Aikuchi

A very good friend of mine and a long time poster on this board passed away in the USA. Firecat traveled with me to several continents and I have never met someone kinder to the boys he met. He is going to be greatly missed!

..."an Asian guy in Europe who is 40 but still looks 20" ...  i felt this when I was in Melbourne a few years ago on a wine tour and a group of British girls thought I was in my mid to late 20s. I'm 42 this year.   attached photos are from this week.
 

..."an Asian guy in Europe who is 40 but still looks 20" ...  i felt this when I was in Melbourne a few years ago on a wine tour and a group of British girls thought I was in my mid to late 20s. I'm 42 this year.   attached photos are from this week.
 

..."an Asian guy in Europe who is 40 but still looks 20" ...  i felt this when I was in Melbourne a few years ago on a wine tour and a group of British girls thought I was in my mid to late 20s. I'm 42 this year.   attached photos are from this week.
 

..."an Asian guy in Europe who is 40 but still looks 20" ...  i felt this when I was in Melbourne a few years ago on a wine tour and a group of British girls thought I was in my mid to late 20s. I'm 42 this year.   attached photos are from this week.
 

..."an Asian guy in Europe who is 40 but still looks 20" ...  i felt this when I was in Melbourne a few years ago on a wine tour and a group of British girls thought I was in my mid to late 20s. I'm 42 this year.   attached photos are from this week.
 

..."an Asian guy in Europe who is 40 but still looks 20" ...  i felt this when I was in Melbourne a few years ago on a wine tour and a group of British girls thought I was in my mid to late 20s. I'm 42 this year.   attached photos are from this week.
 

Odd day yesterday as I have a few guys from the apps I have wanted to meet. As always, you can never rely on much and promises of what they can do are about as honest as a New York Chelsea Guy telling you the size of his penis (accurately).
Hookup 1: 12:00 PM Hornet - guy was cute, 29 year old Laos boy. Nice with little English. Versatile he said. But, he gets to my place, and it was just so bad that I got up after 10 minutes, said it was over, gave him the money and let him be on his way. Blocked from the app and LINE.
Hookup 2: 4:00 PM Jack'd - guy was sexy and cute and said masculine. Showed up and was much more feminine than me or the ladyboys I know so I knew where that was going and for me, that meant no where. Paid him and on his way.
Hookup 3: 8:00 PM Grindr - guy was very handsome and spoke perfect English. Best BJ I have had in years. Great sex. Great massage. No strike on this one and he is coming back Sunday AM. I just have to be sure I don't fall in love with him as this 23 year old hit all the right spots at the right time and checked all my boxes.
Back in the saddle again!

Not too fast - dont burn yourself out  

What most social media communities view as odd couplings of one more / one less attractive partner should keep their more aggressive opinions to themselves and just be happy if the couple is happy. Its tough enough meeting the right guy, then putting in the effort to maintain a good relationships and then fighting to get their union recognized and accepted. . 
 
Of course, there will always be some measure of criticism which is understandable when ones relationships goes public online or off - but in general is the couple is happy celebrating their relationships, it is better to spread positivist and goodness if no harm comes from it. 
 
The rugby player Sam Stanley probably has gone through a heckuva lot of flack for being with his fiance, but I see much less vilification of Tom Daley and his now husband. 
 
 

tbh - I also want to have that physical muscular shape, size and contour.
But I dont have the micro penis. 

Wow - he does look amazing! 
How was the session, if you wouldn't mind sharing?  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyx0mfVCf_k
 
This is the video from the blued guys in the first post

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyx0mfVCf_k
 
This is the video from the blued guys in the first post

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyx0mfVCf_k
 
This is the video from the blued guys in the first post

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyx0mfVCf_k
 
This is the video from the blued guys in the first post

There have been quite a few posts recently on the above topic, I personally live in the UK, work  and can only spend a couple of two week holidays a year in Thailand which I have done for the past ten or so years, always with a few days in Bangkok and longer in normally Pattaya or occasionally Phuket.
 
I have previously casually met a few members of this forum, often almost by chance and enjoyed a drink and a chat, though always I guess for any of us not resident in Thailand my main focus is the boys!  
 
I am sure that I am not alone as the earlier posts I mentioned would suggest, in that I would love to share a drink and catch up with any members of this forum one evening during my visits if our itineraries allowed. I am no I.T. or forum posting expert but would it be worth and feasible to have some form of ongoing posting trail where any member interested in briefly meeting up with any other members during their holiday or those now resident in Thailand posted basic details and dates with the option for anyone interested in meeting to private message to get in touch - unsure how best to make it work but i think doable and no doubt someone will have a better system if of any interest?  
 
Only a thought but guess a lot of us have holidays that coincide and a if in the same area would be nice to say hello and perhaps enjoy a drink?

Is this no 20?
 

Not fair  
Parading these guys in my hotel room and then saying they have to leave.
 
Can I touch the goods for a small test run before they leave? 

Oh gawd - i wanna win the lottery (fly to thailand) and spend some money at tawan! 

Im Chinese ..... why am I not there offing them ....    oh wait, I'm to broke to travel 

Im Chinese ..... why am I not there offing them ....    oh wait, I'm to broke to travel 

Haven't you got better things to do than polluting TAWAN boys thread with your zillion comments?Obviously you don't. LOL

Good advice from Traveller 123.  I have some friends here that had similar experiences. Take time to evaluate your relationship by living together - your 6 month time frame appears realistic.  You don't mention whether he is a sex worker or not - if he is, then be cautious as many of those relationships, but not all, don't work out.
 
In my case, I visited here for about 6 years before I found my partner - he was not from the bars, but perhaps could be considered on the fringe as he worked as a waiter in the coffee shop of a gay hotel. There was a 26 year difference in age, but it didn't seem to matter to him.
 
After we met, we corresponded (this was before email & mobile phones were so common) and I started visiting twice a year instead of once to be with him. We kept up this long distance relationship for 10 years until I retired. Then I came here to be with him full time - but realized that things might not work out because living together on a full time basis instead of a couple of weeks twice a year can be quite different.  It did work out. Although as with any relationship, we encountered a few bumps, but we maintained the relationship and have now been living together for 14 years. 
 
So, it is possible to find the right guy, but IMO the chemistry between the two has to be there or it will not work out.

Welcome to the forum, Thomas!
 
See, the problem with "not fully understanding the situation" is that it often extends to those IN that situation. A fair part of "jaded" comments come from the experience that many "my situation is different" or "this boy is different" stories ultimately develop into something not at all different, given some time. Not saying that this is the case with your personal situation in particular, but it's a fact that it turns out that way often. Don't let that discourage you from sharing your story!