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Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026

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    Monday night update... Progress. I didn't sleep through club time.  But I'm home before midnight.  Hit up several of the bars I hadn't ventured into yet.  I'm going to grade on a scale tonight be

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    Other random first impressions... - Wow there really are that many 7 Elevens. - Didn't need bug spray today.   - Was that a rat or a cat?  Sounds like a Dr Seuss line but holy f the rats here

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    I apparently just got the first massage I've ever had in my life. I didn't know I've never had a massage. But apparently until today hiring massage therapists based solely if they could've been in the

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3 minutes ago, aaroninatl said:

You're missing the point lol. #2 is still on Soi 4. I looked to see if I could find a different entrance. If there is one, I didn't see it. I'm back in a few weeks. Sounds like these guys stick around a while.

then Dreamboys , 2nd on your list is your salvation

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3 minutes ago, vinapu said:

then Dreamboys , 2nd on your list is your salvation

LOL did consider that. Also contemplated a massage over at Titan. But eh, I am back for 2 weeks at the end of the month. If I was headed back to the US, the situation would be more desperate. 😆

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2 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

Or find the guy at Super A !

I did pitch him an offer. Don't know if I wrote about it. He wasn't down. If we ever get to know each other in real life, ask me and I'll tell you the story. :)

15 minutes ago, aaroninatl said:

You're missing the point lol. #2 is still on Soi 4. I looked to see if I could find a different entrance. If there is one, I didn't see it. I'm back in a few weeks. Sounds like these guys stick around a while.

Ah, now you are in a bit of a pickle lol. You could pretend to be lost lol

@aaroninatl ... Does Grinder #1 know you are returning to Bangkok for two weeks before returning to the US? If not, might I suggest you keep that under wraps for now. Grinder #2 will be back in Cambodia, so no worries there, but if #1 knows you are returning and when...that might tend to complicate your time in the bars, massages, and offs during your last two weeks. It really all depends on what you want to experience those last two weeks in BKK...more of the boyfriend experience, or more of the footloose and fancy free experience.

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36 minutes ago, jimmie50 said:

@aaroninatl ... Does Grinder #1 know you are returning to Bangkok for two weeks before returning to the US? If not, might I suggest you keep that under wraps for now. Grinder #2 will be back in Cambodia, so no worries there, but if #1 knows you are returning and when...that might tend to complicate your time in the bars, massages, and offs during your last two weeks. It really all depends on what you want to experience those last two weeks in BKK...more of the boyfriend experience, or more of the footloose and fancy free experience.

Yes he does. Jason nailed it... I being the true Gemini I am do want both. I really need to fine a cloning specialist. 😆 Maybe they're cheaper in Thailand like other medical procedures. I do enjoy #1's company too. That one's a little easier to schedule some extra fun because he has a M-F 9 to 5 job teaching. That leaves daytime wide open plus he can't be out very late. But #1 is very fun behind closed doors. And he's fun to spend time with just doing date night stuff too.

Having this "problem" wasn't too tragic. It did wonders for my suffering self-esteem to have 2 really quality guys have interest in this aging former hottie. 😜 But hey I managed to complete the top 10 list and had 2 great massages too. And I certainly saved a lot of money. So that's good right? lol

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23 hours ago, vinapu said:

as two posters seem to have different look at Fake , I removed my previous post due to confusion - should I try it or forget it

As the Thais say - "Never try, never know".

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Well, gentlemen, that’ll put a wrap on this part of the trip. I’m at BKK getting ready to head to the island. Thanks for all the insight both before and once I got here. I definitely had a lot more fun because of all you guys. Was great to meet a couple of you. Hope to shake hands and have a beer with the rest of you at some point. One of my biggest regrets? Not spending more time on the rooftop of my Airbnb. I finally went up last night. It’s beautiful. Last night I booked the same place for my last couple weeks here.

I’ll be posting my Koh Samui adventures over in that board. Then I’ll start a “Adventures of a Bangkok Sophomore” post when I return in October 😉

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1 hour ago, aaroninatl said:

Well, gentlemen, that’ll put a wrap on this part of the trip. I’m at BKK getting ready to head to the island. Thanks for all the insight both before and once I got here. I definitely had a lot more fun because of all you guys. Was great to meet a couple of you. Hope to shake hands and have a beer with the rest of you at some point. One of my biggest regrets? Not spending more time on the rooftop of my Airbnb. I finally went up last night. It’s beautiful. Last night I booked the same place for my last couple weeks here.

I’ll be posting my Koh Samui adventures over in that board. Then I’ll start a “Adventures of a Bangkok Sophomore” post when I return in October 😉

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When are you back in Bangkok?

2 hours ago, aaroninatl said:

One of my biggest regrets? Not spending more time on the rooftop of my Airbnb

I’ve always felt trepidation about booking Airbnb since they’re not exactly legal for short stays but they’re certainly cost efficient if nothing goes wrong. Plus I like having a bit more space and staying in a more residential location. Would you recommend it?

6 hours ago, aaroninatl said:

It did wonders for my suffering self-esteem to have 2 really quality guys have interest in this aging former hottie. 😜

Many of my farang friends don’t believe me when I tell them there is a real market for mature farangs in Bangkok (and not in a paying sense) but it’s true

1 hour ago, spoon said:

Real market for rich mature retired farangs for a "husband" (and not in paying per meet but doesnt mean its cheaper sense)

Hmm no I don’t think they’re after a full on sugar daddy, some of these are young guys with proper jobs. But for sure they’re interested to “marry upwards”

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44 minutes ago, hank75 said:

Hmm no I don’t think they’re after a full on sugar daddy, some of these are young guys with proper jobs. But for sure they’re interested to “marry upwards”

My situation is different since both guys I connected with knew I'm a temp. But yeah neither of them were looking for sugar. #1 as I call him the Japanese teacher... he insisted on paying equally. If I tried to pay for 2 meals in a row, he wasn't having it. Now again, these were both finite little mini-relationships so no long term plans were ever in the works. But both guys were super attracted... I guess I still got a little left in the tank. In the US I'm invisible. But in Bangkok, I was blown away by the attention I was getting from guys of the caliber I was seeing. Both of the two I spent time with had good jobs and most importantly, amazing abs.

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