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Dreamboy charge 500 baht for a drink, off is also 500. Freshboy 400 a drink and 500 the off also I believe. Hot male same... Surely these charges will deter some customers?!

I am sure it is not a mystery. From your posts on this forum you seem like a very nice person. 😃

vinapu writes: "in café I can tolerate guys being on the phone but not in my own bed and not when I hired them to help me with stamp collection" Agree entirely. Lendo writes above he is a top and " never have this with bottoms" -Well we are all creatures of our own experience and the few times it has happened to me it is only with bottoms. Some very good advice in the replies generally so I thank everyone for that. It ain't a big deal I realize and will try not to make it one ; I can as Lendo suggests discuss with the boy before offing him or simple politely though firmly tell him -when back to my home- to turn off his phone when we do it or leave the phone in another room in my apartment. And BiggusDikkus shares an interesting story above. 😊

Yes on reflection I can maybe say Dave did answer the question in his own way so I apoligise for that and maybe I am-- as Olddaddy says --taking it (too) personally... 😃

Yes thank u Dave..but this thread is not about watching porn per se, its' about the MB watching porn when he should be concentrating on being fucked or doing a fuck with the customer who is paying him. At least the first 2 responders above understood the question.😃 But maybe as "reader" astutely and succinctly says above: "I try not to take it personally They’re trying to fulfill both your and their fantasies. " Now that does answer the question even though it may be as kokopelli suggests : "maybe their partner is not very exciting or they are not doing what the money boy likes."

Recently over the last month or so a few Thai/Asian guests(mb) --not most of them -want to view porn on their phones when we are "at it". I find this very impolite and rude and in future will stop anyone doing this. what do others here think of this practice?

By the way may I ask a couple of questions following my recent trip to Pattaya: 1. If I decided to take another trip to Pattaya/Jontium ....which gay friendly hotel would you recommend in or around Jontium Complex? 2. On my visit to Boys Town I noticed that the Cupidol bar was all gone and the premises pulled down and or being re built. What happened? The previous owner of Cupidol was a pleasant charming person? Is he still about?

Here is a photo I took at Esan when I was there last early morning Friday:

The trip from Bkk to Pattaya and our brief visit there was a lot of fun. The driver (who was paid for his work) was a friend of one in our group and did a really good job of escorting us to the various venues when there. He also knew the quickest route to get to Pattaya. Once out of Bkk we had a hassle free easy journey. On the way to Jontiem Complex (JC) we stopped off on Beach Road for some sea air. Driving around Pattaya I get the impression a lot of Indian visitors much more than previously. Anyway: At JC we had a stroll up and down that soi. Had a drink at @homebar jontium before having a very tasty Thai meal at Diverium bar which is in the complex. Speaking for myself I was impressed with JC. Mainly open air "bar beers". Comfortable seating and plenty of eye candy. I got good vibes from the area, cute twinky type lithe guys and apparently the JC stays open until 2.00am so I am told- though some establishment in the complex may close earlier. I get the impression that JC is on the whole well run and managed, very much geared to appealing to the farang customer who likes a certain type. And also: Whilst in Soi 4, Silom, Bkk there is a constant stream of mainly straight tourists walking up and down the soi wanting to be shocked; none of that -or a lot less --in JC. Next stop Boys Town (BT). Walking around got a bit dismayed by the area as Covid really did devastate and the surrounds with abandoned out of business places an eye sore. That said every individual bar we went to had some nice lookers in varying numbers. Actually went inside for drinks at Toy Boys, BBB, Dream Boys and X Boys .Did not have time to get to A-bomb and walked past Pikky bar (open air bar) though did not see many guys there. It was a Thursday night and overall a distinct lack of customers.We caught the show at BBB which was not bad.The night I was there despite some women customers they were not an irritation but maybe different on other nights. A lot of those on the stage in BBB trying to give the impression they are "real men" but quite frankly the likes of Tawan , Jupiter, Dream boy Patpong, and so on in Bkk much nearer the mark on the score. And as to the Dream Boys near BT it was so lacking customers the boys were sitting inside and outside waiting for a customer to arrive before going on the stage.Yet some head turning cuties when they did get on the stage. Nevertheless to quote gayinpattaya who writes above: "The fact is, Jomtien Complex is where it's at now" Difficult to argue with that ; though of course some people find BT a more convenient location. Anyhow by now after midnight 30 , next stop (it was set to close at 2.00am) : Sinlapin Esan Third Road. Lively place with live music, singers and dancers on the stage. Customers a mix of straights and gays. A lot of dancing in the aisles and some nice lookers around. Better to go there in groups or with others. Very much Esan music style. Seems you either buy beer or a bottle of whisky. If you like neither can only go for non alcoholic. Nearing closing time we had just about had enough and off we go to be chaffeured back home, with many nice memories.

Will be going tomorrow= Thursday 10 November. I really appreciate all the helpful replies to my thread and from the above info I will now make some notes as to places to go.Any further replies here are of course still welcomed! After returning to BKK and after recovery I will supply a "no holes barred" report-no pun intended. (we are all boozers -and the driver who will be prohibited from drink apart from non alcoholic) There will be 3/4 of us and for the first 3 members or others who read this forum and who recognises us and says to us: "welcome odd couples" I undertake to buy you a glass of your favourite tipple! 🥳 PS the exchange re fat taxi drivers above is hilarious...bit like those in Dreamboy in Patpong: most there look like construction site workers!

