Bangkok trip report: 10 Days of Bliss.

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, Marc308 said:

 One of the founding principles of the Internet is/was "disintermediation"

Another one was that internet will stop spreading false news as, everybody can check the facts easily. And now  where we are?

Soon takers of vaccines and believers in round earth will be endangered and hopefully protected minority. So much about those promises. 

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, Marc308 said:

Screw the bar mafia. Who needs middlemen. Why not use it? I prefer the money go to the service provider. 

In ideal world, yes. In real bars have their uses, first being security. If something won't work, you know where to go and complain, something missing from your room, ditto. The same works for boys. Customer  mistreats them  they can ask for help. Boy doesn't show up for work and even his friends won't now where he is, alarm may be sound. 

Second - in bar we see what we are buying, we can touch and sniff.  On apps it's on wings and prayer which I learned last week by call boy over for massage. Version which showed I the lobby was boy from picture  just 7 years older and 14ckg heavier. Thanks God massage was great but great massage  can have from 60 y.o. granny.

So for people  like me, where looks kind of counts before making commitments bars hVe their uses. 

And so it has for those who rather spend their 2 hours ogling boys on the stage, no matter how ugly, glass of beer in hand than nervously combing the screen seeking for that perfect match. 

Firing up smartphone rarely generates a trill but there's nice tingling all over when over approaches Moonlight or Arena, just to name a few. 

[Marc308]

Thanks V I appreciate hearing your perspective on all this. I understand that if my perspective were to dominate, the bars would soon crumble (as they already have in BT and SP). 

1. I realize there is this aura of "safety" around the bar scene. Of course most of it is sheer fabrication. In the old days, we were told that the boys were regularly screened for STDs and HIV. That was a ruse. Then we were told we could complain to the mamasan if provided services were substandard. Well good luck with that one too. 

2. Your argument about "touch and sniff" reminds me of the early objections to using Amazon (and some other ecommerce disintermediated sites). Yes you can disappointed by quality, sure it is possible. I can recall times when offing someone from the bar yielded a boy who "turned a switch" the moment he left the bar, leading to disappointment. It happens from either source.

3. Finally, I was talking about the bars only. Massage houses, saunas (do I miss Babylon!), and other establishments where meetings are possible is a slightly different matter. We do agree, for example, on Arena which I happen to like. At least in this situation you pay for a room from your "fee" not pay for nothing (as has been adequately documented by the OP and throughout this thread). 

4. Also I was not talking specifically about apps either. While I do use them, the pain of using the "free" version will drive you crazy. And the prices they charge (I am talking about you, Grindr!) to rid oneself of most of the annoyances is crazy high.  

I realize if time is of the essence perhaps bars are the more expedient way to go. If you have some time though, I think serendipity is a far more satisfying way to explore. Let me give you one example: I had a farang friend in Pattaya who specialized in mototaxi boys. He was an aficionado about who was available, about how to strike the deal, what to look for, what to be wary of, etc. He definitely got many interesting "rides" alright! 

[macaroni21]

I can write a long post about the value propositions (or lack thereof) of gogo bars in Thailand, and an even longer compare-and-contrast with the booming massage industry.

However, whether a gogo bar still offers value despite rising prices will depend on an individual's wants and priorities. However, this statement does not end the discussion either, because as prices rise but the product offer remains the same, the remaining number of customers who still consider it value will decline; and at some point, the business or industry becomes unsustainable.

The more specific issue arising from @spoon's incident, however, is, at heart, not even a price/value question. It is more accurately seen as a penalty charge which the bar wanted to impose for a customer choosing a lower-priced option, which hitherto, has long been a legitimate option. The bar was not even trying to trade. It wasn't saying, we're charging you more because we're giving you more value. It was trying to punish a customer for taking the lower-price option.

Kind of like, if we booked an economy-class ticket rather than a business class one, the airline gets miffed that it is losing revenue and then suddenly says, oh, you have to pay a $XXXX surcharge if you're not flying business class.

[jason1975]

2 hours ago, macaroni21 said:

Kind of like, if we booked an economy-class ticket rather than a business class one, the airline gets miffed that it is losing revenue and then suddenly says, oh, you have to pay a $XXXX surcharge if you're not flying business class.

Good analogy!

[spoon]

9 hours ago, macaroni21 said:

I can write a long post about the value propositions (or lack thereof) of gogo bars in Thailand, and an even longer compare-and-contrast with the booming massage industry.

However, whether a gogo bar still offers value despite rising prices will depend on an individual's wants and priorities. However, this statement does not end the discussion either, because as prices rise but the product offer remains the same, the remaining number of customers who still consider it value will decline; and at some point, the business or industry becomes unsustainable.

