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I had huge fun with Grindr recently in New York.

I like to set up threesomes / parties with escorts, usually to have at least one hung top join me in tag teaming a hot twink / twunk. 

The other night I brought over to my hotel a jacked, hung Venezuelan top whose profile I saw on RM. But the twinks I invited to join us kept flaking out and ghosting me (you know how unreliable they can be, lol.) It was getting late, and a lot of the RM bottoms I was reaching were living half an hour away from midtown Manhattan, so they didn't work logistically. So my Venezuelan friend and I turned to Grindr to find some much needed relief.

Around 4am we spotted two hot twinks, one a hot Colombian lad and another a spectucular 19 year old Brazilian twink, who is studying in NYC. We invited them over, letting them know what they scene was, and they both eagerly came right away from nearby. A wicked hot foursome ensued for a couple of hours. The Colombian was a little disengaged, but his sweet smooth ass compensated for that. The Brazilian twink was just insatiable. Legitimately loved being dominated by daddy (me). Best kisser I've ever been with. And surprisingly him seemed much more interested in me than the hot Venezuelan scort, which was a big ego boost to say the least!

In the past I have always gone through escorts rather than Grindr because I imagined Grindr was a nasty judgemental world where young guys wouldn't give any thought to hooking up with a 50 something daddy. But boy did this experience prove me wrong, although I suspect the pics of my Venezuelan stud's huge dick and hot body was the magnet that brought them over to start with.

Neither of the twinks asked for or expected any payment, just a good time.

Anyway, it turned out to be legit one of the hottest nights I've ever had! Will definitely be trying this tactic in the future, i.e. pairing up with a hot score to attract younger guys on Grindr looking for a daddy experience. 

So I met a cute young man at a grocery store (in Manhattan @Lucky) on Sunday. It was by far my most random discovery I have had. Was delighted to find myself in line behind him on the way out and was discreetly checking him out. He looked like he had just rolled out of bed, hair still rumpled, grabbed some running shorts (yum!) and headed to the store for essentials. 
And he ran into trouble trying to pay with his phone...did not have his wallet with him and technology failed him. He was flustered and embarrassed and looking all adorable. He was about to give up and leave (can't have that!) so I stepped in and paid for his groceries.  He protested but I just said "Damn banks, they never get it right - it's totally fine, happens to all of us". He thanked me profusely and left. And was waiting for me outside. He was delicious! 😉

Johan Paulik and Lukas Ridgeston both still work for BelAmi. You often see them on the site in video introductions and documentaries. They seem to do a variety of things to keep the shoots running smoothly.
Lukas, if I remember, filmed a few new scenes a year or two back.

I have found the Southern Islands best for meeting Pinoy guys for sex and companionship. I have had no problems over 15 years meeting guys in Cebu, Davao, Cagayan de Oro, General Santos, and other places there. I am a Daddy, did most of my visits when I was 65 to 75. I am now 81. I mostly met guys using Romeo then maintained contact using Facebook or Skype. Now I understand Grinder and Whatsup or the Chat Apps. The mobile companies in the PH provide Facebook for free, so guys prefer it to avoid using their Data or Load. But that does not stop them from sharing Pics and Videos.
I enjoy traveling and used to be more active, able to go hiking, surfing, canyoneering. In the past few years it has been more limited to finding a beautiful beach or touring some new places, or going to one of the many Festivals. I usually invited a guy to travel with me, for 3-5 days. And the guys are always up for a Free Trip. Also a Free Dinner, Movie or Clubing. Or to just come over for a short time. I have paid more when I hire a massage guy to come meet me. Usually 1000P, which is USD20. Now the muscle guys are asking 1500P to 2000P for short time.
Traveling places, even between islands is easy. Many flights on Cebu Pacific Air, USD20 to USD35 each way. And Air-Con Buses are available for USD6 to USD10. Ferries are also avaiable between all the main Cities, but take much longer. I have never attempted to drive myself in the PH. I stay in better hotels or in a Condo rented on AirBnB. The cost per night is usually USD45 to USD55. However I know good places are available at USD30 to USD35. I find eating out is quite reasonable. You can eat at McD for USD5 and a very nice restaurant is usually USD30 to USD40 for two persons.
I have not found any good Pick-up Bars in the PH. Tried the ones in Manila years ago and nothing began happening until 1am. And drinks were expensive. There are some Macho Dancer and Massage but I never found them anything like in Thailand. Most Cities have several good Clubs or Discos. Again they do not get started untill after 10pm and go LATE!! Mainly you should plan to take 1 or 4-5 guys to the Club, buying a Bottle and Mixers, and dancing the night away!!!
Over the years I have made many great friends from the PH. I meet them each trip. And help them money-wise. But it is not like in Thailand where the guys expect a stated Fee for Service. I guess for me it is more like having a "son" rather than a "boy friend". But AGAIN PH guys are looking for a long-term relationship and will raise the possibility of marriage...
SO go to the South!! You can expect to meet guys before your trip or just have hooks ups while you are there. ENJOY!!!