In a few days a small group of us are planning a whirlwind trip coming from Bangkok to Pattaya. One of the group is his first time to Pattaya and for myself not been there since well before Covid. Will arrive early evening-we will drive along Beach Road and maybe Jontium Beach too- and mainly want to take a look a the bar scene, first in Jomtien Complex and therafter Boys Town area and anywhere else interesting, time permitting. Any late night places too? I was never really into Sunee Plaza...but is that place still alive? The idea is we spend the evening and night there, returning in the early morning. (work commitments for some later). Plus we no need stay hotel! Can anyone please update us on the bar scene there particularly Boy Town area and also Jontium etc., with a recommendation for restaurant in the gay areas? Thanks very much for any input. 😃

Some years back before Covid I went for a bar crawl with a straight relative to various bars including a ladyboy bar in Pattaya. Bought one of the "girls" a drink and had a chat. She told me that most of the time the bar customers want the ladyboy to fuck the customer. And from what I was told LB's- at least in that bar- were well endowed! (Without wishing to complicate the issue, there ar some "straight" guys who do like being fucked by their girlfriends by what is called 'pegging'. Pegging is a sexual practice in which someone (usually with a vagina) performs anal sex on someone else by penetrating their anus with a strap-on dildo.)

Some few years back a straight relative would visit. This was before Covid.He preferred the girlie scene in Pattaya. Such as in walking street. For BKK the girl bars in Soi Cowboy as far as I recall were popular. Have some trans bar there too. Try some straight massage shops.Maybe he ain't into massage but I assume happy endings there.Plenty of girl bars along Patpong.They seem up for it judging by the ones hanging out at the entrances. Remember in the girl bars they are called "bar fines" but in our scene its the "off" fee. Be warned for various reasons taking a female is more expensive than in our scene. Also that circle bar etc in Soi 4 seems to be getting a lot of straights...worth a look....and of course eventually he may like to try with a boy from one of our bars. (that might persuade him to go with you). 😃 ..

Absolutely correct. Another scam is giving change for 500 baht when the customer gave a 1000 baht note. Which again is just pure theft.

Show is more or less same with a few variations. Plenty of boys in big cock show: enough to satisfy most customers...so to speak! 😳

I visited Dream Boy at its' new location over the weekend. Others above have accurately described the place. The premises are impressive: Same as when it was Lucky Boy. For a boy bar its' a gigantic size with tiered seating- a bit like theatrical circle and stalls (UK style) with an enormous high ceiling and all seating in front of a grand stage. Comfortable and exciting. I had already been to a few bars and had consumed plenty of booze when I got there to Dream Boy ; quite busy maybe 50-80 customers with about 40-50 boys. Mainly masculine types with a sprinkling of other types. They could improve by getting more twinks. The show was as usual and ok but nothing special. As I had been on a bar crawl that night with a guest in tow I will not reveal how much I spent..... Most of the go go bars are charging 350-400 per drink and as I enjoy my drink, so it was a pricy night out and important at every bar to check the bins carefully and the change. Incidentally off fee is 500 baht. By chatting to the mama san can easily find out which boy does what, etc. Despite a lot I spent, I had a great night and Dream Boy is a fun place: Can recommend! 😀

Last night (30 Sept) I in Dreamboy. Waitor says they move today= 1 October to the next door premises-before called Lucky Boys. The waitor says new bar "only on one level" ..no idea what he means as I already have a lot to drink. The old premises I am told "will close". Maybe someone can give report on the new Dreamboy as tonight is opening . I now in recovery from boozy and fun last night and into the early morning! 😂

On the subject of covering the face----if your date turns out to be not so good looking then remember the two bags rule: Before having sex put one over his head, and a second bag over your own head in case his bag falls off.

Living in Bangkok with the high levels of pollution wearing a mask makes sense.

Last night I was at a bar near to Jupiter and chatted with a waiter at that bar who is experienced and knows the score. He told me that most (not necessarily all) the boys in Jupiter are looking for females and not males. If the latter wants one of the Jupiter boys the tip being asked is often @ 3000-5000. But for women the tip is at a lower more sensible rate. In my view most working in Jupiter are straight boys who see themselves as alpha males.......

Agree with the above posts about bad attitudes. Jupiter full of that!

Try to enjoy life to the full. Don't dwell on the past or worry about the future. Now is the only time that matters. Op says: "my goal this year starting from October 1st to December 31 is to suck as many cocks , and be fucked ". Start now not October...u know what to do next time u come across African guys... U say usually u don't drink. Many guys do not drink or smoke but are happy when they get fucked multiple times bare-backed. Good luck to them! Remember the saying: "Enjoy yout life, or die trying" 😄

The so called "advice" re not giving contact info etc is way over the top and quire frankly ludicrous. If you do not want someone contacting you just block them...

Most people who have lived in Thailand a long time have come to the view that giving a cash gift however tarted up is the best you can give as a birthday gift here. 😀

Hey Olddaddy : good luck with your specialist appointment. Despite the cost the outcome hopefully will give a definitive diagnosis and treatment. I am not a doctor but a few observations: i) Has a connection with Covid being ruled out? An attack on the throat is a common system of Covid; ii) I know u say you have taken anti biotics but in the event that the specialist appointment is inconclusive (or even if it is) maybe try a combination of different anti biotics until you get the problem cured; iii) if they cannot diagnose the problem and fix it, then just fix it without knowing the cause....or is that unsatisfactory? Take care, 😊 Zombie.