Bangkok trip report: 10 Days of Bliss.

[hank75]

11 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Boom sings? That is nice! 

He enjoy singing. But whether he sings well is a different matter altogether 🤣 his talents lie elsewhere 

[hank75]

2 hours ago, Zackbr1952 said:

The security Adonis radioed all points with a screen shot. We went on with our tour, my sister very sad. While later we came down from the upper tram and he was waiting for us at the station. They had caught the culprit at the summit and were on the way down with my sister's phone. Happy ending.

I was hoping the tale would end with Adonis giving you a different kind of happy ending!

[spoon]

3 hours ago, hank75 said:

He enjoy singing. But whether he sings well is a different matter altogether 🤣 his talents lie elsewhere 

Actually he does sings well, at least the song I had requested, which is a thai song lol

[hank75]

1 hour ago, spoon said:

Actually he does sings well, at least the song I had requested, which is a thai song lol

Lucky you as my experience with Boom at karaoke is very different and rather painful hahaha 

[spoon]

Day 6 - My first repeat

Woke up refreshed, went down for breakfast alone for the first time this trip. I can see the staff surprised look that I am alone this morning, having had a different guy daily before lol. For those who are interested, Hilton Bangkok Grande Asoke does have executive lounge for breakfast available for gold and diamond members or those who stays in executive club rooms or one can choose to eat at the full buffet restaurant Atelier at level 2, with special section only for diamond member, which is a separate room called the Governor. Its decor is North American downtown sports bar, and it gives extra privacy and space compared to the cramped restaurant.  

Additional service provided here are a small selection of a la carte breakfast items made to order, such as smoke salmon egg benedict, avocado toast, teriyaki salmon on brown rice etc plus extended options for coffee and tea. 

Went back to hotel, chat with some members about yesterday events and future activities plans while waiting for my 1.30pm guy to arrive. He messaged me around noon saying he is on his way. He did mentioned about an hour later that the traffic was bad, but still arrived at 1.15pm. 

I went down to pick him up, and he was waiting at the back of the lobby which is an odd location. Later on, I figured out why, because he drove his car to my hotel and parked at the hotel parking. My stay does includes free on site parking though so all is fine. Our session was as good as i remember and our after is even hotter than i recall. Ive had him twice before at history massage, but during this trip, when i enquire the shop, they say he already resign. He told me he has issues with the shop and just quit few days earlier. Luckily we had exchange contact so we can still meet for massage outside the shop.

After he left, I quickly take shower and packed to move to Silom. One of member's perk is 4pm late check out. Took taxi to silom as my effort to find a bolt driver fail due to the heavy traffic. Apparently its a long weekend for thai's so everyone is going back home or out of bangkok. Luckily as i went to the lobby door, a taxi came to drop passenger at the hotel, so I asked if he can send me to Furama Silom and he said yes.

In the car though, he was pretty angry at the traffic situation. He even asked if he can drop me on the side of the road, but it would be easier for him to drop me at the lobby as the traffic is bad already, if he were to stopped in the middle of the traffic when the traffic is about to move, im sure he will get angry driver honking at him. 

My room is ready, and i got the room at 17th floor. All the room here are facing the river and I can see some part of icon siam from my room. Another near miss with my phone... Took out phone to show the check in counter my booking, but forgot that my passport is inside my luggage, so need to open my luggage in the lobby. Somehow I forgot my phone and again only realize that when im in my room. Needless to say, I was in panic mode and cursing myself for being so absent minded while making my way to the lobby and wishing I didnt left my phone in the taxi car. 

Luckily my panic mode was short lived as when i am at the counter, I saw my phone there. The reception just asked me to unlock it and returned the phone to me saying that someone in the lobby found my phone. In my defense, I didnt left it in the car this time lol 

Had a nap after unpacking and asked forum member about dinner/bar visit plan tonight. Turned out they had early dinner already so I went to a Malaysian restaurant called Ibu Restaurant few blocks south near the hindu temple to eat my dinner before making my way to midnight bar. 