My partner doesn't care that I hire, as long as it isn't in the house. She knew I was gay when I married her. But, she's my best friend, and I'd be lost without her. All relationships are compromise, that was part of ours.  We're coming up on 30 years, so it works for us. 
I spent most of my 20s trying to find the perfect guy and realized that spiritual fit and sexual fit was too high a bar for me. That's when I finally realized I had my life mate, I just wasn't interested in fucking her which was totally fine by her.
It adds an extra expense to the budget, but the benefit is that my boyfriend of the hour is always hot and fresh.
 

I have been wanting to write about my crazy adventures in Brazil. Because for the better part of the past year I have been living in Rio working remote. It’s been a life changing experience. Once I broke free of the GP scene (be careful it’s a trap). I discovered a whole new world! 

I have experienced places in Rio that I don’t think many Gringos or expats wouldn’t dare to venture to. Bailes in Mandu, São Joao, Penha, Providencia, CDD, Rocinha, Vidigal and so many other cool places. Which were all very safe for me because I used common sense. Also because I’m a young black man and I’m accompanied by other black Brazilians I never don’t feel safe.  
It’s been amazing getting to know people and really finding my place in the city. The experience of a younger bisexual black American man is a unique one. And it has gotten meinto some amazing situations. There are also some amazing parties outside the favelas gringos don’t go to. Park Bar in Lagoa on Wednesday night! 
 
When I do log in here I get a lot of questions about the sauna in Bangu. It’s called Boate Casa Grande google it for the address and all that info. It’s best on Sunday but open on Friday and one other day I don’t remember. Don’t pay more than 100 and don’t go if it’s raining.
Invest in learning Portuguese, the past 6 months I’ve taken it serious and it feels great actually knowing what people are saying around you. 
 
I've also spent significant time in Bahia so if you have any questions lmk.
And to think just a couple of weeks ago I found out the beach showers is where most people go to take a piss.Especially when the ocean is cold. Lol!!!

Dear Members,
Recently, in our porn forum, I have had over 40 DMCA requests to remove images. These were sent to both me and the host. I am complying with these requests. It is also quite problematic as images cannot be on the site that copyrighted. We remove any we see that are copyrighted but it is a massive undertaking. Regretfully, we are removing the entire porn photo section from the site. I know that some of you love this area and visit daily to see the massive amount of sexy guys. However, I am not willing to be sued based on these images.
As the site is also slow at times, the site will be merging with another site called gayguides.com.  This will allow a broader base of membership with guys who have similar interests. Most of the gay guides members are experienced travelers to Asia. Most of the ones for boytoy are more experienced in South America and Europe. A couple of years back, the gaythailand site merged into gayguides and soon other sites will be merged to create a more active forum.
Since the beginning of this site, originally maleescortreview.com and then boytoy.com, members have been loyal and provided great discussions of escorts and places to travel to find great guys. I hope that this continues. There is nothing anyone needs to do on gayguides right now. In several days, the merge will happen and your login for boytoy will work on the other site.
Currently, we are removing all names from members who have never posted on boytoy (over 30,000) and people who have not logged in for several years. This will help us when we merge the two forums into one. Part of these are already removed but the process removed about 200 per hour.
The boytoy domain name will point to gayguides.com for several months to ensure all members that are active know where the site is.
Transitions are always hard and tough and no one likes change. For me, this was a hard decision, but one that will be easier for me to manage and maintain.
Thank you for being a member and I hope to see you on the new site when the transition is complete.
Oz