The more specific issue arising from @spoon's incident, however, is, at heart, not even a price/value question. It is more accurately seen as a penalty charge which the bar wanted to impose for a customer choosing a lower-priced option, which hitherto, has long been a legitimate option. The bar was not even trying to trade. It wasn't saying, we're charging you more because we're giving you more value. It was trying to punish a customer for taking the lower-price option.

Kind of like, if we booked an economy-class ticket rather than a business class one, the airline gets miffed that it is losing revenue and then suddenly says, oh, you have to pay a $XXXX surcharge if you're not flying business class.

Correct, these hidden fee that suddenly appears when there isnt such fee before. Ive taken guys from jupiter without entering bar before and just need to pay 500 baht off fee. Ive done this with many other bars as well and this is the first time i had this issue. And mind you, I didnt remove the guy early too, usually I will check with the guy if there is many customers (so he can still make money off drink) or not, and if he rather leave and come to me. And if I didnt tell mamasan, my guy can leave with just paying 500 baht...

[Min]

On 12/23/2025 at 11:37 AM, jason1975 said:

I must find out how forum members who write trip reports take notes. Write in point form in a journal? Type into handphone? 🤔

Just hand-write on the bottom of the boy du jour, and then take a picture. Would double as a diary and also a nice keepsake.

[Min]

On 12/24/2025 at 9:15 AM, spoon said:

Tonight plan was to visit moonlight. Used to be my staples where i get my guys, but sadly the situation here isn't much of an improvement from my last visit in July (yes, I didn't report this trip here, so was my trip in March lol). Only 4-5 floor boys. The model line-up is a different story though.

I remembered walking by Moonlight a couple of months ago, on a weekday night, around 10 pm, and was surprised to find what looked like the whole cast (floor boys, models, including Babe, and mamasans) all sitting outside to attract customers (so it was probably an empty house inside?) Never saw anything like that before and thought to myself they must be that desperate to do this.

But my last visit to Moonlight was boring enough (only 3 floor boys were there so no rotations - Mamasan told me the rest already gone with customers, who did they think they were kidding??? - and a series of listless performances by the so-called models, Tum in particular looked like he just taking a nap while going through the motions) so I decide not to come in.

[Min]

On 12/25/2025 at 7:45 PM, spoon said:

I have received intel that a guy i really like from FB moved here, so I tried to look if he is around and lo and behold, i saw him when its in between shows and guys started to rotate on the stage.

That reminds me of something I need to check with @jason1975. A Viet boy in FB told me that your guy (whose real name starts with the character H.) had a big fight with the FB lady boss, some harsh words were exchanged, so he left FB to work in Dreamboy. But it didn't ring true based on what I read in your own threads?

[jason1975]

5 hours ago, Min said:

That reminds me of something I need to check with @jason1975. A Viet boy in FB told me that your guy (whose real name starts with the character H.) had a big fight with the FB lady boss, some harsh words were exchanged, so he left FB to work in Dreamboy. But it didn't ring true based on what I read in your own threads?

Nope. My guy's name doesn"t start with letter H.

It was another Viet guy who moved to Dreamboys. I know him as he is my guy's good friend.

[hank75]

On 1/26/2026 at 9:28 AM, spoon said:

Ive taken guys from jupiter without entering bar before and just need to pay 500 baht off fee.

I have too. And this is why Jupiter’s boss is notorious for being greedy and money grubbing. If it was a standard rule a boy can’t be offed from the door, sure, but to have the rules change like the weather is poor customer service. 

[jason1975]

The Viet guy I referred to moved from FB to DB end last year.

There's also another Viet guy from FB who moved to DB in January this year. Maybe that's the guy you heard about. He also has regular Singapore customer (who are richer than me!).

And I also know him. Haha.

[jason1975]

Anyway here's update on number of Viet guys working in FB currently - only 4!

Mainly Myanmar guys at FB now followed by Laos and Cambodian. Gone are the days when half the guys at FB were Vietnamese.

My guy will be away for half a year or more to build his house. Another guy has recently gone back to Vietnam permanently after working for enough number of years. One more guy mysteriously disappeared and rumour has it he found a spinsor. Then there's the two guys who changed bar.

There are several Viet guys working at Goodboys. And yes, I know them all! 🤣🤣🤣

[Min]

21 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

There's also another Viet guy from FB who moved to DB in January this year. Maybe that's the guy you heard about. He also has regular Singapore customer (who are richer than me!).