Tonight, I wanted to visit Tawan. Those who has been reading the forum should know about Atlas closure, and rumors about their staff is now working in Tawan. Waited for some forum members before heading to tawan for tonight. Went there before the show starts and 3 of us were ushered to sit in the middle, just slightly left off the stage. One of us decided to take the front row. Got our drink and waited for the show while few of the guys are taking turn to be on stage. 

I have to say the rumor is true, as the number of guys in Tawan are more than my recent visit in July for sure. I believe there should be more than 20 of them, some twinks as well. At least 3 of them are offing material for me. Alas, I already have a guy for tonight, my first repeat of the trip, my Jupiter guy. So I can enjoy the show at Tawan tonight without pressure to off them. Shows was similar to previous experience, some S&M shows, muscle flexing shows, Jerk off show, and some ladyboy number as well. I guess we can officially forget about sex shows in bangkok. Officially extinct.

Told my guy that Ill go to him after his show finished and he texted me around 11.17pm that he has finished his show. I told him im at tawan now and will go to him around 11.30pm. We had supper at Tiger Mala restaurant on the way to Furama before we went back to hotel. As always, session went well. And we talked about world politics and world's future as well. I did bring a topic of travelling together with him, initially just to test the water, if he has any interest at all. More on this later....

[mauRICE]

9 hours ago, hank75 said:

He enjoy singing. But whether he sings well is a different matter altogether 🤣 his talents lie elsewhere 

With a name like Boom it's not hard to guess where. 😏

[hank75]

1 hour ago, mauRICE said:

With a name like Boom it's not hard to guess where. 😏

His best friend is named Arm 

[kram987]

18 hours ago, BjornAgain said:

The Germans win hands down on the description front, Das Handy.

A Handy means something else where I grew up

[ichigo]

2 hours ago, spoon said:

Ive had him twice before at history massage, but during this trip, when i enquire the shop, they say he already resign. He told me he has issues with the shop and just quit few days earlier. Luckily we had exchange contact so we can still meet for massage outside the shop.

I had something similar with a guy from Senso - he was excellent and worth repeating and luckily I got his contact details as when I went to the shop some months later, he didn't work there anymore.

[hank75]

27 minutes ago, ichigo said:

I had something similar with a guy from Senso - he was excellent and worth repeating and luckily I got his contact details as when I went to the shop some months later, he didn't work there anymore.

Very important to get contacts if you even think there’s a chance of wanting to see the guy again. I once offed a guy who was a staple at a bar for two nights in a row without any prior arrangements and just assumed it would be easy to find him again. There was good chemistry and interest from him, so I was complacent, not to mention quite sleepy each time he departed. On my third and final night I popped into his bar (to meet my friend not to off him but I wanted to say hello) and he had given himself a night off. I wasn’t too concerned since we already had two nights together. Tried to request his Line from the mamasan but Line has this irritating function where you can’t add new users if you have a foreign number, only by QR code. 
 

Fast forward 2 or 3 months, I eagerly went to the bar as soon as I arrived and lo and behold I was informed he hadn’t been at work for several days and was on a long-long time booking by another customer. And he did not have a clue I was in Bangkok. I had to bribe the mamasan expensively to communicate with him, find out when his customer was leaving and (I am guilty to say) negotiate the cost of having him reduce his booking by a day. Lesson learned, always obtain contacts. 

[BjornAgain]

1 hour ago, kram987 said:

A Handy means something else where I grew up

Same same in UK.

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, spoon said:

 

Additional service provided here are a small selection of a la carte breakfast items made to order, such as smoke salmon egg benedict, avocado toast, teriyaki salmon on brown rice etc

do they have any edible food as well ?

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, hank75 said:

Very important to get contacts if you even think there’s a chance of wanting to see the guy again.....Lesson learned, always obtain contacts. 

I agree 125% with you but deal with contacts as you do with boiling water, if you not careful, harmless thing may hurt you .

I had two cases , both very good guys , who after obtaining my Line started bombarding me with multiple messages a day. " how are you ? ' , ' did you eat already ?' , "I miss you " etc which fast become annoying  beyond measure.

