Thailand Trip Report February/March 2026

[jimmie50]

6 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Even though I book my guy for full day, we are not physically together 24/7.

He works at bar from 8pm every night and only sleeps at 3am after work. He sleeps till 4pm or 5pm. So he needs to sleep in daytime.

I think that is the normal schedule for most of the guys working clubs.  They don't get home until 1:30 or 2am and probably not ready to sleep until 3am.  Then they sleep all day until time to get up and start the routine all over again.  Cam would have that same routine, which is why I am agreeable to going to a club to watch the show after dinner.  My preference would be to head directly back to the hotel and sleep at a reasonable hour (for me).  I know that doesn't work for him.  So, shower and playtime after returning to the hotel needs to be later and sleep time later to accommodate his normal schedule.  

The difference for my situation is Cam won't be going to work.  I am paying the off fee so he doesn't need to be there.  To be honest, I'm not sure I would be ok with him spending the day with me, then going to work at the club, and then come back to me.  That isn't exactly the experience I am looking for.  I do not know if his club has a set off fee for ST and LT or not.  He has never mentioned it, nor has mamasan...other than THB 500 off fee to club.  Mamasan has not tried to interfere with our negotiations when in the club, and the last few times we haven't even gone inside the club.  Mamasan knows he is off with me and that is the end of the discussion between us.  Anything else is worked out between me and Cam.  

[jimmie50]

continued…Installment 20: Woke up to messages from Paradise guy, Banana guy, Chaichana guy and Cam. All of them came in during the night after they finished work with exception of Paradise guy.  Most of the time it is the same thing from everyone…’hello’, followed by ‘how are you’.  Paradise guy is almost always ‘what are you doing’.  Banana guy is the more aggressive of them all, always asking when I am coming to see him again.  Guy from Green massage is coming over this afternoon.  While he has ‘massage experience’ from both Paradise and Green massage, in our text messages to set up today’s session he mentioned a couple of times that he has never met with a massage customer outside of the shops before.  He also said I was his first time doing full on sex in either shop.  Before he has only done hand job.  Not sure how truthful the last part is, because he was definitely instigating the play at Green when I saw him, but I do believe his statement about never meeting a customer outside.  I can tell from the tone of his messages that he is a little nervous or anxious.

It seems the larger group of traveling forum members in Bangkok has now dwindled down to just two of us.  Met other forum member for dinner after both of us had afternoon extracurricular activities.  Nice dinner at a great Italian restaurant in Central Park.  Would definitely go back, and highly recommend.  Following dinner we walked over to Patpong 2.  Debated which club to visit, and ultimately decided on Dream Boy.  This was my first visit to Dream Boy.  Just like we all have our preferences for our gentlemen friends, we all have clubs that we prefer for various reasons.  I was not overly impressed with Dream Boy.  Found very few guys of interest to me; way too many mamasan’s or waiters acting as a mamasan…not sure which…and all very pushy; too many loud, large parties with big spenders who had way too much alcohol and assumed they were the only patrons in the bar; show was disappointing and DJ was terrible with transitions between the acts.  I would return if I was in a group and that was the club most of the group wanted to visit.  On my own, probably would not return to Dream Boy.  Did not see my massage guy from Prince in the line-up, so must have been his night off.  We decided to leave after the first show was over.  Other forum member was calling it an early evening to go pack before departure the next morning.  I walked across the alley to Hotmale.  Was going to see if Cam was there or had gone with a customer.  Turns out he was with a customer, so I decided to make it an early night as well and headed back to the condo.  Sent him a text letting him know I did stop by, because I was sure someone at Hotmale would tell him.  Turns out his outing with the customer was short and he was already at home.  Offered to come over to the condo, but by that time I decided to just get a good nights sleep and we agreed to meet the next night for dinner and he will spend the night again.

Just to update everyone on Banana guy…he sent me a text early evening letting me know he was free and wanted me to come take him off.  Told him I had plans for dinner with a friend and wasn’t sure what we might do after dinner.  Basically said ‘some other time’ to him.  After I said that, he replied with the following: ‘I’m free tonight if you want to meet up.  Maybe from tomorrow onwards I will be busy because of my clients.’  I really didn’t care for the pressure tactics or tone of his message, so I promptly responded 'I am busy tonight.  If I am free later in the week and you are busy with other customers, I will find another boy.  No problem.'  I think I am going to let him stew on that for a little while before connecting with him again…if I even connect again this trip.  His comment kind of turned me away from him….had the opposite effect of what he was going for.

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, jason1975 said:

The reason why I give my guy 5k to be with me per day is because the short time rate at his bar (Freshboy) is 2.5k and long time rate is 4k. In my mind, it would not be right to pay less than 4k for one whole day.

nothing wrong with that

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, jimmie50 said:

......., he replied with the following: ‘I’m free tonight if you want to meet up.  Maybe from tomorrow onwards I will be busy because of my clients.’  I really didn’t care for the pressure tactics or tone of his message, so I promptly responded 'I am busy tonight.  If I am free later in the week and you are busy with other customers, I will find another boy.  No problem.'  I think I am going to let him stew on that for a little while before connecting with him again…if I even connect again this trip.  His comment kind of turned me away from him….had the opposite effect of what he was going for.

I agree with you , to put it mildly his comments lacked sophistication.  

If English was his 1st language I'd classify that as outright rude  but since it's not,  it may came out more coarse than he intended . But that it's only defence I can think of.