No comments on the saunas, but it's an expensive city, like much of Scandinavia. So whatever you save on the flight, you'll pay back with the accommodation, food, drinks etc.
Can't imagine escort rates will be good either.

Just looked at some of the Duca Di Mantua scenes. I think they're just pirated Bel Ami scenes, with different intro graphics.
Bel Ami removed a lot of older scenes from their website (and also Kinky Angels etc), so there's a chance they might have licensed them to other companies, but it's unlikely. These "companies" don't even have websites of their own so I suspect they just grab content from other porn studios and pretend they own it.

Just looked at some of the Duca Di Mantua scenes. I think they're just pirated Bel Ami scenes, with different intro graphics.
Bel Ami removed a lot of older scenes from their website (and also Kinky Angels etc), so there's a chance they might have licensed them to other companies, but it's unlikely. These "companies" don't even have websites of their own so I suspect they just grab content from other porn studios and pretend they own it.

I really don't enjoy false information, otherwise known as fake news, but who can blame anyone for this newly created semantic drama?
The new European Travel Information and Authorization System is NOT a visa.
E.T.I.A.S. is simply a security registration, according to the European Union. Americans will not be required to visit a consulate to file any kind of application, fingerprinting is not required, and less information will be asked than is expected of visa applicants.

The Villa is open. I have been using them twice a week for the past two months since I’ve been living here for business. They were closed Christmas and New Year’s. They got brand new mattresses for all the rooms, so they have been updating each room. An update:
1-normally 3-5 guys around 2 pm when I go, and around 5-7 when I go around 5 pm. 
2-very gracious manager and a sexy tall French receptionist. They will ask if you want some water before you view and after you have sex. A really small but classy place. The rooms are small but immaculate. 
3-cost is £100 that is paid afterwards to the management. The guy you choose will usually seek an extra £30-40 if you want him to cum. 
4-when they take you to the room with the one way mirror, they will usually explain that the guys are all versatile but note exclusive tops. I always tell the management that I want the guy to be a good kisser so they will later ask the guy to confirm. If not, you can just tell the guy you will choose someone else. 
5-virtually every Brazilian and most of the guys on sleepyboy/Grindr who charge £150-200 there, will be at the Villa at some point for £100. That reality is important because the photos of especially the Brazilians are way old. The nice thing is to see what you are getting first in person. 
6-when the guy comes into the room with you, be sure to confirm exactly what he will do and what you are expecting. If there is a disagreement then you can say you want to choose another guy at that point.
7-outside the Earls Court underground station is a large and small pharmacy to your left. I went to the large BOOTS pharmacy and got an 8 pill set of Viagra for £35. If you have not done this before, just tell them you want viagra connect and they will give you the one page form to complete. No name is required, as the form merely asks medical info. The pharmacist will ask you to confirm your checked off answers, and then give you the medicine to pay there. Took me five minutes max. The Villa is just a five minute walk from there.  
8-twice I found a guy on Grindr but could not accommodate. The Villa will give you a room for one hour at £40 if you call and reserve. Worked perfect for me. 
Cheers! 

And (I know this is an older post), at least give a city within Egypt. It's a big country.

The picture is  below

Lukas is blurred but his car ID BA 986 dx is not. Another picture of his car and of sexy Lukas 

 
Lukas in 2013 (age : 39)

 
Lukas 20 years ago

 
 

Johan Paulik and Lukas Ridgeston both still work for BelAmi. You often see them on the site in video introductions and documentaries. They seem to do a variety of things to keep the shoots running smoothly.
Lukas, if I remember, filmed a few new scenes a year or two back.