To put it mildly , it did not help their case as I stopped answering and when there,  I try to avoid one at any cost and lost my hots for another entirely.

[hank75]

5 hours ago, vinapu said:

I agree 125% with you but deal with contacts as you do with boiling water, if you not careful, harmless thing may hurt you .

I had two cases , both very good guys , who after obtaining my Line started bombarding me with multiple messages a day. " how are you ? ' , ' did you eat already ?' , "I miss you " etc which fast become annoying  beyond measure.

To put it mildly , it did not help their case as I stopped answering and when there,  I try to avoid one at any cost and lost my hots for another entirely.

I take your point, but after last mishap I’d rather have contact in hand instead of leaving it up to bar/mamasan/fate as my time in Bangkok is usually quite limited. 

I don’t mind knowing early if a guy is annoying, helps to not waste time and simply cut him loose. There is a certain Moonlight model that I admired very much on stage but discovered after offing him that he had a personality I admired far less and would manipulate the situation to get more money. He still Lines me from time to time.

[spoon]

7 hours ago, vinapu said:

do they have any edible food as well ?

Yes, at the normal buffet for the normies lol

[spoon]

3 hours ago, hank75 said:

I take your point, but after last mishap I’d rather have contact in hand instead of leaving it up to bar/mamasan/fate as my time in Bangkok is usually quite limited. 

I don’t mind knowing early if a guy is annoying, helps to not waste time and simply cut him loose. There is a certain Moonlight model that I admired very much on stage but discovered after offing him that he had a personality I admired far less and would manipulate the situation to get more money. He still Lines me from time to time.

Im in the same camp but I would only exchange line if i really like the guy, and would only texted them when i want to see them again. Most of the time, I dont even pre-arrange by telling them my travel date, but more so as a backup if i didnt see them in bar or massage place anymore. I also find it useful when I didnt find anyone i like that night, or when its my arrival is near midnight where bar visit might not happen. Other than that, i still prefer to find my guy at bar or massage place.

[hank75]

1 hour ago, spoon said:

Im in the same camp but I would only exchange line if i really like the guy, and would only texted them when i want to see them again. Most of the time, I dont even pre-arrange by telling them my travel date, but more so as a backup if i didnt see them in bar or massage place anymore. I also find it useful when I didnt find anyone i like that night, or when its my arrival is near midnight where bar visit might not happen. Other than that, i still prefer to find my guy at bar or massage place.

Yes now I try to only exchange Line with guys I have exceptional rapport. 

One of my fears used to be guys who asked for my Line immediately, either at the bar upon first meeting or during first off.

After a few years I hardened my heart and started fibbing that I did not have Line. But because I have a bad poker face, I always have a panicked deer in the headlight expression and it is clear to the boy I am lying. And what do you do with the more persistent ones who then ask for alternatives like WhatsApp, or more intrusively, Facebook? Lie that I have no phone when it is clearly in my hand and they’ve seen me using it?

The irony is, the guy above that I had to hunt down, he actually asked for my Line quite early on but because I was “enforcing” my own policy of not handing out my details, I firmly said I did not have Line and congratulated myself for sticking to my guns. He knew I was lying, but politely did not pursue it. Turned out he was the only guy I wanted to see again very much and had to pay for the privilege. 

[jimmie50]

2 hours ago, spoon said:

Im in the same camp but I would only exchange line if i really like the guy, and would only texted them when i want to see them again. Most of the time, I dont even pre-arrange by telling them my travel date, but more so as a backup if i didnt see them in bar or massage place anymore.

I exchanged LINE with a couple of masseurs I really liked at shops I visited on this last trip, but we don't really message back and forth.  The understanding when exchanging info was that I would get in touch with them directly the next time I was in Bangkok instead of going through the shop.  I don't really plan to let them know in advance of my travel plans.  I did exchange info with my grinder fellow who kept asking for financial support, so I ended up blocking him.  My other special friend will only occasionally reach out for a chat maybe every couple of weeks.  I am ok with that, as I really like him.