I guessed that's why the mix-up because we talked about a Viet boy in FB who got a Singaporean sponsor. I never knew there were two of them

12 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

One more guy mysteriously disappeared and rumour has it he found a spinsor.

If we are talking about the same boy (who has a birth brother still working in FB), then another Viet boy from FB told me that his sponsor bought him a HOUSE and a CAR, so (and I quote the boy) "the sacrifice (he meant the sex) is totally worth it"

[macaroni21]

6 minutes ago, Min said:

If we are talking about the same boy (who has a birth brother still working in FB), then another Viet boy from FB told me that his sponsor bought him a HOUSE and a CAR, so (and I quote the boy) "the sacrifice (he meant the sex) is totally worth it"

Yet another Singapore sponsor? Good heavens, what's wrong with these sponsors???

Alternatively, I had better find one myself.

[jason1975]

1 minute ago, Min said:

I guessed that's why the mix-up because we talked about a Viet boy in FB who got a Singaporean sponsor. I never knew there were two of them

If we are talking about the same boy (who has a birth brother still working in FB), then another Viet boy from FB told me that his sponsor bought him a HOUSE and a CAR, so (and I quote the boy) "the sacrifice (he meant the sex) is totally worth it"

I have heard some talk about them being brothers but I don't think so.

Regarding guy with Singapore regular customer, I didn't hear the part about disagreement between him and boss.

What I heard was that he wanted to be away from work a few days during New Year (Singapore customer invited him to Singapore and paid for his air ticket). Whether he was given permission by bar or not, I do not know.

What I do know is that he went to Singapore for few days. Then he went back to Bangkok and "he no work at bar" according to my guy.

Two weeks later. I happen to bump into him on street and he told me he's moved to Dreamboys. When I ask him why he's not working at Freshboys, he just replied "boss no want me."

Nice guy. I offed him twice last year - when my guy was away for Tet!

[mauRICE]

1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

One more guy mysteriously disappeared and rumour has it he found a spinsor.

He found a spinster? That'd make sense. Ka-ching!

Or I can see the headlines now, "Vietnamese boy disappears, rumoured to have been eaten by a cat!" Wouldn't that be wonderful?  Irony of ironies, A Twist in the Tail, as it were. Lord Archer couldn't have made it up!

[Min]

1 hour ago, macaroni21 said:

Yet another Singapore sponsor? Good heavens, what's wrong with these sponsors???

Alternatively, I had better find one myself.

No idea about the nationality of the sponsor in question but I know that boy, who used to be very popular in FB, one of the two top-earners according to some sources, along with No 7 from Myanmar.

Anyway, I guess a house in the boy's province would not cost that much. If he lives in Hanoi, it could easily set the sponsor back a couple of hundred thousand USD for a small house.

[Min]

1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

I have heard some talk about them being brothers but I don't think so.

No, I'm talking about the boy who quit because he got a sponsor (who demands that he no longer work in a boy bar), not the boy who moved to Dream Boy.

[jason1975]

39 minutes ago, Min said:

No, I'm talking about the boy who quit because he got a sponsor (who demands that he no longer work in a boy bar), not the boy who moved to Dream Boy.

Yes I am referring to him.

Sorry if  I gave impression I was talking about guy who moved to Dreamboys.

My guy told me that guy with sponsor has been working in bar for many years. Was in big cock show. Disappeared for a while. Appeared last year and now disappeared. His number at the. bar kept changing because he was away many times. His last number was #29.

I have heard someone say that he is brother of the main performer of the sexy show and fellow big cock (who's still currently working). I asked my guy whether they are brothers and he told me they are not.

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, jason1975 said:

(who are richer than me!).

 

That's plain impossible

[Min]

3 hours ago, jason1975 said:

My guy told me that guy with sponsor has been working in bar for many years. Was in big cock show. Disappeared for a while. Appeared last year and now disappeared. His number at the. bar kept changing because he was away many times. His last number was #29.

I have heard someone say that he is brother of the main performer of the sexy show and fellow big cock (who's still currently working). I asked my guy whether they are brothers and he told me they are not.

Indeed we talked about the same guy and also the so-called brother. In the past, both of them kept referring to each other as "my brother", and in fact, the older guy was the one who told me about the sponsor thing when I made inquiry about the younger one, having not seen him for a couple of months. "Chuyển ra ngoài sống với khách rồi" (moving out to live with a customer already) was what he said. Later, another boy confirmed the news, adding details about the house and the car.

So they are probably not birth brothers but distant cousins coming from the same village, I guess.

[jason1975]

Sorry @spoon for causing your trip report to go off topic!