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Leg 5 - Singapore - where are the shirtless gay men dancing?
Arrived to Singapore Friday after noon for 4 nights. This was my first visit there. My dad joined my trip on this leg which had a positive and negative impact on my trip. On the one hand, I stopped paying for accommodations and generally everything except my own expenses when I was out at night. On the other hand, I shared the bedroom with my daughter and lost my privacy and ability to host. Although I did not feel comfortable hosting ever since my mom came even though we were in separate rooms. 
Hotel review - Ascott Orchard - 2BR apartment (450 USD per night): Toto, I don't think we are in Kansas anymore. Well the price speaks for itself. This is not Thailand and accommodation is expensive. Taking that into consideration, apartment was really well decorated and we enjoyed it a lot. We stayed in that apartment for 2 nights. 
Cruise - I visited this gay sauna during my first and second night in town. This was actually a pleasant surprise. Place was not packed at all both times I was there. But, a fair amount of the crowd that did attend the place were very much to my taste and I enjoyed this place on both of my visits. 
Taboo club (#1) - This is Singapore's current main gay club excluding some circuit rare events. I visited this place on Friday, my arrival day. I was very disappointed to find out that everyone is not only wearing their shirt, but also dressed really elegantly. I came wearing party wear and felt a bit misfit. I don't do elegant. Music was more pop than house so I left after an hour. 
Tantric bar (#1) - located opposite to Taboo this place is where all the mingling happens. Gay mingling and socializing is not my cup of tea. I leave that for the Americans lol. But having no other options I came there, and the atmosphere is vibrant and friendly. I will say that although Singapore nightlife was a little boring compared to my expectations, Grindr was boiling. Maybe it is that way as a consequence of that fact. 
Grindr hookup (#7) - At the bar, I get a text from a local couple. I try to avoid sex with couples but so many of my principals fade away when the guys are hot and I'm horny. Met them at their apartment for a surprisingly hot and fun interaction. Was there for a couple of hours, first hour was drinking and second hour was me and the Asian taking turns on the white guy which was awesome. Something about the big tall white guy being our bottom turned me on as my statistics on mixed couples was always opposite till then.
Next night was Saturday night. After enjoying Singapore attractions such as Santosa Island, Orchard road, I went out. Some locals on Grindr promised me tonight will be better. Well, it was more crowded but not better. Taboo (#2) and Tantric (#2) were exactly the same nature. No one dancing shirtless which is my sign of my kind of fun gay vibe. 
Grindr hookup (#8) - From Tantric, took a taxi to my hotel. A guy I started Grinding with upon my arrival suggested I come to his hotel. It was already 3AM. I told him that I'll come for a short visit. My parents knew I'm going out every night and we applied a don't ask don't tell policy so they can keep my image of a descent family man. So, returning to the room early morning was something I was hesitant about. In addition, There were some red lights: he was too young for me, he lived in Singapore but took a hotel room and I didn't understand why, Grindr photos were unclear. All red lights turned green upon meeting him. A exotically beautiful 24yo tall very lean guy with some muscle. An exact definition of twunk. He said he sometimes gets a room for one night to find some peace and quiet and to be able to have some private fun. He then realized he had left a very small amount of lube and was bummed he didn't tell me to buy some on the way. I then opened my fanny pack and assured him we have enough lube for the night. He was amazed by the fact that I was carrying lube with me on my night out. The truth is when I was out at night, I always took with me my fanny pack that contained lube, oil, condoms and measurement tape. Cause you never know LOL.  Anyways night with that guy was all about passionate sex and in terms of sexual chemistry this was my trip's peak. Came back to the hotel at 6AM. At 8AM my parents saw that I'm too tired to wake up and were kind enough to take care of my daughter till I finally woke up at 9. 
Third day was moving day - new hotel Marina Bay Sands. In my original plan, this was supposed to be our only hotel in SG but @PeterRS advised me to reconsider that hotel. 
Hotel review - Marina Bay Sands - 2 Interconnecting garden view rooms (390 USD per night per room): Well, this place is a factory. A very nice one, but still a massive holiday monster with a Vegas vibe. Pool is what I expected - beautiful. And it was nicer than I expected in terms of calmness. Rooms were huge, clean and a little outdated. It is an overwhelming experience to stay at this massive monster. It is definitely not worth 4 nights since it's massiveness is a bit tiring and charmless. As an experience I do recommend 1 or 2 nights.  
Third day in Singapore was dedicated to enjoy our new pool and the hotel surroundings of mall and beautiful gardens. Hotel gym was impressive too with views from the 55th floor. 
At night I was still very tired from the night before and decided to have a chill night at Tantric (#3) with a beer and go to sleep. Tantric was very calm that Sunday eve and I enjoyed nice conversions with some locals. After about an hour, 2 guys entered the bar. I recognized them both from Grindr since they texted me regarding a threesome and I ignored. Not because I didn't want it, but I was unsure and when I'm unsure I prefer not texting until something changes which is usually when I'm more horny and/or drunk and/or see the guy in person and know how he really looks. Upon entering both guys sat next to me and started flirting. One guy is local and is my age and shape, the other is a tourists in the muscle daddy category. They were good friends but not a couple. After an hour we left to his hotel (Sofitel) which seemed nicer than both hotels we stayed in Singapore but I'm not sure since I only had a glimpse of it at night. Sex was fun, had better chemistry with one over the other which is reasonable but is also a little tiring cause I try not to show it. returned to my room at about 3AM. All and all night turned out more than what I planned for but it was fun.   
Last full day in Singapore consisted on more touristic stuff. At night I wanted to try a sauna that was unlisted in TravelGay but was recommended by the local guy from the couple I'v been with the day before. Keybox. 
KeyBox - It was Monday night so I was unsure whether this place will be even slightly packed so I FAKEGPS'd there. By Grindr I could see that there are people inside. I started texting with the only guy that was eye candy for me, and he said the place is packed, and that I should come and that he will take good care of me. His profile stated oral edging which suited me perfect that night. I of course did not commit to him in any way since I wanted to see the crowd my self. I Grabbed a taxi and entered to discover the place was indeed quite full as it was nude night. Although the place had a fair amount of people the only guy that I wanted to pursue was the guy that I texted with. Located him quite quickly and entered a cabin. This guy was everything he promised to be. Full service, he did not even let me do any kind of pleasuring him, which suited me great. After about an hour of getting serviced and manhandled I left Keybox happily to sleep my last night in SG. 
Singapore was great for sex, but not at all what I expected for party. 
For our family, the touristic stuff was also great. This was my parents favorite destination. 
Next day some more touristic shit and on to the next leg - Pattaya again!   

