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Back to the OP. In one bar I found the rules posted in Thai on the way to toilet, here translation in short: boys get 3000 Baht per month, in bar before 19:30 additional 80, between 19:30 and 20:00 additional 60, between 20:00 and 20:30 no additional, after 20:30 100 will be deduced, absent on Fri-Sat-Sun-days with concert or Mor Lam 600 will be deduced when sick have to present sick note from doctor thieves will be reported to police boy get 50 for each off and 40 for each drink 2 days off per month

Every now and then you find a gem. Regarding greediness: A boy I haven't even met asked me to buy him (or at least contribute to) shoes worth 2500 Baht. The question is: would he do the same with a Thai who is older/richer (then it would just be cultural difference and not greediness). The biggest problem for me is not greediness, not laziness, but stupidity and refusal to take advice. I had students whining that they don't know the way to where I wanted to meet them, even if money was offered (I would have gone to their room, but usually they stay with friends so can't do anything there, and someone who doesn't know the way can only be fuckbuddy, i.e. "fuck and go" without fringe activities.)

Why would it be your business? Anyway, almost the same questions in similar style have been asked here: http://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?17994-ChristianPFC which lead me to assume that abidismaili on gaythailand is AsDaRa on sawatdeenetwork. There is no board rule against posting under a different name on another forum, but I find it strange. That was less than a year ago, either you have short memory or you are a troll. Whichever it is, I won't participate in any further speculation about my financial and professional situation and ask everyone else to do the same.

And greedy. From years of chatting with and meeting Thai boys (not just in the bars, in fact most of them not from bars) I can say that the majority is lazy and/or stupid and/or greedy. Supporting data in my blog. Your experience might be different. I saved money from work in Europe. If it's a consolation for you: it won't last til retirement, some day I will have to find a job. This subject was discussed before (on Sawatdeenetwork?). I'm curious about others' finances as well (mainly how much they tip), so I will answer such questions (if you ask nicely) in the most general terms.

I would need a closer look at Malaysia and Singapore, and even then I might prefer to sleep alone. I'm really picky.

One more thing about staffing of bars: Eros seem to have the same boys for years, and unfortunately not of them is my type, and while I like the concept, I don't go to Eros every time I'm in Pattaya. Kawaii seems to still have half of the boys I saw a month before. Power Boys and Nice Boys seem to have a completely new set every time I go (which makes me wonder: where did the others go, and how do they source their boys?)

I would estimate for every 1 Farang who invited a boy, but then changed his mind, there are 100 Thai boys who broke an agreement (I'm still appalled when I think of vinapu's report about the boy he offed from Tawan and who was already dressed and back, and then reneging because a better deal came along.) or simply were late. Below a recent case: [LINE] Chat with JJ Saved time：2017/01/03 23:03 2016/12/30(Fri) 13:43 Christian I'm in Bangkok now. Tomorrow to hua hin. 13:45 JJ You have room in hua Hin??? 13:54 Christian Stay with [farang friend in HH]. Same like last time we went. [we went 2 days 1 night a year before] 13:55 JJ Ok good for you 14:03 Christian Do you want to come? [message read immediately, but answer only later. That gives a clue: Any answer other than an immediate and enthusiastic "Yes" is a "No". ] 15:18 JJ Missed Call 15:24 Christian write please 16:58 Christian Cancelled Call 16:58 Christian Where are you now? 17:01 JJ Calling Time 2:08 [he can only go with me if his friend can come with us. I joke I want to see his friend, if he is handsome he can come.] 17:15 JJ [Photo] 17:15 JJ [Photo] 17:16 Christian A bit clearer? We can go all three, have to share one big bed. 17:18 JJ [Photo] 17:18 JJ I can go with myfriend? 17:19 Christian Yes 17:19 JJ Ok 17:19 Christian I will leave my room 12 tomorrow and take train 13 from hua lampong. 17:20 JJ Ok 17:20 JJ Time 18:35 JJ Time you meet me ?? 18:41 Christian Tomorrow 1230 at hua lampong railway station. 18:58 JJ Ok 2016/12/31(Sat) 4:46 JJ Tomorrow I not go with you Na serry kiss [no explanation given, actually I feel honored that he messaged me well ahead, others just didn't accept calls or did not reply to messages when I tried to reach them] In this case no harm done, with hindsight it saved me money (I would have paid for all transport and food for both) and I don't have to entertain two boys. From knowing this boys and similar situations with other boys, I already assumed that he will not come, and I would not have waited (going by train, anyway) or called. In fact, the day before I bought one ticket for me at Hua Lampong railway station, and if the boys had come, I would have bought two more immediately before departure.

