I was in a social setting, and one of the people in the conversation stated that a "gay voice" or non-masculine manner of speaking was a big turn-off for him. I told him that one of the most handsome men I can think of, Jason Caceres, is often accused of having a very gay voice, but that I didn't care one iota about his voice. When I showed him his photo, he admitted that he'd "pay him to drink his used bathwater." Were I not happily married, I'd be overwhelmed with happiness at being able to get physical with him just once, and would feel I'm the luckiest person on the planet if he were to be my husband. Of course, I'm close enough to the luckiest person on earth to have the husband I have. 😃

But I'm amazed that the way a person talks could be such a turn-off for someone. Would it matter to you? Would you just feel awkward having a spouse/domestic partner with such a voice? Or would you even decline sex with someone because of his voice? My husband's voice isn't exactly macho either, but I could hardly feel more proud of him. Is a man's voice a big factor in your attraction to him? Would you feel this is a reflection on you? Would you actually decline sex? Or just refuse to have him as your boyfriend?

Cory Tyndall is another man I think is hot, although his voice isn't the most masculine...

Another man who turns me on, but doesn't sound like Mr. Macho is DJ Joey W. Suarez.

https://www.facebook.com/JoeyWSuarez/

Of course, one of the most handsome men I've ever met, Hunter Gallagher, is also one of the most masculine (professional fighter). But I admire him for his beauty and talent, not his voice....

https://www.queerty.com/hunter-gallagher-on-his-hot-girl-attitude-taking-a-bump-in-the-ring-being-wrestlings-most-popular-sugar-baby-20250403/