Just to be clear, this is only for the tantric massage.    
Consistent with my experience as well.  
I don't 100% remember if tantric is at the expense of the other bits (plus I suppose you can always tell them that you want the max time for the tantric).  When I've done it I've had  the full package of scrub + tantric +aroma.  I think -but am not sure - the tantric is a bit shorter than 50 minutes in that situation.  After the last time I decided not to do all three just because it seemed like too much time to be flat out on a table.  
For residents or regular visitors the membership brings the cost at Spa Bangkok to just "high".  You get a bunch of "free" (included) massages with the membership and after that the prices are lower.  My indulgence there is a scrub + aroma (actually with my preferred guy it's a blended  thai and aroma massage), for 1, 350 member price plus tip and clocks in at around 2 hours.  So roughly the same as Healthland but obviously more expensive than the usual storefront shops.
I think it is correct that only a few of the guys are trained to do the tantric, but it's more than one.  I have been offered the choice.  When I've booked a tantric + massage etc. they have suggested two masseurs to break it up.
In my experience they will send a picture or two to help you narrow it down or confirm that their recommendation is acceptable to you.  No surprise, the photos are a bit idealized.  If you go to the shop to book in advance I think they will let you go through photos on a tablet.  

Yes.

As a general rule, masseurs remain fully-clothed.  Occasionally might a shirt get taken off?  Sure, but don't go there counting on it, so you won't be disappointed.  Occasionally might more come off?  I'm not saying.    It's definitely not a fuck shop (unlike Prince, VCK, Arena, etc.).  Can you get grabby with the masseur?  I think a little is going to be fine, but you can take your clue from the masseur's reaction.  
They do a lot of in-house training and I am pretty sure all the masseurs are gov't licensed.  It's a serious massage place, but it is men-for-men, and men being men together you should expect to end happy.  But if you want to get naked with your masseur and roll around, it's just not the place.  

Having sex with hotel staff is always a fantasy for me which i can only see this in porn. Wonder how can the staff sneak into your room without doing his job? 
"Mamasan was hot but I didn't ask since he didn't offer. Upon exiting the shop he texts me "and what about me?" 
This is hilarious lol! Why he didn't suggest himself to u in the shop... Haha