I'm happy with the lunch buffet 12-1430 at Ibis Sathorn for 229 THB, and they have a breakfast buffet as well.

I have not seen anything like the op posted on open sale in Bangkok or Pattaya. There is another underwear shop in boyztown, near second road, in the soi with former Wild West Boys or X-Boys. But they have the same stuff that you can get in Silom, at twice the price (200 vs 100). And there is yet another underwear shop across the south-western corner of Tuk-Com.

Could you share how much you tipped the boys? Reality check: You went three times with a prostitute in a country that is neither yours nor his, and you can't even have a full conversation without using a translation program, and you are infatuated with him? I would call this emotional immaturity. It's not a matter of age, happened to me as well around age 35 at least twice that I became infatuated with a boy for a few days (I postponed all other planned activities, stayed at home waiting for the boy to call or message me when we can meet again, ready to instantly get on a taxi to meet him again), but after second or third encounter I found serious character flaws (boy is stupid or lazy or greedy or all three) and lost interest.

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Boy gogo - boy earns nothing from drinks - boy earns nothing from bar fine - boy must give 300 bht to mamasan from short time fee that he earns That's an extreme scenario, or rather a combination of how some bars treat their boys poorly, and has been refuted by others already. Or just the owner's greed. Even if the boy gets for 20 Baht out of the 200 Baht I pay for his drink, that's ridiculous as justification for drink price.

Then you will sooner or later see the bad sides of dating Thai boys* (may are stupid, lazy, greedy, sometimes all in the same boys). Not liking Soi Twilight is a good start. *I mean for free. If you don't mind paying through the nose, and live in the here and now**, you can have a ball, see recent posts by a447. **I know many who can't manage anything further than 1 km away and 1 hour in the future.

I don't need a program to do it for me, I can skip posts I don't find interesting myself, or rather read diagonally to save time (like prolific posters with poor command of English). Also, putting someone on ignore is a recognition of DEFEAT, an inability to cope with someone in such an innocuous place as an online forum. I largely agree with that. To me, ignore means you disagree, but have run out of arguments. Of course there are people where reasonable arguments don't work, but I always first try with reason. Ignore on the forums is equivalent on blocking someone on social network, a feature that has some merit but which I use only very sparsely. In 3 years, chatting with hundreds of boys, I had to block only 2.

Pattaya would be my first choice, for price and proximity to Bangkok. I like Adam's Apple in Chiang Mai, and a recent visit to Phuket Patong was a surprise that the bars are ok (but I don't like a lot of other things about Phuket Patong, details here http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/12/phuket-patong-29nov2016.html) Recent visit to Taiwan Taipei saunas ok, gay hot spring great. Ubon, short for Ubon Ratchathani. Last time I was there, I didn't find anyone I would be interested on hornet in within 100 km! But from Two years ago I remember spotting many cute boys in Udon, short for Udon Ratchathani, and friends confirm. There is no explanation for this, as both towns are in Esan.

What would be the justification for different rates in different venues? The different venue is already covered in different drink price and off-fee, once you step out of the bar, all boys are the same. My underscore Christian, I know it's Christmas Eve already in Bangkok but I always thought you don't drink , even on holidays. Really? I'm of opinion that in bar all boys are the same and only when out they show or not their true colours. I mean I can't distinguish a boy from a gogo bar, a beer bar or from online when I see him in the street, and coming from a particular bar is no guaranty for performance. Although all (at least 4) boys I had from Screwboys over the course of 5 years were good, but I'm sure some day I will get a dud from there. I mean a boy from Dreamboys looks the same like a boy from Super A in the street, I can't justify paying former 2000 and latter 1000, hence I don't go to Dreamboys.

You don't mention if you have been to Thailand before. Are these 2 weeks your first time in Thailand? 2. A friend took my to Soy Twilight. I didn't like it. Being and English man, the first time I was accosted by some idiot trying to sell me boys.. I nearly punched him *out of instinct from England*. Anyone else feel the same? Nowadays yes, but the first years I came here for holiday I was quite hooked, until I realized I'm paying through the nose and some other other issues I don't like (e.g. non-offable boys) I have stuck to Hornet (the app) for the last 2 weeks. I have boys coming out of my ears. I have met 3 now. Did it all go smooth? Endless chat? Late or no show? "I don't know the way?" Unreasonable money or material requests? But are Thai boys the most passionate amazing lovers you have ever found? My experiences with Thai boys range from poor to good, with the majority so-so. Whereas with more than 10 Cambodian boys (most of them in Thailand), good experiences throughout. (Burmese positive as well, but the sample is too small. Vietnamese moneyboys in Bangkok so poor, I stopped after two. Vietnamese for free in Bangkok or Vietnam ok.)

