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Thanks for the report, only a few more weeks until I will be following your footsteps and the excitement is building. Suggestion to get out of the confrontation, just tell him you're meeting someone who you already agreed will stay with you.

In August, Singapore Airlines required me to show proof of vaccination, not sure if that's still the case now. but be mindful of your layovers as well because the airline might still ask prior to boarding for your transit stops.

not to be rude, but how exactly have you pinpointed that as the cause of your latest ailment, as opposed to maybe any other cause? full disclosure: I smoke occasionally, never indoors but if there's an ashtray at an outdoor table and i'm not shoulder-to-shoulder in a very crowded space It's legal and fair game.

Yeah it is, I will say it's a good idea to get to know a guy with an overnight or two before you decide to ask them to stay with you for multiple days though, and pay one day at a time and not all upfront so if you change your mind on day two it can be settled with fewer hassles.

i'm pretty close to 30, I don't see any difference in service than other reports here from members that are older, you get the good and the bad. I think Krubb or VCK saunas will be worth checking, the photos from social media seem to have plenty of guys in their 20s and 30s. I will post a report when I try over high season.

I have had some great success with IG guys as well, a couple were freelance working guys and a few are just normal guys that didn't want any money. I will say it can be difficult to get a conversation going with some, they get hundreds of messages from guys wasting their time, so getting a conversation started and then working out if offering money will offend them or not can take some time. I find Grindr and Onlyfans can be much easier, but some of the cute guys on IG I have on my radar don't seem to be on Grindr so I just have to shoot my shot there. It's a very different game for non-working guys on IG though, you need to approach it like dating sometimes, and trying to line things up is much better if you're already in their city. Bombarding them with love messages from afar and trying to get nudes from them is 90% of their inbox, standing out from that crowd to get a connection or replies can be hard work at times.

That's a smart move by them, now if only the basement currency exchange could do the same thing it would probably cut the landing to in a taxi time a lot.

This is a question for your doctor Even the life expectancy question can't really be answered, IF there is cancer it depends a lot on what stage it is and if it's spread. $400 is a small price to pay for peace of mind.

I can't speak for Bangkok White Party, this year is my first time. Djs playing dance music, usually with gay events its genres like hard dance, techno mixed with pop, that sort of thing. Performers and lighting/visuals, these parties usually put a lot of effort into the production. Each set usually spans into the next, so there's not a major intermission but maybe a little time to breath while the host introduces the next DJ... i'm usually at the back/bar, not in the thick of it haha. I've had sex in the dance crowd once at the Sydney Mardi Gras party, but it's not common, I wouldn't expect to see much of that on the dance floor and security will probably kick you out for it. People go back to their after-parties at hotel rooms or orgies/saunas for that. The purpose is just to dance, meet people, drink/whatever, admire some hot guys and have a good time. If you want to meet some people to hang out with for the night smoking areas are usually a good placeto start, even if you don't smoke just say hi and start a conversation. Lots of gay foreigners travel to all of the circuit parties from around the world, so it's not too hard to find someone else willing to chat in English.

@Olddaddy the only age restriction is 20+, It's much like the pride parties in Sydney at Mardi Gras. The vast majority of the crowd are usually guys in their 20s-40s, but if you have the right attitude to have a good night then why not? Yes, very much the doof doof type music.

I figure I might start a thread as we're getting closer to December. For those who aren't familiar, BKK White Party is (i think) the largest gay circuit party in Asia. It makes it's return this year from Decmber 29 - January 1. Anyone going? Anyone been to previous years, what did you think? I'm going for the NYE party with a +1, i might do the white party the next day but i'll play that by ear. https://whitepartybangkok.com/ 2020 after movie to give an idea of what to expect

Not sure how often he posts now, but I used to subscribe to https://onlyfans.com/magicguitar (https://twitter.com/181guitar). He used to make a few appearances in the Photos thread on here so I'm probably not the only one. I don't subscribe to onlyfans anymore, but twitter has a lot of thai guys if you go through other thai guys following lists.

Thank you all for the info! @PeterRS if you feel like it, I would love to see a trip report for your trip. My layover is on a Friday night so I think my main stop will need to be Soi13in.

I stayed at East Suites in August this year. The room I had was very big, bed was ok but not great, the staff are all very nice. I wanted the jacuzzi room but it was booked, so I'm still considering going again to fill the jacuzzi with naked guys. They check guests' IDs if someone is in reception, but 50% of the time no one was there when I was bringing someone back. The negatives are there are no lifts, so climbing the stairs after a few beverages can be an ordeal and I had to chase around to cockroach one night to get it out of my room.

I wish I had more than overnight, I will hopefully spend some more time there next year to explore properly

I have an overnight layover coming up in Taipei and it will be my first time in Taiwan, do we have any members with some info on the scene in Taipei? I have some notes that the Red House & Ximending district is where the gay clubs and bars are located, but that's about all I know so far. Aside from the apps, are there full service massage shops, saunas, or host bars / gogos that I should look into? (preference is bottoms/twinks if that helps) edit: i'll add this link from PeterS, it's a good starting point for my research https://www.gayguides.com/gay-taipei/

It usually comes down to budget, I haven't been to any hotels that aren't gay-friendly anywhere near the gay areas. My favorite in Bangkok is Le Meridien My favorite in the Jomtien complex (so far) is Agate or Poseidon I also haven't experienced any of the hotels in gay areas charging a joiner fee, but if you look through some trip reports you can see where other members stay and it might give some ideas.

I work full time and need to time my holidays around quieter periods at work, so I time my trips to use as many public holidays and as few vacation days as possible. That's all it is for me, I don't mind if its a quieter or busier time of year because I'm fairly certain I can make it a fun trip either way.

I have never been to Japan but this is in my todo list, https://www.gloryholebar.com/en/

Soi cowboy would be my pick to take a straight friend, you can sit at open front bars on the street and watch the world go by while he is eyeing up potential (hopefully) ladies. Of course, Patpong has some straight Gogos, so you could mix and match where you go if he isn't too worried about going into gay bars with you. Nana plaza would be my last option, lady gogos there were too pushy and didn't feel as welcoming.

I plan to go to some islands like Samui and Koh Tao on my next trip but I will be taking a guy with me rather than hunting on the ground. Finding the right guy to go with will be my biggest problem, an island holiday could quickly become a nightmare with the wrong guy.

My biggest tip to prevent jealousy is don't make any promises, go with a guy and have a good time but don't promise to see them tomorrow. Tomorrow if you decide to see them again just show up, don't leave them waiting for you expecting the off. I still get some looks from certain boys if I pick someone else from their bar the next night, but it's not that common, i suspect it's usually an act.

A good move by the Anti-Money Laundering Office. Thailand has become a bit of a hub for laundering over the last decade, cash deposit ATMs without any identity verification were likely a useful tool in that. A major Australian bank in recent years was fined by our regulator for facilitating money laundering by allowing cash deposit ATMs to run transactions to accounts over the AML limits without any flagging or checks by the bank. These ATMs are a bit special where you can put cash in a chute, key in the account you want it deposited to, then just walk away and the money is added to that account.

good luck! I've met a few guys from Insta and it has turned out pretty well for me so far.

The Sky Gallery - The view really makes this place, the food is pretty good as well Cafe des Amis - I haven't been here but it is apparently pretty good Pupen - This is my favorite Thai seafood restaurant, very good selection of dishes and a nice atmosphere