the jackpot, finding a gem there, who is your type, can deliver great massage and also lite fun.

Imagine AI trying to depict a guy with this description

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Yes, you can add them on line app, they will have therapist picture and daily masseurs availability.

Or maybe vinapu finally warming up to the idea of being in a monogamous relationship? That would also remove the tedious boy hunting part hehe

Thanks for sharing your trip report! Chapter 6 massage is in the same building as ashton sathorn btw. Ive tried it 2-3 times before and always left happy. Most comfortable and warm massage table, muscular masseur, great massage and happy ending (YMMV)

A friend of mine is complaining about his reduced libido due to taking some medication for his hair. Hope your case is not something permanent.

Ah if its bangkok bar, I can totally understand the frustration, specifically for vinapu in bars like tawan where not just mamasan, but guys relentless pestering for tips, makes jupiter now a nice relief?

Second part sounds like a chore. Is it the boy hunting in particular or the guys themselves that you find lackluster? For me, guys in the scene in thailand still beats any on offer here, and long time is still rare treat here and in bangkok, its bordering on a routine.