Leg 2 - Pattaya - ALL inclusive hotel   Arrived Pattaya mid week Monday till Friday.   Hotel review - Centara Grand Mirage - 2 interconnected rooms (150 USD per room per night): This hotel is for families. I see no reason for a gay solo/couple coming here without children. It is far north and kinda isolated. For my needs it was great because this hotel has children activities, water park, children's pool etc. They also guaranteed me in advanced the interconnecting rooms which was the most important thing for me because I wanted privacy at night but also to be near my daughter and nanny. Breakfast is OK, but not more than that. Hotel Gym is one of the best I have seen for a hotel.    Grindr hookup #3 - same as in Bangkok, I fakedGPS to the hotel a week before arriving. I then realized that one of the staff members is hot and gay. We first met on my arrival day but just for drinks cause he had a day off and was headed to BKK for the night. So 3 out of 4 of my nights there, my night fun was also provided by the hotel. So, I had zero intrest in leaving to explore out Pattaya. Fun with that guy was awesome with great chemistry and sex so meeting him night after night was something I was anticipating. This hotel was really ALL INCLUSIVE for me.    Pattaya night out - I went out on my first night cause that was the only night my hotel entertainment was out of town. I started with BoyzBoyzBoyz that had a nice show but too twinkish guys for me. After that walked to Sunee which was dead so returned to Boyztown. Saw a really shredded guy outside Scandic offering me a massage. He stated the price of 1500 THB which seemed high for Pattaya but I was horny so didn't care. Later on I realized that 1500 included the tip but I guess that place enjoys the vagueness of that fact. Massage was fun so I didn't care that much. Place is horrible in terms of cleanliness and facility but for me it's not that important. It's always all about the guy.    Helios Massage - on my second afternoon in Pattaya, I decided to try their soap scrub that was previously reviewed here. I texted with the place using LINE. They were unwilling to send photos of the guys working and mentioned they have athletic guys but none of them big muscle. The words "athletic",  "muscular " are quite subjective so I had no other option but to try and see. Went there and was unsatisfied with the guys on display. Mamasan was hot but I didn't ask since he didn't offer. Upon exiting the shop he texts me "and what about me?" I then returned to the shop for my massage. That massage was awesome. It's in a special room and mattress with lots of foam being rubbed in sensitive places. I really loved it.    Poppers in Pattaya - my second night in Pattaya was my first night with my guy from the hotel. We had lots of fun together but he said he can't do anal with me unless he has poppers although he's ok with keeping sex without anal. I had lots of fun with him but really wanted to fuck with him on the next nights. Morning after our first night of fun, I texted mamasan of Helios. He connected me with another guy and 35 minutes and 850 THB later I had been delivered poppers to my hotel. I love Thailand. Anal sex with that guy was awsome. He had a handless prostate orgasm, which is something I haven't seen till then.    After 4 great nights in Pattaya, weekend came again just in time for me to do be Bangkoking again during the third leg of this trip. 

Thanks for the sharing. Was Chai avoiding you because your size may be too big to him? 

Thanks. I just replied to u. Your report just come in the right time as I will go to bkk soon. 

DrimVoiz your report is so great! Any hints about who are the baby and hot twinks? 

Thank you vinapu

I like your purifier, a good idea to make your room be more pleasent and welcome

If I may answer your question, yes there is...a lot, based from the selection when I was there last March.

Common Spa was an attempt at a HJ and a pretty shit attempt to be honest. I stopped the guy as he was more likely to cause injury than anything else.
 
Mars, the whole Massage was extremely sensual. It’s what I call a true sensual massage where the guy titillates your cock and ass throughout the massage and keeps moving away then coming back longer each time to keep increasing the sexual tension. There was no penetration but, for me, that was only a slight detraction. He particularly liked to use his chin and mouth on my ass. The whole package was really quite good.
 
Classic House was full penetration and boy was it full penetration. The massage was crap mainly because he only did my legs and ass. Once he started playing with my ass he moved to the sex pretty quickly. Once I realised how good he was though at the sex I really didn’t mind and it lasted a very long time. Multiple positions and some really hard battering of my prostrate. An expert top unlike most, so-called, tops who couldn’t find the prostate with a map.

you may want to  read reports from trips by numazu and me  from last year, links attached
 
you can use USD in Cambodia so no need to change money but make sure your notes are newish as damaged may not be accepted 
 
 http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10550-bangkokphnom-penhsiem-reap-trip-report-the-more-things-change-the-more-they-stay-the-same/
 
http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10697-man-hunting-among-ruins-december-2016-trip-to-cambodia-and-thailand/
 
http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10695-massage-adventures-in-siem-reap/?hl=%2Bsiem+%2Breap+%2Bmassage

For some boys, this sentence may be too complicated for them to understand. Think better use simple words to avoid misunderstanding.

For some boys, this sentence may be too complicated for them to understand. Think better use simple words to avoid misunderstanding.

For some boys, this sentence may be too complicated for them to understand. Think better use simple words to avoid misunderstanding.

Welcome, just share what u experienced!

Did u pay for extra to get into the priority line?

don't be shy, walk  like you own the place and on hearing any comments  and tell them in no uncertain terms ' none of your fucking business, mind your job".
 
Generally speaking Pattaya and shyness are not blending well

Stay in one of well publicized gay-friendly places and you will not get any comments or looks.
 
In fact in all those years I had only once comment about my boy companion and it was compliment by a lady tourist at XBOYS , soi Twilight, who said something like ' I like your friend" 

let people have their privacy

Yeah.. 550 bht.. not sure about the minimum tip for the boy..

Oh you have a group of 5 but they only have 7 boys? You guys must be fighting to get the boy you like .... lol

Thx for the report. Was the cum delicious? You should sit on the cock when the boy trying to thrust harder! Lol