1000 for short time, regardless where I take the boy (sunee, boystown, online, beer bars). I know some bars in boyztown are trying to push st to 1500, but I could resist so far (but I could not resist making comments to staff or boy that I can get boys for 1000 in sunee, online or beer bars, in fact I make it a point telling them that I would be interested at 1000, but not at 1500). Nowadays I do long time only as an extension of short time, i.e. the short time was good and the boy shows no intention to leave, then I would tip 1200 to 1500 for lt. What would be the justification for different rates in different venues? The different venue is already covered in different drink price and off-fee, once you step out of the bar, all boys are the same. There might be superstars in some bars who demand a higher tip than average, but if it already starts like that, I can see more trouble coming up ("I don't do this, I don't do that, and I have to leave in 10 minutes").

As far as I know, there are tablets with 25 or 50 or 100 mg active ingredient sold, so you can chose which works best for you. I assume they all cost the same, and then if you find 50 mg works fine for you, buying 100 mg and splitting it in 2 saves you 50%. There are pills that are coated for delayed dissolution, this seems not to be the case with Viagra and generics (they are coated, but it doesn't seem to influence the activity). There is a joke: "Do you know what Viagra looks like from inside?" - "No." - "Neither do I. I always have to take a full pill." (Translates poorly from Germany to English; in German it assumes that the person replying "No" has to take a full pill.) Weisst Du, wie Viagra von innen aussieht? - Nein. - Ich muss auch immer eine ganze nehmen.

One reason why I don't buy Thai language travel guides is that they are split in three equal parts: what to see, where to stay, where to eat. I'm only interested in "what to see", and won't buy a book that has two third of stuff I don't care about. When traveling, I wish I could charge my stomach at a power plug instead of wasting time looking for a place to eat. As for hotels charging for WiFi (the Malaysia does), that's outrageous. An anachronism. 100 years ago houses in Paris advertised "Water/Electricity on all floors", and some of these signs survived and are now left as curiosities. I hope charging for WiFi goes the same way, soon.

You should have no problem at all. I have flown many airlines and had many extensions (for visa and visa exempt stays), only on my last trip (Taipei to Bangkok with China Airlines) was I asked for a ticket out of Thailand*. There might be two sides to this: the cost for the airline to take you back if immigration refuses entry (that can be taken care by signing an indemnity form), and the airline might get a warning? And I assume Thai immigration states "air ticket out of Thailand within 30 days of entering". *within 30 days of entering, as I had no visa. My flight home is 60 days after entering, which didn't count, even after discussing 30 days extension with airline staff. The simplest solution at that time (with a bit over 1 hour left until flight takes off) was buying a refundable flight at the airport. Now I have a China Airlines flight Bangkok to Taipei which cost me 25 kTHB, already charged to my credit card, and am in the process to cancel my booking and have the price refunded (minus processing fees). Future flights need better preparation.

Yes indeed. I like to use cotton buds for cleaning my ears, and I the best ear cleanings where better than the worst sex I had. And my last two sexual partners were sensitive to me licking and biting around and on their ears, I call it "aural sex".

If my phone is a Smartphone, do I need a different SIM card? SIM card size is the same, but you probably want data connection to use your phone as a smart phone. Nowadays, probably all SIM cards come with data connection, but my card from 2011 (?) cannot, so I bought a SIM with data in 2013. And don't forget to bring your passport, you have to register when buying a SIM.

Earlier this year I had a new filling (after unpleasant feeling where the old filling was) in Bangkok Christian Hospital. Price was about 3000 Baht, quick service, no pain, I would go there again if necessary.

The substance in poppers (butyl/amyl/pentyl nitrite) is cheap, so there is no reason to fake poppers (unless you don't have access and have to dilute it). The problem is rather that it decomposes at room temperature and should be stored in a fridge, or for longer storage freezer. I once met a boy in a sauna who was sniffing on a bottle, but it was completely decomposed, all I could smell was fusel oil (decomposition product of poppers, and found in cheap spirits and causes hangover), disgusting. Nobody ever quoted which law outlaws poppers in Thailand. Poppers, pornography, prostitution: all forbidden, but widely available and users and providers not prosecuted?